M31
What's the best way to approach on rhp
July 18 2025
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RHP User
10 months ago
I love your profile name. It’s the game. Many don’t read messages for many reasons. As a guy you’re fighting hard to get noticed and sometimes, despite the best intentions, the most beautifully crafted message and profile…you’ll get nothing. Think of it as a long term play of attrition and the odd reward. That’s the life of any successful hunter.
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BarberBoss1981
10 months ago
Your profile has no real info about you...filling that out with some actual effort might help a little bit. Women are outnumbered tremendously on here so you have to do more to stand out
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Flirty2020
10 months ago
You will most probably find that many, if not most females on here, may be put off by your profile name, and profile as a whole, including “sex maniac listed within in.
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FeistyFatty
10 months ago
With a profile and username like yours, I'm actually surprised anyone chats let alone meets you.
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Felicitous
10 months ago
Mmmm each to their own but personally, your choice of name would totally put me off. 🤷🏻♀️ That coupled with the lack of information about you in your profile.. there are many other men on here that put genuine effort into who they are and what they are looking for. I'd sooner engage with those.. even if that engagement is a decline. When spoilt for choice - as women are on here - having a descriptive profile is as important as a few good pictures. Separate to that.. this is a really challenging environment for men in terms of engagement. Numbers are skewed and I think naturally (and generalising) women are less likely likely to 'churn' sexual partners relative to men and need to feel safe to engage.. so those disparities reduce the pool even further. All the best. I think make a little more effort on the profile side and those that are attracted to that.. will find you. V
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Apples_N_Oranges
10 months ago
Agree with FFs brutal honesty above, with a profile name like that you might have to explain why you are the ‘cum master’. Chatting on here can be a lot of effort, the smallest things get noticed and give the impression that the person behind the profile is making no effort, for example you have nothing written in your profile and it appears you didn’t check your forum topic title - ‘Could and females . . . . ‘.
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Brian_Breynolds
10 months ago
As others have said above, your username would immediately put people off. I get it, you want to communicate your proficiency in the bedroom as a first impression. Personally, I think you just need to use some alliteration, like I have. Maybe change it to one of the following: EjaculationExpert69 NuttingNinja69 JizzGenius69 CreampieConnoisseur69 VaginalVirtuoso69 Your luck should turn around almost instantly if you do this.
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TwoPlusOneIsFun
10 months ago
Does the same advice apply to couples profiles? I tried really hard with the bio and extra info but getting a conversation going with single females is hard.. Am I doing something wrong 😑
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seekandplay
10 months ago
Well holy shit. Someone took on feedback. You changed your user name 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
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MsSuperFoxy
10 months ago
You assume those guys with those usernames are "GAY"?? * Insert eye roll. Now I've heard it all!!! Ms Foxy
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Pocketrocket602
10 months ago
Personally, I'll only bother replying if their message is something other than "Hey how's it going?". Of all the interesting people here and so much to talk about, a standardised, lacklustre greeting like that won't get our attention, be original and funny because funny is always guaranteed to get a response (well it does with me). Neither will the insincere compliments and love bombing or the cheesy pick up lines. If that's the kind of effort being shown, I'd rather stay in and wash my hair 🤷♀️ Actually read the person's profile, get chatting about something in there (those who've got fuck all in their bio are screwed 🤣) and talk about them more than yourself. Keep it light hearted with some cheeky banter and don't act like a dick. Don't go round in circles talking about work and the weather. Tbh from a woman's perspective it's not necessarily lack of interest on our part. We're spoilt for choice here and if we kept up the level of intensity in messages with everyone and throw new ones in the mix, we'd never get off our phones. So keep it interesting and always ask open ended questions. My experience here is I need some time out when it's getting too much so I go MIA for a week or two. Bear in mind the brain is hard wired to be on the lookout for shiny new cocks every week so don't take it personally 😜
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Jerome78
10 months ago
Hi all new to this hence why no pic. Is rhp worth it
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givHeR_pleasHeR
10 months ago
The only reason I’m putting my two cents worth in here is because I was thoroughly schooled by the RHP community a while back in the importance of Respect, Humility and Perseverance (RHP!). Chuck in a decent amount of well constructed effort and you’ll be on your way! Splashing out on the top tier membership and uploading a couple of suggestive selfies doesn’t magically elevate you to the top of the pecking order nor does it negate the need for a well crafted profile. Just my thoughts on the matter anywho so do with it what you will…
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swf1970
10 months ago
Ok the name is not the best There is nothing you have personally written While we are all out looking for fun in the end all a girl wants is to feel good about themselves and feel goo and sexy. And to look after a man. This is a friendship you are building a connect trust and communication.. this is a relationship.. your deal breaker is? Relationship so I won't talk. To you normally.. im a guest and have limited message and no face photos ..youbwanted feed back hope it helps
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Nocturnalact
9 months ago
Paid actors
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RHP User
9 months ago
I can only speak for myself here. When a guy sends me a message that just says "Hi" or "Hey there" or "How your doing" OR something as equally, short, boring and lazy, I ignore them or block them. And many that send me a generic message and doesn't ask me any questions or does not make a reference to anything specific on my profile, I ignore. Any man who doesnt read my profile at all and just sends a random message like ... "wanna fuck?" - he get ignored. Men with only one photo or a fake, stolen of the internet photo or a super filtered an airbrushed photo, get ignored or blocked. Any man that makes a reference to his penis size or leaves the intimate details public, get ignored. Only talks about sex, sex, sex and more sex - instantly ignored. If he only focuses on banging 'hotwives' and wants couples, group play and swinging? Right away I think "male s**t" and me probably has STDs and has had them. Any man that is not verified - instant block. Any man that doesnt have a bio and an ideal partner section filled out - instant block. Any man that wants a girl who is fit, keeps in shape, has an active lifestyle and is skinny - block, block, block. - No other reason that this man is extremely shallow, image focused, a judgemental pr**k and is most likely as shallow as they come. Any man who mentions that he is drug friendly is an instant no from me. Any man who is married or in any sort of romantic relationship with anyone human being - block. Any man that mentions going 50/50 or only offering a cheap coffee date - block. Any many who want to f**k right away and want to some over to my house to only use me for sex and then throw me away - block. Any man who is rude, crude or sends unsolicited dick pics after we started chatting - block block block. If a man sends me videos of having sex with other women - he is a predator, a psycho and a man who needs to be locked up. I block him right away and report him too. Anything over 4-5 sentences and I am not interested. Oh and any man who offers me sex with his female partner when it clearly states that I am straight on my profile - blocked. And of course if any man has a shirtless picture that I deem slutty, on the take and is just looking to use me, BLOCK. I do not deal with predators, sex starved me, perverts, creeps and random sexual weirdos. I am a human woman who wants respect on here.
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RHP User
9 months ago
Your profile to me comes too much across as s**t - NO offence. It's too sl**y. Wayyy to sl**ty for me. But that just me. and you need to upgrade your membership. If you dont upgrade it means you want a a free ride.
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