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What are you looking for?
April 08 2015
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sorry... I am looking for more love and friendships. I would also like to add to my sexcapade stories. :p
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RHP User
11 years ago
Big cocks?
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RHP User
11 years ago
what your having perhaps an older version.. thanks x
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm also looking for friendships, as well as love and sexcapades... love that word :) So far, I've made some wonderful new friends and had some great sexcapades. I'm sure love will come along too at some point, but there's no rush. As Meatloaf said... two out of three ain't bad :) Much love, Elle xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
I haven't been looking so much as finding..the longer I am here the more I find..friends and lovers..Connecting with people sometimes who live a continent away..I love that the fora posters can constitute a community,and just as in any community there are some people more active than others..xxFreya
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RHP User
11 years ago
Such a bloke thing.... You have described a woman. But you haven't actually said what you want? A wife? Are you looking for lurve? Confess now! :p
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RHP User
11 years ago
Im looking for one regular guy, as a friend and lover Still too wary of relationships, but someone I can connect with, go out with, laugh with and have some great sexy times with. Alas, with most guys I get told that yes, thats what they are also looking for...they lie! Im not giving up hope though. I have met some fabulous and very different men on here that Ive seen a few times, but now Im looking for just one. Where is that needle in the haystack?
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RHP User
11 years ago
I wasn't expecting to make friends on here, but I've made some fantastic ones! Its been amazing. I have a new circle of male and female friends both in Perth and interstate and I think the world of them, thanks RHP! xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ditto for me on both of your comments koko
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LifeUnscripted
11 years ago
We are lucky enough to already have each other, we are that couple that hit the jackpot. Because we have each other we don't need romantic partners, or emotional companions. What we need are friends that we enjoy a glass of wine, dinner or dancing with, and who just happen to be sexy as hell and think we are too and love to play under the sheets as well. Sex is just plain fun for us, and some of the most fun we have had has been with more than just the two of us on the bed. :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
That is called the Clayton's boyfriend. The boyfriend you have when you're not having a boyfriend.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thats a new one to me! But hey...Ill have a Claytons boyfriend... Have him delivered by Friday thanks
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RHP User
11 years ago
If you want the real confession then I have to follow my psych's advice and its unfortunately "no dating" for me. Just lots of friends. Can rack this up to a "difficult" childhood with some unpleasant experiences. But I'm facing it now, and the appreciation for being emotionally connected with others is amazing. I'm learning so much about myself and being connected to life. And the inner strength I have had to endure. So if I was to answer your question, it is a lady who can match this inner strength with calm, caring and an occasionally devilious manner. Someone with a zest for life and able to carve it up on the dance floor - I expect she'll be able to move her hips better than I can. And lose herself with me to the music. I'm yet to find her but I am at least finding myself. And if we need to use terms or labels, then I'm going to have to say soul mate.
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RHP User
11 years ago
The Claytons reference comes from a drink that was marketed in the 70s in Australia..it was non alcoholic,and packaged to look like whiskey ...the slogan was...It's the drink you have when you are not having a drink...this product hasn't been advertised for thirty years but the phrase has stayed with us in the Aussie lexicon..it refers to anything that looks like something but isn't xxFreya
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RHP User
11 years ago
Someone that I connect with mentally. Have a few laughs. Explode our sexcapades, both together bad at a swingers club or to add a third interested party Able to converse. Someone in the same position as me and is not after the full on thing but isn't looking to add notches in their belt/bed head
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AnnieWhichway
11 years ago
Im looking for anything. Figure if i make the target as big as i can, l'm a certainty to hit the thing. Seems to be working well to date.......
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RHP User
11 years ago
the Holy Grail UFO'sthe Lochness MonsterYetisSome Amazing Man I want to bust the Myth
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm looking for a couple I can catch up with have lots if care free laughter some serous chats and of course some naughty fun when the mood strikes us... Also a nice honest lady for the same thing... Absolutely NOT looking for a relationship but more honest friendships... Like some of the lady's here trusting to the degree of relationship is still long way off for me...
