RHP

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Vocally expressive lovers.

February 22 2018

I love hearing women express their pleasure. When someone starts screaming her pleasure in one of the playrooms, everyone at the bar smiles and listens in. But I never hear guys. I have been told that I am a very quiet lover, and some in one-on-one situations have said that would enjoy me being more expressive, but is there an etiquette or unspoken rule about what guys should or should not do in swinger club situations?

Comments

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    8 years ago

    Anyone who yelps like a wet seal (* problematic noise effect), should be gagged, then flogged. 😇 Ms Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    And women who moan deeper than most blokes sound.....should also b gagged, then flogged - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    For a gagging and flogging.... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    8 years ago

    Wait! Are your vocal cords problematic?? 😇 Ms Foxy

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    8 years ago

    But what if the gagging and flogging are causing the moaning? 🤔😄

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Where I heard the lady half of the couple in the next room constantly shouting things like "yes! Yes! Oh yes!" Either she was very vocally expressive during sex or she was enthusiastically agreeing with his point of view. (maybe a combination of both...) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Obviously more gagging and flogging is required. It’s a vicious cycle 🤪 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I can be quite vocal at home, particularly if my wife has just returned from meeting a lover. Think growling Jaguar... I doubt I would be so vocal in a club. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    It should be loud enough for your partner to know you are enjoying it, but quiet enough not to wake the kids. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    .. the nest does get noisy 😛 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Guilty as charged. Im very loud especially when its harder the better the wetter you get'er (which makes me squirt) lol Men go wild hearing you and know they are pleasuring you. There is no written rule but its nice to hear a man go wild also. Yes he may cum and not move much like we do but its almost like we are doing nothing for them. You know you are when they express how much they loved it afterwards and want to cum back for more but a bit of movement and noise or talking is a lovely thing for a woman to hear also.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    To know that they are enjoying it. I prefer vocal than non vocal. Want to know that I'm making the right moves 😀 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    8 years ago

    That would be a muffled mouthful moan and groan with heavy breathing involvement. Yes, very very acceptable in the throes of passion. Ms Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I wouldn’t mind if a partner vocalised his pleasure, however, I’ve heard some women take that to the next level. Almost sounding like the female tennis players who grunt. I think this is more so for the crowd it draws to the door for onlookers. I’m extremely vocal with my husband, not as vocal with others as I’m not wanting to sound like im part of elite moaners club !! Each to their own. Whatever floats ur boat and turns u on I guess. 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    It was about three years ago that I had an extremely erotic encounter with a lover I would describe as elegant. Well educate, talk, dark and handsome with a captivating mind. Three years ago and the sounds he made are still with me. The ranged from whispers, to mains, whimpers and ultimately the sound he made as he climaxed. To this day I’ve not been able to articulate that sound, it was a strange combination of primal and surprised. Further encounters seemed guarded, shame...that night is one I think about often when I need to climax. As for me, it’s muffled sighs when it’s tender and slow and I growl when being thoroughly fucked, never been a screamer.