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We share as youths
October 18 2017
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MsJonesy
8 years ago
Share what?
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RHP User
8 years ago
Youths share? You don't have kids, I assume 🤔 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Some Adults chose not to share lovers, or partners. Where does that sharing change not to share at all?
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RHP User
8 years ago
Our playlunch 😂 I think we swingers, single ones and all lol share pretty good 😜 and we share on the forum. What do you mean?
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
Don't remember sharing my girlfriend when l was 12 But happy to host a gangbang for her now. So that fucks that statement OP
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RHP User
8 years ago
As youths we shared some things which we may not share now, and as adults we share some things we did not share as youths. You might need to elaborate a little and I’m interested to see where you are leading us here.
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RHP User
8 years ago
While we were taught to share... and as DG says, as kids we didn’t always anyhow... the majority of us weren’t taught to share partners for sex. Most of us were brought up seeing our parents as role models (good or bad) and that generally didn’t show us that is was ok, or the norm, or acceptable to share in that regard. On the other hand we weren’t necessarily taught not to, but then society steps in and we hear and see relationships break down because of cheating partners, in our own families, friends of our parents, in the media etc. Most of us as youths also probably focused on one partner rather than multiple, experienced hurt when that person didn’t give the San focus back, became jealous if they liked someone else more, and vice versus when if we put more attention towards someone else too. So we learnt from this that sharing in that regard is not ok for us and not ok in general society... until we grow a little older and get a bit more adventurous and each stumble on this idea that it might be fun. We all get here in different ways and at different ages of course, and some of us come and go from sharing for various reasons too. But as kids we learn respect, and quickly learn not to share with those who don’t want to share back, so maybe that’s where it all changes.
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RHP User
8 years ago
What are you talking about? I never did, and still don't, share Lego. Or ice cream. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Poor swingalingson... Tried to get into someone's pants who was "already taken" again lately? Lol :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
@swingalingson dude, I'll be blunt; The majority of males are ugly stupid chodes that absolutely suck at sex and suck even more at talking to/charming females. That's why one doesn't share easily. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Jealousy. Women are seriously jealous creatures, even those who swing 😯 Not me though, with the exception of Mary, and women my age who have young bf's lol but that's envy, not jealousy. Jealousy is when they spike your coffee lol and give you the evil eye before they do. Some chicks are scarily jealous, bunny boilers me thinks 😀
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RHP User
8 years ago
I used to share chocolate. I NEVER do now 😠
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RHP User
8 years ago
your bunny if you take my chokito 😂
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On_Safari
8 years ago
Quoting Swingaling.... As youths we are taught to share Some Adults chose not to share lovers, or partners. Where does that sharing change not to share at all? Answer: When sharing does not include consent from ALL persons concerned. Bit of a no brainer really 😏
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RHP User
8 years ago
You have teach children to share, it doesn't come naturally. You can see that with very young children. I think it's unfair to say Women in the swinging scene are jealous, surely you have to actually meet some swingers first, any swingers, before making a judgment call.
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RHP User
8 years ago
We are taught that real love is that you meet the "one" and that jealous means he really cares. It takes a while to unlearn that.
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boobsandbusted
8 years ago
maybe ive got this wrong but mrs b shares herself if she chooses to ,it isn't my place or to share her, she is not an object like a drink bottle in the playground ,,agree with on safari ,it's no brainer 🙄 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
As a child I would say I was forced to share, as an adult I now choose to share. Maybe being forced to share as a child did actually each me to share. Like most kids though I hated sharing; ''but it's mine, why should I?"
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RHP User
8 years ago
As vague as I could. it is how you interpret the two questions. Just asking all of your views🤔 on sharing.
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RHP User
8 years ago
*rushes to the chest* MY BUBBLES!!!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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Sawadee
8 years ago
Just don't ask me to share my date scone, dark chocalate or my last coldy.. If asked , I automatically hold these up in the air as far as I can.. 😜 But in general , I think I do OK. I'm forever lending tools or doing jobs for neighbours .
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Sawadee
8 years ago
I did share my ex with a guy who had 9 inch cock for her birthday once.. She thought it was the best present ever.. I got lots of brownie points for that one....
