Wanna chat?

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  Firstly, i thought swingers were couples who swop partners for sex, not normally singles?? And chatting is good yes, but whats the more you asking for, lol shy

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  yeah sometimes ya get thrown in the deep end without lessons so yeah an honest and frank discussion would go down well, as long as its not to "hierarchy" heavy should be good. id bee keen to meet and chat to anyone and disscus things positive and negative so yeah go for it!!! Kaled - doing stairs since 1988

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  Well yeah swingers are couples who 'swing' with other couples. But what about the singles, 3somes etc. Or just the new person on site who is not sure how to go about it all. Just a relaxed open discussion group type thing. Getting thrown in the deep end can scare people, and what happens if things go badly? Who can you chat to? If we had a group chat, we would get all different kinds of experiences. The good and the bad.

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  Hey, I jumped in to the deepend and didnt know anyone there, I met a chick off rhp as I picked her up on the way so technically I didnt know anyone but i knew id drive myself crazy with curiousity so threw caution to the wind and gave it a go...I did it 2 times as Ive been to a couple of the clubs.... I participated and for a shy girl gettin it on in the spa was huge for me but again i knew id regret that i didnt just go with the flow. It also doesnt matter what image you have in your head of what it will be like, as it probably wont be exactly what you'd expect so better to go without expectation, you can go and have a drink and socialise and just check the place out on your first visit, It is never compulsory to play!! Swingers clubs are usually just for couples, usually single chicks are unlimited and someimes there is a limited number of single men that can attend. At the SBF they have different nights, one primarily for couples and single girls and then another one which encourages single males and charge less as it is meant to be a night for greedy girls! I havent been to that so im sure someone can give you better info than me but i do plan on going back soon... My motto: Better to regret something you did rather than regret something you didnt.....oh and also try everything twice you can never be too sure after just one taste!!

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  Yes, I'd be interested... Sounds like a good thing to me... I'd definately be interested in attending something like that... I (with hubby in tow most times lol) have been to quite a few of the clubs.. But whilst we are not shy people, approaching complete strangers is not a task we enjoy. Especially when people are standing or sitting in what appears to be their own little groups. Unless I know people at the club.. no-one else will chat.. I'm sure we are not THAT scary... lol I think that clubs are just not everyones cup of tea. Majick

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  My definition of swinging is anything thats not one one one sex.. Yes in the 60's-80's it was probably thought of more as a couples swap meet but i know many singles who would class themsleves as swingers in this day and age. Having said that, over east, most swingers clubs let in couples at all times, have couples only nights, singles nights which include couples, with women being free to enter and no limits on numbers, and single males having to pay a premium price and strict limits applying. I have been to a couple of clubs here, and found one in particular to be no limits at all. As long as you know the dynamics before hand i cant see this to be a problem. I am not a shy person but i find (now being single, most of my swinging has been with a partner) it rather difficult to approach someone as no one likes to be rejected and we all have a 'type' we go for. Ok some dont but thats another forum.. lol Ive always thought there should be a code you can send across the room to say .. im interested and a code to say .. whoo hoo or thanks im not interested lmao I would be interested in your chat group, you need both people who have and havent and i although i have a bit i could still learn more . Maybe we could organise to visit a swingers club before opening hours to see what its all about. Most wouldnt mind as we are all potential customers as well. I have also arranged private parties which i find more user friendly as its usually a group who may know each other.

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  hey at this chat maybe we could develop some type of hand gesture similar to that used in american baseball... lolz either that or call out plays and numbers hahahahaha or fuck it just organise an anything goes night, enter at own risk style were ya know ya gunna be up for anything - lets see whos chicken any hoo gotta get my ass motivated and pack for phuket i'll be back Kaled - doing stairs since 1988

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  Id be in for the see whos chicken night....anything goes!! If we are all there for the same purpose the fear of rejection would be far less if the openess was there when everyone was chatting freely anyway.. Ive only been to swingers clubs alone, I would like to take my man but I have no idea how id go about getting a 3some together once we were there....I know im female but i still have no bloody clue! Chicks are automatically touchy with each other and have that guard down being friendly and i wouldnt know whether the chick was being friendly or either giving me go ahead or shutting me down...It scares me more than going alone.

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