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What's important for you when you go to a swingers party?
October 02 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
Have an eclectic mix of people. Meeting interesting people at a party is the start of a great night as far as I'm concerned
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RHP User
11 years ago
so as a newbie and a single woman I would suggest that the play isn't immediately in your face when you arrive, that there is no pressure and you are made to feel that you can take your time getting to know people before getting your knickers off. Also a decent playlist and a well stocked bar are the cornerstone of any good party - kinky or otherwise
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RHP User
11 years ago
Condoms, lube and repeat. ;-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have only been once, not really being in the scene, but it was the people there that night who made me feel relaxed and as you say, no pressure. Met some amazing people. But yes, kinky or otherwise, def the mix of people and music make a party for me.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Cake...gateau de boeuf and fork handles:-) xxQ
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DynamicCouple36
11 years ago
We have been to 3 private house parties, by invite only ( all at the same house last year). We were nervous at first as we did not know what to expect. There were perhaps 14 couples nicely dressed. A table with snacks and cocktails, some nice background music, candles and a Sybian machine. The latter turned out to be the ice breaker!! Creating a comfortable, relaxed ambience is important. The parties were an opportunity to meet new people. There is no pressure to play at all. We certainly did not play at all 3 of them but still had fun. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Good finger food.
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Hottie1
11 years ago
And the one I like best is privately run. There is no pressure to play, they are held in self contained apartments with a lounge room that no one plays in, it's just for socializing and you can always go back there in between breaks ;) the play is in the rooms so you are not confronted with any play. I have said 'no' to people and they have been respectful. We did start in the scene at a big Melbourne party , the hosts were brilliant, but I called many of the partygoers peacocks, because they strut around like they are it and a bit. We have shied away from those because even though we met some great people, we found them to be rather cliquey. Mary and Andy xx
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On_Safari
11 years ago
For me it's finger food you can trust!! 👍 (giggling!!)
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RHP User
11 years ago
I thought you preferred the ice treats... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
finger buns:-) xxQ
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RHP User
11 years ago
You know me darling, I have to keep my strength up and what a better way than wrapping my lips on a sausage roll as someone eats my meat pie. Of and Smurfy, give those filthy heathens some surgical gloves or hand santitser as it such a bore always having to double check if that really is a yoghurt covered peanut or Raisan in the nut bowl.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I find dim lightening is essential. :P
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RHP User
11 years ago
I too am partially to finger bums.... Actually iced Vovos are always an upmarket treat. That glistening red between the pink. Fabulous.
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RHP User
11 years ago
And all kinky. None of the nilla stuff for me. I think we are on the same page Miss Surysmurf.But If I may digress to that other stuff.Please ensure adequate supply of nibblies. Meet your guests with a warm kiss and introduce them around as though they were your long lost friends. If you see a couple or single starting to isoloate themselves go and talk to them and make them feel at ease again.Have clean linen and not one stain on the sink tap. Be a master host and make sure that everyone enjoys themselves. People will thank you for providing a place where people can meet in a relaxed atmosphere and will love to come again. If you have done your hosting right, Next time tie the fuckers up and have your way with them :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' I too am partially to finger bums.... Actually iced Vovos are always an upmarket treat. That glistening red between the pink. Fabulous. Did you actually mean to write finger bums? Because if you didn't that's the best auto-correct ever...
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luvsilver
11 years ago
Candles and mood lighting We went to a private party once and every light in the apartment was on and the cricket was on in the main room and the main play room.Just didn't really do it for us. Mr Luvsilver
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RHP User
11 years ago
Keepitsimple. what do you think?
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RHP User
11 years ago
An enema hose. Oh and if you have pre-prepared bottles of piss for those that are into extreme water sports, can you please keep them far away the other soft drinks as some people don't read the labels. (as I noticed at a party I went too )
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On_Safari
11 years ago
(Head down bum up) writing my xmas list! Lol yes Meeks know you, bloody adore you!! Simpleneeds are you suggesting there's something cold about me 😳? 😂 I love finger buns!! Meat pies and sausage. Also partial to honey jumbles and spicy fruit rolls....now I'm hungry! I prefer my eggs sunny side up and unfertilised. Dirto on the soft lighting 😘
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
Had a young lady doing Shibari, (god I love rope) another young couple that but on a show on a stripper pole and swing and then there was also a Domme that was quite talented with ice and knew how to spank a couple of bottoms. I'm with EB on the bi is good, soft lighting is a must, condoms, lube, bowls of Allen's red frogs and lots of sexy fun people.....💋
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hi there everybody. What a shame that so many of you that I like to meet are so faraway. Well people i have most of the things that you are asking for. So come and check it out. I have an enema douche, maybe even two. Lots of toys an gadgets. Meters of rope ;). Electric toys and the lot. Candles, aroma oils. massage table and of course kick ass food since I'm a hell of a chef. So welcome
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