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RHP User
8 years ago
Its a societal notion to find the "the one". Born and raised to believe love is forever. It is whatever you believe. Ive only learnt of late the one can be many, and believe that too is ok😊 I don't own my play friend. She can have whoever she wants, it's her choice not mine. We are sharing our opinions, does that count?? ITM - what size chocolate bar should we buy before we can go halves safely 🔪⚰️ 😂😂😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
After a LOT of thought, I have to be honest that I was NOT good at sharing much when I was younger except the blame... I was a lot better at sharing hubby when we were on the site though. Not a twinge of jealousy thanks to the trust I have in him. Funnily, he went through a real jealousy phase early on in our relationship... and it was his idea to swing. Buuuut... there was one guy in particular, who we loved to spend time with and even had a sleep over more than once but he'd wait till hubby left the room before making a move on me so hubby would feel left out when he returned. I realised it was deliberate the last time the bloke uncurled to make a move as hubby's back was just moving out the door and said something that had him curl back into his original position. We never met him again which was a real shame. Sharing is caring, Peachy PS: Nothing like an innocent question to have superior minds looking down on an OP, hey?... It must be the end of the world, that'd explain the level of angst.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Mind you, I did have a lot of multiple occasions as a teen... That Was Fun! The best was the time with my ex and his new cougar girlfriend. I'll always remember that day with fondness. Peachy
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RHP User
8 years ago
I don't like to share or even lend my stuff out to anyone because I have had things returned to me in pretty shitty condition. I guess that's probably why I don't now. My poor guy might come back broken if I do 😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
lol well they only make chokito's in one size. One size fits all? I like those big boxes of Maltezers, Miss piggy here. I would let you have a couple of those 😂😂
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RHP User
8 years ago
You had me at maltezers 😍 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
could reward you with Maltezers. Each time you complete a task, you get a Maltezer 😉 😇
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RHP User
8 years ago
I had to google what a "chode" is. And a tiny municipality in rural Spain didn't sound right.Urban Dictionary was much more helpful.Gotcha now..
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AKAHunk
8 years ago
I read somewhere recently an article wondering why we insist children learn to share their belongings? As adults if someone were to ask us to share our "toys"...a car, bicycle, motorbike etc. with a complete stranger we'd tell you to get stuffed! But as adults we chastise children for not sharing with others. As an adult I'll rarely share things of any value as I like to take care of my stuff, and find many others don't show that care and respect, especially when it's not theirs. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Dallas1975' I read somewhere recently an article wondering why we insist children learn to share their belongings? As adults if someone were to ask us to share our "toys"...a car, bicycle, motorbike etc. with a complete stranger we'd tell you to get stuffed! But as adults we chastise children for not sharing with others. As an adult I'll rarely share things of any value as I like to take care of my stuff, and find many others don't show that care and respect, especially when it's not theirs. I encouraged my kids that they and their belongings are their own, and no one else's. I wonder if they too far with that sometimes but, they know how to say no, and that is a very good thing. Here y'are Swing, what first came to mind when I read about kids sharing... PeachyAuthor: Unknown 10- Once it's mine it will never belong to anyone else, no matter what 9- If I give it to you and change my mind later, it's mine 8- If I think it's mine, it's mine 7- If it just looks like mine, it's mine 6- If we are building something together, all the pieces are mine 5- If it's mine, it must never appear to be yours in any way 4- If I had it a little while ago, it's mine 3- If I can take it away from you, it's mine 2- If it's in my hand, it's mine 1.1- If I want it, it's mine TODDLER’S RULES
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RHP User
8 years ago
I do not know how that ended up back to front, I totally saved it in my templates first... tricky... Peachy TODDLER’S RULES 1- If I want it, it's mine 2- If it's in my hand, it's mine 3- If I can take it away from you, it's mine 4- If I had it a little while ago, it's mine 5- If it's mine, it must never appear to be yours in any way 6- If we are building something together, all the pieces are mine 7- If it just looks like mine, it's mine 8- If I think it's mine, it's mine 9- If I give it to you and change my mind later, it's mine 10- Once it's mine it will never belong to anyone else, no matter what Author: Unknown
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EarthQueen
8 years ago
Agree about insisting they share. Toddlers and young childtens brains aren’t yet wired to share. That comes later. Often what we ask of kids we would never ask of adults. Then parents get annoyed when they have a tantrum. 🙄 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
My, no longer children = now adults, are generous to a fault but are learning to consider themselves more as time goes on. Seeing one of them stand firm by the amount of time they were prepared to give recently was a proud moment. Peachy
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