M68 F61
We're a sexy couple ... but please read our profile.
October 01 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi,As a single who has been in a few 3somes it is important to read the profile.There are so many singles looking that you can't afford to do exactly the opposite of what you guys want.Wish you were in Melb, good luck in your search,Jump
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yeah JJ been there put up with that BS.. I realy don't think most ppl bother reading profiles on here.. Maybe they just get fixated by your pix or just plainly dont care about your seeking criteria or it just could be there just trying there luck and hoping your desperate... who knows?? All I can say is welcome to the RHP world and hope you learn to use you delete n block fetures.. Lol... Pixie xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yeah JJ been there put up with that BS.. I realy don't think most ppl bother reading profiles on here.. Maybe they just get fixated by your pix or just plainly don't care about your seeking criteria or it just could be there just trying there luck and hoping your desperate... who knows?? All I can say is welcome to the RHP world and hope you learn to use you delete n block features.. Lol... Pixie xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey Pixie... I think you nailed it... They see the pic and cant read the rest because thier tounge is hangin ... Like yourself' we're definately not desparate... If only these guys would stop fantisizing about their own prowess and read a little ' they might start to get the real picture. And yes... we learnt to delete and blocking is something we will have to use a lil more often.. Cheers J & J xoxo
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hello jumponmyswing... You are the perfect sample of just what we are trying to get across.. if you would have taken the time to read our profile you would not have posted what you did. Eg: A face pic first .. and respect for our age requirement. Simple... If you sent us a pic like that we would have deleted it without reading... A arse is a arse and it says nothing... and thats the first thing we get to see ??? Sorry to be so direct' but thats the whole point of this posting in the first place.. Cheers and good luck
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi justjuice I must first apologise as my pic I know is not what you look for it is merely as I don't feel comfortable in my profession to be placing a face pic up publicly but I do have face pics and clean body pics to share on request....I always read profiles before flirting or messaging anyone (which I don't do too often) out of respect for everyone involved and would hope others do the same. If people would stop and take the time to read they may even find that some people leave clues as to ways of contacting them through other avenues within their profiles lol. I believe people should appreciate when someone has gone to the trouble of stating their requirements and value individual opinions by only answering if they can honestly say they match your criteria. I too am sick of unwanted attention from certain males.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Justjuice, it happens to singles as well.Guys see a "pretty picture" and click, even though they don't meet the criteria. It's annoying, time wasting and you end up deleting 99.9% of messages/winks.
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RHP User
16 years ago
People dont read profiles ... they seek out the pics first ... For example our header is: Gangbang (Players only) parties - 35-55 yrs only... so you would think that people in that age range & in Victoria only would check out our profile ... Then our opening line says: Before you go any further please read our WHOLE PROFILE prior to sending us a message - Please No winks as we are unable to respond to them. - Even with those words they still DONT bother to read all of our profile. But guess what ... we still get winks ..... we still get msgs from people who are NOT within our age range..... all the do is look at the pic in our profile .... which I will state DOES NOT show a face..... and never will.... we keep it private. And for people that do send us a msg ... trust us .. we do read all the profiles... even the people who view our profile. If you wish to see face pics in someones profile .. then you should show your own face as well ... not just a body shot. If people dont want attention ... its better to have the picture as PRIVATE ... and the guys who do msg on here ... at least they pay for the membership (we use to be paid members for nearly 3 years.... but word of mouth about our parties has worked wonders) ... but some send out generic emails .. you can tell by the wording ... hence we ask back 'have you read ALL of our profile. Or the other one that gets us ... some one sends a msg ... you respond .. but they are silly as they have their inbox LOCKED.... so no response gets thru .. go figure that one out.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Where is your face pic? Mrs
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RHP User
16 years ago
Agreed that getting flirts/messages from people way outside your stated desires is tiresome but I must say I disagree about this whole face pic thing. There is absolutely no way we are going to put a face pic up here as we don't even want our faces on the RHP server let alone out for public viewing. We usually leave the faces to a quick msn chat or email. I guess with a single guy you're thinking that they shouldn't care if anyone they know see's them on a site like this but what if they have an honest profile stating all their "private" desires and kinks and just say that their boss or colleagues or heaven forbid their parents are anonymously on this site too (now I KNOW my mum wouldn't be on here haha) I actually find face photos extremely one dimensional and misleading. Good photographic technique and make up can have anyone looking good and then there are the majority of people out there that aren't models but with animation and personality their faces are much more attractive than a photo would display. Of course before meeting it's best to have an idea and I completely agree that a face pic swap is necessary.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Mars n venus.... Have another good read of what we posted... We have our face pics in our PG and release them only to those we want to release them to. Another case of not bothering to read all of what we wrote. ??
