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What kind of photo attracts the right kind of attention from ladies?
February 10 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
I think you have a great profile, you've clearly put some thought into desribing yourself and what you think you might like... good brownie points there. Unlike alot of guys who say they are good looking and quite frankly are not... you are also an exception... very easy on the eye in a Prince Harry way too (so many girls prefer bad boy Harry to pretty boy Will) While I do like the muscle and cock shots that is because that is what I'm looking for, sex, no strings fun... but I do need a face shot too to know if I'll actually be turned on by the guy or merely using his body . Being private people we don't display our face to the public but hide them in PG for those who we think we want to meet (and vice versa) so if a guy doesn't have a face pic on profile we won't totally disregard as we understand the need for discretion. We do however get peeved with people who have a hot face pic and we meet them only to discover the photo was 10 years old and the years haven't been kind. Your pic is clearly fairly recent... more brownie points! If you wanted to add a tasteful shirt off pic (say something at the beach in your boardies) that wouldn't go astray but for the kind of guy you seem to be and what you're looking for anything else would seem tacky (although personally would love to see the rest). All just my opinion but great profile! Mrs Sassy
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well Purple.. I started of with face pix and got the wrong type of attention both here.. The land of trolls, pixies n wannabies and in the real world.. What I've learnt is it's not the best of ideas to have your face pix here for all to see... There's some really shitty ppl out there that do get abusive and violent when they recognise you in public Just because you rejected them on here, So in my opinion be careful with your pix, have some class n shy away from cock pix.. Pixie xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Thanks for the feedback and the compliments. I'll just pretend you didn't mention I look like prince harry haha.Anyone else want to weigh in?
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RHP User
16 years ago
Given that there are so many men on here in relation to women, whatever you do, it's going to be hard to attract the attention of the type of female you fancy. Just be yourself, put up the types of pics you feel comfortable with and don't bother worrying about what may or may not impress this lot. Joanna
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RHP User
16 years ago
You profile is great... the photo is normal.. nothing worse than cockshots honestly.... a normal natural photo is great... gives you a normal perception of who you can expect to meet.I think post pictures you are comfortable with... and you look comfortable in... i know i know, my pix are hidden, but i chose my pix that way.....
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RHP User
16 years ago
I was happier before I paid for membership and started seeing the cock pics, although it certainly makes it easier to reply in the negative to flirts.I really like to see a face pic, because that is what my initial attraction is too, someone's face. Sure a hot body is nice to look at, but it's all in the face.So, if cock pics are included in the profile they'd best belong to the exact type of body I lust after - I don't actually mention what kind of body turns me into a puddle, so that's probably bad of me... otherwise they're more of a turn off than anything.
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RHP User
16 years ago
hi just like to know why i get a number of views and flirts that lead nowhere.......where can my profile be improved (ie suggestions/ideas what you personally like to see) pls if can take min and help me b y having a look at my profile and let me know........
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RHP User
16 years ago
i have my face pic in my pg because i am a private person...but that's me...by being yourself and showing who you are and what you are about...is the best way to attract the women (or women) you desire...and have your say in the forums...speak your mind...because a woman likes to know what is between your ears...cheers and have a balljose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi Purplefire, You are certainly a CUTIE ! If I was 20 years younger I'd be throwing out the bait to you ! For a lot of women, the words are more important than the pics but cock shots are a big NO NO ! I think ComeAndGetMe (Jose) has the best photos I've seen. His are cheeky but not overly sexual. They convey a message about who he is (a playful, fun guy who doesn't talke life too seriously). I think any shots you have need to reflect who you are. If you are into fitness or surfing etc then take those shots. Take a photo of you doing something with a passion or interest of yours. Good luck.... you seem like a genuine guy, I hope you don't get hurt like I have. Hugs Miss_Saturn
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi purplefire...had a peek at your profile...heheHope you have a wonderful experience ..and you get to find what your looking for. But be true to self...and show who you are with words and pics..and share your thoughts in the forumsOH my yes Miss_Saturn..Jose pics are great,just the right amount of tease..leaveing something to the imagination..always sends mine into always in over drive...hehe.Even stalki pics are great..hehe....waving hands to cool myself down..lolxoxoheymumma
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RHP User
16 years ago
doesn't anyone like my broken down bike?shit man. off to take pics of the broken down truck.ahahahahahahahahahahahahaEarlaka king of broken down vehicles.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'mynameisearl2'doesn't anyone like my broken down bike?shit man. off to take pics of the broken down truck.hahahahahahahahahahahahaEarlaka king of broken down vehicles. Hey I've got a broken down vehicle for you to add.. Oh and in response to this topic.... I find pictures that prove what a great dancer you are, are imperative. Most ladies think that your dancing style is closely linked to your sexy style... which is wrong, I've never danced doggy.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Just between you and me..I'm still kind of confused by the dancing style... so, franly, I cant wait to see what Jeano's idea of doggy looks like. :p HUgs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
don't do it jean. pleeeeseahahahahahahahahahaahahaha Earl
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RHP User
16 years ago
im not sure wat kind of pics to put up. so i went with face pic and shirt less pic but i think its all about how u want look in here wat kind of person u want to attract i mit put cock pick in my pg if i get asked to one day. but a cock is not what u really want see first up and i agree the face is what really attracts me first. but write about urself is really the hardest thing to do
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RHP User
16 years ago
you got youth on yer side buddy. go hard son, go hard.ahahahahahahahahahahahaOld Earl.
