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What do men really think of Big Girls?
September 16 2008
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RHP User
17 years ago
Probably a boring answer, but I think it depends on the guy. It seems to be a fetish for some guys. For me, personality is also an important factor and an attractive face will win a lot of guys over. Like with all people, there are good and bad - this site seems to attract its fair share of fakes and d_ckheads, both male and female - many males have trouble detaching their big brain from their little one, and many guys need to learn to take time over sex - I don't just think this applies to just larger girls, some guys just have no idea or don't care about satisfying their female partner- but chin up, not all guys are dickheads and nice guys will come along!
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RHP User
17 years ago
You are going to meet all sorts of people on here, and they are all going to have different opinions about size, the best advice I can give you is to take your time and get to know people, you’ll be able to tell who is genuine and who is full of s#*t.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Okay well I can't answer this for the other guys so i'll just say what my thoughts are. I personally don't go for larger women, but I don't go for stick insects either, I like women to be slim to average, maybe even athletic build. I try not to lead people on so I wouldn't lie to get a root. I prefer to get to know my partner a bit before getting intimate as it helps establish trust and any boundaries. We don't have to be marriage material, but we do have to be friends at least. As for guys wanting to get their wick wet, yes we can detach ourselves if we want to, and thats why sometimes we make a hasty exit afterwards.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Hi there - my observation is that it depends on a couple of things: 1. Some guys are just not into big girls 2. The attitude and confidence of the girl. In my case I actually much prefer larger girls - as long as they have a relaxed and open attitude to sex. A horny and sensual big girl who enjoys her body and that of her partners is so much more preferable than a stick insect with hang-ups. My 5 cents worth :)
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RHP User
17 years ago
i for one find big girls a massive turn on. big boobs big bums so much more to hold onto. the big girls that i have been out with or slept with have all been so sexy and dirty and really up for a good time.i love taking my time with a big girl as she has so much to give than skinny birds. so iam voting for the bigger girls.
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RHP User
17 years ago
As a bbw i love my body and enjoy being naked with my partners,they all love the soft round curves and white fleshy bits to bite and nibble... I do believe if you state your bigger in your profile then its up for the taking.... I have yet to be treated like a fake fanny and at times sense how turned on my body can make a man..
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RHP User
17 years ago
Surely it's simply a matter of personal taste. Both of us would not even consider sexual encounters with larger women, particularly in group situations. It's just not what we are looking for. We both actually find the term Big Beautiful Woman a contradiction in itself. Our reason for joining this site is to meet others purely for sex and explore OUR fantasies, which do not include large women, or men! We don't think anyone should be fooled into thinking this site is really anything else than a swinger / hook up site. If you are looking for more, you are probably wasting your time. That could be where you are running into issues. Without generalising TOO much, check out the profiles of larger women. Many want more than a "one night stand." Also check out the chat rooms and notice how many of the single females are on the larger side. It seems to be tilted disproportionately towards "BBW (aside from the males masturbating). Look, it takes all types to make this world go round, and there's been some comments from guys who prefer bigger women, but if you are looking for people to bask in the afterglow of sex and fix you a cuppa in the morning, you might just want to think about your choice of "dating" site. Just to reiterate, there is nothing wrong with large people - they just aren't on OUR agenda for SEXUAL play. Does this help?
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RHP User
17 years ago
Reckon it's just a matter of personal taste. Some will go for it, some won't. Be a bit boring if everybody went for the same thing.