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RHP User
16 years ago
Puppy... thers alot of second guessing in your post... We dont expect anyone to put thier face pic on the main page. But in the PG... yes... We can only guess ppl have something to hide by not wanting to show thier face in their PG.. You only release ur face pic to those u want to see it anyway... And if the boss or your mom see you on here.. ? What the hell are THEY doing on here anyway. ? lol...
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RHP User
16 years ago
I seem to have the opposite and now has become my pet hate. READING the profile only to find out that its A LIE... for example searching for single woman and as you read there profile you find out that she is actually a couple who will not play without her other half. Witch is fair enough... but iv had the pleasure of having been told by such a couple that they want us to split up to play with them.AGAIN didn't read our profile correctly Sorry but if your a couple you should have a couples profile.I know its a bit off topic but i really needed to vent on this. I feel cheated cos i always read every profile before contacting OH and pix your by far the hottest on RHP
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RHP User
16 years ago
i always take the trouble to read a profile and always send my pg, which has my face pic in it, along with a message....Noted your requirements, so didn't say hello...have seen some interesting profiles on rhp, where at the end the person/couple says "please quote "whatever" in your main header response" to ensure your message gets read...Now, that's a great idea if u r seeking to isolate time wasters or picture surfers...Cheers...Jose
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RHP User
16 years ago
There are dozens of questions in this forum about reading profiles ~ not reading profiles..... and belly aching about it in the forum i sno solution because I dare to suggest, most of teh people who bother to read the forums are likely to also be the kind of people who bother to read the profiles..... The guys you are complaining about.... are the people who are responding to a pair of tits half flopping out of a bikini top..... Now that probably covers most of the male population... but the guys who are most likely to be desperate for a shag.... are the guys who are most likely to react first by sending you a flirt/message without bothering to read the profile. The bulk of us, probably just think to ouselves... "I love boobies" and then check out the profile concerned.... and that's where talent comes in.. if your profile doesn't indicate an attractive side... we've all seen them.. they're negative, abusive towards factions of this community and appear to be completely self centred, then why would anyone who wasn't desperate for a shag bother with it? There are so many wonderful people around here, all you need to do is look... and instead of waiting for someone to contact you, fork out for a membership and approach people who attract you. Jugs Gaz
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey Jose... what a brilliant idea... we're planning on updating our profile one of these days and will be sure to include your suggestion in the message area... but not at the end lol, for those that like to skip to the end puppy... I thought you made a good point about people we know outside RHP that we may socialise or work with etc, not only seeing our pics on here but also knowing all about our 'private' kinks once they've made that connection. Eeeewww... jj... If only life was always so predictable.... my hubby's boss told him he'd joined a cpl of 'adult' sites to do some study in the interests of possibly starting a site of his own... which was when we put our face pics away in the private gallery... and mostly only let people see ours after seeing theirs aside from a few we've gotten friendly with thru the forums. We've had people we know send us their 'private gallery' when first contacting us and out of respect never mentioned it to them or anyone else lol but we're not everyone and whatever their reasons for being on here, we would rather they didn't get the chance to know us on that level. We also have to respect that they might feel the same.Still, it is your choice to request pics and I guess if you have made it clear that is what you want, it would make sense for people to respect that if it is you they want! Nice post Gaz... we mention personality in the same sentence as pics on our profile lol Hugs allMrs P
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RHP User
16 years ago
PEACHYPEAR... Good post... made alot of sense. Thanks
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quit it with that big writing... you'll be givin' me a big 'ead lol Cheers Mrs P
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RHP User
16 years ago
I really do tryCheers Mrs P
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RHP User
16 years ago