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RHP User
16 years ago
doesn't matter if ya bike is broken down...as long as you aren't !!!cheersjose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' Just between you and me..I'm still kind of confused by the dancing style... so, franly, I cant wait to see what Jeano's idea of doggy looks like. :p HUgs StalkyCostya..... four beers to be exact :p
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' Just between you and me..I'm still kind of confused by the dancing style...cossack?
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RHP User
16 years ago
Ok, well I added a pic of me in the old holeproof's, the preview image doesn't show my face, but the pic actually does when you go into the profile.This picture was taken a while ago, I am actually in better shape now (bigger muscles), but it shows what I've got essentially. I feel like such a slut now haha (jokes).
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RHP User
16 years ago
Great pic.. but now all the women will be wondering why you've been holding back! Plus, you dont look at all like Prince Harry... and.... I think you should also add a cock shot. :p Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
you're a catch!good looking, decent photos (ie. not INdecent), perfect writeup, and genuine.you should have no probs finding what you're after..but i agree with stalky, girls like nothing more than gratuitous cockshots. *tries to help sabotage the competition*nah, really, as you can probably tell from my jealousy, your profile's great. just what (i think) a girl would be pleased to see/read.as for general etiquette when it comes to dating/sexy sites, i'm pretty naive myself. but personally, i live in a small town near a small city, i wouldn't like to be recognised when i'm showing off my sexy bits for all to see, hence i have no face pic up. we're probably aiming at a similar goal (a bit of fun, but not closed off to more). but you are more tactful and open, hence a face pic compliments the honesty of your profile. i am more reserved and direct. open and honest aswell, but not to just anyone. if she's interested, she can find out when we chat. but i don't need the general public knowing who i am and what i like (again, probably the small town thing).like i said, i'm pretty naive aswell, but i think you nailed it.
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RHP User
16 years ago
*very quickly shoving condoms and essentials into a bag and flying to QLD* Don't think I've caught my breath yet! You are delicious! And you say your bigger now! *blood just rushed from head to.....* Please don't add a cock shot, as much as I do love to see them... you don't need to do that, you're lovely with the assets you're showing. If I say Danny Green will that make up for the Prince Harry comment? Still panting Mrs Sassy
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RHP User
16 years ago
***After a satisfying time in QLD is flying home via South Australia to try and entice 79jdog .... Why can I not find hotties like you in WA???? Maybe because you are good sensible lads looking for single women not a married fart like me Still panting (about to hyperventilate) Mrs Sassy
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RHP User
16 years ago
lolz. You saw right through me with those devilishly beautiful deep blue penetrating eyes of yours didn't you. :) Hugs to you sexy man Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well since I posted the pic up the best message I have had so far is "How big is your cock?". Glad they like me for my best qualities.Sassy, stop trying to get me all hot and bothered, its working.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Purplefire Your profile is great and please don't put up a cock shot!!! You should have no problems finding what you desire. Post pics that you feel comfortable posting.. If you want to do a X-rated shot do it tastefully... givinitago xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Any helpful comments or suggestions that can be thrown my way? Not so much with pics (I'm too sunburned right now to take more. Oops...) but moreso with the written aspect. I'm always at a loss how to describe myself. I know me so well that I've never tried to actually put it into words. Also, I always dread that I come across arrogant... I mean, I like me and I am cocky, but in a playful, semi-selfdepriciating manner which I usually try to avoid doing in writing as the tone gets lost rather easily... So yes, if anyone would be obliging to give feedback it would always be appreciated. Cheers.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Lol purplefire. That cock message you got ... Do women really talk like that right off the bat? There should be more of it. Lolz. Damn. Never happens to me. Hehe. I suspect it will invariably have come from a bloke masquerading in a female profile but I never get any of those either. :( hugs Stalky
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