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compressor
11 years ago
well I sure would like to be able to massage a sexy lady from head to toe. don't need to get anything in return but to see her feeling fine and a smile on her face sure would be good. being able to chat is also important I think
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RHP User
11 years ago
Claytons......I remember, which is good.....and not so good ! Why am I here ? Fuck nose ! Mixture of entertainment, education, ego, curiosity and perversion (in a nice way).
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RHP User
11 years ago
You are just looking to have one guy as your Clayton's BF. Just a interested to know, if you only want the one guy does that mean you would prefer that he be exclusive to you as well?
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RHP User
11 years ago
I wouldnt expect any FWB to be exclusive, as after all, its not a serious relationship. I was messaged by a guy who already had "5 or 6" FWBs but said he could make time for me One or two would be enough, Im not a collectable! And how on earth could he fit them all in? In saying that, I was talking to my friend the other night and said to her, the idea of one regular guy is very appealing but there is just so much temptation on here...... I dont even know if I could be exclusive?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Not sure what I'm looking for to be honest. Something pure and mutual!! I probably won't know till it slaps me in the face but one thing I do know I'm going to have fun trying to find it;-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
i true friend that understand me an want me the way i am
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RHP User
11 years ago
Meeka, you said I was being such a "bloke" in describing a woman. Yet so far I've basically read that what women want is a friend, lover and someone to truely understand you (along with a Clayton until he comes along - and I won't get into the trading up discussions this might entail). This to me is about as wishy washy as I just want a decent guy who is considerate yet stimulating. In the online world that dissallows for chemistry to be determined (ie the stuff that can only be determined in person) I'm sensing a lot of sticking with the stereotypical norm. Maybe a better consideration is what quality of someone would you like that would have you considering a first date? And please be a little more specific than sense of humour :p
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hopefully one day anyway! In the meantime I love meeting new friends, can never have enough friends xo - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
My shoes, My dress, My Wrist Chain, My Earrings, My suspenders and a few other items lost over the years - come on they must be somewhere, oh and my halo I left at the gate when I joined RHP
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
I'm looking for someone who want to explore with me, to experience thing with me, who is open to finding what pleasures are out there, someone to push me and let me push back.....if I could find this person, then I'd be a pretty happy girl..... A lover, regular maybe 2/3 days a week kinda thing, those days wouldn't be in a row but lol, sorry but I love my me time....💋
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RHP User
11 years ago
It was a joke Joyce. It was a both a dig at men and women because you describe the woman you want ... But all of us women want to know what men's intentions are. See, a bit of fun. So no dramas, I know some people don't like my jokes. Won't do it again and sorry I don't have a list of requirements.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I come across them every now and then.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well....why didn't you say so! I want a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. Actually.....make that a big pot of cash. Gold is way too heavy to carry and then it's really useless unless it's cashed in somewhere and I'd have no idea where to take it. Initially I just came in here for a little late night social interaction in the comfort of my lounge room and some frolicking in forums. I'll just wait for the rain to come now. :p
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think they all went chasing after those socks that men loose...that is where you will find them..Unfortuntely the halo went off in a huff 😜xxFreya
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm pretty happy with the men I have in my life, but I'm missing a woman who I can be great friends with and make out with furiously when the mood strikes us
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RHP User
11 years ago
If you see that upstart little bitch of a halo can you please send her back. She is in need of a good spanking, but I did see my guardian angel in the pub the other day.
