What do Singular men get out of an MMF threesome as the third wheel?

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  I like it from the woman enjoying the doubling of pleasure/pain/submission . Yes, if meeting the actual premise of sex increases , as I have found these couples arent out to muck you around . Have also been in a cuckold situation where the husband was humiliated .Definately love seeing a submissive slut pounded in more than one hole or dped in the same hole and often squirters as a result . The lady is mostly the one who relaxes into it , some partners have been slightly jealous at ability or results , or too directing as the lady may want sex in a different style . Third wheel should discuss rules at the outset and respect boundaries and relationship dynamics . - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  For me a lot of it comes down to the fact that I love seeing, and feeling, a beautiful woman being pleasured. It adds an element of excitement to sex. There is a lot more you can do when there are 4 hands, 2 mouths and 2 cocks pleasuring a woman. I have had lots of conversations with guys, and ladies but this is about the guys, around threesomes, ffm, fmf, mfm & mmf. I think there are lots of reasons why different ppl like them. A lot of it will come down to their sexual preferences and what type of threesome is on the table. I have found a lot of the time, it can be more relaxing with a couple. They already feel comfortable with each other, so the atmosphere is quite different to 2 brand new ppl together. Dont get me wrong the excitement of that is great as well. Just different. I do have to say a lot of guys seem keen for it to happen then get could feet. Well I have seen this a few time. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Depends if you're talking about a ''straight'' MMF or a ''bi'' MMF. Me, I like either. A straight MMF is good from a voyeuristic point of view. Watching a couple have sex whilst actually participating is a huge turn-on for me. I like to adopt the ''I'll be where you want me and do what you want me to do'' approach so you don't look like you're just out to get your jollies and then bugger off - which apparently happens a lot. A bi MMF for me is just bliss - the man and woman both get to experience pleasure from me, there usually is no voyeuristic side as either party usually wants you to be doing something to them - or them to you. There apparently is no shortage of men out there who use a threesome just to ''get at'' the woman. Fools! They are likely not going to be asked back, and they are missing out on the sheer pleasure of being a plaything that brings a smile to a couples dials. If you are looking into having a threesome OP, take your time - screen out the barrage of offers you will receive. Message/chat a bit to get to know them a bit, meet them in a neutral place with a ''no obligation'' agreement to get to know them a little more. Take your time - but please, for the love of god do not fail to show if you do arrange a meet'n'greet. From the other side of the fence, it's really bloody annoying.

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Asking the question :- What's the difference between a wife and a hooker?? The answer....with a hooker you keep your house and car when you leave.... As misogynistic as that sounds, there are obviously going to be those that aren't looking for interactions that can lead to the dreaded feels......and for whatever the reason....but couples aren't really going to want anything more than just a friends with benefits right?? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Granted, this is probably a minority motivation, but for me it's the whole thing of having both a male and a female energy in the room at the same time. As someone who's attracted to both, there's nothing hotter than having both around at the same time. I can't think of anything hotter than playing with a cock with one hand and a boob with the other at the same time.... (And yes, I get that the majority of guys looking for MMF threesomes here are straight, and not into the m2m part of it at all. But that's just my personal two cents anyway)

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  Sawadee

  8 years ago

  In other words ' I'm not Bi . I'm not out every weekend looking to please every couple that comes along , it don't happen that way. When I was in a committed relationship , one of the things we ventured into was a MFM scenario , twice in fact . We first meet with choosen guys for a coffee or drink to see if she felt there was attraction. Then we would go home and talk about wether it felt right , or pass.. When she felt good about the guy, her excitement went up a few levels. Once she decided , I'd contact the guy and arrange a meeting . On both occasions , the meet was at least a week away. This caused her excitement level to grow by the day. On the day , she was like a teenager preparing herself for a first date , by the time we got into the car she was electric. In reality , it was never a true MFM, because I never got involved , but she wanted me to be there for her safety and I was happy to watch anyway. That's what got me interested to become the 'bull ' as they say. I knew the satisfaction angle and I could pass that on to other couples wanting to step outside their comfort zone and add something totally new to their sex life.. I've since had the pleasure of being the third party several times , some twice. I never contact them , I'm happy to wait til they contact me , then I know they are on the same wave length. Finally , not all guys are in it just for a root even though that's the bonus. If we hit it off and everyone is happy , it's one of the most rewarding gifts one can give his wife / girlfriend.. Jay..

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  Haleakala

  8 years ago

  I'm not entirely sure why I enjoy mmf so much but there is something very exciting about joining a couple. It's not about trying to win over the female and running off, in fact almost the opposite it's much more about the interaction being less likely to lead to anything serious. I have found that couples tend to know what they want and how they want the single guy to interact with them and so it is often fairly relaxed and easy going. I don't identify as bi, but really that's just semantics. In a mmf I'm more than happy for mm bi play. There's something about the whole environment that allows inhibitions to be shed. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  kerningpairs

  8 years ago

  Love this question. The experiences I have with couples are all characterised by mutual, meaningful exploration. Couples exploring the edges of their relationship. Trying things that bring up vulnerabilities. Transitioning across ancient territories of desire, fear and language. For me this is beautiful and moving. I was never strong enough to negotiate this in my LTRs and I admire people who take these journeys. In this context I've played a role in several men exploring their bisexuality for the first time. Another extraordinary transition. When I did this at age 18 it had a profound impact on my life. I still recall the mirror neuron symphony as I held him, kissed him, felt him harden in my hands, my mouth. Our journeys here aren't just about physical pleasure. We are re-engineering ourselves. Becoming more. Last night I met a couple from here. Beautiful people. Intelligent, attractive, exploratory. We talked for hours, shared a meal, kissed and called it a night. A perfect night where we communicated deeply about intimacy, desire and openness. This is why I am attracted to couples. :)

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