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RHP User
17 years ago
No-one would kill you for your thoughts, as we all have our own and no one person is everyone's "cup of tea" Some like the play meets only but some like more (not meaning relationships) thats fine too The good thing about this site is that it can cater to all agendas whether its an on-going play friend or fulfilling fantasies As for the chat rooms yes majority of cams are guys masterbating and some are larger women but also slimmer ladies are there too...Maybe not all are comfortable camming ....and alot would be single or they may find they would be spending quality with their partner Personally I find the net is good company when I'm home and my son is asleep...its not too late and I'm not tired anyway hope you are all out there and having fun Plenty of room on this site for us all gotta love spell check
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RHP User
17 years ago
JANDJ... I totally get what you have posted, it is all about preferences. I just find that if guys are going to be honest about what they want, put it on the profiles. Say you want slim, lean and athletic. Most guys just put down they want a great personality and someone nice... well I'm nice and I have a great personality... what they don't put down is that they have a specific idea of what they want in their heads re body and are rude when they either reply or do not bother to reply, leaving a girl hanging going.... what tha? So many guys complain of being jerked around. Happens to girls too, usually after the guy has done his business. Being honest, most of us are on here to find "someone"...maybe not "the someone", but all the same, as humans we crave human connection. I have a complex, I admit it. I hate the thought of a guy seeing me naked and him thinking "uggggggh, this chick is not what I wanted to shag but I'll get my load off and fuck off because she's convenient". it may also be that I have not had a decent orgasm in quite a while where I actually felt satisfied because the guys are over and done so quickly I wonder why I bothered to even shower and shave my snatch, it's not like he spent any time down there to notice. It does come down to personal tastes, as does everything in life, but at the same time, I would put forward that a girl with a personality and a large arse will still have a personality if the large arse becomes smaller, and probably the awesome sex drive she did when she was bigger. Maybe guys ned to think about whats really going on beneath the surface to find the right girl for them, rather than just the externals.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Just think if they dont take the time to enjoyyou as a person aswell as the all over adventure.... its their loss dont beat yourself up just look harder for the best man for the job .....LOL
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RHP User
17 years ago
Take a group of 4 gals of roughly equal prettiness and the same age - varying from thing to voluptuous to any pub or night club - you will have your answer from the behaviour of the guys there
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RHP User
17 years ago
Well Miss_Phoenix, your spot on about the detached brain bit, men (in general) dont have to have feelings for someone in order to have sex. I think that basically if your conserned about body size your looking for sex and if your not overly concerned about it your looking for a relationship, of some sort. It is a sorry fact that people, big and small, get lied to for the sake of sex. It is also a fact that not all people are good at sex, a size 10 body doesnt make you a perfect lay, nice to look at according to some, but sometimes thats about it. We all have limits and preferences and for the younger, they also have pier pressure. Maybe you should look outside the square yourself if your constantly meeting the same "type" of root rat. good luck PD
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RHP User
17 years ago
Big girls rule !! I love having a confident woman no matter what her size is. The thing I find is that the way girls carry themselves, dress, speak, attitude and demeanor all come into play. Size is never an issue if your personality is right and you take care of yourself. It saddens me how big girls feel so self conscious when they look absolutely incredible. Guys who use big girls just for a quickie dont realise what theyre missing out on in the long run and myself , personally , I'd much rather have a big girl who loves to smile, laugh and use her sexiness to her advantage then have a stuck up, self loving, brainless twig. Just my opinion
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RHP User
17 years ago
