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What is the best way to ask a woman to have a fun with full respect.
December 02 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
Frenchman whispered in my ear''voulez -vous couchez avec moi,ce soir'',I would definitely say ''oui mon amour''....please excuse my very poor French x R
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RHP User
13 years ago
I just usually wing it :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Deepdarkwoods77' I just usually wing it :) I try my best to find the best words in english so if it's a bit wing, apologize if I just want to don't be rude when I ask someone with who I've got a good feeling! thanks my love, it's always apreciated!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi! Benywolf:) Thanks for the question... I can only go by experience and how I'd react. But I will say If you've taken time beforehand to have a Connection with her. Have met and chemistry is present. All you need to do is hold her close, smell smell neck, look into her eyes, kiss her .Whisper (Babe, Hun, Her Name etc ) I want to pleasure you, make Love with you, because you're a very Beautiful sexy Woman. I want to show you just how much you will enjoy me... Or after the initial embrace kiss ,Just take her hand and lead her to the bedroom slowly. Stopping to kiss her deeply along the way and from behind sliding your mouth softly along her neck and lips mmmmmmmmmYUM! he!he!.. If she's not into that Idea she'll stop as you start to take her to the bedroom. If that happens just step back hold her a little softly quickly kiss her lips smile and sit down with her. Allow her to make the moves.. However Hun I 'm pretty sure she'll like the 1st idea, the expectations of sharing Sexual Intimacy with you will get her excitement flowing he!he! mmmmmEnjoy Lu :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well its most important to....... learn english.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi! I disagree if we all waited to learn English as you say Then most of the Online sites would be out of business.. Thankfully there's so much more than that we can do to get to know and enjoy eachother.. Also this Topic is How benywolf can entice a Women he's Interested in to be his Lovers in a respectful way.. Nothing to do with learning English..Lu
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RHP User
13 years ago
My car is really nice, this belongs to a friend.I won't unload in your mouth unless you really want me to do it.I'll respect you as much in the morning as I do right now.Just ask, if they are into you they will already understand that your intentions are honourable. Make that four promises.
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RHP User
13 years ago
OMG Heywood,you are soooo wrong.There is nothng sexier than an accent,give me a sexy accent any day over lazy strine.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I love a man with an accent....mmm. OK back to the topic! Show her some kindness, tenderness and thoughtfulness. It's more about your actions. Read her body language and if she is open to you and flirting then you can ask if she would like to take things further. Not sure how you would do this messaging. I usually prefer to meet in person and see if there is chemistry. Reading body language is so important. Not sure if that helps but good luck. SFxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hey thks for your answer, really good, so never ask as a word and use as much as I can my body language by taking nice and smoosh but some time you want to be explicit by both intelligence without touching.I am disagree that you need to use a perfect english or other language unless if you are looking for long term relationship who no body want here but have a fun with someone they feel free and be respect as human.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'heywood_djablome' Well its most important to....... learn english. Ahahaha, yes, because there are few things less attractive to women than a young Frenchman with broken English!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Heywood...give the guy a break ok.......his at least trying and asking a valid question whihc guess what ? most of us got... Im tipping your French is nowhere near as good as his English. Live and let live rite ?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi! Hun :) Yes I said that because I'm assuming this is a Woman you've chatted too and met atleast once and you've a very good Connection with. So by that time words aren't really needed as much, because your vibes, Sexuality, Body Language tells her how you feel what you want just taking it a little slow to start will give her time to act the same with you, so no misunderstand of what you both want.. I can tell you now because I feel your vibes very strongly, it's an ability I have. You don't really need to worry about using the right words because you will because you talk with your words and Body already. Your Sexuality Sensuality sincerity in what you feel she'd know for sure ..Good Luck!! enjoying your Playmates... I'm not sure if you misunderstood what I meant when I replied to Haywood..I was saying just that One doesn't need to have good English because there's so many other ways to let your feelings known Even when you're in a longterm relationship by then she will probably know enough French to enjoy chatting with you so all good..I do agree with you:) Adieu Lu :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'neptune_drift' Quoting 'heywood_djablome' Well its most important to....... learn english. Ahahaha, yes, because there are few things less attractive to women than a young Frenchman with broken English!I would be more attracted to a young Frenchman with broken English ... than I would be to an Aussie with crude selfcentered English.