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sweetgem
11 years ago
Ultimately, I want to settle down again with a compatible man who holds similar values and interests as mine. A best friend and husband who would laugh with me in the rain and sunshine, who would kick me in the butt for when I needed that. Of course, I am not on here seeking that man, it's something I want ultimately, when I'm ready. - Posted from rhpmobile
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sweetgem
11 years ago
Just realised that I have answered your question completely opposite, OP :-) From this site, for now, I am seeking a lover/FWB who would also like to hang out together outside the bedroom. But he must be unattached in order to be able to do this. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I kinda guessed I was being open about what I want. But like you I want to hear a little more than the cliche "best friend" and "lover". And I get what you mean about the naughty look - too many people I find are just trying to fit in and be "normal". They lose that devilish cheekiness to be a little different :) But speaking previously of cliches. Maybe I'm interested to know something that you might be looking for that is not a cliche? For me its the ability for her to be lost in music. That ability to be lost in the music in all heart, mind and body. For that's the starting point for us to get lost in each other for me.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I need a woman to accept my sexuality and explore each others desires. A bisexual mf couple as friends with benefits would be my ultimate reality. Honest, trustworthy respectful people that love in adulterated sex. A woman that allows herself to be dominant when she feels it
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RHP User
11 years ago
My reasons for being on RHP have gone through a process of change since my initial reason. I was a firm believer that men and women could not have a friendship without sex becoming an issue at some point (leave that for another time) and found that I had plenty of women in my life but was missing the male quota, input, companionship etc. I have an amazing 'Clayton's Boyfriend' so I am just looking for friendship.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Keeps evolving, and I like that 😄, but I could sum it up as "new experiences", preferably intimate in some way but that's not essential. New friends, new lovers ideally, long or short term, expanding my comfort zone and experiences, learning more about what pushes my buttons along the way. Oh, and still looking for that sexy woman with a fetish for wearing boots... 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
What was this site again? Sexual friendships and yes I have a wife shhhh... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
In a position to have a committed relationship but I still yearn for the best bits of a relationship; intimacy, warmth, fun and of course mind blowing sex! - Posted from rhpmobile
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blackbig
11 years ago
I am just interested to meet people for friendship and fun. People who are charming,happy in themselves and with no emotional baggages. Not looking for relationship, but the lighting might strike unexpectedly. There is nothing better than meeting a sexy lady who is not too needy or not to scarred by past relationship. I should say couples offers a lot of what I want. Met some wonderful people over years. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Hottie1
11 years ago
All I can say is meet and greet 😘 xx Mary
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Hottie1
11 years ago
We have made some great friends through this site. I love spending time with them, love playing with them and exploring boundaries. If I don't see them for a little while I actually miss them and their company. I don't know what I was expecting when we first joined but despite some 'dickheads', the handful of people we have become close friends with, have made it all worthwhile. 💋 Mary xx
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Hottie1
11 years ago
Would like to have a successful DP, lol! 💋 Mary xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
..... may I have the charisma that I never had ..... the mojo that I seem to have misplaced
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well about to bail out so here is my view. Married the wrong person (my problem) but still believed the bullshit that "there is some one for every one" - think an old girlfriend had it right - "you made your bed - lie in it"All I get here is lies; no shows; and dreamers.Just looking for flirts - maybe meets - bed would be a bonus.MY experience is it's all bullshit - maybe nobody want 60+ with experience - that"s OK just have the integrity to say so.Basically FUCK OFF
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'ag4mg92' All I can say is meet and greet 😘 xx Mary That will make for a fabulous weekend, but I also want something a little more regular....
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm quite new here to find fun ppl to explore a bit but overtime we all change or grow differently with different speed. In 2 years time I see myself having a regular partner to commit but atm I'm more into exploring options. What I'm looking for now will not be the same in the future. But not all ppl have targets or mind setups or life plan. Some of us r laid back & not very serious about what they really want or need. Sometimes we know what we want is not what we need, we go for it to get temporary joy & happiness unti it turns out it wasn't for us & then some of us dont even know why we wanted that or how to value the findings about whats for us or whats not. I might be organized planned serious type but I do or try silly things to know why ppl do it
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'd like to find a lady or couple who like group play, I'm not in a position to give committment beyond friendship and respect as I'm married - My marriage whilst not totally unhappy is sexless and I yearn to play with others who have a similiar sense of adventure... I'm bored with normal one on one, the more the merrier for me and I'd love to find someone with a similar attitude and or in similar circumstances who just wants to have fun.... Before I get all the moralists jumping on board as to why I don't leave etc I have my own private reasons and it would take a pretty awesome lady for me to consider leaving my family - Playing this way and putting it out there straight away removes the temptation of an ongoing affair.... I don't hide the fact that I'm married, its on my profile. I appreciate my chances of finding someone willing to play under these circumstances are pretty poor but that doesn't mean I should stop looking.....
