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What would you do if ....

November 02 2014

you recognised someone from their RHP pic/profile/forum comments in the "real" world. Do you : (a) smile at them knowingly but take it no further?(b) start a general conversation but dont let on that you are from RHP and see where it goes?(c) ignore them in case they recognise you?(d) introduce yourself as a fellow RHPer and see what their reaction is? *** If you did introduce yourself as in (d) .... what was their reaction? I have recognised several people at clubs, shops, a client I had an appointment with (he was married but looking for discreet fun on RHP), and a work colleague who spoke openly about the parties and people he had met and played with, etc. I've never really known what to do about it. I'm not sure how I would react if someone announced that they knew me from RHP. Interested in your thoughts and experiences. Hugs LG

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I was going to message this but I'm addicted to the concussion and the hot nurses in emergency.....so .....wanna fuck or just watch while I have one?? Then start rubbing your crotch and licking your lips.... :p - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I would do nothing..I live in s small community and I am a very private person....I think you should respect people's privacy.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    sure if this topic has been done before but looking forward to some of your responses. CheersLG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I think it would be interesting. And probably give me the edge in to try out the flirt factor if they were someone I was interested in.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I would smile but not make any reference to RHP. People have a right to their privacy. Funny though, was in town the other day and saw this security guard who I have seen at numerous bi-sexual men's parties. Almost didn't recognize him with clothes on. He didn't see me, and I just walked by without attracting his attention. :)

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    11 years ago

    I have been out with daughter in grocery line and man behind us said "Hey you're Foxy" (something like that can't remember quite a while ago now) How rude is that to say in front of child! And just recently someone in my real life...seriously it's like 2 degree of seperation on this site and so incestious ! Best to say nothing and carry on...people have a right to privacy and people should respect that and others. Sometimes that does not happen, shame when there's rotten eggs in the hen house! And if someone mentioned RHP to me I would say "there's nothing to discuss"... As for work college I'd be very very cautious and weary if another talking openly about stuff... My career is worth more than a few stories to share. Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Agree with you Foxxxy ... I have never said anything either ... absolutely believe discretion is more important. The appointment with the client I mentioned in the opening topic was a very awkward situation. I had received a message from him with his pg open so I could see his face and a whole lot more. I declined to meet because as a rule I don't meet married/attached people so it went no further. The appointment I had was with both he and his wife. It was very awkward because he didn't know who I was and I knew so much about his marriage and what he looked like naked. His wife was not aware of his RHP activities. I found it very difficult to keep from being flustered but as a professional handled it. His wife and I got on very well!!! LG

  • QLDtwo4fun

    QLDtwo4fun

    11 years ago

    We passed a couple from here on an escalator, we were going up they were going down. We all smiled discretely and passed by. Kids didn't even notice.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I think if someone has a face pic in their main gallery on here it makes them fair game for being recognized and approached in public, much like FB and other social sites. You don't have to be an RHP member to read forums and see profile pics (some limitations) so being on here is already completely public. That said, there's no excuse for approaching someone in an obnoxious or thoughtless way, without consideration for where they are and who they're with. If I wanted to approach or acknowledge someone from here I'd look for a way to do so discreetly. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Say nothing! Could get very awkward. I have had somebody recognise me, but he messaged me the next day and mentioned it. Luckily he didn't say anything at the time as I was with my mother!

  • MissBishere

    MissBishere

    11 years ago

    a few times at the local shops. I always know when it happens as they do that double take. No one has approached me in person I just get a message from them later that day usually. I agree approaching in public could be hazardous. The times I've been recognized I've been with my kids so I wouldn't have welcomed anyone mentioning rhp. I have a group of friends at work that kinda know but I don't discuss details with them.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    My closest experience was meeting two forumites at a sordid club... The topic was appropriate to the venue... And was very well discussed... If I recognised you at the shops, and there was a discreet oppertunity to to say "you look familiar... ;) then you're going to meet hp 😄 It's then up to you how you want to progress that... Obviously if your kids/mother/pastor are there... Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...