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RHP User
13 years ago
thanks for all your advices. I got your message dragon fly, I have to keep using my energy but I ve got one mistake that I want to change: sometimes I've got a really got connection but mentaly and not interesting at all by her body and I want keep this person as a friendAnd opposite when my body want someone I scare to affraid this person by using the wrong way or attitude to ask her.thks guys.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'heywood_djablome'Well its most important to....... learn english. I dont know if you are a cricket fan "Heywood" but to use cricket terminology ,this one has nipped back and bowled you!
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RHP User
13 years ago
hun :) Remember 1 Thing..enjoy whatever Connection you have with any Woman or Person as Friends or Lovers/Partners. Those People come into your Life for a reason at the right time, so you can both grow from the experience Emotionally.. So enjoy that time with them, because your Connection is already set inplace before you meet.. Don't stress on how you should act because.You will act in a way that attracts the right Person for whatever reason if they are meant to be with you :) I hope you understand what I'm saying to you Enjoy Lu :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I was merely pointing out that most of the original post, wasn't very easy to understand.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I love French sticks. :p
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thanks but hun it seems Us Women managed to understand what Benywolf was saying. Maybe it's because we took the time to read it until we got the gist . Frankly once was all I needed .. If you couldn't read it then it would have been best if you just moved onto another Topic rather than this Neg; feed back you gave ..Lu:)
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RHP User
13 years ago
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RHP User
13 years ago
Be THE MAN and take her to her ecstasy that you both crave!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thats all you have to do. xx Nice profile btw
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'hardtruckin2011'Be THE MAN and take her to her ecstasy that you both crave!! You sound like DG's Stepford Wife! (I say that with love, both of you)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'MadamDragonfly' Thanks but hun it seems Us Women managed to understand what Benywolf was saying. Maybe it's because we took the time to read it until we got the gist . Frankly once was all I needed .. If you couldn't read it then it would have been best if you just moved onto another Topic rather than this Neg; feed back you gave ..Lu:)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Is shown not just talked about. In otherwords, if you want respect to come back to you, lead by example. The fruits of your labour will be worth it.
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RHP User
13 years ago
And.....wouldn't he be sooooo proud???
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RHP User
13 years ago
Maybe if you take one hand in yours....stand close to her...your thighs touching...and as you look into her eyes...lean in close and kiss her...softly...with warm....dry....lips...kiss her on the cheek....lingering, inhaling her scent.... If she wants you, you will very soon be kissing her on the lips... And then....giggles....you're on your own then mate ;-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have a soft spot for lovely people with accents..... mmmm wait, maybe that should be wet spot.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13'OMG Heywood,you are soooo wrong.There is nothng sexier than an accent,give me a sexy accent any day over lazy strine. I'm with you Freya, I love accents. Lately Dutch has been doing it for me.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I was thinking that to simple to take her hand kiss her slowy, that's pretty much in secondary school but i wasn t expecting that's work with adult.let's get a date with her this week and see how he goes by that way.thanks a lot.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I thought the French knew about love??
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RHP User
13 years ago
the Frenchman and love?.....just like the Aussie male and utes?....er I love a nice ute btw.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'hardtruckin2011' I thought the French knew about love?? we know when is just to fuck but when our sentiment starting to go over for my self is hard to keep the control and I want to say it because is true and I have got hight level of sentiment so with one eyes contact my heart can start to speeding because he like and want to share.hope that answer is good enough but I'll add something (french like to make love so we can forgot our best mate to drrink or even for fishing or hunting weekend and we have to keep our women horny because we like that and it's our culture).
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RHP User
13 years ago
So frogs legs isn't the only delicacy??
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RHP User
13 years ago
French is after all the language of love. Ce la vis??
