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Turn on's, and Turn off's
October 11 2025
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Nightglider
7 months ago
Turn offs: • Anyone pushy and not respectful of boundaries or who unable to listen. • Poor communication. • Poor Hygiene. • Dick pics. • Players who are only onto body count. • Thick beards • Not using full words in texting eg U R instead of You are. Just makes me cringe and imagine they’re lazy with in person communication too. Turn ons: • Mutual respect for life outside of this lifestyle. • Tall men (I definitely have a height kink). • Patience. • A sense of adventure and creativity in play. • Partners who are not threatened by toys in the play space. • Anyone who knows me well will agree that I do have a weak spot for chocolate men. Bonus points if they have a sexy Accent.
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FeistyFatty
7 months ago
Biggest turn off ..... Bad teeth Biggest turn on .... Amazing cologne on a very well dressed man
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time4us4play
7 months ago
Biggest turn off……smokers and bald heads. Biggest turn on ….. good communication and circumcised.
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funlovingii
7 months ago
Biggest turn offs: fakeness - fake laugh, fake smile, fake lips! Biggest turn ons: curves, wetness 🤤, enthusiasm and excitement between the sheets 😍
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RHP User
7 months ago
Biggest turn on are people who can communicate effectively that is hot as fuck! Physically there are too many things i like to list lol Turn offs bad hygiene, dirty apartment ugh "sorry I gotta go!"
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Blueflamingo
7 months ago
Turn on: Make me feel safe (if this box isnt ticked, we aren't going anywhere) Turn off: Lying (you will ALWAYS be found out, one way or another) Keep it real ✌🏼🩵🦩
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DreDesire
7 months ago
Biggest turn off: •terrible hygiene •poor communication •lack of enthusiasm or interest •being overly critical or judgmental •disrespecting boundaries •selfish, being too focused on themselves • lack of foreplay Turn ons: •mutual respect •making sure everyone feels safe and comfortable •eye contact •foreplay •genuine connection •open communication •Respecting boundaries
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RHP User
7 months ago
Saggy tits? Really? I wonder if balls knocking the knees is a turn on for some women? Anyway… Turn offs cover crap conversational skills, closed minds, scared of life in general. Turn ons are very much the “fuck it, try it and see what happens” mindset, legs that go on for days and eye contact (intimacy squared in my opinion).
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RHP User
7 months ago
Hard to think of any clear turn offs but I have a memory of a lass who though very clean was not aware of a PH level problem down stairs. Having that scent on me was not nice in any way and damn hard to get rid of. Turn ons are much easier. Personality wise: Connection, not afraid of intimacy, acceptance of peoples, great conversation and respect. Sexually: Foreplay, pale and soft skin, curves, dark areola, nape of neck and ears. But my biggest turn on by far is the sight of a natural woman, no waxing or shaving.
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