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Unsolicited friends requests
January 11 2019
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yeah, it’s normal and a little strange , I have freind requested you lol it’s just a form of ice breaker and say’s that you’re wanting to be freinds and chat
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RHP User
7 years ago
Owww yes its very normal. I would have hundreds of friends if I accepted them all. But I like to have at least chatted to them first if not met them and liked them lol. Get used to it lol😊
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RHP User
7 years ago
I wouldn’t get so annoyed or offended by such a thing miss stardust after all there’s woman out there who would kill to get the attention you get with a body like that, best see the bright side of it 😜
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RHP User
7 years ago
I save them up... It's not worth putting too much emotional energy into. Cheers, Peachy
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sweetas_j
7 years ago
All the time. Being a female on this site, it’s part and parcel of the whole thing. I’m only friends with guys I’ve actually met. The rest get deleted.
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DynamicCouple36
7 years ago
Yep. We simply delete & ignore them
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RHP User
7 years ago
I'd have an ulcer by now. I get your point, but it comes with the territory here. Be prepared to get very close with the delete and block buttons.
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PartyOrg
7 years ago
I have about 829 sitting in my request box. Don't let it bother you. Look at it as a badge of honour, your profile must be interesting. And if that is the biggest cause for stress in your life, I think most people would gladly trade spots with you.
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MsSuperFoxy
7 years ago
Exactly! 860+ here. We must be doing something right. 😃 Ms Foxy
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horneycouplewa
7 years ago
Clearly you don't read profiles, you sent us a friend request and we state we don't accept them unless we have met :/
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BungCpl
7 years ago
The Responses on here from the single guys reminds me of the thread of single guys being offended by people not replying to their unwanted messages, I wonder if you poor entitled guys are also offended by people you try to friend not accepting your requests 😂😂😂😂😂
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madotara69
7 years ago
Australia has a pretty good rep as a friendly place Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
7 years ago
Find it hard to understand why you would be irritated by unsolicited requests when it is almost implicitly accepeted by virtue of being on this platform. Although your feelings are warranted it is not really unsolicited when your pictures in a way give rise to a response of some sort
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Mask_007
7 years ago
Is a very interesting what you just mentioned op, I guess like everything in life is more than one way that you can look at things. You can get offended like you are and block people, or try to look from different direction and see: Could look a way to pay you a compliment ( because you look very very nice); Maybe way of people get closer and break the ice without being in your face and give the chance to happen naturally. I hope you start to enjoy more.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Well, I didn't state my numbers, and quite happy not to, but I'm with what Foxy & PartyOrg said pretty much. Same as the flirts from "Hot or What?". Flattery isn't going to get anyone anywhere but I appreciate it all the same. Peachy, thanks 🤗
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FeistyFatty
7 years ago
Ahhhh I'm losing my touch!!! Only 852 in my request box🤣😂🤣😂
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MsSuperFoxy
7 years ago
Naww. I'll bet 9 unsolicited friend requests (to push it past 860), by the end of the week. 😝 Ms Foxy
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egr2please69
7 years ago
Hi FFF, can i send you one like Foxy suggested to help you reach 860 😂😂😂
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Fun20
7 years ago
I have had so meany requests it not funny but I take it as a compliment lol is great for you egos lol
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RHP User
7 years ago
For profiles that claim to have 'positive attitude' and looking for 'friends or friendship' - complaining about people wanting to be your friend seem counter-intuitive to your own statement.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Hi everyone I’m richy I’m probably one sending a msg havnt friended anyone but yeah be nice to chat and get to no some of you I’m new to this might be the quiet one for a bit until I get into the swing of it
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RHP User
7 years ago
Part of the package deal on here (from personal experience) Just delete or block the ones you don’t want to be friends with 😉 No need to let total strangers ruin your day.... Good luck 👍
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RHP User
7 years ago
"And I won't accept 'friend' requests from someone I've never spoken to or met" If you didn't bother reading that, I delete your request..after I block you for ignoring my profile.I don't get annoyed or irritated as such, more an eye roll moment as I delete 😂
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honkytonk
7 years ago
i shall be sending unsolicited friend requests to all who have contributed to this forum.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Awwww I don't have any... Runs off crying 😭😉🤪
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RHP User
7 years ago
This ain't facebook .....
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jriste
7 years ago
Yes , I understand where your coming from. I noticed similar likes hence mine .
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BlueDMB
7 years ago
Interesting thread. Isn’t a ‘request’ just that, a ‘request’? It’s not obligating anybody to do anything nor is the wording of an RHP friend request insulting or derogatory in any way. I’m surprised anyone should find a friend request ‘irritating’. Perhaps it’s even flattering! The phrase ‘unsolicited friend request’ implies that there are ‘solicited friend requests’. I suppose that is where someone determines and declares that they will now permit someone else to ‘request’ to be their friend 😂. Seems odd. Why not just send a friend ‘request’!! Personally, I’ll Just be ignoring or politely declining friend requests if I have no desire to be friends.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Lol @ friend request = ice breaker... Bullshit... It’s what’s normally used by those who wanna mitigate against using up their messages to continue their drag net way of fishing for a fuck 😂😂
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RHP User
7 years ago
Stardust- welcome 😊 yes very normal, a little annoying but don’t worry. I just added on my profile I won’t add anyone as a friend unless we’re actually friends and/ or met. I just delete them as they pop up. No biggie.
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MissBishere
7 years ago
Nope I don’t find it irritating why waste energy on it. I just ignore them
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RHP User
7 years ago
Because its expected on sites like RHP. As are repeat viewers/flirters/messengers.............People are on here to try and meet others and are using the tools offered to them. My profile pics are not me when Im shopping or at work so I laugh off any ideas of grandeur I may get about myself...its online folks......
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RHP User
7 years ago
Some people collect "friends " cos these days who sends letters and stamps therefore are rare. Hugs Q
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Koolbananas
7 years ago
can we meet
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RHP User
7 years ago
How else can you meet new people, what's the harm you check them out and click accept or not, no biggie xx
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RHP User
7 years ago
Id like just to.meet some one here Mybe im to old lol
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