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RHP User
13 years ago
You should have paid more attention in Freya's "Today I cried" thread. I guess maybe dja just going to have to blourself.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'benywolf' I was thinking that to simple to take her hand kiss her slowy, that's pretty much in secondary school but i wasn t expecting that's work with adult.A woman wants you to seduce her...to take her on a journey of lust...of desire...to be stroked, adored, wanted, explored, kissed...I could go on and on...let's get a date with her this week and see how he goes by that way.But I don't understand this, care to explain...????thanks a lot. Ricky
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RHP User
13 years ago
Ricky,I like to make easy thing harder for more chalange but then people get confusing so read that one:I never thinking that to take her hand could show my interest for her. (back to the basic).hope that one give you a correct answer.beny.Quoting 'goodtimesricky' Quoting 'benywolf' I was thinking that to simple to take her hand kiss her slowy, that's pretty much in secondary school but i wasn t expecting that's work with adult.A woman wants you to seduce her...to take her on a journey of lust...of desire...to be stroked, adored, wanted, explored, kissed...I could go on and on...let's get a date with her this week and see how he goes by that way.But I don't understand this, care to explain...????thanks a lot. Ricky
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Deepdarkwoods77' I just usually wing it :) Winging it is ok .. but when do u decide to clip the wings .. seriously ...Stop being such a follower Have JUST had dealings with what I thought was a decent respectful guy .. AGAIN i have been duped WTF is it with these guys ????SOUR taste ...So yeah wing it I say .. coz u never know but ALWAYS be honest and genuine .,. its a small world ...
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RHP User
13 years ago
From a unattached Aussie guy to a single French man.. It's simple, just say this as your first contact- "How about a root?" Trust me... Works everytime! ;-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Loves2RideFast' From a unattached Aussie guy to a single French man.. It's simple, just say this as your first contact- "How about a root?" Trust me... Works everytime! ;-) Ummm no it doesnt ..... well maybe the callibre ur after :) enjoy
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RHP User
13 years ago
I've got a lot to learn about australian girls becauseif you try "how about a root" in france or in europe you get smash xd.I am someone who take anything seriouly about have a fun with someone but I hear so many stories about man been rude with a woman and I know that I am a good and want something good to then but I am worry to be catogorize as asshole by doing a stupid mistake.And I'll try your word this weekend and see how he works!thanks guys.
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RHP User
13 years ago
get the french champagne out
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RHP User
13 years ago
Agreed with Msgoodietwoshoes french is best Mummm
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thanks for your questionable input.I hope 1 day when you ask for help someone is just as accomodating.You should be ashamed of yourself.If that works for you then fine go root your arse off! Lu
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'benywolf' I've got a lot to learn about australian girls becauseif you try "how about a root" in france or in europe you get smash xd.I am someone who take anything seriouly about have a fun with someone but I hear so many stories about man been rude with a woman and I know that I am a good and want something good to then but I am worry to be catogorize as asshole by doing a stupid mistake.And I'll try your word this weekend and see how he works!thanks guys. DON'T, REPEAT DON'T ask "how about a root?" Australian women are not different to European women and while some might think its a joke, others might just walk away or throw a glass of whatever they are drinking over you. Listen to the women and Ricky, their advice is sound. Good luck. Bonjour
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hun don't say want a root to a Woman ever.That guy was just trying to humiliate you not help you .Believe me if you say it you'll get slapped or turned down in a very verbal way ..If it does work they're Women you really don't want to be with as they don't have any standards if they say yes to a Guy likelovestoridefast... Do it the way that works for you Cheers Lu :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
sorry i had to reply to you, its men like you that give all the nice guys a bad name you should be ashamed of yourself.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Just be yourself!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Just be yourself!
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Rockme2018
13 years ago
Learn english.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'coastmixer2' Just be yourself! I'll love to be myself but first you have to know who you are!I know what I want and what I can do but who I am?thanks girls to told me to void "how about a root?" to my vocabulary.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I show you my second message and you let me know what can I improve in my futur."it's funny to hear someone who are not from I home town say my nick name bodi, I like.share a bit of your great attitude because I had a really bad evening at work so I am going to turn the page and move on to tomorow.I was thinking to go watch symphony in the city from paul daniel next sunday and I'll apreciate to share with you!bye,beny."thks guys.