Hiya Miss Phoenix...I read your topic with interest and just couldn't resist replying...yes...it's true....you've dragged me out of my corner....you are the first person on this site to entice me to post something...so a big "congratulations" to you ;-) Most of my partners/lovers have been "big" girls...at least, they certainly weren't on the "thin" side, though I have had several lovers who had slim bodies as well, and personally I have never found the body shape makes a hell of a lot of difference...allow me to explain... For me sex is a mental thing....I mean lets face it...as a guy I can "get off" in about 10 seconds with my hand if I really want to....that's a no-brainer for most guys I think... When I'm with a partner however, there are so many factors that influence whether I enjoy the experience or not...and for me this has nothing to do with body size... The look on your partners face during sex, whether they vocalise (that's make noises for all you 12 year old boys perving here btw), how enthusiastically their bodies respond, how imaginative and playful they are, and how sexually aggressive (or passive - depending on the presence of any roleplay) they are all contribute to the experience... There are so many factors that make up a sexual encounter that I doubt I can list them all...in fact I'm probably not even consciously aware of some of them. I have had sex with women who were "big", and they were awesome lovers...it had nothing to do with their weight....the truth is they knew how to fuck, and they loved it... I've also had sex with girls who had bodies that would easily grace a magazine cover, and they were crap in bed... But the same goes both ways of course... Personally, what I look for in a sex partner/lover/life-partner is sexual enthusiasm...I don't give a crap what the number on the scales says... Cheers Dark Horse 69 xxx
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RHP User
17 years ago
I like your honesty, there are plenty of opinionated dishonest people out there. They do say a picture tells a thousand words, but I think the truth is that if you see someone that takes your fancy size doesnt matter as much as attitude, and pictures generally dont tell you about attitude. So don't judge a book by its cover and take a chance you might like what you find. (F@#K was that too "deep") Good luck in your search 69ok69
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RHP User
17 years ago
i find that bbw are usually more adventurous and generally are more fun when it comes down to business.they are more fun socially too.... just my opinion
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RHP User
17 years ago
when I saw this topic I just had to have a look ... being a bbw I must say I am gladdened that there are still some men out there who are not hung up on the whole "barbie doll" ideal ...there is hope yet lol
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RHP User
17 years ago
I think bigger women are better lovers. They seem to be more fun and will laugh a bit too, sex is fun and should be treated as such. Personally i like women with 2 digits in their dress size.....lol. Thin women when having sex seem to think they are in some stupid rnb film clip and have to pose or something and i hate stomach muscles on women....yuk. My perfect woman is about size 14-18...yummy. say the word voluptuous 3 times and see how sexy it sounds......lol
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RHP User
17 years ago
Like most of the comments on here, I tend to agree that it depends on a persons confidence and how they feel about themselves. Personally I think a BBW is hotter than a rail thin skinny girl with no curves. Being a big guy myself I would worry I might snap them in two.
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RHP User
17 years ago
As far as friendship goes it doesn't matter to me what their body size is , but for their to be any sexual interest, i find i am only attracted to slim girls, a size 14 would be the limit. muscly girls i find a total turn off, whatever their size. Curiously with guys, body size is not important at all and have been with slim guys through to obese guys. Cheers Nev
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RHP User
17 years ago
Big Girls are great. The Rubenesque figure is something to marvel at, I think a lot of men will not admit to liking a bigger girl but I am sure it envokes that motherly feeling that we are all supposed to yearn for.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Sweet & Simple Answer: Each To Thier Own. I Like Small. I Also Like Bums Over Breasts, I Prefer Pussies Over Mouths. It's A Wide, Wierd World Out There And That Is The Beauty Of Being Sexual People. The Idea Though Is To Choose What You Like & Do Not Ever Demean What You Dont Like! *HUG*
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RHP User
17 years ago
now that shazz and i have stopped drooling over your profile,,,,, there are fake people here on RHP, we are a larger couple who openly say no single men please, yet 200 guys try to get shazz on a regular basis, its another notch in the belt or bedpost, as a larger couple were (funnily enough) attracted to larger couples and we have more friendships than playmates, its how were orientated, as for finding a longer term relationship, thats a question i cant answer because i dont know,,,, shit shazz is in the shower now, so i cant ask her opinion! good luck hun,
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RHP User
17 years ago
Well id have to say no matter what size u are it comes down to confidence in urself, you have those days when u just feel sexy and they are the days when you will turn a head or two so no matter what you feel like when u wake up ,think to urself ur the hottest person walking down that street and i garantee u will radiate that !!
