RHP

RHP User

F48

Whats with the doodle!

September 06 2018

To pic or not to pic. I know ive touched on this before, but a very recent offending event has sent me off into this rant.I feel all this really needs to be said. Not intending to cause arguments between those who have differing opinions, but to educate males on these sites as to what is expected. We all know penises are rife on this site. I am lucky enough to still be a guest I cannot see your R rated pics nor do I care. So when a man opens his pg I can only see the G rated ones. Suiting me just fine. You see I not only feel I do not need to see them. You tick the male box and I believe you. They all look the same just a little different anyway. Lets leave some fun for when its to come. My issue is I get them unsolicited. I will be having a nice chat with a man. We move over to kik. They say 'Hey' then immediately send me a wanking vid. I wake up to dick pics on my phone. If I am silly enough to allow it they start pestering me for pics. Good on ya. Have fun sitting at home playing with your willy. Obvious catfish pic collectors aside there seems to be a misunderstanding with some males that that is what women want and it is completely normal. It is apparently obvious that not only are they deluded with what a womans opinion would be, but also that they seem to think their wanking and penis pics are so exciting possibly even artistic that they have no perception of how offensive and irritating this behaviour actually is. Last night was the final straw. I had exchanged a few seemingly innocent messages including some requested face pics from this man. He wasn't young either he is a couple years older than myself. Next thing I know he has sent another pic. Oh if only it was a doodle pic. No. He had squatted over a mirror spread his arse grabbed his balls and taken a pic of his anus captioning it. 'I have a cute arse too.' I have never come across such an unsolicited pic. Wow feral and completely uncalled for.My male friends think it hilarious and to this moment I have received little compassion. Please please understand I am not saying all guys do this.. I am also not referring to consenting people who request the dick pics. Ask for what you want that is between you guys. I am also not referring to profile pictures on these sites. I am talking about consenting correspondence between adults of internet dating and hook up sites. I can handle the fact that when you are on such a site as this you will see them. I want to educate MEN WHO THINK THIS BEHAVIOUR IS NORMAL Just watch the discourse unfold. See the comments from women who say they don't want them, need them or request them. See the comments from males who say they respect that. Even don't understand the behaviour. Possibly use the second gallery and never send it when asked not to.. I cannot get over how many guys become distressed and confused when I react with disgust to such a picture. Women don't really want them. Sometimes we keep them show our friends have a giggle and think of mean things to say back. I assure you I am not enjoying it in the way you men seem to think I will. We are both disgusted and humoured by them. We think you are stupid. These pics are an annoying waste of time and signature of male egocentric attitudes. The women who do ask for them are most likely specifically looking for large penises. So if you get no response back you know you just humiliated yourself for nothing. The world let alone my world does not revolve around your dick. Your penis is not that exciting or unique that I will be overcome with flattery and horniness and think you are the most amazing thing on earth. I wont stop whatever I am doing and fawn over your supposed artistic work and hurry to send some back of my own. Especially when my ipad is packed with them all ready. Want to impress me? Turn up with it. Quit wasting my time. Dic piccers are time wasters.

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    After reading your profile, it would come across that all you want to do is fuck. So a guy would only put his best and only thing you want in a picture. Next thing I would say is don't do kik or the other media platforms, till you really know the type of person your talking to. If your having cock shots sent to your phone lol don't give out the number or get a second phone. You say in your profile that..... if you can't host we'll split a room... That in it's self says to me all you want is a dick and body contact. When your stoking the fire do you look at the mantle piece? It's a sex site is that all you want or are you looking for more? Maybe your looking in the wrong places 🤔🤔 Maybe try rewriting your profile and be clear on your expectations and don't confuse the guys 👍👍 Good luck in your search 😉😉

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    A very eloquent rant Vixen, and not really a rant at all. Dick pics are quite the scourge in any online dating. I never look at anyone's profile to help me respond to a forum post, but I did with yours. Can I just say that you seem to be looking for anything and everything, you describe yourself as a sex maniac. You definitely put yourself out there from the get-go. All this is absolutely fine, but buried halfway down in the text you have a ''no dick pics'' message. Maybe you need to put that right up top, front and centre, as the first thing people see. As we know, a lot of blokes would start salivating over your profile somewhere about the second line and pretty much disregard the rest. That is not your fault, and there of course has been a recent forum topic on men who don't read profiles, but maybe it means people have to put the disclaimer stuff first, then the juicy stuff? Can I also suggest that you start vetting the people you move over to Kik with? Your post implies that you head straight over after the initial message, which may be inviting trouble.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    like you I totally agree in everyone having their own opinion....but you say 'we' a lot a refer to all women....I for one don't get offeneded in any way with dick pics and nor do I agree they all look the same...I prefer to see what I may be getting...call me shallow lol

