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Understanding Concepts: Life, sex and self expression.

September 09 2007

Dear Red Hot Pie Members, It is come to my attention, that a number of you, however alarming it may be, has in their own unique ways of expression, feel fustrated with the lack of success from within this site. By what I mean by "Success", I mean the success you hoped to achieve, be it sex, friendship, group activities, romance, marriage and so forth. There are many different reasons for these 'fustrations'. It could be that you are having high expectations, or suffering 'pitifullness' attitude. It could be anything! Only you can know what it is, that creates the massive obstacles in your path. If by following back the tree of possibilities, you come to the root of it all. "LIFE". What is life? how you live it? what is the purpose of Living? These are the questions that posed by great minds alike throught the century, from serious answers of ancient Philosophiers to the more modern comedic answers of "42". Yes, you are thinking the same thing as I am talking about. The most famous question: What is the meaning of Life? There are no indefinate answer to this. Each has one to their own, whatever their purpose in life it may be. However, there is a broad answer to this question, and yes, it does relate to this theme of this letter. The answer is: "To strive, to learn, experience and to simply ...live". It is from here, that your goals originate. But how does one do this? How does one apply this to that? Well, if you think about your well-being, ask yourself this question "how do you feel?" Are you miserbale? are you happy? are you fustrated? are you overjoyed? Whatever it is you are feeling, it effects everything from the Original starting point, to your goal. If you are miserable, then something gone wrong somewhere and you need to retrace your steps. If you are feeling happy, congrats, your life is content! Whatever you are feeling, creates the energy that radiates around yourself, by which the poeple you meet, can pick up the vibes. This is important that you understand this. it doesnt matter what religion you beleive in.. or not beleive in, what matters is your self energy. People DO feel the vibrations of another's energy, even animals. Would you hang around with a very social butterfly? or would you rather chat with a morbid self centred person? Obviously you know the answer to that one immediately. So how does one create an aura of happy energy around oneself? well, first of, you need to be happy. And to be happy, you need to be content. I dont mean content of "material" things. I meant by what you got that saitisfied your life. Such as friends, trust, love and comfort. To acheive this "happiness", ask yourself, what is it.. that makes you so happy about? if you say endless raunchy sex, even tho you cant seem to get any, then you need to slap yourself in your face. This sort of thinking makes your life only worse. Happiness isnt about just self satisfaction, its also about self expression. Take myself for instance. I was born deaf in both ears. I struggled to live in my childhood years. And with lack of hearing, I also struggled to interact in social ways. Often I felt miserable about difficulties of finding a nice woman for myself, making my life more miserabel and complainable. On the upside, It is from deafness, i developed a passion of music. Sounds intrigued me. So I explore all forms of sounds and music. It is from there, I express my feelings through creating music. It is from there, i developed self hapiness and contentment. I have, in every essence, built my "empire". Finding your own "empire" doesnt mean creating material things and make money from it. As mentioned before, it is about your expression. You want to share it. You dont care about money, you want to be recognised through your emotions. It doesnt matter if your "work" or "feelings" are noticed. What matters is that you.. and I DO stress that word: YOU, felt content and extremely happy within yourself. After all, this is what life is about. Isnt it? This happiness you have discovered and will expand, would no doubt automatically creates this energy around you. This energy is attractive. Wait a minute, did I say 'attractive'? yes thats right.. i did. Attraction!! You would attract people in all forms of life, to you. Why is that? It is because they want a peice of your happiness. And to do that, they want to hang around with you. Becareful though, there are some maliscious people that would draw that energy from you and not return any. They are the Takers, but never the Givers. It is up to you to work out which you want to allow, and which you dont want to allow, to feel your energy. Of course, you would be too busy to worry about other things that makes you feel miserable. You be too busy bathing in the light of your own feeligns. You enjoying it. Youwant make it grow. It is your natural 'high'. You, are making a change to make your life incredible. So how does this improove you chance of success? It does!! in everyway possible!!. You not only have many more platonic friends, but grew in chance to find the right partner. So simple isnt it? Now that you have read this letter, you have a decision to make. Life is indeed about choices, and we have given the free will to make those decisions. You choose how you want your life to be. Go forth, be merry, and happy success! Regards, Spartanis ps: What I have said above, not neccessary is a fact, but an option of self help guidance. There are many ways to acheive the very same goals. Only you can find it in your own way.