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RHP User
17 years ago
ive been the 50 kilo yummy mummy if u call them that up until about 30 and never had a problem gettin men sexually ive always confident then about the age of 31 someone stuk fertilizer in my food and i started growing bigger and never had problems getting men even now and im at my biggest atm size 16 im spread evenly i dont have huge boobs there just average size im curvy womanly im more self conscience though atm as ive gained alot the last yr but i still get spunky men with great bodies and average men to im not miss barbie or miss universe either im me most men like women who r naughty simple lol big or small if they reject u so what u prolly reject men to its human nanture we cant b attracted to everyone.yr attractive with all yr lovely lady bumps embrace it
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RHP User
16 years ago
After much contemplation and chatter I have come up with some thoughts on this subject.First off. I am unashamedly attracted to big women. It hasn't always been the case. When I was younger I don't really think I even knew that it was an exclusive attraction of mine so I went about going out with all different sizes of women. I think it really started to click with me in my 30s that the women that I really enjoyed being with sexually were bigger sized. I would also say that seeing the appearance of BBW magazines, internet porn, and the creation of the term BBW itself helped to solidify where I stood.From my observation I have found that there a few different types of guys that are into bigger women.1-There are the guys who just want sex and are not really interested at all in their size.2-There are guys that truly love larger women but they are trapped in the world of what television and their mates think. To them , their attraction to BBW is their secret fetish (technically BBW attraction is not a fetish but a preference) to be indulged as an affair while holding onto the ever important trophy wife.3- There are the guys that not only love the feel of a BBW and they have no problem in letting the world know.I think a good way to suss out if a guy is sincerely into BBW is to simply have a look at his porn collection. THAT is where the truth lies.. If his porn is all BBW titles then you have a true BBW lover. For me, the downside to having such a strong preference is that I feel that I am limiting the amount of possibilities for true love in my life. I just hate to think of all the cool smart funny quirky women out there who I would just fall head over heels for who are also skinny. It was with this in mind that I have tried dating smaller sized women. I tried and it just didn't feel as exciting. I would imagine it would be the same for a lot of women to be held by a guy thats about 4 foot tall.Thats all for now. If I think of anything else I'll post.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Its not about shape or size to me. Ive met some really wonderful "BBW" (is it only me that finds that expression patronising?). Very passionate and fun and sweet and kinky, just what i love. I have met some horrible ones with personality issues (to be polite). And the same with slimmer girls. If a lady is sexy, its how she acts and feels and how good you feel being with her. BUt when i think about it most of the women i have realy loved being with and valued as friends and playmates and lvoers have been bigger girls.... hmmm take care-deep.pasions
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tamworthguy46
16 years ago
Hi there I suppose the sumary of your posting is yes there are a lot of bullshit artists on these sorts of sites, and a lot of guys as everone knows will say anything to get into your pants,or add you to their list....their profiles probably don't look to different to the genuine ones....so who knows how to tell the difference ? I'm sorry that you have been the victim of some selfish guys that just give you half a fuck and go, never to be seen again.....And i find it deeply disterbing that you havn't had a decent orgasim for quite some time. Ive been with ladies that havn't wanted me to see them nekid,despite me saying that they are beautifull etc... and we have still had a good time ! You may have to try and do a little more screenining of your prospective lovers, and make shure that they are hot for larger ladies,through messages etc ! have a look at their friends list and see what percentage of bbw are in there ? I also seem to think that when i first meet someone,that you pretty much know weather your hot for each other or not, maybee you could go with your gut feelings a bit more before you offer up the candy....I know myself that i would much rather make love to someone that i like as a person .....or have a connection with....before i take other things into it..! ......sorry to be a bit blunt ! I hope you find someone considerate soon ! tam.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well i dont mind so much what shape size and race anyone is / But if i look at my past relationships as a guid i have not dated a big or larger girl... Yet i do have several as great friends...Honest answer
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RHP User
16 years ago
i think big girls are pretty damn sexy tbh. i find myself sexually attracted to a few bigger girls on here and other match maker sites.
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RHP User
16 years ago
i find big girls extremely sexy tbh. i have found myself sexually attracted to many of them on here and other sites.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I love the big girls, I want curves and skin, and something to hold. though I must admit that my limit is about size 16. Most of my partners have been about a 14-16. so they are the ones I go for and really get my motor humming.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Bloody nora!! Ok so lets get down to the finer details. How do you like your Monster 'phuck''s fat distributed? For example: big butt? Tummy cushions? Tree trunk legs? Carrying her size 16's on her chest? Speaking on behalf of a size 12-14 lower body and a size 16 up top, an answer to this particular question is imperative as to whether I dare show myself in public ever again. Oh and the size largely depends on where the garment was made. I have a few size 18 shirts in my wardrobe too....uhoh. Have we discovered a whole new sub group of fat chicks? Unevenly and disproportioned fatties.....Heaven help us!!!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I find at the end of the day, if a bbw has sexual confidence, then the size is not an issue. Its the confidence that is attractive, although I do like a woman with curves. As for someone having a limit of 14-16, not sure I understand this, isn't 14-16 the average size of women in this country, which suggests that if thats your size limit then you don't actually like larger women. Have always been a fan of the Queen song Fat Bottom Girls.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I GOTTA SAY I LOVE BBW AND AL SIZES HEY IF I HAD A TWIN BROTHER WILL BE GIVING AL BBW LOVING LOL ( BIG IS F#$*N BEAUTIFUL LOVE EM)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Sounds hot, wanna chat?
