M42
What number is to big.
October 07 2017
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RHP User
8 years ago
I lost count about 6 months in 😄 I had a phone semi die on me at the time, and manually went through my contacts from here, the ones I'd been with, and counted 70 😀 a percentage of them were ongoing fb's as well so let's say I was a busy girl. Best year of my life, that first year. I continued to meet a few new ones but was kept fairly busy with repeats, then my life got a lot tougher. Things slowed accordingly. That's not counting the rest of my life lol jeez 200-300? 😂😂 But I have a very high sex drive and felt entitled in a way, to grab opportunity, given my age, I wanted to get action and I certainly did that. I don't advertise all on my friends list though, always keep that very lean, and these days, life is very challenging and busy, I don't have the time I once had. Happy all the same. I say lucky you. Go for it, root your brains out. Life's too short to ask if it's okay 😉
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RHP User
8 years ago
I don't give a fuck about anyone's number, and I don't give a fuck about what anyone else thinks of my number. It's no ones business but your own, for one, and secondly... Why would anyone think differently of you? What does it change? And I couldn't give a fuck if someone tried to slut shame me for anything I've done, it's my life and I'll do with it as I please. This kind of thought could be why you feel ashamed. What exactly do you need to be embarrassed about? I'm not sure I understand, sex is apart of us... The complexity of our sexual nature should be celebrated, not shamed. If any of your mates feel differently about you after learning of your number, I would suggest they have an issue... Not you. Anyway, the underlying issue in your post is something I feel really passionate about 😊
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RHP User
8 years ago
Wow thank you so much ladies for your feed back. You both are awesome. I never felt bad or anything and I know I'm very different then them. When I was younger I was very shy and the first time I fucked someone like most I was bad at it. I made it my mission to get good at it and so I slept around and had lots of fun. I leant a lot about what girls liked and it helped me to grow to be more passionate and giving. So my number that I really don't know the spot on number but it made me who I am today. So I'm happy to be someone that has had a lot of sex. I came on here to get involved more and try new things. Again girls thank you for your feed back. Both of you rock - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
This has made me wanna add more to my number. Thank you ladies - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Yeah my tally's dropping off lol high time I did something about that 😇
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RHP User
8 years ago
Haha I travel around in a 2011 vw van around Australia so I have a mobile home and I guess locations are endless maybe this site will be a good tool at getting my number up on my travels - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
The average age that people lose their virginity in Australia is 17* (16.9 for females and 17.4 for males, to be precise). So assuming you're 'average' OP, you've been sexually active for 16 years which equates to 2-3 partners a year in your case. Hardly shocking or shameful. My point is that numbers are just that... numbers, and they can be twisted any way you want. Not cool that you were made to feel ashamed, and I'm glad to read from your second post that you're owning it - go you! I have no idea how many people I've been with. Couldn't be bothered tallying it up, but suspect it's *slightly* more than 40. And as you said, every one of the encounters I've had have made me who I am and I wouldn't change a thing. *Disclaimer: those were the first stats that came up on Google... open to correction.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Now go out and have some fun ... lotsa fun.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Thanks elkem well I only slept with about 5 women by the age of 30 and then I lost weight and got onto tinder and so the 37+ was from the Age of 30. But yeah I fully understand what your saying. And yeah I'm owning it now and I am so ready to learn even more. I'm really liking this site I am getting some great insite from it - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Call me Ms average, lost my virginity at 17 👍
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Hawt1
8 years ago
With a lover of mine... took me about an hour to add it up in my head, finger counting so I didn't lose track... I was so proud when I got the final tally... then she shot me down in flames trumping me... Hahahaha I was most impressed by her tally, I was even feeling complimented that some one who has such a lot of experience chooses to spend so much time with me. I love people and women especially that are uninhibited by social programming and just do what feels right and good in the moment. We have been seeing each other for a few years now, this was just another funny conversation we have had. This would be a biased place to conduct such a survey besides, there is no normal in my humble opinion.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I've made these comments before, but shall repeat them A high number doesn't automatically make someone a good lover..... just as a low number doesn't inherently mean someone is inexperienced A couple who married as high school sweethearts may have a number of 1, but a lifetime of genuine passion, and commitment to learning and exploring with each other. I would argue that they are better lovers than someone who has little regard for who they have sex with, as long as they get it. The number can mean nothing. Attitude is everything. DG - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Doesn't really matter how many or how few someone has had. It's just a number and not really anyone elses business to judge someone on it. Mine is only 4 and I'm fine with that. I was in a ltr for 25 years.
