What is it that makes you say yes?

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  For heavens sakes, don't you think you are taking it a bit too seriously?? You aren't marrying the person/people. If i went to a party and waited until I connected with someone mentally, physically and had a spark with, i would end up not playing with anyone at all. Just idve in and play. Are you talking about couples parties or just swingers parties in general?? Can't say i enjoy couples parties much, but nothing like a whole pile of people jsut playing!!

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Sorry but I am not going to have sex with someone I dont like! Its my body. Pusscat

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  by the time you get a mental connection with someone and all the rest of it, then the party would be over. I get what you are saying, and that is why i dont like couples parties cos you end up usually with just one person. I prefer more of an orgy style where there is a lot of touching, but not necessarily a lot of f....... You still get to have fun and you don't have to relate it to just one person.

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  jandv

  16 years ago

  When we are at a party yes we look for potential partners BUT you have to take the whole party in. I have been at a party where i didnt think the best partner was for me BUT went through with the deed and it was some of the best sex i have ever had !! We seriously think you are thinking too much about it. You should loosen up and have FUN !!! Thats what swinging is all about...... LOL All the best.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Or, get yourself invited to the gorgeous only swingers parties. Times like this...Im glad Im single....Vive le digits

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  I think you are spot on Pusscat. Sometimes you just have to have that connection, be it mental or physical. My boyfriend is incredibly sexy despite not having the "body beautiful". Sometimes it is something that can't be put into words. It is your body and only you can decide what you do with it. As long as you are having fun and not hurting anyone then there is no problem in taking the extra time to connect or reject. Happy swinging!!

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  preferably

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  I have often found that the most unexpected people are really great lovers. So now I just go with the flow and if I dont like it.. I say "next"! Hugs Stalky

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  2more4fun

  16 years ago

  You'd be surprised how many people you probably wouldn't normally pick to have sex with end up being amazing and you just end up completely consumed by the moment.If you routinely don't meet people that take your fancy at parties, perhaps just attend with the idea of having same room fun with your own partner and don't expect to interact with other people. You can maybe just meet couples one-on-one and see if you connect with someone in the meantime.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Oh i just wait until the rules are read out, then I rush into the bedroom, get on a bed, take my gear off and say "bring it on" Those parties are just the best where there is one guy on top, one either side and you are hanging on to another 2 or 3. LOL

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