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Unwrapped presents are not as exciting....

June 16 2010

Call us old fashioned or just naive because we are first timers, but this really bothers us.....We would like to meet a nice couple to meet for drinks, a bit of flirting and a laugh and if we all click take it to the next level. We looked through 100's of profiles, but nearly everyone here just shows their "bits" in the photos and then says they want to meet and take things slow. For us taking it slow means get to know the other couple first, flirt and build up the excitement about what could happen next. But why would we get excited about them if they showed everything to everyone already? For us it is far more important that the other person has a nice face and personality and the rest is for us too find out later. And yes I know we don't show our face either, but that is because we are still shy - we are happy to show our faces on MSN or set up a private gallery here.But that would be all we will show until we meet other couples.Does anyone here feel the same way?

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    im not a couple and i dont look for them but i totally get what your saying there is way too many cock shots going round im a guest and can only see some but the ones i can see are enough for me i like some mystry about a date...i dont wanna know straight away what he's packing down there but then if we all covered up i can just imagine the uproar hahaha roxxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    We say on our profile that we like tasteful nudity.For me (the female half) I would rather see faces and the more full on the nude pics the less likely I will be interested, it is sexy to leave something to the imagination, but each to their own...and I have been known to have my interest peaked when I can see a man is well endowed :Pxx Salina

  • LeoQueen

    LeoQueen

    16 years ago

    Hi Guys We agree. A little is more. We will admit we like fit, slim bodies but we don't need a study in anatomy before we agree to meet. Face pics on the other hand are essential......we flatly refuse to meet people who don't have face pics on their profile or in their pg. And we have heard every excuse as to why they can't show their faces.... usually they are famous or "so well known" ... we read that to mean they are such tossers that we'd have no interest anyway!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    there's nothing old fashioned or naive about being bothered by profiles with nothing but "bits" photos. Mrs B and I very rarely bother with profiles that show nothing but bits, we feel it shows a lack of imagination. And yes, a face pic is an absolute must, even if its only in your private gallery. Ours is in our private gallery, not because we're famous or well known, just that our employers would take an exceedingly dim view of our "extracurricular" activites xx The Bewildered

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I totally agree and have conversations with quite a few people that agree with me. Neither of us are turned on by full on pics of personal bits and the worst is when it is the main profile pic! It is much more appealing to see a face pic or in the interest of discretion a nice full body shot with maybe some sexy lingerie but not full on closeups of parts where its confusing to see what it even is! It is much nicer to keep it a surprise when and if you get to see it in real life. I also think pictures of sexual acts are personal between the parties involved and I'm not particularly interested in seeing them of other people especially when I have never even met them and don't know them at all, its a bit weird. And remember what Nanna always said, why would they want to buy the cow when they can get the milk for free? :P Steph

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Thanks for all your answers so far! It is good to know that we are not the only ones who think like that. I do remember Nanna saying that too,it would have probably descriped what we wanted to say much better than talking about presents ;-), ah well too late now.Looking at any closeups of their bits in the profile picture will not make us want to look at that profile at all. Nice lingerie pictures are diffrent, they are a tease and so are some "arty" nude pictures.It actually shows us that the people made an effort and got class. That is what we are hoping to find here.. people that got imagination and class. I guess the forum is really the way to go to find them, because you can actually get a bit of an idea what the people that reply are really like.So much better than just looking at profiles or being in the chat room.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I refuse to show pics of us naked...to me, i wouldnt come straight up to another couple and stand their naked...so...i believe in meeting, seeing if personality clicks..have a great time..and allow some flirtatiousness, some mystery and anticipation and chemistry let the rest flow naturally. If that all happens...then yes...surely it will be great. I dont need to see any bits...i like the surprise when the gift is unwrapped also. Thanks for your post...couldnt have said it any better. Mr & Mrs Shy xxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'customer69' It is so hard to please people these days...If I have no pics in my profile, people sook, if I hide the naughty ones in my pg they sook anyway...At least I can say, that my pics are genuine (and were taken either this year, or late last year)... And your pics are beautiful! They are a tease and you look very sexy in every single one of them. What I don't like are hardcore pics in profiles, but that is just me, well us.Mrs 2_4_2