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What is it we want on here????
October 19 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think everyone is after what suits them at the time, for me I am looking for a friend with benefits exactly the way that sounds, a friend first and foremost with great benefits. I have had my time being single and I am using this site to hopefully someone who is a sexual being like me and would also like the pleasure of my company and vice versa. I am not ready for blending families and a white picket fence and huge wedding...at this stage I am happy to maintain my life the way it is with someone to share the good bits with. I probably sound a bit idealist at times, but I don't want to be fucking everyone, I want a someone to get to know and enjoy the rewards of discovering them and what they like. To me that is the fun. I am sick of laying out my sexual likes and dislikes in email. I am over the first time sex all the time, it is boring and dull and uninventive. I don't like condoms so would rather someone exclusive so there is no need to use them.
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Smilingwithfun
11 years ago
What you want it to be.
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's a Pandora's box on here ,question perhaps is what do u want from Rhp experience? Worlds can collide on here ,to me take it for what it is,don't have huge expectations You never know what's around the corner ,stay positive miss L I suppose it's a numbers game but funny not everyone that wants sex only ,I think most want companionship Sex is a bonus xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think this is very beautiful and I am happy you wrote it here. So is this on your profile.....and the men who contact you are honoring this?
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RHP User
11 years ago
That's all.
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RHP User
11 years ago
When I first joined just over a year ago I would chat to just about every one who sent me a message. I have become a lot more selective now. If they don't sound like they are looking for some of the same things as me I don't get involved in chatting any more. Like Ralf I'm looking4 more than just a fuck buddy. As per my profile I'm looking4 a longer term lover, and I've been fortunate enough to have found that twice since I've been on here. I've also made some amazing friends who I hope will be in my life for a very long time. I used to log on all the time because I really enjoyed the forums but lately with all the back stabbing that goes on I don't come here nearly as often as I used to. It's finally summer and life is for living, not for being voyeurs to other peoples lives. I believe every one has a story and a reason for being here. We've just got to learn not to judge one another too harshly.
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RHP User
11 years ago
It is what it is, or what you want to make of it. To make a short story even longer, and completely boring. I think Ralf sums up my position. I have only been here 5 mins and have had a fantastic time. Well, one miserable one. (boy have I got a scare I can talk about). But I only have myself to blame for that. and put it down to a newbie mistake. I never thought I would meet someone on a site like this that would pique such an interest that i would want to explore things further. Well its happened and i cannot wait to get back home. I find myself more drawn to the forums now. I dont know why, maybe because we have all kinds here. The thought Police, Femme Nazis, Bambie brigade, self appointed moderators, the porn stars that have been there done that, written a book, made a movie sold the rights and taken it global. Oh and the ones that think there's a reward at the end of the year for the posts. Pirates, rabbits, unicorns and the dyslexic parrot, provide great comedy relief and we need more of it. Without all of the above, we wouldn't have a forum. It takes all kinds . Its what brings me here.
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RHP User
11 years ago
... is exactly what Ralf wrote :) In fact, I'm almost tempted to plagiarise it in its entirety and put it in my profile. Much love, Elle xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
when I first came it was for models for my art work Then it was for some attention, it made me feel really desired and that was unexpected. I was not with my husband when I first came here so it was different, I just wanted casual sex to make up for things I guess. Its lovely that I made some great friend along the way. Today one of my lovers came over that I had not seen for a while, one of my very first lovers, who introduced me to oral sex. He is as charming now as he was then and treats me with respect. That is the key for me, its respect for each other and a meeting of mind and body to an extent. Now I tend to stick with my regular lovers, mainly because of the three years I have been on here they are still with me and I feel like each has has enhanced my experiences in sex and life in general even men I have not slept with are still good friends and have helped me so much , been generous and kind to me. Giving me time, like building my web page or doing my plumbing or even carpet cleaning and even house sitting. its amazing how men go out of their way for me and I do appreciate it very much. Women friends were a great extra bonus that I had not expected and I continue to make them off here, but I am also thinking that it will be women that make me want to leave RHP as to tell the truth the forums are toxic at times. I guess for me I have to decide if its worth staying on , what is I really want now? Its something that we can all control, how we use this tool. We all get something out of RHP, we all come for different reasons and we all evolve in some way or another. No one is right or wrong at all on here , its that kind of place the rabbit hole into Wonder land or Chunder land , depending on the day. I love your posts, and you sweet kind insightful delight, and non judgmental woman that you are. Get ready for more rye bread coming your way, beautiful woman
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RHP User
11 years ago
again a very nice comment.....I like what you said too. I believe too it is so much nicer to find a great lover and not just a one off fuck
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6exxy
11 years ago
Just one that I can spend time with, share thoughts. A friend who can be trusted, that is helpful and grateful of the time that is shared. What ever happens in the future happens. Not looking for NSA, couples or bi/gay curious. I don't want multiple lovers and happy to be patient. Living real life so only here for short periods of time because life is for the living. Sex site is where I think we are with people who are adjusting daily to their own needs. Some have now arrived at another plane that requires deeper investment of the person they share with. They want more from each other, deeper connections that fills the soul as well as the body.