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RHP User
8 years ago
The beer goggle fucks.... No idea 😁 Wet and cold in Perth Meander 😁 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Live it up and make the most of it while you can, look at Hugh Heffner...bet he knocked up major numbers and never had regrets!... then again if you commit to someone that will slow the telly...take it as it comes and enjoy the ride.
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XBonnieClydeX
8 years ago
I wouldn't even bother counting, I'd rather think about the person,the raunchiness of what we got up too. Numbers are best used when describing other things such as finances.......or dates that suit two busy schedules 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Your mates might have the same needs as you but cant get their numbers up due to shethouse game.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Literally just spent 2 hrs engaged in heavy discussion with a stripper who given her industry hasn't had sex in 12mths. Wow! ! We were super engaged in the D/S dynamic of trust and intimacy without the vanilla take of sex, ie, penis to vagina and all is sweet. It was a bucks night before everyone asks....... For the record. Somewhere in the 20s is all I have. I can't do one night hookups. Unless is she is my dream girl and I'm hornier than a ram in a field full of ewes... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Thank you everyone for so much feed back its so awesome to be able to be open about topics like this. Keep rocking people - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
... gets to decide how you live your life. Sure, others will then make snap judgements on you based on your numbers and how they perceive you but seriously, you owe nobody else an explanation except for those in your "inner circle", and be confident and self assured enough so that even if sheer disgust/disapproval was cast in your direction, you wouldn't even flinch. 😉 I actually give f**kall to the opinions of people I don't know/care about. I actually lost my virginity at a younger age than the Aussie average 😛😛😛, but I was with a man seven years my senior, quite manipulative and very worldly wise, and we were in a 7-8 year relationship where he proposed to me so many times, I've lost count. 😛 ... ... ... And ok... I love sex, so once I lost my virginity to him, I was insatiable and he was always horny so we were f**king happy bunnies! 😊 Or should I say, bunnies happily f**king? 🤣 I didn't think I'd ever have more than one lover, but when things turned turtle and I chose to leave, I wasn't about to remain a chaste nun so a few years later, in came #2. Again, it was a serious relationship that went nowhere, hence opening the legs...oops sorry! I meant door 🤣 ... to #3. I never ever thought I'd hit five, but I have. And now, my personal goal is to never reach 10 ever. But famous last words? 🤣🤣🤣 I come from a background, culture, and social circle that is very different and I have friends who are 40+ year old virgins and it looks like they might die virgins too. 😛 But to each his/her own. I've ever remained celibate for nine years and I think I almost became the first person to die from voluntary, self-imposed abstinence. Almost became the historic Case #1 of the exotic disease - Pussy Convulsions secondary to nada dickus nofuckus. 🤣🤣🤣 So see... I crave meaningful, deep connections, which makes me keep my numbers really low. But, I'm a passive commitmentphobic, a nerdette, and a realistic idealist, which makes it hard for me to meet someone I'll well and truly fall in love with, enough to say "Yes" when proposed to. This then leaves me walking away from relationships that weren't going to work, hence inadvertently chalking up the numbers. My self- imposed limits were busted as a direct consequence of failed relationships. Moving forward, like it or not, the numbers are what they are and they cannot be erased. Life is fluid and ever-changeable - a nun may decide to be totally slutty and have gang bangs when she turned 55... someone who's slept with more than 60 men may suddenly fall in love and have only one sex partner from then till death. We tend to associate numbers with our ideal ways of living but we don't get to plan the curveballs or the mistakes or the f**ked up phases of our lives. Neither can we foresee how we might end up making 180 deg turns and suddenly embrace a lifestyle that's completely opposite to our current ideals. The next time you find yourself being asked that question OP, remember that certain information about yourself is privileged and personal, and package your answer to the audience. You have the power to give or withhold information so why would you give someone with a prissy, judgemental attitude ammunition to stone you with? 😉 If you have the inner fortitude to withstand harsh judgements, reveal your number and laugh at them squirm. If you know their response will affect you negatively, or make you uncomfortable, simply decline to answer and give a soft smile. 🙄
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RHP User
8 years ago
Say OP, here's another observation - the times have changed and recently, the man in the 2016 Gold Coast case who was being investigated because he shut a woman out on the balcony, who then decided to climb down the building and fell to her death... remember that case? Well, that dude was only 30 then, but he had chalked up 250+++ women he's had sex with. 🤤🤤🤤 Courtesy of Tinder. Lol! 🤣 Remember that Mambo #5 song? That dude probably did Monica, Jessica, Lisa, Veronica, Priscilla, and oh... can't remember the names of the other hookups... on prolific weekends! Lol! Ok, back to the topic! My point is, apps like Tinder and the concurrent sexual freedom has changed social trends and dating/fucking patterns. Your number's in the 40's? Well, you don't even come close to that guy - by Oct 2016, he boasted of 260! Relative, my dear Watson! Numbers are relative! 😉