  • Seachange73

    Seachange73

    11 years ago

    I have recognized a couple of men who live around my area at shops who continuously send me flirts but never message me because they are Guests. I suppose they just like to flirt. Lol. I saw them shopping (not together) at the local Woolworth but I just walked past stealthily as I wouldn't know how they would react. What we do outside rhp is our private business so if we were not properly acquainted on the site, the RL is off limits. IMHO. I would not invade their privacy as it would be disrespectful.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    A couple of people I see at clubs regularly, if they're with someone I just smile, if they're alone I say hi.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I have been recognized three or four times, mostly in the local pub Lucky for me the men have been discreet, but I do not like it and it worries me at times. I have two lives and I like to keep it that way as people can be judgmental arse holes and will often use this against a person, i have seen it happen a time or two. I have recognized two doctors on here so you can imagine how embarrassing it would be for them at their work. One we have a great old natter when we catch up. the other I still see now and again, but would never ever embarrassed him or even acknowledge him or anyone in public that I know off here. That being said, I do mix with a lot of women on here, and I just tell my other friends that we met via my art, or other activities that I do. Some of my straight friends are to nosy so I always get the cover story right before they meet my other friends. My husband of course knows where I have met these women. I have been friends for years and years with women I met on the internet, not just RHP but other sites over the years. One is on her way from the USA now and will spend a few weeks with us. I would pretend I did not know them.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I've been recognised by a lady, she did the whole "have we met before?" I said no. She then said "oh um sorry I realise where I know your face from now...... You're on RHP aren't you?" She did this very discretely which was fine. I laughed and said yeah I am, we spoke briefly but I was called in by the physio so missed catching her name and number. I have also recognised a few people I just smile and either give a head nod or say g'day as we walk past each other.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I haven't recognised anyone, or been recognised that I know of. I'm terrible with putting names to faces so if I did see a familiar face it would be hours before I worked out where I'd seen them before. With all familiar faced people I'll smile and possibly say hi. If they start a conversation my brain will be whirring trying to work out where I know them from.... I usually work it out when I wake at 2am a day or two later thinking that's where I know them from.... There's only a small proportion of people that have profile pictures that Id be able to identify someone by anyway, so I'm sure everyone is very safe from recognition by me...

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    11 years ago

    That when I was out having dinner with my kids once, that a couple that had messaged me a couple of times (her 3 times and him once) recognised me. They keep looking, watching, whispering, they didn't say anything though. But they did have an argument and left lol...... I'd say nothing, but if they were of interest to me and I thought I knew who they were, I would send them a message when I got home...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Main reason no piccy on here,biz colleagues wouldn't approve lol Prefer stealth anyway,would never call someone on there piccys in public(moral and privacy) Different story for some(being a grey ghost)can lead to mistrust! But I have no hidden agenda (nothing to hide) Think ladies especially brave on here piccys are very personal ,props xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    It would all depend on where. I have meet many people from RHP by accident but that is entirely because I used to go to the types of events, parties, etc that attracts RHPers (and similar sites). As for recognizing people from RHP when going about my general day to day activities, I am not one to just introduce my self as a fellow member. There is a time and place for introductions and I dont think that is where someone works, or goes shopping. After all they are just strangers and being on RHP does not make us all part of some special private club.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    So I would just smile and move on....

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    11 years ago

    Are just that, pics all my naughtier ones are in my PG's, I don't leave anyone with access for long, but I do understand why some people don't display them and that's a personal choice. I don't have anything to hide, my profile is honest, pretty tame and I removed all my fetish list as so if someone I did know stumbled across me they wouldn't know just how naughty or kinky I was.....💋

  • 6exxy

    6exxy

    11 years ago

    But I hope it never happens 😝

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I've been quizzed a few times, but thankfully , most are now a generation behind so I don't get that near as much as a few years ago..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I am not interested in my RHP activity to flow on into my public life. Smile and wave be polite but my business is not yours to share and I will return the same curtesy - Posted from rhpmobile

  • imupinthesky2

    imupinthesky2

    11 years ago

    well as quite a few (myself included) seem to have varying main profile pics of naked parts of our anatomy, few facial pics I wold think it would be hard to notice others .... unless your shopping naked - in which case what woolies do you go too ;)heheeee on a serious note, I dont think others have recognised me, nor vice versabut I am a private person, I would be discrete if I was to say anything, more likely a nod, wink, but always a smile :-DI have a job in the public arena so I am seeing and being seen by literally thousands a day ......