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What makes a man sexy?

January 18 2011

Ok all you Kinky Boys and Girls. I am very curious to know what sexy means to you? Is it ripped body? Is it a nice smile? A cheeky sense of humour or insatiable thirst for sexy fun? I am finding on this site that sexy means alot of things to alot of people and in some cases overrides a persons normal "type".. Please share your thoughts.

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  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    a little research via checking out who is on womens friends lists will reveal that ripped would be right up there! Thats not to say that those "ripped" guys all resplendent in their displays of six packs, arses, chests and assorted manly poses and Blue Steel looks etc don't have other qualities that a female might find attractive.I am sure that since it is widely held that this is a sex site, and predominantly casual sex at that, raw physical appeal will win hands down.....I mean if its just for a fuck, the other stuff like manners, personality, intelligence etc just aren't nearly so important.Cheers Nev......

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'CarlosSpicyWienr' a little research via checking out who is on womens friends lists will reveal that ripped would be right up there! Cheers Nev...... Completely disagree with that Nev - most of my friends are tfrom he forum and I find them sexy because of their intelligence and humour. But for me what is sexy is the glint in the eye (bedroom eyes), saucy grin. Well okay maybe partially agree - no potbellies for me. :) xxx Meeka

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I think a sexy woman can make a man sexy..

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'GirlTuesday'Sexy people use their most important organ: their brain (wit, intellectual prowess). They are easy to like, because they like themselves and other people. If their eyes smile and they love to laugh, they have my attention. Love the brain...the eyes... xxx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    sometimes you can't quite say what one thing defines sexy.... its usually a combo of things - looks (everyone has different tastes), attitude, the way their mind works, how they relate to you.... but when you get that feeling like there is a racing wildfire between you, you don't know why, you just know you want it! lol!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    This is very hard to define as it changes with each and every different person. More often than not it is the glint in the eye...that spark of mischief, personality is the biggie. Intelligence a must as well as the sense of humour. Confidence to be themselves is sexy. Sorry Nev, ripped is totally immaterial and as for casual sex? Not my thing so the conversation is important.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    A profile pic like yours discreetswagger. I love it! But mostly, for me, it's the eyes, the smile, intelligence, a wickedly sharp sense of humour, nice arms and confidence. There is nothing sexier than confidence!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Taipan12'I think a sexy woman can make a man sexy.. How does that work?

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    The eyes! mental connection! confident! cheeky! and of course his smile! And of course there must be physical attraction! Dynamics! xxx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I would like to say the mind first but for me, I hate body hair, the less the better, its a deal breaker for me. Dont mind a few extra pounds but when you start to get 30kg over weight i'm not to keen. The rest is the mind. You can have the body of a greek god but if you are dull, can't hold a conversation, or can't last more then 60 seconds (oh yes they exist), not sexy. Lastly men only really start to get sexy in their mid 30's.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Oh god, there is nothing sexier than stradling a naked boy, and slapping him in the face, and having him grin back at you.Or a guy with manicured facial hair... I'm into goatees and beards more than mo's, smoking a ciggie in a certain way.Talent. Musicians... I find men who create music extremely sexy... this comes down to me feeling music so deep within myself so their passion also resonates within me.Mmm.... grrrrr grrrrr grrrrr.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    It has to be a combination of things - comes naturally to some, it is just impossible to make it up, so you either have it or not - but then at the same time what it is looks differently to different people :-)

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I can make a man sexy! Sex it up together! A sexy Woman Will always bring out a mans sex appeal! Bring it on! xxx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'Taipan12'I think a sexy woman can make a man sexy.. How does that work? if you go into a bar and you're with an attractive girl, it always seems that other girls find you more attractive - perhaps they're thinking you must have _something_ going for you to have that other girl around... I dunno, it is your gender that does it.. you tell us... .. chicks... *eye roll* ;-)

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'sydneyboy3au' Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'Taipan12'I think a sexy woman can make a man sexy.. How does that work? if you go into a bar and you're with an attractive girl, it always seems that other girls find you more attractive - perhaps they're thinking you must have _something_ going for you to have that other girl around... I dunno, it is your gender that does it.. you tell us... .. chicks... *eye roll* ; Us Sexy Woman Have that Effect! xxx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    The girls think that if that man can get such a hot chick there must be something good about him - his wallet maybe? LOL . xxx Meeka

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'sydneyboy3au' How does that work? if you go into a bar and you're with an attractive girl, it always seems that other girls find you more attractive - perhaps they're thinking you must have _something_ going for you to have that other girl around... I dunno, it is your gender that does it.. you tell us... .. chicks... *eye roll* ;-) I think it's actually simpler and more old fashioned than that Sydlad.... See... it's not about the man... all the other girls want revenge. Women love revenge! There I said it. What's going on is that they see a "beautiful woman" and all those deep seeded emotions from lost boyfriends and knockbacks from times passed where those women have been looked over in favor of the "Beautiful woman" ... and they see that ordinary bloke she's hanging out with and they think "I've picked up much better looking men than him. I'm going to have a crack at it"... See. It's a cat fight and we're just a scrap of meat. Why do you think so many women get shagged by dorky looking guys in the men's toilets at the pub? Old fashioned revenge fucks is my bet! :pNope. If I was single I'd go for the "platonic" relationship with that trophy babe from the office to set myself up for Friday night drinks and let the games begin with all those felines! :p HUgsStalky