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RHP User
15 years ago
I think it depends, on both the guy and the girl. I personally am quite into bigger girls, but i've had a mix of encounters both good and bad, but neither had anything to do with the girls size, it was purely an attitude thing. If you're big, and have a great personality (confidence, or a sense of humour) then for me that's probably the biggest turn out. Girls who are proud of being BBW's.Also, I think in general, more guys are probably turned on by big girls than they are by skinny, borderline anorexic girls.
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RHP User
15 years ago
everyone is different, simple as that, keep looking you will find your man, we all like different things keep smiling
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RHP User
14 years ago
Personally I love them. BBW is big beautiful woman, and the more time i could spend with one, then the better it becomes for both of us. Any man that doesnt appreciate a big girl, need to have their head read, cause I believe that most men cant see the inner beauty, because they are too busy worried about getting there jollies off. I love the feel of a sexy large woman. and love to please and make them wanting for more. Throw away those skinny barbie dolls and give me a real woman.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Refer to my (m) post on attractive. Just met shy and she is hot!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Welcome to rhp lol :pThats the nature of this site, it is an adult dating/swingers site so the majority are looking for just that. If you find someone you connect with and it moves onto more great, if thats what you want.As for the big brain/little brain...yes, men are capable of settling on the woman who seems up for it at the time, then again so are woman. I've met people and slept with them and not contacted them again. It shouldnt be assumed that its just guys who do this.Confidence and personality will go a long way though, how many times do you a view a profile and see a slim woman having said they are ample and a large woman saying they are average. There are so many variables, tastes, turn ons, fetishes, fantasies and options, that there really is someone for everyone on here. And as a whinge will someone kill the term bbw please! The fact that a term has been made up for women who are overweight so they feel attractive is sad. If we all go on about seeing the person for who they are on the inside and not just their physical appearance, then you shouldnt need to identify with a term such as thin, sporty, bbw. It comes down honesty something which is severely lacking on this site a lot of the time. My profile says ample, I chose this because I have an ample amount of flesh to grab onto, in other words it's fat. Do I know its there, um yes, do I like it hmmm not really, am I comfortable with my appearance haha yes mostly... would refering to myself as a bbw make it better, NO. As the term pulls away from who I am and just whacks a nice shiney happy label on the flabby bits.