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RHP User
8 years ago
I'll call you average with regard to the the age you lost your virginity but not with respect to anything else. Nothing average about you, and I mean that as a compliment 😘
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RHP User
8 years ago
Couldn't ageee more. Similarly, a five minute session of missionary-style sex with someone where you're totally into each other, can be way hotter and more satisfying than a hours long session full of acrobatics and position changes with a total stranger that you have no connection with.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Depends what numbers you are including. On a decent night at a swingers party you might have some sexual contact with 5,10, or even more people in one night. Men and women. Do they count?
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RHP User
8 years ago
I don't think that is what bothers some people with numbers. My understanding is that some will make the assumption that you are Not discerning, easy, don't respect yourself or don't respect the lovers you have, etc. Perhaps women assume a man is player if he has lots of lovers and he is not a settling down type?
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RHP User
8 years ago
Yeah Candy I have never been to a swingers thing but I am wanting to. Some I would love to add to the list. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I travelled, studied and worked O/S for sometime so my number is up there but I would take 1 good FB or FWB over 10 terrible tinder or drunken one night stands. Each to there own
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RHP User
8 years ago
Play well, play safe and live life a good human being. That's all that matters?! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Thank you 😘😘😘
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missy_mo0
8 years ago
Once you get past the number 1, the rest of the numbers are irrelevant - Posted from rhpmobile
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Hawt1
8 years ago
Quoting 'PurePeony' ... gets to decide how you live your life. Sure, others will then make snap judgements on you based on your numbers and how they perceive you but seriously, you owe nobody else an explanation except for those in your "inner circle", and be confident and self assured enough so that even if sheer disgust/disapproval was cast in your direction, you wouldn't even flinch. 😉 I actually give f**kall to the opinions of people I don't know/care about. I actually lost my virginity at a younger age than the Aussie average 😛😛😛, but I was with a man seven years my senior, quite manipulative and very worldly wise, and we were in a 7-8 year relationship where he proposed to me so many times, I've lost count. 😛 ... ... ... And ok... I love sex, so once I lost my virginity to him, I was insatiable and he was always horny so we were f**king happy bunnies! 😊 Or should I say, bunnies happily f**king? 🤣 I didn't think I'd ever have more than one lover, but when things turned turtle and I chose to leave, I wasn't about to remain a chaste nun so a few years later, in came #2. Again, it was a serious relationship that went nowhere, hence opening the legs...oops sorry! I meant door 🤣 ... to #3. I never ever thought I'd hit five, but I have. And now, my personal goal is to never reach 10 ever. But famous last words? 🤣🤣🤣 I come from a background, culture, and social circle that is very different and I have friends who are 40+ year old virgins and it looks like they might die virgins too. 😛 But to each his/her own. I've ever remained celibate for nine years and I think I almost became the first person to die from voluntary, self-imposed abstinence. Almost became the historic Case #1 of the exotic disease - Pussy Convulsions secondary to nada dickus nofuckus. 🤣🤣🤣 So see... I crave meaningful, deep connections, which makes me keep my numbers really low. But, I'm a passive commitmentphobic, a nerdette, and a realistic idealist, which makes it hard for me to meet someone I'll well and truly fall in love with, enough to say "Yes" when proposed to. This then leaves me walking away from relationships that weren't going to work, hence inadvertently chalking up the numbers. My self- imposed limits were busted as a direct consequence of failed relationships. Moving forward, like it or not, the numbers are what they are and they cannot be erased. Life is fluid and ever-changeable - a nun may decide to be totally slutty and have gang bangs when she turned 55... someone who's slept with more than 60 men may suddenly fall in love and have only one sex partner from then till death. We tend to associate numbers with our ideal ways of living but we don't get to plan the curveballs or the mistakes or the f**ked up phases of our lives. Neither can we foresee how we might end up making 180 deg turns and suddenly embrace a lifestyle that's completely opposite to our current ideals. The next time you find yourself being asked that question OP, remember that certain information about yourself is privileged and personal, and package your answer to the audience. You have the power to give or withhold information so why would you give someone with a prissy, judgemental attitude ammunition to stone you with? 😉 If you have the inner fortitude to withstand harsh judgements, reveal your number and laugh at them squirm. If you know their response will affect you negatively, or make you uncomfortable, simply decline to answer and give a soft smile. 🙄 Wow!! What an epic tale, loved it!
