What to say in an email?

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  Are they? Think you should be careful with that one... being more sexually open doesn't mean everyone's after a love-you-then-leave-you situation... I'm pretty sure the women here are after what women on other sites would be - just with a lesser focus on it forming into a relationship... perhaps you should consider that...

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  Maybe you're right about there not being so much focus on forming a relationship, but in my experience the most people's profile say is "I WANT TO HAVE SEX NOW!!!", which doesn't really leave much to go on. How do you start a conversation like that? "Oh hey, yeah, I want to have sex too- believe it or not! Let's meet up and screw sometime?" Of course, that's a huge exaggeration, but I haven't encountered many profiles that really share much about the person. Makes writing a typical conversational email a little difficult, when all you've got to go on is a mutual appreciation for doing it.

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  Well I can't speak for other people's profiles but my take on the matter is that messages on the site are not to spill one's heart out or to give all the minutiae of one's personality to someone else when offering your friendship (or more). The profiles are an advertisement to hook people in - and obviously people have differing idea one what will attract the right sort of people to them - and the messaging / flirting is only to show that you're interested in knowing them really. Profiles aren't really there to give away everything about the person and I don't think it's really necessary. I guess I don't know if you're after people who want to exchange a whole lot of emails before meeting or whatnot. I, personally, never use messages for anything more than to simply say that I'm interested and that I hope they like my profile and I'd love to meet sometime to have a chat + some contact details. I don't think it needs to be more of a detailed message than that. I put effort into presenting my profile well, hope they like it and fingers crossed the person will reply positively! If they don't, I move on and just keep on improving my profile the best I can. As for those profiles that say "I want sex now" and nothing more well... I guess I don't like those much and I wouldn't be interested in messaging a profile like that but I'm sure you go about it the same way. It's the same as receiving messages. I never like messages that simply ask me to contact so-and-so for some 'hard cock action' or something like that. (haha - so I guess I'm saying writing stuff like that is a BAD BAD idea) Anyway, hope my 2c helps...

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  i've actually found that most guys on this site only want a one night stand... and it's to the point where they will lie to a chick to get into her pants saying that he wants a regular thing... then having no contact after that... there is hope for u... seriously... not all chicks are after a one night stand but they can be picky about who they hook up with... even just to chat... have u tried going in to the chat rooms and starting chats in there? it's always one way to go... i have met many people from this site... males and females... but in saying that ... i'm straight and i haven't had sex with many guys from here... i'm usually very choosy... but i'm always up for a chat with people... believe it or not, i have actually had emails from guys saying: hey i'm horny want some sex tonight or what?... and then i don't hear from them again... keep trying... good luck with ur search... you'll get there i'm sure

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  Thanks Chatnoir, that actually was pretty helpful. I mean, I was raised to respect women, so I try to avoid offering "hard cock action" anyway, but obviously I enjoy sex, otherwise i'd be using the Dating part of the site, not the Uncut part... but I to be a gentleman about it, if that makes any sense. I mean, i'm not opposed to a relationship, so why burn the bridge before I cross it? Since you and PinkyBubs seem to be the types who actually appreciate my kind of message (if only I was 2 years older to fit into your age limit!), maybe I should just keep doing what i'm doing. :)

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