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    7 years ago

    Off topic a smidgen, but I love the word doodle. It sounds so cute... so who wouldn't love getting doodle pics😋😂 Im in the minority as I also love receiving cock pics and vids. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    So woman don’t do it either I love the standards they you have on here & males are the sexiest ones 2 standards some thing will never change when males do it it’s wrong when woman do it it’s ok how is that fair don’t get me wrong I love to see woman nude on their profile I just gets me upsets that you all ways get one that start crap it’s a dating site if you don’t like it leave it plain and simple some woman like to see it some don’t & same for men get over it you don’t to chose them but stop complaining - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Why dont you state in your first message to these guys. That you dont want a pic of your dick. And we wont be meeting if you send one.. As for kik. Anyone asks us to contact them on that. We say no - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Those that need to read this...won’t. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    And here we go again! Pusscat xxx PS Popcorn anyone?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    But... but... theirs is SPECIAL and has magical Harry Potter wand style powers to make you cum and squirt and you won’t be disappointed and stuff 🤣🤣🤣 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • curiousmrs

    curiousmrs

    7 years ago

    when it comes to your profile. Put the stuff you want them to remember at the start or end, no one really remembers the middle. I myself am a perve. And no, they don’t all look the same. There are some weird and wonderful ones out there. I have had some pics sent to me that have made me think WTF. The description though of the pic you were sent nearly had me bring up my lunch - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    still watching the discourse unfold....and waiting for promised opprobrium....surely the whole point of this site is freedom to express...if you don't like it block...we prefer some subtlety around this too but don't feel the need to enlist others (unsuccessfully it seems) into proposing a singular point of view by criticism of those who feel differently...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    But only after we've struck up a conversation. Not straight away. If you are happy to send them that's great but you won't get any back. Videos are hot from someone you are interested in - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    To be speaking for what other women do and do not like. If you are going to state your opinion it is probably good manners and better etiquette to say this is your personal view. Mrs LAL - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    ...do you swallow? 🤠⚡️ - Posted from rhpmobile

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    7 years ago

    We believe that they may get a thrill from exposing themselves to unsuspecting recipients. Like flashers in the park. We block them in an instant - Posted from rhpmobile

  • intheswing

    intheswing

    7 years ago

    It’s the same for the poor husbands on this sex site women flashing everything at you and as a happily married man I probably should be blocking these people that flash their breasts and pussy at me but do secretly like them and just realise my own profile has naked pictures so glad RHP only shows these pics to verified people so no under age can see them but maybe they could add people that don’t want to see them to the not verified list ? I would look silly blocking people for showing their privates when I have similar pics on mine lmao 😂 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    7 years ago

    With the arse pic. Did you a favour. Imagine getting all nice, dolled up and sexy and a guy like that turns. Dic pics dont upset me. A few of them are spectacular. But it does make me feel sorry for these guys that they think having a dick pic as a profile or sending them silly nilly that might work for them. They are supposed to be mature adults but obviously gives them a bit of a thrill doing it. Such behaviour can lead to sexual issues such as exposure in real life. And if maintained, can escalate to much more serious behaviour So guys, this is not best practise to air your subdued flasher tendency. Use your maturity if you have some, show some class and solicit first for favourable results

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Just to be different and to stand out in a sea of dickheads I photoshopped my dick onto my shoulders to use as a profile pix but alas it didnt pass muster and wasnt approved by the mods GGrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr 👺

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    When I get asked for a dick pic I send one of Daryl Somers. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    A pic of one does nothing for me, reality is better.That's my answer to requests for pics of me too...I don't take nude pics (my profile pic was part of a boudoir photo shoot)...I look better in person (most likely not..but that's my standard answer) lolIt doesn't upset me receiving an unsolicited 'doodle' pic...just disappoints me that they can't rely on genuine conversation to attract me in the first place.

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    7 years ago

    Try asking them why they send them. I just had one that after a couple of hello and how are you, got 3 dic pics proudly sent. I asked why, also saying l wasn't offended and did he know for most women, it's a red flag. Well, he couldn't answer. Matter of fact he never answered at all. Let it be k own. Maybe they may learn.....yeah.. nah

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I dont really see what the fuss about If you dont like dick pix, find a dickless pix profile, youve just dodged a dick hahah Its a dick pic. I like sex with the lights on, sometimes it is better with them off

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    7 years ago

    It's not just the profile. Sometimes its starts normal. You go to kik and you get a barrage of cock shots after hello. What's that about?

  • usnow

    usnow

    7 years ago

    We guess its guys just trying to play to their strengths . Its probably the best they have to offer . Usnow .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I guess you just run for cover and cover your eyes.I guess l just dont "get it" (intentional pun) haha But the only time Ive ever had a barrage of incoming cocks was that first night in the showers at Puckapunyal,

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    7 years ago

    Shit! Is your dick infected? Go see a doctor before it gets an infection and needs to be cut off. Is it dead? 🤔 Ms Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    👲 Confucius says, 2 inch penis and 6 foot tiger snake is same, you dont fuck with either of them.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    couldnt help myself, I'll be on my way now....... 🏃 💨💨💨💨