F47
Virgin/Whore - sorry guys I need to vent!
September 04 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'm sorry but you do realise how much better off your friend is without such an irrational fukwit in her life don't you? I mean, what kind of person makes rules for life over something so trivial? OMG... if only she had held off for the second date she could have lived with that gem of a guy for life. hehe What a dirty slut. lolz. What a dickhead. Yup. Hugs Gazza
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RHP User
16 years ago
It's better to lose guys like this than to keep them so your friend is fortunate she found out what a douche he was so soon after sleeping with him. She should be thanking her lucky stars that she didn't waste more time and move on the MANY enlightened guys that exist.. I just hope she got a decent orgasm out of him first but I doubt it hahahahahaha Next!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Posted at the same time... great minds and all that hahahahaha You ARE my long lost brother lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
and stupid! I am so sorry to hear what is sadly an all too common story which makes no sense to me!We can only hope he gets the ultimate pay back in the form of a wife who feels no urge to sleep on the first date... cos she doesn't feel any such urges... ever!!! Caring hugsMrsP
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'sophie_74' It's better to lose guys like this than to keep them so your friend is fortunate she found out what a douche he was so soon after sleeping with him. She should be thanking her lucky stars that she didn't waste more time and move on the MANY enlightened guys that exist.. I just hope she got a decent orgasm out of him first but I doubt it hahahahahaha Next!! Apparently he hurt her, he's very well hung and was really rough, especially for a small girl who hasn't had sex in almost a year. Thanks guys for putting up with my negativity. It's just a bit of a shock to remember there are people like that, it was one of that kind of hypocrasy that made me escape country victoria and move to the city in the first place. I think in a way, perhaps that's why I've never had a conventional relationship in the first place, because some men just don't respect someone who don't hold back.
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Ringleader
16 years ago
Don't worry Cas, Gaz and I will roleplay our favourite scene from Deliverance with him. "C'mon squeal, Wheeeeeeeee!"
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RHP User
16 years ago
Casava you may not have an Electra complex but it sounds like he has a mother one. Could be he follows the traditionally ethnic line with the whole - girls you sex and girls you marry deal? Hypocricy is alive and well in the suburbs. Your friend should get back out there and do what she feels is right for her. Finding the right person is about matching shared values - many people do not share mine - the ones that do are special - to me.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Am writing this from Paris where the chicks are chic and so are the whores! No virgins in sight over the age of 14!! I agree with the universal outrage about this guy. He is a prize prick with the worst set of double standards that I have ever heard about. Perhaps your friend will get her revenge and the bad guy will get the pox and his dick will drop off. Now there's a good thought.Ric and Ms Ric
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RHP User
16 years ago
So she's tiny & he's got a huge cock...mmmm...sounds like another one of these silly girls wrapped up in the fantasy & fell for the lie's & the cock.why are so many girls chasing 9" plus six pack guys??it's pretty obvious that she's not the only one chasing him so why would he settle with one tiny girl when he can have 1000!!!! I'm not sorry if you take offence to what I say because I'm one of the guys who's chases girls like your friend only to be told she does not want a relationship with a guy like because of my looks.....screw the fact that I'm an amazing guy who'd adore her. You reap what you sow they say,and it's drilled into our heads why we're constantly rejected...so it's about time the girls that do it to us take responsabilty fir their actions also.If you're going to chase someone who clearly is a player an think you won't get played then you're a fool.There's more to a man than his height,six pack,face & social raising status.When you're that shallow & you jump into that pool you're going to hit the bottom very quick & end up getting hurt!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
So...lemme get this straight?Not only is this guy a hypocritical wanker....he also cant fuck for shit??Meh...she is soooo much better off without him!!!Dont feel bad that you set them up....you were coming from the right place....not your fault the guy is excellent at being deceptive.Karma is such a great thing...chances are...he will never find anyone...or he'll find someone that treats him worse than he treats the women he sleeps with.If your friend looks back objectively....Im sure she will find that there were alot of things about him that she glossed over....let slide....prepared to forgive in order to persue something with him. Now she doesnt have to worry.....he saved her the trouble!!!Feel sorry for the man....women wont put up with shitheads like him any more.Just my opinion....BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
I expect there is more to than he lets on and is just saying that to mess with her head, what a wanker.SF
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RHP User
16 years ago
Sounds to me like you are far too fond of generalising and ignoring the obvious. You have no idea of the situation here aside from what has been posted. Your post makes your hang-ups obvious to me, I am not seeing an amazing guy but a very angry one who has no respect for women. AND in this case no sympathy for a woman who had insult added to her injury by yet another hypocritical male. That was not a generalisation but an observation.I don't know why you keep going on about your looks, I've looked at your profile and you look pretty good to me! I wouldn't have anything to do with you because of your attitude, nothing to do with your looks.Mrs Peachypear
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RHP User
16 years ago
She is lucky she found out about this guy before she really got stuck with him. I thought dinasores died out. Maybe they still exist in straight land? Mars
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RHP User
16 years ago
