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What do you think of a BDSM /Swingers club ould you go to it?

July 15 2015

If you found a club that was BDSM and Swinging would that turn you away? What if the idea was to teach the arts in a safe environment with skilled people and a friendly atmosphere?To look on learn even maybe to enable the BDSM people to play would you say no?I had this ida ages ago and people said I was a twit, but 50 shades came out and both sides did as well.I hate that film for making people put themselves in danger but I love it for enabling the average house wife to have the strength to pick up rope and say "tie me". I intend to show those gents wives/ladies and friends how to do this in a safe sane environment away from the clubs and classes I hope to meet people and help couples learn flogging, ice, fire, bondage, shibari (rope) & many more techniques properly before they try to dominate their partner without a clue as to how to do it safely. What do you think is this a idealistic view or am I on the right track?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I personally think it's a great idea , however I'm classified as a newbie even though I've been around the bdsm side for about a year. If you look at your idea from a training perspective , it is a great idea. Somewhere a range of couples can go to learn safely those things you mentioned above. From beginners to more experienced to those that may just be just curious. As a single it also extends its hand to a newbie to experience the same. There isn't a lot of places you can go to my knowledge (unless you know someone in the know ) where you can just go and look if you wish , ask questions , learn , get advice , make friends , build your social circle and all while you feel safe , comfortable and above all feel like you are in a trusting environment. I know from personal experience that you can be lead down the wrong path and easily wronged if you are unsure or misinformed. Reading is one thing , experience and real life feedback is another. Really this could be used as s stepping stone for new couples , new singles into the world. Or you could just as easily use it as a way of refreshing or updating those that have been around for a while . Anyway that's my take for what it's worth :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I think as long as people ask "health questions" before they play, they are experienced in what they are doing and there is nothing harsh, too intense or that needs after care the idea is good. There is always a danger of people not knowing how to read a person, not understanding limits and know the rules are different for swinging and BDSM.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    What a great idea.... is this club going yet or still a thought? Where would it be? Would you have security? What would it cost? How many playrooms? Would there be a spa? Would everyone be welcome?