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What do you prefer? Do you ladies give bigger men a chance?
March 22 2025
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OpalRose
one year ago
You loaded this question didn’t you. I think you’ll find most women prefer personality. But they can also pick the personality that has the looks they are attracted to. Lots of choices on here.
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Ex007
one year ago
Ohhhh Sandra is foaming at the mouth for this one. This is not just a post, it somewhat appears as a Red Flag Parade, Led by a budget Andrew Tate impersonator with sunglasses and a beard that looks like it was applied via lawnmower accident. My advice drop the Andrew Tate look a like photos and share some of your personality in your profile. One line isn't going to get anyone far. Sandra says the mystery is sexy, but not when it looks like you’re hiding behind both your sunnies and a personality void.
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Flirty2020
one year ago
🍿
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BiPeggyGal
one year ago
We could make a Tent City with the Red Flags, bitter mcouchie!!
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MsSuperFoxy
one year ago
Absolutely no one can talk me or persuade me into anything I choose not to do. Doesnt matter if they have "Great Skills" of the tounge or not - it's not going to happen. Ms Foxy
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RHP User
one year ago
Sounds like he fancies himself as a bit of a chatter.........ever tried being a ventriloquist ??
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KingQueenTease
one year ago
I chose personality, banter and if I’m feeling it and I’m somewhat attracted to you then I don’t necessarily say no. But I can confirm I’m not just going to fuck anything that walks and has a dick…I’m not that low.
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Mr_MrsJones
one year ago
Mrs Jones says, When I am looking at people on here I ALWAYS read the bio because it gives away much more than the photos. If you message then there has to be something in the message that makes me interested no matter how pretty you are. When meeting in person the same applies. A guy can punch above his weight if he has personality and charm as long as it isn't fake or put on.
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RHP User
one year ago
Interesting but I tend to think that the talking and speaking well and considerately with some flirtatious banter can get you somewhere on a strictly dating site. But here being what it is, an initial attraction of some sort is more or less needed. I have found both here and on pure dating sites because I do speak well and am a decent guy, if you do find that attraction through what you say. When it comes to meeting unless the physical attraction is there those words count for nothing. Just my personal experience anyways
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FeistyFatty
one year ago
Your question reads pretty gross and you loaded it showing perfectly just how bitter you must be feeling with the site .... And the women on here. Me personally, being happily married .... I base my initial attraction purely on looks naturally. One only gets an invite (for group play) if they have the desired personality though. If I'm just looking for a Ninja Fuck to knock boots with in the next hour ..... Its 100% looks and c*ck that I'm interested in. And yes, I see the hypocrisy lol. Especially being a fatty myself but I have zero attraction to fat men.
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Ourmalibu
one year ago
Nope! I’m allowed to be picky 😊
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seekandplay
one year ago
I don’t think being picky = being shallow. I should be picky who I decide to give my body to.
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Felicitous
one year ago
When I was looking I was unapologetically 'picky'. If someone thinks that's 'shallow' and pairs those words together... that speaks more about their maturity or lack there of.
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nightingale8
one year ago
That’s quite a skill to insult yourself while insulting others
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Brian_Breynolds
one year ago
Online is completely different to meeting someone in person. There’s no tone of voice, no smell, no body language, no laughter, no eye contact, no touch, etc. Not to mention the very first impression someone gets of you is an image that takes up half of your screen. Then you have to scroll past a bunch of statistics before you get to a bio and common interests. So naturally, looks are going to take a much higher priority online than they do in person.
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RHP User
one year ago
I think you need to be careful putting shallow and picky in the same sentence. I have met many a good looking guy who has zero personality. It turns me off. Met many a good looking guy who thinks he is gods gift to women and how could I dare turn him away. That’s a turn off. Many a good looking guy who is sleazy and crude. Major turnoff. You can be as skilled as you want in the bedroom and smooching on women however if you are shallow and have no personality and don’t treat me as a human being who has feelings and needs to connect in a certain level then you will not get anywhere near me. I have standards otherwise I may as well get paid for providing a service to men who can treat me however they want.
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RHP User
one year ago
It's about respect. If you can't have respect for your own body how are you going to have respect for a woman ? Personality is more important but you have to look after your own health as a priority in life.
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DoraTheSexplorer
one year ago
Being picky doesn't make you shallow, you just know what you like, what you want will work and not work for you. Im definitely picky and when i tried not to be and try something different to my preferences it turned out to be a disaster so i will keep on being picky.
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BellaMelb
one year ago
Being picky and being shallow aren’t the same thing.
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RHP User
one year ago
lol no chance
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underworldqueen
one year ago
I don’t think it’s about personality vs looks - it’s about personal preference and what individual women (and men) find attractive. I never gravitate to a profile pic of a lean bod/ rippling abs. I personally like well-built dudes (including overweight guys), and it’s more about their general size/proportions/ face for me. Everyone’s different. Can’t talk your pheromones into liking someone eh 😜🤷🏼♀️
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RHP User
one year ago
‘Are you shallow and straight up picky?’ Really?? If we are not turned on by size those must be the reasons??? For starters like men, we’re working against the human brain’s survival instincts at the core of it. Women are attracted to a man who their brain tells them, subconsciously is looks like they will father healthy children and be able to look after them and her. Overweight men would struggle to be able to protect them from the sabre tooth tiger. Now to your question. For me personally, I will give personality a chance to shine. But my preference is for men who obviously look after themselves. It’s taken me 6yrs to get to the shape I am. It was done for health reasons not vanity but I’m liking the results. I don’t want to be with someone who doesn’t look after themselves or at least seriously tries to. For me that does show a bit of their personality, much like what photos they use, whether they’ve taken the time to make sure they’re looking good.
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