I agree with sarahfun, I don't think it had anything to do with her sleeping with him on the first date. He just wanted an excuse so he could move onto his next conquest. So if thats the best excuse he could come up with i'm thinking she must be a pretty good chick and much better off with him gone. Don't worry to much the wheel will turn against him soon.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Asho what u describe in your post covers about 1 per cent of women who would be looking for a man!! Most women I know just want a decent funny guy who is good company!, especially if they are over mid-20's You do sound v bitter o is this just a way to get a sympathetic ear?? the sexiest guyi know is in his late 40's, hasnt got a 6 pack but has a carton put away!! is nooo Brad Pitt, and doesnt have a 10 inch appendage!! but he makes me laugh and is intelligent!! a major turn on!!!!!! guys like in Casava's post should learn that if a woman sleeps with a guy on the first date, he should take it as a HUGE Compliment!!! Mrs P, u rock xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Sorry to hear about your friend, but i also tend to agree with asho77. I run a mile from any guy who apparently has a huge dick. Hurts too much even tho i've had 3 kids. And most, not all mind you, but most guys like that think so much of themselves that they dont even care one iota about anyone else. Clearly she is better off without him.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Personally, I think the reason he gave her about having sex on the first date was just an excuse ! I don't believe it's the honest truth. I think there are guys who get very afraid when they start to become attached to a woman and RUN ! It's easier to run if you hurt, offend or piss the other person off (it's not nice- actually it's a shit of a thing to do) but it's easier for the person to run. It's like the person who picks a fight with his wife over something trivial because he actually doesn't want to go out to dinner with her friends ! He doesn't want to tell her the truth so he picks a fight over something else, pisses her off and she ends up going on her own ! (then he can stay home and have fun on RHP !!) Yes, there is also a double standard about sex and long term relationships but my bet is still on the fact that he didn't actually tell your friend the real reason ! (it's possibly more to do with his insecurity and need for constant reinforcement by having multiple female partners !!!).- mmm, I better not start a new topic...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Casava, I'm very sorry that he hurt her, I was trying to make light of the situation with my comment so I apologize if that came off as insensitive. Not my intention! :-) I am still positive however that she is better off without him and that it is much better to find out earlier than later.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have to say I feel inclined to agree with the majority of posts, yes this guy in the situation was an idiot, moron, and all of the above. However I also feel a chord with Asho, as I would love to be with a lady who respects me for me, and preferably is deeper than a half-splashed puddle. Unfortunately I'm running out of options at the moment, and it seems that many of the sites on the net (not just sex focused ones, but any personals site) are doing much the same thing. I like a lot of what I see, but no one bothers to even look at my profile, let alone reply to a contact. Yes I know there are far more guys in these things than girls, but if you don't look, then you will never find. That's my little rave done for now, thanks for your time and back to the case in hand.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'lovingcouple4u'Sorry to hear about your friend, but i also tend to agree with asho77. I run a mile from any guy who apparently has a huge dick. Hurts too much even tho i've had 3 kids. And most, not all mind you, but most guys like that think so much of themselves that they dont even care one iota about anyone else. Clearly she is better off without him. Actually, his endowment as well as his lack of integrity was not something he disclosed to us before she actually slept with him. She only found out after the deed was done. I found out about it when I caught up with her for breakfast the following day and she could barely walk.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'lovingcouple4u'Sorry to hear about your friend, but i also tend to agree with asho77. I run a mile from any guy who apparently has a huge dick. Hurts too much even tho i've had 3 kids. And most, not all mind you, but most guys like that think so much of themselves that they dont even care one iota about anyone else. Clearly she is better off without him. Actually, his endowment as well as his lack of integrity was not something he disclosed to us before she actually slept with him. So, no, I didn't pick him for her because he had a big cock, it's not exactly something I'd ask of someone if they didn't already mention it on their profile nor did he mention it beforehand. I picked him for her because they seemed to be similar individuals, both driven, "successfull", outgoing, with apparently similar family values and ready to settle down. She only found out he was hung when they got together in bed. I found out about it when I caught up with her for breakfast the following day and she could barely walk. Actually, he didn't tell her that he thought she had bad ethics and didn't "consider her good enough to be a girlfriend because she slept with him on the first date". He told me on msn on cam, while he was texting to her, I was furious when I read that. I asked him whether he told her that, he said yes, he was telling her now. So I called up my friend to commiserate and apologise for setting her up with such a blind hypocrite. She had no idea what I was talking about, as far as she was concerned things were looking promising with them, he was telling her he'd like to see her because she was awesome and hot as, even though the last couple of messages he sent didn't make sense, that "she had to keep it real", and that "she was too much". She confronted him about it, and he denied it. She didn't believe him and cut off all communications with him. She saw the chat transcript of what he said to me about her on msn the next day when we caught up. Yes, she's better off without him for sure. It's just such a shock to think that there are people like that, and to say such a thing about the most kindest, generous person ever.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Whoa.... that sounds very complicated... but my initial thoughts still stand out to me. Besides, big dick or no dick, if he is a lousy shag.. why bother. HUgs Gaz
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RHP User
16 years ago
hey asho sounds like u is jealous of the guy cause u can't find a girl, not one in your league anyway so maybe lower ya standards. It takes 2 ta tango this fella clearly hasn't heard of karma and it will come back to bite him on the arse I was a shallow prick once but after missin out on an opportunity because of it I wised up a lil met the most amazing girl and married her I feel sorry for ya friend but hey I feel worse for him I was basically a kid this bloke probably has no hope.