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RHP User
14 years ago
What is "big" ...size 12 , 14 , 16 etc ???It is about the Woman I believe ...she can be a size 18 and be sexy as hell , she could be a size 6 and lack confidence in her body ....Its like age ...its not about the digit.....well thats My take on it >; P
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RHP User
14 years ago
When I joined this site, I really didn't think I would interest anyone. Sure as hell wasn't in the real world. Confidence for me was a big issue as I basically didn't have any (hence the reason for joining). It still amazes me that I am of interest to others. Perhaps they are just wanting a quick, easy fuck and think lets go for the fat girls as they are bound to say yes. I am pretty good at picking these people out but if one or two have gotten through, not worried at all. I now have the confidence to say 'no', the confidence to put myself out there and be happy with myself. If I am not someone's 'cup of tea' that's fine as I know there will be someone else coming along soon enough. Would I get the same attention if I was at a bar or party, probably not but I am happy enough being on here and having the time of my life.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I am a recent size 16, having gone up from a 10 due to an illness. I found guys stopped hitting on me bars so I came online and I am finding plenty of action, including from fit attractive guys. I doubt I get as much attention as the skinny girls but I do just fine. That said I don't want to be anybody's fetish. And I hate the term BBW. I am a sexy girl who happens to have a large body. I find it is the slightly older guys (say 30 plus) who have less hang ups on size and go for all types. To them personality and sexual openness matters more. I think men really think, if they are smart, that great sex can be found in all sizes.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Does size matter? It does to some & not others, we all have our own preferences they are varied & wide this is what sets us apart. I love to see what I view as a healthy woman, bright eyes, happy smile & ample flesh on her body, I do not though point a finger at the naturally slim women, they too face similar challenges. More often than not they too are seen as just an orifice & easily accessible as the so called big girl in the corner. Im not a petite little blossom I love my curves as they dont impact my health I hold concerns for those devine women out there that may be compromising their well being both mentally & physically to challenge that bigger is better. I see first hand the struggles of my younger sister 5'5" sporting KK cups & pushing 100kgs. Im not out to insult however the health concerns of my sister & other voluptous friends are worrying me. Aside this the most important issue is being accepting of you as you are
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RHP User
14 years ago
Im not big- but bigger than I used to be. Loving my newer curves. My husband and I both find larger girls way more attractive than skinny with fake boobs, for example. Feel free to get in touch, bbws!!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hi! Frack_Me:) Oh! You Poor Love!! Hun The Issue isn't the Guys you're attracting but rather How You feel about yourself and sending Neg Vibes out receiving Just what your Subconscious feels you Deserve...= Neg Outcomes Therefore You Need to Know you're a Very Unique, Wonderful, Woman worthy of Guys Making Sweet Love to you ..Pleasure you as you will Them....Overcome your Self Love issue ....You do attract some Awesome Guys ..Now I'm 60yrs 38in Attitude but I know how Unique I am and so do The Guys I attract ...It's in My vibes....They want to know more... as do I about them before meeting . It works for Me and all Concerned ....I have Lovers from 25yrs -48yrs All are more than Happy with the outcome of our Sexual Encounter...! 1.Lover said to me " I'm like a Smorgasbord for the Eyes of Guys who Love BBW ....they don't know where to taste first...." We enjoy our Unique Sexual Experience and Continue to do so:) So you gather those Guys around you who appreciate all you have to offer and come back for more.. This is How.... 1. Check your Profile as a 3rd Person If you need to come across as More Positive ...know what you want then change it .......Your welcome to check out mine it may help.. 2.Reply to MSGs onsite ...When you have a Connection with the Guy ... 3 Exchange e-mail Addy's... Chat 1-1 on MSN/Yahoo a couple of times.. 4.When you feel ready Phone Chat a couple of times 5...Meet In Person.... If Chemistry then take it from there.. Never rush from Hi! to having Sex with a Virtual Stranger.. .Being Selective taking time allows them to show their Agenda soon enough ...Morons who want a Fuck Buddies don't care who are too Impatient and don't stick around.. You show that you value yourself and you will attract the Interest and more from Quality Guys .. It works Big Time for Me ...No Reason why It won't for you Hun .. Good Luck! Hun :) I hope you enjoy those Sexy Guys who'll be coming your way .. Ciao Lu :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
JandJ .......... We are with you all the way ......
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RHP User
14 years ago
Iam a larger frame girl and have always been upfront and honest with the guys I have met up with that iam not a stick figure so they are aware. I am a confident person and think Iam sexy regardless of my size and they see this and like the confidence I display, so really its all about just being honest, speaking to the person and being comfortable with them, its pretty easy to judge them and the siuation after speaking to them....I have only had one out of say 100 not like that fact that im a larger frame girl so I think thats not too bad...Also just cause they dont come back I dont think its related to weight more just thats how it is Ive found and its not personal.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I think that the guys that use women will do that to any womanand r prob that type if person. However i still come the guys who want honesty an openess etc but they dont do it themselves its all part of the process and stick to your guns do what is right for you and yes it is frustrating sometimes. I am too small for bbw sites and too big for reg sites but still want a guy just have to keep trying. I dont like a skinny guy in bed so everyone has preferences and noone wants to be the chick that will do.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Sorry but slim and trimmed does it for me...fat and flabby, nooooooo!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Been with petite girls who are dead sexy, been with larger woman who are dead sexy. Lady I was with the other day got my rocks off twice inside an hour (miracle for me) and she told me before we met she wasn't slender. She was fun - definitely an active participant. I had a great time. We both 'got off' more than once - never met before. Meet her again at the drop of a hat. Model-like looks have something to do with overt sexiness, but perhaps not satisfaction in the final analysis. Someone who has the vibe that they are happy for you to get down'n'dirty with them and vice versa is probably more important. Mark.