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RHP User
11 years ago
We all found RHP.... but most of all WE discovered each other and RHP.. We both came from very conservative families with strong views on relationships and life in general, but as our relationship evolved and matured over time we both realized that life in general is an all you can eat buffet and why sit at the same table eating the same meal over and over. We both missed out on the chance earlier in life to explore and our sexuality and expand on our experiences but also love each other to the end of the earth, so we decided to join RHP to see what we can see and to learn along the way and we must say RHP has been one of the best decisions we have made for our relationship. There are so many wonderful people on here with so much experience to learn from and having a great forum where people are honest an open about themselves makes it so much the better.. RHP, Freya, Meeka and the rest of you awesome people( we could name you all but there are too many)... And really that's what we are looking for, awesome people just like all of you. X The Suck Suck is Over.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Polyamory is what I want, I can love more than one women. In saying that I'd love to see my main partner getting fucked properly by another guy, I love joining in with her for threesomes. Some people would say that I'm over sexed, but it's not all about sex. Pleasuring my partners is more important than pleasing myself. I look at the amount of single people out there and think if they where to relax there standards a bit they could be getting love and there freedom. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
great question OF_78 ! I'm looking for someone younger, not for long term commitment but for ongoing fun if we click.Someone to make me feel younger and sexier again, and hopefully someone I can teach and mentor and please along the way. All good relationships need to be balanced. If that proves impossible to find, then I'll go with Twinkesthe Holy Grail UFO'sthe Lochness MonsterYetis If you can't get what you want, you may as well want what you've got!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
...or proactively searching for anyone. But I'm open to most anything that comes my way. At the very least I'll consideranything...however brief some considerations may be. For example, I'm not going to reconsider my sexual preferencejust because plenty of men seem to check out my profile.I hope they like my photo's, because I do. There's no lies there. Nor am I "looking to explore my sexuality" or any other cliche's I can think of. I don't know If I'm using my platinum membership the way it's makers intended...probably not...but I'm making friends and I've learned a helluva lot from the Forums in the last year. It feels worth it to me. I haven't compromised my principles or ethics in any way and I've slowlygrown as a person in a direction that I'd always neglected. Namely women and me. I'm confident and largely content, and that's all that matters.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think there's a lot of people who are not entirely sure what they want. I'm not saying I'm not one of them, but I know I am sure of some things. Honesty is one of them. I just want a woman to be straight up with me right from the start. If it's a one off, no dramas. This site breeds that. If it's ongoing, great. If you change your mind, that's just life. Just say so. Being honest prevents a lot of drama long term.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ultimately someone who is into similar kinds of kink, who is attracted to me as much as I am to them, who is willing to explore sexually, for real and not just talks about it.
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RHP User
11 years ago
As someone who is reserved and private being on RHP is a brave move for me. But I love sex. A relationship would be nice but not sure I want one yet. RPH let's me explore what I may want- that includes googling some terms!- until I pluck up the courage to go and meet. I have been on this site a few years back and did meet 2 guys. They were so boring in the bedroom I was unsatisfied. Hence my reluctance now. But hope remains, now to refind the courage. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
The forum is reason enough to be here, I've made some cyber friends here which is great. The exchange of knowledge and views makes the Pie worth coming back to.Yes I' also looking for sexcapades (love that word) but I don't expect to find many here on RHP luckily I have had better luck elsewhere on sites the don't have a forum.
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abcplus1
11 years ago
Well a single unicorn will do lol. As already said, we have each other and despite being together for 28 or so years, we still like and enjoy each other. But we also love to involve and be involved with someone else. A mutually respectful friendship with trust...... and sex.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Banyo' Well about to bail out so here is my view. Married the wrong person (my problem) but still believed the bullshit that "there is some one for every one" - think an old girlfriend had it right - "you made your bed - lie in it"All I get here is lies; no shows; and dreamers.Just looking for flirts - maybe meets - bed would be a bonus.MY experience is it's all bullshit - maybe nobody want 60+ with experience - that"s OK just have the integrity to say so.Basically FUCK OFF No, I would pretty much say it is your aggressive profile, the fact that you are married and don't practice safe sex. Not appealing to most.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Banyo' Well about to bail out so here is my view. Married the wrong person (my problem) but still believed the bullshit that "there is some one for every one" - think an old girlfriend had it right - "you made your bed - lie in it"All I get here is lies; no shows; and dreamers.Just looking for flirts - maybe meets - bed would be a bonus.MY experience is it's all bullshit - maybe nobody want 60+ with experience - that"s OK just have the integrity to say so.Basically FUCK OFF was that
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RHP User
11 years ago
Your looks remind me of Sid from Carry On... however unfortunately you lack his humour... basically cold like I'm expecting your bed to be. Lighten up, be a man and sort out your bed, and sorry we don't care to hear you pour another glass of whine... well until cheery Sid from Carry On comes out :p If you're not laughing at least once in bed, then you're with the wrong person ;)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Not going to add anything further. He did a way better job of highlighting the problem than I could. DG
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RHP User
11 years ago
Anything from an attentive lover, to a hot couple or a group of like minded people having fun and an enjoyable time. I love being part of a situation where a woman experiences her desires and fantasies. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
We weren't looking for friendship on here but surprisingly found great ones on here :-)
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RHP User
10 years ago
looking for older women for great time - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
That want to embrace why they are here, whatever the reason...as most of us have different reasons but a common mindset.Fun, naughty, respectful, open minded, intelligence - qualities we look for.
