M46 F39
Visiting Brothels
December 16 2010
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RHP User
15 years ago
My question to you is this, when you swing, do you kiss the other person/people?? Do you let someone else finger you?? If the answer is yes, then you are much safer in a brothel than with swinging. Seriously, you are making sex workers sound like a different species riddled with all sorts of nasties. You quite possibly are friendly with sex workers and you don't even know it.
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RHP User
15 years ago
You cut the fingers off a latex glove. Then slit/cut it up the non-thumb side. It should leave you with a retangular peice of latex to stretch over the vagina & the thumb hole for tounge penetration. And I agree with Fridaynightfun. Its probably more dangerous swinging as I think sex workers have to use something everytime. I would always ask your call girl up front if she will go bare back for a little cash in hand....If she says yes then move onto the next one cos STDs are transmitable via kissing, fingering & toys as well as blow jobs, inter course & anal. Not many swingers use dental dams...so swinging isnt all that safe. Unless you are just doing straight intercourse with no kissing, fingering or licking. They are also required to have regular screening done. Which is reccomended for swingers too. Every 6 months for us. It should involve a swab & a blood test. You would probably want to take in your own list to test for because your local GP may not know what to test for or do a full screening. You would want to disclose that you are a swinger to them. As a swinger you need to use own judgement & trust when another swinger says that they were tested 3 months ago. Where as a sex worker in a brothel would not be able to work with out a current screen done. We havnt but definatly thought about it before we discovered RHP...Now of course we dont need too But now Ive just read my own post Im wondering if maybe its not a safer & easier option...lol...We would need a gigalo & a call girl tho! Mrs H xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Two awesome answers... loved them. So much bareback happening at parties, and while it's YUMMY it has the potential to take you out of the rink for a few weeks (or longer) if you pick something up... and while we all love to share - well, there's some things we shouldn't. Brothel girls are safety girls! BB
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RHP User
15 years ago
Thankyou all for your answers. Always good to have a few different views on a subject. As I am young, it's still all a learning process when it comes to the nitty gritty. I considered it due to the fact we both lead very busy lives and I just don't have the time to sit on the Internet for hours chatting. The majority of times it has been all talk and no action which has left me disappointed and I would feel comfortable saying, I know what the female version of blue balls feels like :p
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hey. At least the Pros get tested regularly. That's more than can be said, apparently, for a lot of swingers. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Guys how much will it cost to hire a hooker in Sydney and where can I find them. Is it safe to visit brothels?
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RHP User
15 years ago
are legally required to be tested every 2.5 months(must have a clean cert every 3 months....results take 2 weeks)and if they let it lapse...they cannot work until they get one....so 2 weeks of no earning.It is also illegal to offer or ask for unprotected sex with a worker in Queensland.Not JMO this time....BJxxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Someone on here sure don't like you!!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'hotqld45' Safe Sex is about lifestyle choices and the risk assessment. And yes agree monitering is a good idea and the govt sex clinics professionals reccommend it when required. Quoting 'stalky'Hey. At least the Pros get tested regularly. That's more than can be said, apparently, for a lot of swingers. Hugs Stalky Awww c'mon - Stalky used the universal 'apparently' disclaimer. That should absolve him. And apparently some swingers are redheads too.. . ps - You did say people should 'access their risks'... Given a choice I'd prefer not to!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
A brothel advertising in our local paper is offering free rooms for couples to use (to try out) and for women to bring their lovers to..(Is the reason is to promote the advantages of paid three, four, five and six somes so they get repeat business? - please someone enlighten me on why they would do this.) So there is a cheap and easy way to find out what happens in a brothel.Suggest you go and see.Mr. SR.
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RHP User
15 years ago
In direct answer to your questions: 1. How you went about it (are there only particular places you can go?). If you visit a reputable one, you will get what you pay for. Not all establishments cater to couples and not all girls in these establishments will see a couple. Ring around, costs nothing but the phonecall to ask. Ask any question you like and know that you are free to go along and meet the girls first, without the requirement of following through. If you head for the best, you will pay approximately $600-$800 per hour. 2. How do the women protect themselves? I wouldn't plan on kissing one and not so sure about their fingers going inside me etc. How do you get around this taking in all necessary precautions if you decided to go? The use of condoms and dams for EVERY sex act performed is a legal requirement in a brothel. It is at the girl's discretion as to whether she wants you to use a dam with her, but she must by law use one with you. Condoms are also required by law for any oral or penetrative activity. Fingers can be protected by condoms. Some girls offer kissing as a service and it is at their discretion and may be considered an 'extra' service that will cost more. 3. Anything else you can tell me about experience of any advise you might think would be useful? Thanks in advance. Be 100% sure that you are BOTH okay with your visit before you go and again, remember you should feel free to meet a lady in person before committing to seeing her for a service. Have a chat with her, discuss any requirements or hesitations with her first. Maybe have a drink or two, then relax, take a deep breath and ring the doorbell!Hope this helps. NB: This info relates to NSW. Every state is different.
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RHP User
15 years ago
By law, all girls working in brothels have to be tested every thirty days for STD's. It is similar to the porn industry. Also, if they are found to be not using protection, brothel managers will kick their backsides out onto the streets. I have had friends that worked in brothels, so I can tell you it is much safer than most people think. Make sure you go to a reputable premises, and there won't be any issues. Kitty
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RHP User
15 years ago
Thankyou flirty, you answered all my questions. I will definately be taking this advice if I decide to put anything to practice. I appreciate the fact you also mentioned to make sure that both my partner and I are comfortable before going ahead. The exact, mature and open minded kind of answer I was looking for :) Thanks again xo
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