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RHP User
8 years ago
I have really loved all this feed back people it's so awesome to have talks on these topics. I don't feel ashamed of my number at all. Now I am just wanting to build on it and take it right through the roof and into out of space - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I don’t keep a tally....it serves no purpose other than a way to compare, or be compared to... As it’s been said above....it’s really no one else’s business - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Thanks! 😉 Wow... someone actually read my epic length post! Lol! Sometimes, I indulge in (written) soliloquays. 🤣😛 The lips and mouth may be well-exercised, but at least the pussy lips are still tight! 🤣🤣🤣
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RHP User
8 years ago
You are on point and love what you have to say. And the emojis are always welcome haha. And super glad the pussy lips are tight 😂😀🙌🏻 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Well I have to admit well over 200 and don't regret any as more the merrier
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RHP User
8 years ago
I always think I'm not. Gonna be on my death bed thinking shit wish I didn't have all that sex. Have as much as you like and stop counting is my advice - Posted from rhpmobile
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Hawt1
8 years ago
Quoting 'PurePeony' Thanks! 😉 Wow... someone actually read my epic length post! Lol! Sometimes, I indulge in (written) soliloquays. 🤣😛 The lips and mouth may be well-exercised, but at least the pussy lips are still tight! 🤣🤣🤣 The sensible me says no don't say that.. the cheeky me says "Prove it"! Hahaha
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gazpacho
8 years ago
I used to carry one of those stocktake clicker counters but really, after totally liberating your inhibitions, there’s no point counting. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
nailed it. You only live once. At my age, that reality really sets in. For those who get with the program earlier, good for you 👍
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RHP User
8 years ago
Keep safe get tested regular. Have fun. Be happy in your self and life. Numbers don't matter at the end of the day as long as you are happy. Numbers are No ones business but yours, if anyone asks you can always say just a couple or a few, dont have to be specific. As long as you enjoy life 😎 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Try that in almost a year your not bad - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Ive lost count to how many guys lve had but lm having a great time doing it - Posted from rhpmobile
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HotNightsGC
8 years ago
Safe sex, be respectful of others and enjoy your life. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Why? We're not back in the school-yard! For me, it's quality every time and the connection and chemistry. If you're a woman who's had a hundred men, I'm gunna treat you like a lady, if our chemistry is good. If it's not, I'm off!! I tell my 18 year old son that, when he takes a girl out, she's still someones daughter, treat her with respect. I'd really like to hear the story the rest of the conquests would say about your "meets", I think OP, you've just put yourself on the "Avoid" list of most women who contribute to the forums! M_D4
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RHP User
8 years ago
My number is 7 including my husband 😂😅 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I first had sex at the tender age of 18 (On my Birthday to be exact). So far in my life (33 years) I have only slept with a grand total of 9 women. HahahaMr (Ash).
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RHP User
8 years ago
That's the main thing. As long as you're having fun then it doesn't matter how many. It's just a number like someone's age.
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
If you can remember how many, you are missing out. You need to go harder.....
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RHP User
8 years ago
So I have lost count and it don't bother me now at all. Thanks for all the feed back people and I promise to keep fucking till the cows come home and the best part I don't own cows - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Haha I'll stay out of this one. Besides no one would believe me anyway......... 😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
😂😂
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RHP User
8 years ago
Not enough!!!!!!!
