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What do you want in a swingers club

September 09 2009

Couples International is always open for suggestions.We view the forums looking for alternative things you all want.The latest was a hardcore night, and it has proved to be the best thing out!...We want more suggestions on what swingers want in the lifestyle.CI wants to make sure we give you all different tastes of the lifestyle and need your suggestions to make some nights different than others.Tell us what you want in this lifestyle , we are always willing to go that extra mile to give it to you all.Suggestions are so important and we will endeavor to give the lifestyle anything we can to make sure you all see just how fantastic this style of living can be for your relationships and sex life.Couples International

Comments

  • stardreams123

    stardreams123

    16 years ago

    Hi guys I think your doing a fantastic job we always have fun when we go & the people are great & sexy that attend, I heard that your hardcore night went well wish we were their, next time.   All I can say is, you always feel welcome at CI & we always have fun & there are always sexy people their so in one word I think you've done well. As long as your having fun & your around great people with some sexy fun what more can you ask for.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I've been wanting to get the oppertunity to attend your club but due to work have not been able to. From what I've heard in the past, your doing a fantastic job. This post only proves how much you care about CI. I say well done, your running a great business and social benefit to the community.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Must say it was a great nite!! I had alot of fun and cant wait for the next on!!

  • x2ForU

    x2ForU

    16 years ago

    I thought the Fuck night was fantastic!! everyone there were there for the exact same reason as ourselves.. To PLay....we had a great night and will be attending them on a monthly basis...just keep the rules the same... players only!!  I thought i saw on one of the adds for the next hardcore night that watchers can come....up to you if you want that... but not sure if we will attend if you let people in that only want to watch.... but thumbs up couples international...love your work.... shelly xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    If you wanna watch on fuck night, DONT come..hehe It is for swingers only.....But remember NO still means No as with all rules, so it doesnt mean you gotta fuck something...hehe but dont come here if you have and never have any intention of playing or wanting to play.That is what Fuck night is...all about SWINGING AND FUCKING....NOT FOR THE LIGHT HEARTED.2ND OF OCTOBER HERE AT CI.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    We would love to come to CI but feel that as 'newbies' still we would feel intimidated as many experienced swingers do not want newbies even though they themselves were once newbies, we would love a night were we could meet other new or less experienced swingers but dont know if there are others out there that think the same???   helen

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Hardcore should be every first Friday.  We don't mind newbies (we quite like seducing them) but the voyeurs, especially guys, are a turn off.   We will be there on the 2nd, the door to the room we are using will be open, so single (naked) guys can come in and say hi, I will be playing, but my man will indicate whether you can join in or not.  Girls are always welcome (yum)   B

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Perhaps having a night where newbies were paired up with regulars for the first hour or so...just to ease their way in?It wouldnt have to be a sexual pairing...just a chaperone kinda thing.I think alot of newbies are intimidated when they first walk in...but if they knew they were to be meeting a particular couple that was there solely to make them comfortable...i think it would be great.Just my opinion...BJxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Perhaps having a night where newbies were paired up with regulars for the first hour or so...just to ease their way in?It wouldnt have to be a sexual pairing...just a chaperone kinda thing.I think alot of newbies are intimidated when they first walk in...but if they knew they were to be meeting a particular couple that was there solely to make them comfortable...i think it would be great.Just my opinion...BJxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    doncha hate it when it does that??posts your comment twice and makes ya look like a tard....lmao!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    All our newbies here are toured and not left alone till we are sure they are comfy, that is what we go out of our way to do.Every weekend we get over 20 new couples to our venue and you would never know cause within about 1 hour they are all looking like they are all knowing eachother for years.The lifestyle is about communication, if anyone sits in a corner and refuses to mingle, they will have a bad night, just like at any club or nightclub that you go to and dont socialize.Every night is full of new patrons and we are so proud to offer this lifestyle to everyone.Once a month we have a hardcore night, so we inform newbies that if they are gonna be intimidated dont come. Real swingers need a night where they can have fun and not have hawkers all over them with no intention of playing, so we see that and have now given them that too.THanks for all feedback we will keep on keeping on and endeavor to give you all the venue nights you all so crave.Couples International