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RHP User
13 years ago
What woman in the world is NOT turned on by accents?!?! Ok, maybe some thick borsch type accent doesn't really float my boat, but......
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RHP User
13 years ago
Lovestoridefast.....sorry mate, but if you said "how about a root?" to me, the best i would do for you is to throw you a turnip! you're gonna get slapped in the face one day, women hate shit like that.
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RHP User
13 years ago
You are cordially invited to honour me with your company for an evening of fornication , copulation and general debauchary . During which time you will be treated with respect you deserve . Optional extras will be on offer for your personal pleasure ....... Or good old Aussie style oi Sheila oi over hear lie down and brace yourself .......
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RHP User
13 years ago
hi! Hun :0 I like Bodi too it suits you . I'm so glad you asked a girl and it works out. I hope you do go and listen to the Symphony I love enjoying live music and in the park it doesn't come much better.the weather is going to be very good too.So take a Picnic a Friend and go enjoy ..Lu :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
good thing ya got a fast gettaway bike so ya can dodge all them turnips .Best laugh I have had today reading this thread.I would never throw a turnip at you btw,far too expensive,What about a slew of carrots.The root veg of choice for wascally wabbits
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'ClazzaCouple'Learn english. Ne l'écoutez pas!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Wolf, All you need is a little something like.....Io non potevo aiutare ma essere indiavolato dalla bellezza si e volevo chiedere se potessi avere il piacere che vi porterà su una romantica cena
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi! Sweet Lady :0 I will be replying to your MSG over the weekend as I've finally overcome my bad reactinon to My Pain Med after My Operation.. I've read it several times it always makes me smile because i feel you in the words.. Lu :)x Now back to this reply Unfortunately I don't speak French and my French Friend isn't explaining what it all means I've asked he!he! Learning English granted is an option but it doesn't solve Benywolfs issue right now at all I've exchanged MSGs with Him and actually have little problem understanding him.What he needs like many Guys do and don't ask advice because they think they know it all.. is an example on how to approach a Woman in a relaxed, respectful way and how to be with them, if he's wanting them as Friends or want them as a Lover without showing it too much or leading them on..He's also getting to know himself more but that takes time even years just through experiencing Life..Enjoy Lu :)x
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Enigmaoflove' Wolf, All you need is a little something like.....Io non potevo aiutare ma essere indiavolato dalla bellezza si e volevo chiedere se potessi avere il piacere che vi porterà su una romantica cena that's sound perfectly italian or french arrogant man who say in a nice way I want to fuck you but it's too much I think and a kind of soft but not on a needed man. (hard to explain).
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'benywolf' Quoting 'Enigmaoflove' Wolf, All you need is a little something like.....Io non potevo aiutare ma essere indiavolato dalla bellezza si e volevo chiedere se potessi avere il piacere che vi porterà su una romantica cena that's sound perfectly italian or french arrogant man who say in a nice way I want to fuck you but it's too much I think and a kind of soft but not on a needed man. (hard to explain). Actually its clear Italian and no it doesn't say 'i want to fcuk' at all. Basically its saying a man finds a woman attractive and he is making an offer of a romantic dinner lol.
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RHP User
13 years ago
okay I am agree that I shouldn't use this wordBut I'll love to have some comment from women about that if it's to old speaking or to be really romantic is still working now because I have got some stories happen to me about using old school speaking.thanks,beny.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Benny my dear,is you perhaps winding us all up
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13' Benny my dear,is you perhaps winding us all up that's exactly what I doesn't want to be and that's the reason of my topic to find the right word to exprim my self to say my sentiment and not to become rude or arrogant.beny
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RHP User
13 years ago
all you have to be is you,it does not matter if it is a date for coffee ,dinner or more.The words will come ,don't over think it. If your manner is respectful that is more imprtant than fancy words.It really is that simple
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RHP User
13 years ago
I am agree with that but i am a kind of person who like to share things (speaking specialy when is about feeling even before thinking to go over and that make scare some girls because they categorize as a needed when I just been my self to tell them what i like of them).I hope is not too confusing. (if yes send me a message and I'll try my best to explain).beny.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Come whisper French sweet nothing's in my ear, that's all I would need.
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