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RHP User
8 years ago
I got asked this the other day, what's your number? Could have been cheeky or sarcastic but as my sister and I had been discussing this recently I asked for a little specificity. Does oral count? What about same sex encounters? Group events? The number varies depending on the answer. Can you remember the name of every person you've hooked up with? I personally don't care about numbers. In the moment it's me and whoever is there with me. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
No I can't remember all the names, most probably because quite a few we never bothered exchanging names, just got down to it lol
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EarthQueen
8 years ago
Quoting 'want2tryitout1' So I have lost count and it don't bother me now at all. Thanks for all the feed back people and I promise to keep fucking till the cows come home and the best part I don't own cows - Posted from rhpmobile October. go hard or go home LOL
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RHP User
8 years ago
I'm a 30 year old virgin. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
My numbers are not big compared to a lot of people but I don’t remember all their names... honestly, I could walk past a lot of them in the street and probably not recognize some of them. I reckon those people don’t count and shouldn’t be added to my tally. Haha
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RHP User
8 years ago
Less than I want, more than she knows :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Yeah I can say for a fact that I don't know half the women's names that I fucked. Got to a point when I thought it was to late to ask and would just feel rude. So in my old phone I just put their street address in the contacts. Omg saying that out loud makes me feel like a jerk. I really don't mean to sound that way I just thought why would it matter they would just be one timers. Omg I'm not helping my character at all. I promise I am a good bloke - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I never thought men worried about the number. I grew up being told that every time you slept with someone they took a little piece of you. I wasn’t until this year that I stopped caring and worked out that I get a little something too. It’s no ones business and I’m pretty sure no one cares either as long as you’re having fun! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Haha well I did the same, not street address but a characteristic/nationality/dick size lol something unique to them. It was also for discretionary reasons being that quite a few weren't single. We would just call each other initially by user names, then pet names, or nothing, do you really need to say their name before, during or after sex? I found it wasn't necessary. I also was aware that guys might give a name but it might not actually be their name, how do we really know anyway. But IMO unless entering a relationship with them, not a big deal. Good to know I'm not the only person who did that though 😉
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RHP User
8 years ago
I also wouldn't now recognise some from a few years ago if I walked past them in the street. The ones who I saw over a longer period of time yes, but not the one meet only guys
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RHP User
8 years ago
I lost count before I was 20......*whistles as she walks away* - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I’m sure a few of us have had similar conversations, when I was still dating my ex wife, she was still at Uni, and one of her friends was insatiable, my ex was her safe call, and it was not unheard of for us to get 4-5 calls a night on a weekend from her friend who had picked up played up and gone out to pick up again. We lost count at 500 and something and that was in the first 12mths that I was with my Ex. It became something of a running joke for us to ask what the new total was each Monday. That was 15years ago... I don’t even want to guess today’s number - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
For me zerooo, please ladies message me to teach me how to be experience - Posted from rhpmobile
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justjules05
8 years ago
Roll of toilet paper to fit them all on! More pricks than a second hand dartboard and more pussy on top of that! I wasn't a slut though.....haha, just a young girl having a good time and now I'm an old girl having a good time and possibly going to turn into a massive slut haha and I love it! We only live once and life and love always fucks us up so I'm into only FWB one-off encounters or repeat but no feelings, expectations or regrets! I challenge you to triple your number by this time next year, I plan on starting another roll of paper for mine! If it feels good, you're all consenting adults just do it! Anywhere and everywhere! JA 💋💜 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Well mine would be top side of 200 easily but shouldn't matter we should just be thankful of a fulfilling life.I think I slowed down a little when I hit 52yo after 6 different in one week.
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casanovastudd
8 years ago
You kinda lose count after the first 1000... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Love it 😂😂
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RHP User
8 years ago
I feel like I'm hogging this topic but had to say I loved your post 😀 I'm off to get me a toilet roll 😉
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RHP User
8 years ago
I have been sexually active since I was 14. I did add them up a few years ago. With a few long term relationships in between Plus been married. I want to enjoy my life and my freedom to shag whoever I want and there has been a few in the last few months. More than some and less than others. I simply don't care what other people think. My life has been hard and being in my forties gives me the time and opportunity to do as I please without worrying about everyone else which has always been my problem. Selfish. Hell yes and loving every fucking minute of it. I want to experience these things on my own terms instead of being a good girl and doing what a man wants. I want to experience the naughty and the nice and push past the fine line to find out what I want.
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Sawadee
8 years ago
There was a time when I knew the exact number , but somewhere along the way I lost count , or lost interest more like it. I'm lucky to remember the count for this year , let alone a lifetime..