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6exxy
11 years ago
Entwined
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RHP User
11 years ago
She definitely said it best, kinky and fantasy filled sex, with a side of fetish and naughty ;) Oh and people that could keep up would be nice lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Nostrings, I think you hit it on the head. There are people here who wants companionship rather than just a one of sexual encounter. Litonya, like you said, this site whatever you want it to be - a site for a sex partner, a site for a companion, a dating site with or without sex (yes, I had this experience before - making some friends, losing some friends), etc. Interestingly, some people panic when I say talk to me. I wonder why that is?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Is what you say is right.....and most males want this too....why do so many then write NSA? on their profile.
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RHP User
11 years ago
what I read so far.....not many are in mindless sex, most of you want a connection too......I like it.....that's what I call human beings. We are all so much more then just pussy and cock......
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RHP User
11 years ago
... being what it is, I was none the wiser and was more than a little shocked and horrified at the suggestion of friends and family to give it a go! It has been an eye opener and nothing short of entertaining at times. Whatever preconceptions that I may have had about men (or women too for that matter) have gone right out the window LoL. I've never been anything other than a guest and have not found that to be disadvantageous at all and certainly hasn't been an issue with regards to initiating contact, but having said that, very few people intrigue or captivate me to do so. I've been lucky in that I've not really had any bad experiences or cause for complaint & put it down to both how I come across and an impeccably impenetrable screening process in conjunction with a highly developed dense of intuition and remain true to myself first and foremost without fail. I think RHP is most definitely what you make of it and don't place any pressure on any potential connection/s as it is quite simply whatever it is til it aint - come what may.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Predominant and sense not dense
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RHP User
11 years ago
Want exactly what Ralf wants, but I realise I will not find it here. Best of luck to everyone though. I hope you all find what you seek.
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RHP User
11 years ago
For me RHP is about being able to be who you are and expeess yourself sexually without being judged by the main stream. You can be as kinky as your imagination wants you can also find people with the same interests. And you never know you just may meet that person that ticks all the boxes for the rest - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
We all have our defences up at first fun an nature! But if the right one cums along it's all in xxx
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RHP User
11 years ago
A year on and its an education and a surprise to find out there are so many people who are not just interested in the sex but interested in others. Yes, the predominant conversation is sex, and an endless stream of different ways to do it.. my eyes are open even wider after the couples club in Sydney, even if my knees weren't! I have learnt alot, asked many questions and hopefully added to the flavour that is RHP. RHP is not perfect, its not even politically correct, its upsetting in its generalisations at times but then so are the contributors. Some great, some bloody awful. Some like myself, just looking for friendship with a little more intimacy, stretching my boundries daily. But we should never forget that the anonimity the internet provides also allows destructive and thoughtless people to flourish, so to all of you, if anyone remembers Hill Street Blues... "Be careful out there"
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
I think everyone has their own reasons for being here, some of sex, some to find like minded friends, some just to chat, some for the forums, whatever it might be..... I'm here, for whatever happens, I'm winging it, I'm open to whatever comes my way, enjoying the journey, enjoying the learnings, enjoying the people/friends I'm meeting/making, loving the forums and loving the experiences. I don't have any expectations of what's going to happen while I'm here, that way there can be no disappointments...... Ultimately I would love to find someone that just right for me, just one would be nice, but if it doesn't happen then that's ok, because this site has done so much for me already and I'm happy with that.....💋
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RHP User
11 years ago
in you all. I am so happy you are writing back....thank you. Most of you said since being on here you learned a lot, your eyes are opened and you loved most of the way people interact. Me too. I have med so many fantastic men, not with everyone who came to my place I had sex with, with some it was just a giggly night. I remember one Scottish man he made me so laugh my tummy hurt. That's what I like, no pressure no big deal when its not always was sex......the men who came to my place are such cuties everyone of them.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Litonya' what I read so far.....not many are in mindless sex, most of you want a connection too......I like it.....that's what I call human beings. We are all so much more then just pussy and cock...... I am here looking for sex...but and it is a big but I also know women aren't throwing their knickers at me all the time.So what keeps me here are the forums...or is that "fora"...where topics like this are open for discussion. I also like the fact that I can chat to individuals privately or ask questions publicly.There is only one Mrs Denials so only she can speak for herself but other women can tell me what they think about what she says/does or might feel about certain things. I do try to talk about things openly with Mrs D but not surprisingly she doesn't like the idea of me getting the sex I want and she has err "difficulty" providing. So the bottom line is I'm here for the cyber company...and the chance to get lucky.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hi Jack All the best with you and the Missus. I have learnt quite a bit from the forums and meeting up with people on here. I have to say the cyber company is good (mostly). As for sex, I can forget about it. Based on my experience, I have not been lucky in anything. I tell people, if I had to guess on a multiple choice question, I would always guess the wrong answer. Same thing applies over here. But one can always hope :)
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6exxy
11 years ago
Can I get a rump with some hot buttered broccoli topped off with succulent breast? I'll bring the corn on the cob!
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RHP User
11 years ago
That is a great line. Nothing else needs to be said. Quoting '6exxy' Can I get a rump with some hot buttered broccoli topped off with succulent breast? I'll bring the corn on the cob!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I came here with no expectations..I certainly didn't expect to make good friends here...but I have. I am feeling a bit more sociable now...I was hiding in my cave for quite a few months,dealing with some health problems ...so just here,who knows what tomorrow may bring....expect nothing...hope for everything is my mantra.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well said!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Red Hot Pie......is a euphemism.....this site is American.....Pie means pussy......Cream Pie, google that! American Pie, the movie.....sex, sex, sex...for God sake someone drank Cum. Unfortunately, not everyone gets it.
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