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What is the biggest turn on for couples

February 21 2012

Just wondering what is the turn on the couples, watching your partner having pleasure with someone else or having fun with someone different?

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  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    We would say a combo of both A & B put together. I luved watching someone else pleasure my girl n i know she like the same with me. But i also know it is hot having fun with someone different for sure. That is part of what swinging is we thinks BnB

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    It's more than one thing. Just seeing our other half really enjoying themselves is a huge turn on. Also having a new play partner myself is exciting and fun. Then there is the two women playing together to watch or join.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    I like it when couples are enjoying having a third person..its a turn on for all..

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    We're not very voyeuristic. We like to play evenly and in three that's not a problem.We like to take turns being the centre of attention, and that goes for a our guest as well.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Yeah, both of us are into equal play, though he doesnt mind watching a bit aswell.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    For us, it's a combination of things. You know how it goes, the excitement of meeting someone new, finding out what they like, showing them what you like and having a sneaky (or not so sneaky) glance to see what your partner is up to.It doesn't really matter what the combination is, its something we do together and gives us something a lil' bit different to smile about the next day.Mrs Addy

  • luvsilver

    luvsilver

    14 years ago

    For us it is a bit like a child going to a new playground. A little play on the slide Over to the swings Try the monkey bars and then maybe back to the slide again.   Watching your partner recieve pleasure from someone else is amazing,helping someone else give pleasure to them is a step up again. Four people in a revolving foursome or a couple with a third person joining in makes for a fantastic night whatever the dynamics. Mr Luvsilver

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    i'd have to say watching mrs receiving pleasure from someone else and really loving it, is a huge turn on for me. she loooves watching me please other women and making them cum. but we have times when we both pleasure someone else at the same time, thats hot. and we do love threesomes (mfm) too. now i can decided which is best!!! oh well just have to do them all again and find out ;-)

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'luvsilver' For us it is a bit like a child going to a new playground. A little play on the slide Over to the swings Try the monkey bars and then maybe back to the slide again.   Watching your partner recieve pleasure from someone else is amazing,helping someone else give pleasure to them is a step up again. Four people in a revolving foursome or a couple with a third person joining in makes for a fantastic night whatever the dynamics. Mr LuvsilverTotally agree! Though I always was really bad on the monkey bars

  • WhispersAndMoans

    WhispersAndMoans

    14 years ago

    hot_wa are you talking two couples together or just having another one join?If it is the former (and it probably is) we don't have much experience so can't say too much on that one (yet).If it's the latter, where we do have a bit of experience, its a mix of both playing and one (M) watching / taking photos. There's something exciting about both being right in there amongst it and being a little further from the action but seeing all the pleasure happening. Even better when you can sit back later and look through a good set of photos.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    You nailed it...exactly what we like

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Thats how we feel... :)

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Would have to be when I,ve been fucked so well by our extra guy , come loudly , gag on his big cock , let him blow over / up me .......then he leaves and we talk about it and fuck for hours and hours ummmmmmmmmm very hot

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Mrs Blacktastic here...I love seeing him make another girl squeal. It reminds me that I've got someone who can blow a girl's mind in bed (and when we get home, he's ALL mine), and I also enjoy seeing him fuck from angles I can't normally see while I'm underneath him ;)xx

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    watching our partners having pleasure with someone else whilst having fun with someone differentCass xxx

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    I can't speak for my lady, but I most like watching how other couples relate sexually and sharing our sexual dynamics. So I guess I'm one of the minority of swingers who are more turned on by the same partner same room thing, it also minimizes complications. Ofcourse I also love watching her play with another woman and when we find a couple that things click with and everything gets crazy and its everyone onto everyone. That's probably when things excite me most. I guess for me it's not one thing that does it, but the whole experience.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    lol well after reading all of the above, we can say that "ALL OF THE ABOVE" turn both of us on

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    you folks who get to enjoy others in your relationship are lucky. My mrs wont even watch a blue movie or go to a swingers club. I am considering giving her the arse cause life is so short and she's bloody boring the way she is. Hornycaz

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Hmmm wonder what she is bored with?

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    isnt that the foreplay? we find that the 'after play' sex is incredible..the play itself is just an 'appetiser'........

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Don't give your wife the flick for how she is Branch out on your own with people if she is no willingTry Bi with a guyTry joining a gangbang groupTry everything and see if it's what you wantShe may join you later or notPete

  • QLDtwo4fun

    QLDtwo4fun

    14 years ago

    We enjoy seeing each other enjoying other people, and the pleasure others get from us. As 'kink isthenewpink' said it certainly gives us some bed time topics for conversation too,

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    its great when we get home and she tell me all what the guy did to her the dirty the better

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Mr cns here,,,,,, for me it's all about her. Watching her being pleasured by males and females, and watching her pleasing them in return.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    for us? sharing something new and exciting......neither of us are into watching the other, so all of our experiences are 'shared'....or they just dont happen..... 'one on one' is so far something we haven't explored...and probably never will.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    top answer......top answer..