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RHP User
16 years ago
OMG!!!Casava...what a bummer!...I wish there were words which could take away both the anger that you feel and the disappointment of your friend, but there aren't...Consoling thoughts which have been expressed above do go some of the way to easing the pain, disbelief, anger, but unless your friend is actually reading these posts and feeling the outrage which is expressed both by me and everyone else (with a few notable exceptions), then i wonder how is she really coping...To be treated like beauty one minute, and then trash the next is just so despicable, it defies belief, but tell your friend there is good news around the corner...The Japanese are in the process of modifying a button on your keyboard which, when pressed, sends a signal to the receiving party. When that person receives that signal, you will have several options...either their hard disk is destroyed, they receive a serious jolt through their finger, or...uhm...sorry, forgot what the third option will be...Anyway, it is said that the key will be the F11 key, so keep your eyes and ears posted and...oh...don't press the F11 key either...I have included you and your friend in my next meditation and will be sending kind thoughts and feelings to her...i really hope she doesn't give up either...And ASHO77...where has your compassion gone mate?...get it back....QUICK!!!in love and lightJose
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RHP User
16 years ago
She is better off without him.... It was a smokescreen objection.....the fact that she slept with him on the first date is not the real reason. Dog.
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RHP User
16 years ago
That happened to me too..He said I was not GF material cause we had sex on the first date....Bye bye dickhead. I now have a wonderful partner who luvs my desire for naughty antics!!! LOL He is a sweet naughty man too!!! hahahahaha..........
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RHP User
16 years ago
always to sides to a story. I think there is a good chance thet guy was just using it as an excuse But still fairly weak and doesn't show much respect, he will probably be on the receiving end one day as a result. Best to put it down to experience and move on. At the moment while you are upset by it you are the only one being effected as he is probably happy somewhere with no idea. She now has an opportunity to find someone decent instead of wasting precious time with him so there is a positive side
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RHP User
16 years ago
While agreeing with all comments regarding the 'reason' he gave, I have to question the circumstances and expectations a little there. Reminds me of a friend who told us the story of her date with another friend. She said he got her in the back of the car and they were kissing and he was undressing her etc. Got to the point and he suddenly stops and says "You would really do it wouldn't you?" - she says well isn't that what we both want and he is like "No I was testing you, and if you would do it I don't want to be with you" Serously warped IMO :) Mr H
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RHP User
16 years ago
there is a lot of guys who like to fuck woman but don'y actually like them as in respect for them. also there are woman who are very similar like men for sex but dont love them.
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RHP User
16 years ago
He is just a pig, best she found out now before she did fall for him. From the sound of it she can and will do much better!
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RHP User
16 years ago
A guy is stupid to go out with a chick who fk's on the first date.Live and learn I guess casava..its like another rule..u dont go out with a chick that has been out with ur mate...also u dont go out with a chick thats cheated on her bf for you...All this is just common sense really..btw ofcourse a guys not gonna stop the chick and be like 'oh sorry I cant fk u cos then I cant go out with u' shes already failed the 'test' in my opinion...guys are like animals we hunt...we need to bust a nut..we fuck..we wank..everyday for some people..we have an urge that most woman dont its a need for us...rejecting sex..very uncommon I have in the past but not actually saying anything but just not doing anything...cos I thought of the girl more than just a fk...if I could turn back time I should have just fked her cos nothing happened with us anywayRelationships these days are fked...complicated and its hard to find good trusting women and men...if u can get sex take it FTW!
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RHP User
16 years ago
What happened to common decency?My most sincere desire would be to see any guy who is so judgmental live and learn by getting exactly what he deserves as mentioned in my first post on this thread!Good morningMrs P
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RHP User
16 years ago
might be the dumb arse excuse he uses instead of saying he's not interestedmen should always be used not allow them to use you
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