Wanting to ..... but worried

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  I would be worried too as something above implies underage five years ago... but for all I know you both may still be virgins now... if that was only your first kiss? Now if it's swinging you're worried about... breaking the ice... then maybe a mentor couple could make the transition less traumatic? But now I'm confused as you have so many friends here? Maybe I'm not understanding the question.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  I read this one as well and couldn't decide if they were talking about losing their virginity or embarking on swinging. I am assuming the latter.If its swinging, whats the rush? I mean you guys are only 21 & 18yo, are you worried about not doing enough bed hopping, or getting bored with each other already, or just want variety.Do either of you get jealous, cause if the green eyed monster comes out to play.....you shouldn't.... it may well destroy your relationship.Cheers Nev

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Are you worried about what swinging is going to do to your relationship?? If u are..I can understand your concerns..my partner and I have recently started swinging too..it's been an interesting ride..we have been together for 6 years..and we are both horny too..I dont think there is a secreat to this..I think it depends on the people..if you are strong in your relationship and prepared to take the chance that this might break u up then do it..but if your relationship is not running smoothly and your afraid either of you might be tempted then there must be a reason for your feeling behind this thinking..and I would excerise caution..the key is communication!! you must talk!! speak with each other and think of the worst possible scenario..can u deal with it if it happens?? when you can answer that question then at least you are prepared for the worst and can enjoy everything eles swinging may throw at you..the good and the bad!

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