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RHP User

18 years ago

Lovely post Sparty.

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RHP User

18 years ago

42? Whatever gets you laid buddy :)

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18 years ago

Thanks for your obviously inspired post man. I enjoyed it immensely. You are so right my man! My sister has this cat. It's big and strong and independant and typically wants nothing to do with me. :) However!... I'm generally a pretty isolated person, by conditioned patterns, but I recently met a lovely woman from RHP and we got a little intimate. I felt really good afterwards and warm and fuzzy. I returned to my sister's place, where I'm staying while in Perth, and this cat was all over me, purring and rubbing it's head on my hands (like they do) and wanting stroking etc. My energy had changed and this sensitive creature sensed it! ------------------------------------------------------------------------ It occurred to me some time ago, quite spontaneously, that the happiest moments in my life have come while "working" it trees. (Apart from holding babies ;) I'm talking those 'This is it! This is as good as it gets! Nothing else matters right now but this. This is who I am!' moments. I know at those moments that my life is successful, not in comparison to others but in having integrity with who I really am. When there there is no gap between what makes me happy and what I am actually doing with my life.

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18 years ago

Enjoy_it!!!! enjoy_ittttt!!!!!! Mate! This one's even longer than what I can rattle up!!! Help, my brain's been fried!!!! Spart, I'll sit down and think about this... and give you the respectful reply that one creative person owes another creative person.... Once my brain transplant is complete... Viking xxx ~God love ya Spart...

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18 years ago

Although, I (personally) thought the tablets would clear it up... Nevamind. AnyWay... ...Thats me, another few steps closer to enlightenment!?!?! ~~F~~ **Spurtz...you should write a book, a long (and thick) one, cos i got a wonky table and i need to even up the legs**

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18 years ago

Spartanis, you are intelligent!, its not just a rumour lol. Remember i only know of you what i've seen in here and that has only been critiques of other until now. And then, wow... Funny your timing, i'm in the process right now of looking for a way of escaping my trade, one that i have been unhappy with for some time now and think i may have found it. Just a little time... ;). If we're unhappy with our lives change them, not a new thought but often one difficult to implement, with any surety of success anyway lol. It can take a little thought, a little planning and a little time for many people...

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18 years ago

Show some softness and show the hardness beneath that supports that softness... ...the girls will swoon... and the boys will say "hmm... no idea what he's on or what he's on about, but if it works I'll 'ave 'alf" Shite, I'm so profound it's a f#@!ing profanity!! Keep up the good work... or keep it up... or write shorter sentences so I stop losing my train of thought... for a moment there I thought I WAS happy!!!! Succinction is a newly created word that defeats itself by taking longer than necessary to explain something that has already been clearly and precisely stated. Someone send this man to his room......

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18 years ago

Hi Sparty, I read your post and was nodding in agreement at much of what you said. Yes, when we are happy and positive, others are drawn to us. And creative self expression is a way of maintaing happiness. There are definte links between creativity and health and wellbeing. I was at a conference on the weekend about that very topic. I know myself, playing music, drawing, taking a photo or writing creatively can change my whole frame of mind. I can shift from being in a place of depression and despair to feeling in charge of my life again. Last year I made a definte choice about my future directions in my career and I have replaced the security of bureacracy and a fortnightly paycheck with the freedom to do a variety of creative projects. While financially I am worse off, I am in a much better place, physically, emotionally and spiritually. I am more aware of what goes on around me in the natural world, like the arrival of some finches with the spring. I hear their chatter and singing and that of other birds, the sounds of the waves washing ashore are aq constant sound where I live, I see all the spring flowers as the earht awakens after its winter slumber. Yes, there are many ways to find ones self and I am grateful I have discovered my creativity and allow myself to use it to nurture myself. Go well Sparty and if I get to WA maybe we can share some music. Cheers Wild

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18 years ago

I'm very pleased to hear that. We share a similar story actually.

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