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RHP User
8 years ago
Jayme2 you crack me up. I used to keep count also but totally lost my way. I certainly wouldn’t admit what I thought was my number to my vanilla friends. God forbid they’d disown me. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
And Justjules .....love your work, my kind of woman x - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
OP.... Assuming that one day you'll want a long term relationship or to get married... Would you want a partner or wife who'd had sex with that many men that she couldn't remember the number? How do you think you'd feel telling a woman you loved that you'd fcked so many women that you couldn't remember how many? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I lost count quite a few years ago and my number is quite a bit higher than anyone has mentioned here but I'm not phased about it. I don't think it's a big deal some people may have been in long relationships others may have been more carefree and met and played with more people. Was quite funny I met a Canadian girl on Tinder and after seeing each other a few times she asked me for mine. She was around 70 and was not impressed (in a funny competitive way) when I blew her away with my number (it was a competition apparently) haha. We had a good laugh about it. But I know some who don't like my answer. If anything I suppose it just makes you that much more experienced for when you meet someone and know what you're doing I suppose. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I loved reading this post and the replies. I understand the whole numbers thing... The way I see it... Don't worry about it, just keep adding 😇 Irrespective of what others think, we need to be true to ourselves and feed our desires as necessary. My hubby just introduced me to the world of swinging and sharing, I was so scared at first, but am now insatiable. Just keep doing what pleases you... And if you're ever in the central coast... We would love to add to your number 😘 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I have only one comment to make on this matter...as long as you give your partners what they need and want and you treat them respectfully after the event, the more your number is the more people you have given an awesome memory to. Good on you! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
For me it's about the quality. I read in here about people who have slept with 100's of people and have lost count and I think to myself that how many were just a meaningless fuck. But maybe that's just me not looking for a quick wham bam thank you mam. I'm happy with my count of 4 and I remember each person intimately because it meant something.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Who cares. For me it’s not about numbers, it’s about having a great time with someone. Whether that be the Mrs, someone new, or someone you’ve met before. If someone was only looking to add to their number rather than looking for a compatible partner, then move along please. If we don’t match, you won’t be adding me to your number.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Each one of my 350 meant something 😂😂 I just pulled that figure out of my bum, how many did I say earlier?🐒
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RHP User
8 years ago
I first lost my virginity 😇 I think I did more than 4 that first week 😊 Once I got a taste, that was it. Which of course wasn't widely accepted in mainstream society. I always thought there was something wrong with me. Now I know ☺
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RHP User
8 years ago
KJ and Mr Playful, good posts! 🖒 I fully agree though - the motives behind chalking up the numbers, and behind asking the question in the first place, is important too. Are we sleeping with as many as we can because our soul is seeking a special something / someone that we can't quite define yet? Or are we doing it because of mindless hedonism, the sexual equivalent of a glutton, just chuffing it all in and over-indulging? Some poster mentioned that she was told that everytime one has sex, one gives a part of themselves away. I was told that too, and believed it for a long time. Now, I've had Eureka moments where I realise that if one takes a step back, evaluates the situation objectively, and is disciplined enough to keep one's emotions and sentiments in reign, one can actually reap the benefits of the encounter without paying too much of a price for it in heart and soul currency. I still prefer to keep my number way down low, as low as can be, but again, that's entirely a personal preference. Some of us can be wanton and thrive on encounters with numerous people. And then there are those of us who prefer perfecting the whole experience with just one trusted partner. We are all made different and there's no one size fits all when it comes to issues like this - the best thing to do is to congregate with like-minded folks so that no one feels condemned/ judged and everyone thrives in their own comfort zone. In any case, a prude today may become a Cassanova tomorrow and vice versa. In any case, someone's reaction towards our numbers may be entirely due to the fact that it is out of their personal acceptable range and they are using that yardstick to measure other's To ask a dog to stop licking its own ass is being kinda unrealistic and totally against the poor dog's primal nature. Best to just let it be. 😜😊
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RHP User
8 years ago
Beautifully written and worded. I'm a firm believer of building a connection with someone so that there is a mutual passion and longing between 2 people. I think that's the difference between sex for the sake of it and having great sex.
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RHP User
8 years ago
And what a lovely bum it is. I remember paying homage to it in my song lyrics 😜😜
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