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Validations

July 20 2025

Obviously I know that when it comes to our encounters with others, its not a one size fits all and what works for one may not work for another. But generally if profiles have several validations I find theres a level of consistency when describing the person/people and sometimes their skills etc. But have you ever read validations on a profile of someone you've had encounters with and thought "What the heck? Did we spend time with the same person because that doesn't sound anything like my experience?" Then again, I guess sometimes people just write nice stuff for the sake of it haha

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Wecome

10 months ago

Got something nice to say.... or don't say it at all, sums it up?🙃🙃

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RHP User

10 months ago

Everyone has a different experience with someone. Validations are fun but not really well-thought out. A verified profile, good conversation and respect of others time and process usually hits the spot. It’s so rare it stands out.

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MsSuperFoxy

10 months ago

I guess the saying goes: What's Trash to some is Treasure to others. I agree, not one size does fit all. HAHA! Take the toilet roll measurement for example. Ms Foxy

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Brian_Breynolds

10 months ago

Sexual dynamics depend on all the participants involved. So you could have an entirely different temperament to the person who wrote the validation, which would create an entirely new dynamic. Or the mutual partner could have just felt different that day. There’s a tonne of reasons this could happen. I think validations are initially useful to determine if a someone is reliable and trustworthy, but not really to try and predict if sexual chemistry and compatibility is there. That’s better done through the pictures, bio, chatting, and then meeting. Unless perhaps one is looking for something very niche and specific. Like a specific fetish, or type of BDSM for example.

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