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Thanks for the compliment Flirty_Bi_Fem. I thought I would try something different than the usual bits pic! Also thanks to all so far for their responses.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    its in the smile and the eyes cant beat it roxxy

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky' Quoting 'sydneyboy3au' How does that work? if you go into a bar and you're with an attractive girl, it always seems that other girls find you more attractive - perhaps they're thinking you must have _something_ going for you to have that other girl around... I dunno, it is your gender that does it.. you tell us... .. chicks... *eye roll* ;-) I think it's actually simpler and more old fashioned than that Sydlad.... See... it's not about the man... all the other girls want revenge. Women love revenge! There I said it. What's going on is that they see a "beautiful woman" and all those deep seeded emotions from lost boyfriends and knockbacks from times passed where those women have been looked over in favor of the "Beautiful woman" ... and they see that ordinary bloke she's hanging out with and they think "I've picked up much better looking men than him. I'm going to have a crack at it"... See. It's a cat fight and we're just a scrap of meat. Why do you think so many women get shagged by dorky looking guys in the men's toilets at the pub? Old fashioned revenge fucks is my bet! :pNope. If I was single I'd go for the "platonic" relationship with that trophy babe from the office to set myself up for Friday night drinks and let the games begin with all those felines! :p HUgsStalkyMore likely we want what we cant have. The grass is always greener scenario.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    There is something about eyes...I love. If they reflect a smile, warmth or cheekiness - mmmm yummy. A great bod is fun to look at but if there ain't nothing else happening then it fades to nothing of consequence pretty damn fast. If you have hair than invites my fingers to run through it, well that gets my attention too. Did I mention good grooming, you would think it went without saying but sadly no. Then, there are the cases where a man may have none of those things but he just has that 'something'. A deep voice that sets your motor running. An ass that begs you to bounce coins off of it. The list of potential 'sexy' on a man is endless and it's really down to that good old fashioned 'chemistry' at the end of the day. I don't have a clue what 'chemistry' actually is..why take all the mystery out it hehe, but in the meantime, I"m lapping up all the endless varieties of 'sexy' that men present wooooohooooooo.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I dont think there is anything that i could do that would make me find a man Sexy !! Women on the other hand .. well that is much easier

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    If they give me the one look and my pussy lips start to drool and stutter (pulsate)... xFunlovingx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky' Quoting 'sydneyboy3au' How does that work? if you go into a bar and you're with an attractive girl, it always seems that other girls find you more attractive - perhaps they're thinking you must have _something_ going for you to have that other girl around... I dunno, it is your gender that does it.. you tell us... .. chicks... *eye roll* ;-) I think it's actually simpler and more old fashioned than that Sydlad.... See... it's not about the man... all the other girls want revenge. Women love revenge! There I said it. What's going on is that they see a "beautiful woman" and all those deep seeded emotions from lost boyfriends and knockbacks from times passed where those women have been looked over in favor of the "Beautiful woman" ... and they see that ordinary bloke she's hanging out with and they think "I've picked up much better looking men than him. I'm going to have a crack at it"... See. It's a cat fight and we're just a scrap of meat. Why do you think so many women get shagged by dorky looking guys in the men's toilets at the pub? Old fashioned revenge fucks is my bet! :pNope. If I was single I'd go for the "platonic" relationship with that trophy babe from the office to set myself up for Friday night drinks and let the games begin with all those felines! :p HUgsStalkyWhich pub Stalky?

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    You obviously haven't spent as much time in the men's toilets as I have Jean! :pHugsStalky Quoting 'Jean_Girard' Which pub Stalky?

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

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  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    It's in the eyes and the way a guy looks at you. Then there is the way they think, act and importantly for me the way a guy touches and kisses.

  • N4November

    N4November

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'GirlTuesday'Sexy people use their most important organ: their brain (wit, intellectual prowess). They are easy to like, because they like themselves and other people. If their eyes smile and they love to laugh, they have my attention.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I agree with you on the fact that a good bod might attract a girls attention more than beer belly but I disagree on the fact that that manners, personality and intelligence are not as important, in fact I strongly belive that this factors are actually more important than the person's body! There is nothing better to turn on a girl if you can stimulate her brain with a good charm combined to a little cheekiness!!! ;) The same thing goes for girls and boys (or at least for me), becouse you could be the most beautiful sexy girl on earth but if you are a dumb and arrogant bitch I would never go near you! Obviously tho if you have it all, charm, brain, sense of humor, good personality, a sexy body,a nice smile and a pretty face you will never go wrong!! Xx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Million dollar quote!!!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Are there any guys like this left in Adelaide? The ones with intelligence, imagination, confidence, good conversational skills, a naughty grin and a wicked glint in their eye? Men with PASSION and verve, who love to touch and kiss...and who can last where it counts. And I love a guy in a sharp suit...but what I adore even more is peeling the suit off and finding a tanned bod and a hairy chest beneath it. Mmm mmm.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    There is you just need to know where to look...lol