Waaat am I CHOP LIVER??😐 Single Guys not

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Your argument is invalid .... 😂😂 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  DynamicCouple36

  8 years ago

  Because its all about the pussy , yes the pussy !! Swinging , we have found, is very much male driven & instigated (in our experience and opinion). The male of the couple wanting to be able to shag another female, besides his wife/partner. What attracts single males to swinger clubs ? Most are attracted by the expectation that they will get lucky and get to shag the female of a couple/ meet up with a single female at the club. Every time we have been to Attunga for example, whilst sitting at the bar, the phone will wring and we overhear management answering the question posed to them. "Yes there are a few couples / females here " etc . It would thus appear that on open nights (the nights single guys are allowed in) that its the power of the pussy that attracts them to the club. Which is why , single females often get in for free, and couples pay a reduced price. Look at RHP, there are far more single male profiles that single female / couples profiles. That should tell you what the attraction is. If and when we meet with a single guy, we like him to be able to communicate well with both of us. He needs to be intelligent and articulate, and he needs to engage BOTH of us in conversation and to establish a rapport with us . If he makes a selfish "bee line" / bull in a china shop approach towards Mrs D , ignoring everyone / everything else, then he gets absolutely nowhere . This is not about him and his selfish needs and wants . This is about our pleasure and our fantasy, and really , he needs to be considerate of our needs, our likes/dislikes, boundaries and ground rules. A respectful approach is always important.

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  DynamicCouple36

  8 years ago

  iPhone and its bloody auto correct / predictive text or whatever it is called

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  MissRedFox

  8 years ago

  Often I find the single guys talking to the male like they need HIS permission I usually get bored and end up talking to someone else My theory is many of the single guys (not ALL, but many) are a bit socially inept and see the scene as an easy way to get sex I think you have to be thicked skinned to be a part of the scene - not an excuse for bad behaviour but basically I choose not reward it and move on Even as a single lady I don't go to clubs with the mentality I have a right to expect sex - I go to talk to friends, meet people and for the spa Have a specific goal and you're more likely than not to be disappointed XX - Posted from rhpmobile

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  HotNightsGC

  8 years ago

  All about the pussy. Totally agree with Dynamic Couple. This is a very male driven scene. Don’t get me wrong, there’s a lot of very horny women out there. But generally speaking, it’s the male of a couple who is most driven to make a meet up successful. That anticipation of trying another woman can sometimes void some people of their usually good manners and social skills. The lure of the animal. Kavorka I think Kramer called it 😂😂😂 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Quoting 'MissRedFox' Even as a single lady I don't go to clubs with the mentality I have a right to expect sex - I go to talk to friends, meet people and for the spa Would you still go if it cost you 100$ everytime? I too would love to go just to socialise, twice I've been invited to attend a club with a rhp couple and had to turn it down as I have a mortgage to pay on my home back in England and I also run the risk of spending a 100$ to spend the night talking to someone I might not necessarily click with.And then you've got constant posts in the forum's (not mentioning any names) about how the majority of single blokes are thirsty and rude.Is it any wonder the decent blokes avoid the clubs when we're met with such hostility from the go

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  EarthQueen

  8 years ago

  OK I'm generalising here. Its just a comment. But these are the prices of a club I just looked at online. Single girls FreeCouples $100Single Guys - $150 ! I'm thinking similar to you that most regular guys would think thats bullshit and refuse to pay. Just go out to club or pub or try their luck online. I would if I was a guy?Does charging such a high price for single males then sometimes encourage more the type that think they will get sex no matter what or think that paying so much entitles them to more? Because at the very least I don't believe single men should be paying more than a couple. Adding drinks and transport I agree thats a hefty price to pay for a night out of mingling with people you may or may not be compatible with? This does not excuse poor social behaviour as described by the OP, but does it contribute to it?

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  It is common courtesy, but some males are so scared of interacting with the other male and possibly being seen as gay/bi, that they ignore them. They are just there for the wife swap. When we play as a couple, we will only play with people who are willing to play as a group, together, and hence we interact with both sides of the couple, so yes, guys you wouldn't feel left out here.

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  MissRedFox

  8 years ago

  Lmao $100 is a lot of money to pay for a spa 😂 No probably not and that's why I'm free or cheaper as a single female - I and other females wouldn't go - single guys would stop paying their $$$ cause there's no females The pricing structure is there as a attempt to control numbers. I mostly go on my own because I have troubling finding good reliable playmates - find a good one more often than not they move on to someone else. So I enjoy the scene for the spa, and relaxing with my friends XX - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  I ageee w miss red fox, men tend to feel they have to ask for permission. My experience, in Sydney anyway, is that women predominantly drive the swinging scene. What they say goes usually. Except for newbies.

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  gazpacho

  8 years ago

  A few of these single blokes lack any kind of experience with long term relationships. They are typically quite possessive and simply can’t understand you you are standing back while they chat up your missus for a root. They basically misunderstand their role. They think they’re the main event, without ever knowing that they’re merely the entre. They don’t fully appreciate that you’re both the gatekeepers in your relationship, and they’re just another rubber sex toy, discarded when it gets a bit shabby. Also, couples need to be really onto how their partner is feeling while flirting with a fuck. Relationships are ruined easily without care and consideration. Hugs Gaz

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Just an extra. Pays to be respectful to BOTH to be a part of something.

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  ....now shut up and get back in the pan with the bacon and onions. 🙃😆⚡️ - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Please explain to me whats going on,

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