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RHP User
14 years ago
what do the ladies think of fat men. Are they thought of with such high esteem as are BBW? Are the curves on a fat man as sexy as a larger sized woman? Can a fat man rely on his personality? Im not a fat man but am not as trim as i was 5 or 10 years ago so i am curious to know what ladies on rhp think.
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RHP User
14 years ago
A lot of women who are big seem to describe themselves as BBWs. There are big girls who can be very sexy, sensuous and beautiful,there are others who are not. It is a matter of your attitude and how you present yourself. This also applies to smaller women too. The term BBW is a greatly misused term and it seems to me that some women use it to describe themselves in the hope that it makes then beautiful. We never see the term SBW used for small beautiful women do we.
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RHP User
14 years ago
It's nice to hear this coming from a guymy experience of it is, we all have preferencesnice guys will always be gentlemenand assholes will be assholeswhen i was a teenage uberfit size 8 ice-skater and as a 37 year old (gorgeously proportioned) size 14, this hasn't changed
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Tirazall'Welcome to rhp lol :pThats the nature of this site, it is an adult dating/swingers site so the majority are looking for just that. If you find someone you connect with and it moves onto more great, if thats what you want.As for the big brain/little brain...yes, men are capable of settling on the woman who seems up for it at the time, then again so are woman. I've met people and slept with them and not contacted them again. It shouldnt be assumed that its just guys who do this.Confidence and personality will go a long way though, how many times do you a view a profile and see a slim woman having said they are ample and a large woman saying they are average. There are so many variables, tastes, turn ons, fetishes, fantasies and options, that there really is someone for everyone on here. And as a whinge will someone kill the term bbw please! The fact that a term has been made up for women who are overweight so they feel attractive is sad. If we all go on about seeing the person for who they are on the inside and not just their physical appearance, then you shouldnt need to identify with a term such as thin, sporty, bbw. It comes down honesty something which is severely lacking on this site a lot of the time. My profile says ample, I chose this because I have an ample amount of flesh to grab onto, in other words it's fat. Do I know its there, um yes, do I like it hmmm not really, am I comfortable with my appearance haha yes mostly... would refering to myself as a bbw make it better, NO. As the term pulls away from who I am and just whacks a nice shiney happy label on the flabby bits. Quoting 'Tirazall'Welcome to rhp lol :pThats the nature of this site, it is an adult dating/swingers site so the majority are looking for just that. If you find someone you connect with and it moves onto more great, if thats what you want.As for the big brain/little brain...yes, men are capable of settling on the woman who seems up for it at the time, then again so are woman. I've met people and slept with them and not contacted them again. It shouldnt be assumed that its just guys who do this.Confidence and personality will go a long way though, how many times do you a view a profile and see a slim woman having said they are ample and a large woman saying they are average. There are so many variables, tastes, turn ons, fetishes, fantasies and options, that there really is someone for everyone on here. And as a whinge will someone kill the term bbw please! The fact that a term has been made up for women who are overweight so they feel attractive is sad. If we all go on about seeing the person for who they are on the inside and not just their physical appearance, then you shouldnt need to identify with a term such as thin, sporty, bbw. It comes down honesty something which is severely lacking on this site a lot of the time. My profile says ample, I chose this because I have an ample amount of flesh to grab onto, in other words it's fat. Do I know its there, um yes, do I like it hmmm not really, am I comfortable with my appearance haha yes mostly... would refering to myself as a bbw make it better, NO. As the term pulls away from who I am and just whacks a nice shiney happy label on the flabby bits. Just what we were going to write! Why the need for the term BBW? As soon as I read that it immediately conjures up the idea of someone unhappy with themselves who needs to cling to a positive label to project a different image. Why a label, aren't we all just people? Different shapes, different sizes, different personalities.
