Voyeurism for the ladies

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  being watched yes, not interested in watching. I'd be trying to muscle in on the action 😉

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Yes is the short answer. I do.

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  DynamicCouple36

  9 years ago

  Are what more than likely keep most of us away, from situations outside, where we could end up being assaulted - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  For those who do, in what situations would you go to watch? for instance would you go to a beach or secluded spot or do you seek clubs etc...

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  I would think the safest place for women to be voyeurs is at nude beaches.Interested in any other thoughts

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  DynamicCouple36

  8 years ago

  It would be in a safe environment, like a club / private party, where at least management / the hosts, could step in if things went pear shaped. A woman, watching the action out in the open , in a secluded location, could very well find herself in an unsafe situation. Some males easily lose control (when they are horny ) hence high rape statistics - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Not for me either. I don't even like to watch porn.... much lol But I am an exhibitionist 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  To watch at clubs and parties, I think it's part of the fun. Occasionally get pulled in to join tho 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  Freaky_Fun

  8 years ago

  "hence the high rape statistics" Where exactly did you get that statistic from and what exactly does that statistic relate to? Women getting raped in secluded locations while watching others have sex??

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  DynamicCouple36

  8 years ago

  We heard a story, somewhere, about a rape/ sexual assault at a dogging spot near the Westgate bridge. It's stories like that, which would make women think twice before going to a secluded location to watch other having sex. Much safer at a club. You just never know who is lurking in the bushes at a dogging spot. Same happened at Sunnyside beach we were told. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  But I don't have a general vouyaristic nature. Like Tulips, I'm an exhibitionist, I LOVE being watched, and I'll make sure it's a show you won't forget ;) I have been drawn into play situations at clubs but I don't tend to watch for long, I get quite bored! I might sort of 'invite myself' into an interesting play, and I have a good acceptance rate of my requests to join. I rather show you what I can do lol 😂 Mary xx

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Even if what you say is true, sounds more like gossip and/or hearsay to me, people get raped outside shopping centres, does that mean you no longer shop? Hell you're more likely to get raped in your own home by a trusted family member so what do you do, leave home just in case? Narrow minded just a bit? Backed up by your assumption being watched in public is dogging? lol Just because you might be shaking in your panties and scared of your own shadow, you can just own that, you don't need to create a reason 😉

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  Freaky_Fun

  8 years ago

  So there isn't anywhere l can look up those stats?

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  DynamicCouple36

  8 years ago

  Yes possibly here say, as we heard it from other swingers who used to frequent sunnyside and have had a bad experience there, and also a bad experience at the dogging spot near the Westgate Bridge, and do we cannot confirm it. The OP has made an observation that there are plenty of males out there willing to pitch up and watch a couple getting it on outside (dogging?) but that he has not come across any females that are into it. We feel that the safety aspect could be something that keeps the females away from such scenarios. The female of this couple would certainly not go to a dogging spot alone, to watch. Anything could happen. There are obviously a lot of males that do frequent those places, and what if they lost control and decided to take what they want? Why put oneself in a potentially risky situation? I Touch , our understanding is that sex outdoors, in a park and other public space, where others gather to watch & participate, is known as dogging. Correct us if we are wrong. If we watch, we prefer to do so within the safety of a club or private party, preferably with people that we know. Freaky Fun - our comment re rape stats was perhaps not worded clearly enough, so let's try again should we ? What we were trying to say was that the majority of rapes are committed by males. What drives males to rape? Many things - power, domination, sexual frustration, sexual arousal, disrespect for women ...the list is long. Putting oneself , as a single woman, out there in an isolated location, amongst a large group of horny males who are there for sexual satisfaction, is risky. Many males do lose control when sexually aroused . Not all. Just many. The OP asked a question. We answered from our opinion , perspective and experience. We would not even consider putting ourselves in such a position and isolated location frequented by groups of males. The relative safety of a club / party, with trusted friends is something more acceptable to us. I Touch , it's hardly being narrow minded. We are quite adventurous and have done many wild & exciting things. We value our safety and preferr to err on the side of caution. We originate from a country where the murder rate is more than 20,000 per annum,and the rape rate over 120,000 per annum. We have experienced friends and family members being raped & murdered in broad daylight. Father in law ( he was a 6 foot well built & very strong person) stopped at a picnic spot, on a rural road, to have his lunch. And was murdered by a gang of youths on a joy ride. The same gang shot and killed 7 university students (mainly women ) who had stopped at the same spot a week later. We tried an adult cinema, here in Melbourne in early 2013. Things went really pear shaped when we found ourselves surrounded by countless masturbating males, who moved closer and closer to where we were sitting. They became quite pushy and aggressive. We had to jump up and run across the backs of the seats to escape their grasps and get out of the cinema unscathed. So based on our experiences and traumatic past, no, you won't find us at any dogging spots. I Touch , We are entitled to feel the way that we do, that it's risky and unsafe in such environments (dogging spots ). We are not saying that you, or anyone else must not or cannot engage in such activities. The OP asked a question and we simply answered, based on our perspective, experience and opinion on the matter. If we get naked outdoors ( which is evident by our photos ) we ensure that we are miles from anyone (peeping toms, Meerkats, flashers ) - preferably on private property or a good 2 hours hike from anywhere. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  MissBishere

  8 years ago

  I do love to watch. All good to join in as watching is such a turn on so being able to to watch and then join is the ideal.

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