What is the definition of a strong man

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Who has empathy, who will be with you without feeling he is compromising himself ( i.e. how did you meet) and someone who sticks to his ideals x

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  MsSuperFoxy

  7 years ago

  A weak man does not know what to do with a good woman instead he puts her down by calling her derogatory names like needy, bossy opinionated etc. Yet they forget behind every successful good strong man stands a supportive, encouraging, loving woman. For example his mother. Ms Foxy

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  AnnieWhichway

  7 years ago

  Can bench press 50 kgs? A good man can give you a hug, pass you a tissue and tells you that he understands what you are going through. He can cry with you...... A strong man may not cry with you.

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  Deep_Love

  7 years ago

  A man that is mature enough to keep his shit together while you are falling in a heap THEN can help you pick up the pieces.. ~ Mrs Deep_love

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  Deep_Love

  7 years ago

  I feel like I should say hello to your vagina... because it's like right there! Hello wantotry's vagina *waves*

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  A strong can take charge in the right moments,not always, without being an egomaniac.give real advice and also know when to be comforting, supportive and empathetic. let's a woman be a woman with no psychological control unless it's invited. Never give a reason for her to be jealous , ensuring in every way that she is the only woman he desires or shows affection,and doesn't get jealous but seeks to understand her actions when situations arise.

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Congrats OP on posting what I think is the most interesting question on these forums in quite a while. A very complex question with a very complex answer. I would say that women would have varied definitions (some of which are already on display here) of what constitutes a strong man, and men would mostly have another. Some women consider a strong man to be your stereotypical type (although that stereotype is being challenged more and more these days) - rugged, no nonsense, stands up for his woman, not a cry-baby, loves his footy - etc etc. I have known many women in my life that wouldn't touch anything other than this with a barge pole. Some women consider a strong man to be sensitive, caring, open about his feelings, an emotional crutch, will sit and watch Married At First Sight with them - etc etc. I would say I don't know quite as many women who prefer this version than the one I listed before this. Some women consider a strong man to be one that can balance the two - tough and rugged when he needs to be, caring and sensitive when he needs to be. This is where I come in, because this is what I consider to be a strong man, and what I strive to be as much as I can. When I was in my teens and early adulthood, I was very much the sensitive caring type. Almost effeminate, always talking about my feelings. All I was missing was a book of poetry tucked under my arm when I walked around. Plenty of women wanted to be with me, as in hang out with me because I was so understanding and sensitive, but not one of them wanted anything beyond that, and certainly none of them wanted to fuck me. Rather fortuitously I made some new male friends toward my mid-twenties, and they were your typical ''rugged'' types. For some reason they thought I was cool to hang out with (such types typically thought I was some kind of poofter and thus wanted nothing to do with me - turns out they were only half wrong), and by osmosis I started to ''man up'' a bit, got a bit of a swagger in my step and attitude - and hey, what do you know? Women started finding me attractive, I started to date, women actually wanted to fuck me for the first time in my life. I didn't lose all my ''sensitive'' side, I was still a good bloke whose shoulder was still good to cry on - I just learned to roughen the edges up a bit. Turns out, a lot of women like that. The obligatory disclaimer here - *not all women. I also have to say, I feel a hell of a lot better about myself these days than I did when I was Punchable Me. I think the definition of a strong man could possibly be - a man who can stand up when he needs to, and sit down and listen when he needs to.

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Welcomes responsibility.

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Can lift heavy things 😋 But wai...

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Have to be strong,and what exactly does it mean anyway? I think if women are looking for a "strong man" then they are selling them selves short and men as well. We should all IMO aim to be good people,kind ,caring ,compassionate ,emotionally intelligent. Hugs Q

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