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Bare78
14 years ago
I just honestly hate the term BBW. Yes you're Big, Yes, you're a woman, but that doesn't go and automatically make you Beautiful also. It's no different to thin chicks thinking they are hot simply because they are skinny. It simply doesn't work like that.
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RHP User
14 years ago
There is a similar thread going on elsewhere http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Why-do-men-say-they-prefer-a-larger-figured-woman-truely-36039-Page7#Last Maybe get a few different angles on it.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I wouldn't say I am attracted to 'fat' girls per se, but I have had a few girls who were overweight. I was attracted to other things in them.I would certainly say that a curvy figure is more attractive than too skinny, (sorry skinny girls, you are still pretty. No don't throw up in the toilet or cigarette burn your arms - kisses X X X), but curves are more 'womanly' whereas very slim girls can be a bit 'boyish' (for my taste). Also big girls with wide hips and big boobs can be just adorable. I can't get excited with reed thin girls who look like they need to eat something, (unless they want to eat me.)There is more to a woman that just physical ideals portrayed by a biased media. All women are different and all those who are attracted to women have different tastes. To each their own.
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tiger_25
14 years ago
i've dated a few larger girls in my life, i believe in not judging people in their physical appearance but more aim at what makes them unique personality wise. Majority of them are still close friends and i have all the time in the world for them, and i dated them for a reason, and it wasn't purely physical :)i don't go much for the "skinny" girls as that doesn't appeal to me, as i believe as most do, curves make the woman, not the weight ... but, that's just me :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
I have a favourite little mantra that i trot out now and then, which is that " Sexy doesn't have a tag with a dress size on it" Sex appeal, sensuality, raw unadulterated raunch occasionally, is state of mind, an attitude. That self confidence that a woman, or a man, has when they look at you and have that " i see you lookin at me' glint in their eye. Its about being comfortable and confident in who you are, and what you are wanting at that moment in your life. I interact with a range of people every day in my profession, and have a reputation for being pretty good at reading people, I've met lots of insecure, needy women at both ends of the size spectrum, granted their insecurities are often for different reasons. I've also met lots of happy, engaging and very appealing ones who are also at either end of the dress rack. For me, give me great skin, bright eyes, a 10,00 "killerwatt" smile and please please please , the ability to engage in stimulating SOCIAL intercourse. That'll get my motor running every time !
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RHP User
8 years ago
BBWs rule!! Each to their own. The best fuck I had in my life was with a size 26 ...... faaark me what a ride!!!!! Woohoo!! She had huge tits and a big arse. I just love seeing big women in the nude, so beautiful. Just typing the response has the blood flowing lmao. Personally anything around the 16/18/20/22/24/26 is just gold! Why? To be brutally honest BBWs are sex on legs. You’re looking at a beautiful big arse from behind, beautiful big tits from the front. Skinny girls are beautiful of course too but they’re just like a man without cock and balls!! Big and curvy to me is WOMAN.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I'm not overly fasted by it all.....in saying that not many if any girls out there would want a bigger size bloke ( be it a root or anything more )
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'matureisbest' I think bigger women are better lovers. They seem to be more fun and will laugh a bit too, sex is fun and should be treated as such. Personally i like women with 2 digits in their dress size.....lol. Thin women when having sex seem to think they are in some stupid rnb film clip and have to pose or something and i hate stomach muscles on women....yuk. My perfect woman is about size 14-18...yummy. say the word voluptuous 3 times and see how sexy it sounds......lol Quoting 'gigglz' when I saw this topic I just had to have a look ... being a bbw I must say I am gladdened that there are still some men out there who are not hung up on the whole "barbie doll" ideal ...there is hope yet lol
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RHP User
8 years ago
lick them and suck them any day hmmm
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