We take quite a different approach to our profile. We always try and write something fun. We do read profiles - and so many times simply move along because they are all so cliched. 1. Most profiles describe themselves as attractive and laid back (it's like everyone saying they are above average drivers or better than average in bed - MOST OF US by Definition should be average)(no one likes the thought though) 2. Typing the same "we are sensitive, attractive, sexual, funny, laid back" as every other profile does define the profile "content wise" as average to start and really doesn't impart any of your personality - or does it? We have had quite differing responses to our current profile. We get many just saying they think it's funny - we reply thanks. Some have said we are complete idiots (seriously first message we received - to which we replied - how impressed we were with their communication skills) We also get the single guys - but - because profile pics are a bit silly - they just don't wink / message without reading - and it's quite easy to respond thanks but no thanks. We have face pics in our PG - we also believe these must be exchanged - and we have received - mmm not what we are after - and have also replied likewise to others face pics when exchanged. It's due process. Sometimes - some people will send us their pg with a message they want our pg. The situations we hate is where they have 1 or 2 pics in public and 1 or 2 pics in pg and none are face pics (and get rid of sunnies and hats in face pic shots people sheesh). We won't reply with pg in those situations. And as Forrest Gump would say - and that's all i want to say about that.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well i guess you are always going to get the group that cant read, its like a lot of things in life you always bang yr head against a brick wall, trying to find the answer. I would like to make a comment to follow up with fitnsexyx2 i so agree with these comments. As a couple looking for single fems, why is it that so many are on this site as a single female, but then when you read there profile they then mention the likes of " i have a playmate to join" or "i only play with my man" wtf, yes why arent they making a couples profile and keeping this honest.
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RHP User
16 years ago
we've been on this site now for 2 years.... spent a lot of money on memberships... have tried both a couples profile and a single fem profile.... dont get us wrong... LOTS of responses and chatting... but apart from the single guys ( who obviously CANT be bothered reading a profile anyway...) no one actually seems that interested in actually meeting up... Dont get us wrong we're not glamour models....but we dont have two heads and arent ax murderers either.. yet typically most of the reponses are lets do the email ping pong for a long long long time first.... then we'll meet up for dinner or coffee and THEN if we're all comfortable after the 20th social meet we MIGHT get around begin talking about what we're all apparaently on this site for anyway...Again dont get us wrong... we're not prepared to jump into bed with everyone we meet on teh first meet/date... ( well not all the time lol ) and we're not adverse to a social meet to see if everyone is comfortable with everyone etc etc and it isnt always about sex we know...but sheesh is ANYONE on this site actually meeting up and gettin laid.... The worse ones are the ones that make a date and then dont even turn up then disappear never to be seen or heard of again....I mean all I want to do is experiance the supposed joys of a fmf.. with teh amount of money to date weve spent on useless membership fees on this site to get harrassed mainly by singole guys who cant read or think theyve got that something special that ive never experianced before and all tehy need is a chance to prove it to me.... sheesh I would have been 10 times better off to just go get a hooker who specialises in couples than to be on this site being harrased by guys who think theyre gods gift to woman ....
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have no idea what our secret is - maybe we are just lucky but we have been on this site for 5'ish months and every couple we have decided to meet has turned up and we have also played with some....there must be a formula that works you just need to find it. We certaintly aren't into endless chatter but there has to be some discussion before meeting in person to make sure people aren't wasting their time with us or vice versa. When we do meet we are upfront. Yes we are in it for friendship too, as a chick I can't just bang someone I don't like but we are also very open about talking about what we got in contact with each other for in the first place. That usually sets the scene for some sexual tension or we realise it just isn't going to work. Keep trying sexy_blonde007 you just need to find the right system that works for you. K.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Good post. Im starting to thnk all the real funsters are is in WA. We are getting more than our share of messages and flirts... (ohh the flirts from the single guy brigade grrrr ) with more than a fair share from WA.. Whats in the water over there LOL.. whatever it is' you guys are enjoying yourselves...
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