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I have been to 2 swing clubs here in WA. Totally dissapointed at the dress code.I say NO to jeans! Men..you should make the extra effort for smart pants, sexy shirt and great shoes! And smell sexy too...lol.. Ladies..wearing something sexy that actually fits you properly and is alluring... is way more sexy!!  .. I am new to this as Leesa and BJ know. So who wants to tell me where is hot place in WA.Cause I give up on swing clubs. Rather try to make my own dinner meets!!! which I have posted on datefinder for October 3rd..wink wink ....Need more ladies interested.Got too many hot men. LMAO!   As MissBJ would say...Just my opinon.   mwa xoxoxoxoxoxooxox

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Ah cool Leesa...I didnt realise that thats what happens coz the first time i went i was with a group and always seem to go with a few friends. And i must say...on the whole...you and your regulars are very friendly and welcoming people!I think sometimes new people mistake respect for their personal space as snobbery.I love going to CI...I always have a great time...and i love catching up with everyone when i go.Keep up the great work!Just my opinion...BJxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I consider myself a semi-regular for CI and I always go out of my way to help the newbies out.  Esp the single guys.  It's been almost a year but I still remember how scary it was the first time.  But really, everyone is way more friendly than most places.  No need to be scared or intimidated and most people realise that about an hour after being there.   Just expect your first time to be 'an experience' and I guarantee you'll be fine.   I'll probably miss out on this upcoming fuck night, see yas on Halloween (my CI anniversary!  LOL!) DRESS UP PEOPLE!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Oh, and having the DJ was good.  The music was way better to dance to.  Altho, an MP3 list with the music he had would have been just as good.  He didn't seem to do much in the way of mixing or even timing his changes.. :/   But hey, I was the only one dancing for most of it so I doubt it's going to be taken onboard like fucknight!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    DJ will be here every theme night Blas. so we look forward to seeing you pump your stuff on the dancefloor again.Yes, we acknowledge how great you are in helping the single guys when you are here.You mingle and chat and help to make them feel comfy.I try my best too, but sometimes i get pulled away...with work.I would hate to be a single guy or a new comer to a swingers club, i remember our first time 18 years ago.I was so scared.....we were met by this HUGE guy at the door and he asked us our names, we both froze and gave fake names..lolThere were people everywhere fucking and naked, and heaps of single guys...I said to Bryan, honey one day lets make a club where you never feel like we did when we first entered, and i know we have done that now and we thank all of you for your support.Leesa

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Well seeing theme nights are generally when I go, I have even more reason now!  Will be great once people get used to the idea of getting up for a dance.   Oh and even tho I was scared as a mouse when I first walked in (it was only the 2nd or 3rd time I'd been to a swingers club) you both made me feel really comfortable, which is the main reason I continue to attend and why I've tried to give something back.   Oh, and the fucking awesome, really really ridiculously good looking people attending are a plus!  :P   Hmmm... now to work out my Halloween costume...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    OK well we were at 'hardcore friday' at CI on Friday.   We feel sorry for Bryan and Leesa.   Talk about softcore, of softcocks.  Whatever.  Lucky we arranged to meet a hot couple there, otherwise I (F) wouldnt have had any cock or pussy.   My man actually asked guys to come and fuck me, the loosers said "I'd rather watch".   JEEEEZUZ, go to a frikken peep show you freaks!!!!!   So, if hardcore doesn't work what will.   I give up   Miss B

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Low key casual place to chat and laugh, few cool rooms or relaxo areas to play if we "click" with someone. No big screen porn, but not to many night clubers either..  You know people who are there to swing or at least later down the track..   GOOD pool table   theme nights too...so we get to use our outfits and play out some roles   Neo and Blaze

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Clubs, balls, a bag & buggy, nice weather...