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RHP User
10 years ago
VerticalDancer. I have studied the Law of Attraction and use it in my life daily with great success. The it's one thing for you to put out to the Universe what you desire but if you're not actually believing it exists or feel it you have resistance and that will stop it from coming to you. Your subconscious beliefs must change to allow your desires to manifest. Imagine we all have our own personal escrow the Universe is holding on to waiting for use to vibrate at the same frequency with it. Every time you experience what you don't want you tell the Universe what you do want, it's just waiting for you to align with it. Here are my guidelines to manifesting............. How To Manifest Intentions 1. Go to a place where you feel completely calm and you are alone with your thoughts. If you have a regular place you go to fantasize or relax, go there. Some people prefer at night, before sleeping, to manifest thoughts. The more relaxed you can possibly make yourself, the better. However, if you do this in bed, there is a high risk that you may fall asleep upon relaxing to a certain extreme. Try to keep the goal, but don't let it side track you while you relax your body, clear your head, and prepare to program the intention into your subconscious. 2. Clear all thoughts from your head. If thoughts come, simply observe them and let them pass. Do not engage them; that is, do not try to force them out of your head and do not let yourself become distracted by them. 3. Think of all of the happiest moments of your life, and decide what meant the most to you during those moments. Really let yourself get into it and feel that glow of pride and self confidence wash into you. Anything is possible while you are visualizing, and there is no reason you should downsize any of your desires to something "more achievable." You can do anything you set your mind to, and don't let any of your old prejudices and brainwashing fool you into thinking any differently. 4. Visualize. Create a clear picture of what you want. Make it like a very detailed movie; interact with other people in this movie. Take notices of intricate decorations, the temperature, the overall feel of the area. Imagine what smell is there, what artwork is on the wall, what people are wearing, what you are wearing, what you are doing. Make sure you are happy in this vision, and add a lot of your own individual tastes. You could be visualizing the success of a business you haven't started, or visualize yourself starting that business, buying a house, decorating, taking a vacation. Anything you wish to someday do. Do not worry about how you would go about getting it, or even if it is possible. Just create this vision, and become completely absorbed in the vision. 5. Expect this to happen to you at some point in your life. Fill yourself with the anticipation and excitement as if it were a sure thing. Create as much energy as you possibly can during this step. That is the most important part of ensuring that your vision will come to life. Do not let any negative or self-debilitating comments thwart your efforts. I hope this helps you or anyone else reading this thread. I speak from personal experience that we are the creators of our reality. Less than a year ago I got myself into a horrible situation with me ex-husband. I feared him and that allowed a lot of bad things to manifest into my life. He assaulted me, stopped paying child support when I went to the police, my youngest child was not school age and I had 2 weeks to find full time work that would pay rent and feed for of us, mind you I'd been a stay at home mum for 9 years and there were zero child care places available. We ended up being evicted from our home, I was broke, in debt, and devastated. It wasn't until I crossed paths with someone who shared the power of manifesting with me that I changed my life within month. This is no way is a sob story, I'm not looking for sympathy. It's merely an example of what can happen when you empower yourself and change your beliefs. All the best! Simone
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Enjoylifealways
10 years ago
Looking for a group of friends with benefits to socialise with and have great sex :)
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