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December 03 2009

Sal and I had such a decadent weekend, it reminded me of why it was we started all this up. Our first encounter last year got us so horny afterwards that we shagged till the sun rose (actually before the sun came up cause don't you just hate that when you've been up all night and the sun beats you home!) Anyway a similar feeling came within me after our Weekend, I shagged my lady with much gusto and throbbing hardness simply due to the fact I'd had so many cool things happen to my body. And so much more for things ticked off on my to do list. (triple blow job tick thank you ladies) I worry though that after you have a girl squirt on you, three girls sucking you off, DPing sal with another women and a strap on, just how much in the long run will normal sex (one on one) remain exciting. Or will I just crave bigger and badder things to gain satisfaction. Does this effect me, will I crave more and more, and where does it end. Fireworks up the arse, a goat, a tranny. So this is a question for the older swingers. Where do you go after you've ticked all the sexual boxes and does it effect one on one in the end? Andy

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16 years ago

Something I've been wodering myself Andy...glad someone asked it. Mrs D

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16 years ago

Why did you ahve to mention the goat Andy. I told you before I'm sparing the goat for a while yet. She's a good milker. Jeese. This might sound a little strange coming from me, but I love having one on one time with my wife. True! I've no doubt you feel the same way about Sal, mate. It's not sex, so much as making love. Occasionally I meet people where there is a very real connection.. sometimes hardly any sex takes place, just a loving moment with a nameless face in the dark.... but I don't think all the sex I have compares with sex that involves that type of connection... so it is well worth the hundreds of mindless, nameless sex partners to discover one every now and again. And, the others are one hell of a good way to have a holiday.. you know.... to put the week or the day behind you. I don't drink.. so it's kind of like my way of having a beer after work. *shrugs* Gaz

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16 years ago

Hey Andy... this was one of my biggest fears about combining some elements of BDSM that I find naturally arousing with my sex life.... would vanilla sex end up being unsatisfying after much much more extreme sensation? But I seem to be like Gaz.... I don't need BDSM to have a good time, every time... so I feel like I have balance... Balance is very important.... especially when you're bound and restrained :P LOL One-on-one can still be fun but FFM threesomes have always been a big addiction for me... I flirted with a three-way polyamory relationship in my early 20s and I could so see myself repeating that. I couldn't give up boys for a girl and I couldn't give up girls for a boy.

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16 years ago

I was a little put out that Andy posted this....being "the one" in the one on one scenario he speaks of. For me at very least there is a difference between when we play and when it is just us, as you say the difference between sex and something more intimate. I love the one on one after we have been with others, I crave the closeness, the intamacy and all the other things I don't get from anyone else... The question I have pondered over and over again, is what is left for us when we give ourselves away to so many and it has to be something more than, work and bills and watching telly and all that mundane stuff, so long as it all heightens, enhances and adds to what is an already cool base then that is fine, but when it consumes us at the expense of our relationship and all that is 'us' then I will be a little bit concerned. xx Sal

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16 years ago

I also love how when the sex we have is vanilla, it is still good...it is that comfort and knowing and trust and just simply feels good and right because we fit...we know what each other likes. That might sound totally boring to some, but it is like eating at your fave restaurant, lol! You try other places, find ones just as good and some not so, but when it is the middle of the week and you want to go somewhere you know the service is good, your greeted with a smile from a familiar face and the food is always the way you like it because thhey remember you like you like you tomato sauce and mayo on the side with your chips... Gee I make me giggle. ;)

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16 years ago

but to me, i think this seems exactly like breakfast cereal..... i mean u can eat coco pops every single day, but eventually u'll crave something more wholesome like an old fave such as corn flakes. then once u get border of that, u mix it up with a something a bit more wild like crunchy nut or whatevs.....i guess variety is the spice of life. and just like breakfast, sex is something u should never go without and is also a perfect start to the day : ) * this post was brought to u by the fine ppl at Kellogs.

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16 years ago

hehehe... love the breakfast analogy! I'm a vegemite man myself... I mean.. dont ya just wanna smear it in and lick it off? hehe... It also invites a bit of spanking... I mean exactly what did you think the song means when it says "It puts a rose in every cheek".... wooohooo.. Im a vegemite kind of guy. :p Hugs Gaz

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16 years ago

we jumped in at the deep end with a full swap with a couple - and were exactly the same - we have done all sorts since then, and every time - it doesn't have to be more and harder/faster/different, different people do things in a different way, and the variety (excuse the saying) is the spice. The spice can go on lots of different dishes if you get what I mean. We have played in a number of different environments, with a few different people - but normally we play together - and get off on everyone else getting off on us, and other people getting off on us watching them as we play and so on... Swinging for us has almost become "not swinging" - more experimenting with each other, and pushing the limits a bit, so much so that we don't rule anything (apart from the PPP) and like to think that we would consider anything. If you think about it too much then you will lose the excitement and the spontaneity! P.S. Jammy Sod for getting your weekend pleasures tho' - sounds great!

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16 years ago

That was just what I needed to hear Sal. Your right, nothiing beats someone that knows you, loves you and cares for you. I guess for me it is like going to movie world, yes I love the thrill of the rides, the excitement, the rush but at the end of the day I love being home, I love how it makes me feel here. Your restaurant analogy made me hungry though (for what exactly I'm not sure). As for Gaz, love your work, my man loves his vegemite too.

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16 years ago

that sexual encounters...trying new things and new people...feed your body and mind.but making love and connecting with the one you love, nourishes the soul.Just my opinion...BJxxx

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16 years ago

To those couples that have the strongest of bonds.. Love, trust, intimacy, best friend...............And all that goes with being a couple in love....and you are open to explore .... I envy you..with a good envy..not a negative. May your love together continue and you find yourself sitting back in many many years to come still madly in love and devoted together. My biggest hugs and kisses to you all. sweetpetite41 xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx PS...yes. I typed the word * love* a few times....But it is my fav word.

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