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What's your reason for being at a nude beach

September 21 2017

Hi guys and girls, a fwb (who I shall call miss z) and myself decided that this coming summer we will try and get to a nude beach. We've never been before but want to experience what it's like to swim naked and basically be in the outdoors with nothing to hide behind. We also would like to be there to experience the thrill we think we'd get from having a casual perve and giving people the opportunity to perve on us if they wish. We both believe that if your comfortable with your naked body and want to show it off to people then if there's a time and a place go for it. However for us it's not about going further than that, at least not on the beach. "Look but don't touch" basically. We are also curious if it's ok to compliment people on their naked bodies. For example if we were having a friendly normal conversation with a nudist couple at the beach and we think they look great naked is it ok to tell them so without them thinking it's a pick up line? Or if miss z compliments a girl on her great boobs or nice bum? Personally I'd love compliments if any were directed my way. Our biggest worry is what's acceptable for some may not be for others. So what's beach nudity to you? Is it totally non-sexual and non-exhibitionist for you and not even about looking but more a spiritual or natural thing to you? Do you go for a casual perve and to be looked at but that's it? Are you there for sex? Are you a combination of two or all of those? Maybe you just let whatever happen. And is it appropriate to compliment a naked person in the ways I mentioned? Is what's acceptable at one nude beach possibly not acceptable at another? We just want to have a fun relaxing day in the water and beach where there's a bit more flesh to look at compared to a regular beach without hurting or offending anyone (e.g. kids about then clothes stay on or try to cover up as much as possible). There's probably no right or wrong answer but interested to see everyone's views. Thanks P.s. apologies for the length of this post. - Posted from rhpmobile

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Hottie1

8 years ago

Is my philosophy at a nude beach. Don't hit me up, don't chat unless we know each other and definitely don't compliment me. Apparently, I have the resting bitch face down pat and I've never been propositioned at a nude beach :) I find the behaviour of some people at the nude beach quite lecherous. If I think you're being inappropriate at a nude beach, I'll give you what's for. Like the guy apparently texting on his phone that was distinctly pointed at me whilst he was doing it. I have no doubt he was taking pictures, without my consent and it made me uncomfortable, I told him so. I moved from the position I was in to avoid what HE was doing. Another time, we were swimming and a guy allowed his boat to drift right up to us, he dropped his anchor and stared - really? Aesthetically, as a woman, I'm not turned on purely by the naked sight of men. Let's face it, a cock isn't all that impressive flaccid lol unless you're in love with that cock ;) I have been to beaches were guys walk around with a hard cock, again not a turn on for me, it's quite an arrogant approach IMO. I don't go to perve. The whole naked thing is very sensual and sexual for me ...the fact that it's a little taboo and the heat of the sun on my skin makes me horny. The cool water of a nude swim on my highly aroused body is a further turn on. I'm not keen to have sex on the beach ... can't imagine exfoliating the inside of my vagina with a sand covered cock would be pleasant at all ;) Mary xx

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RHP User

8 years ago

Don't compliment them, that is equal to hitting on someone at a nude beach and you would approach that the same as anywhere else, having gauged the interest. And don'r perve too much, again same as any other beach. We all have eyes and all look but there's a difference between having sneak looks and perving to the point where you make people uncomfortable. Believe me, I deal with that every day, the beach I quite often leave because I'm creeped out by some one. Sorry I didn't get past reading that bit but seriously, don't turn into one of the nude beach wankers, there's enough of them

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RHP User

8 years ago

So I've heard and read. Believe me I'm not into that shit Also probably used the wrong word when I used perve. I did mean a few sneaky looks. Some casual glances while sitting on our towels or walking for example. Does sound like there's a very fine line though. I'm thinking maybe we'll just play it safe and keep to ourselves. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

Obviously in the sand although it does seem some people have crossed that line

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RHP User

8 years ago

I attended Swanbourne last Summer with my girlfriend and wife. Great beach but both of my girls got very fucked off with wanna be dudes with big attitudes comming over and laying a bunch of slimming banter. So we have never gone back. - Posted from rhpmobile

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MsJonesy

8 years ago

People enjoy the beach. Dont approach, dont stare, dont wank. Its all about enjoying the feeling of being naked in the sun & water.....well it is for me and the majority of my friends.

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RHP User

8 years ago

regarding your comments about kids at the beach - Cobblers in Sydney is quite a 'family beach' and I've often seen parents with kids there every summer. The kids were the only ones actually covered up - hats, rash vests, etc. Meanwhile Mum n Dad were turning into leather handbags. It isn't a 'sexual beach' with dunes for wankers to lurk in, it just feels like a regular beach but with more of a "regulars/locals" feel to it. There isn't a need to cover up - it's a nude beach - just keep the nudity non-sexual. I wouldn't give compliments unless the conversation REALLY went that way, it just feels weird in that setting. Just enjoy having a swim and sun without anything on. Oddly I find the nude beaches a less self-conscious place than a regular beach.

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RHP User

8 years ago

I've heard other people say that before about nude beaches. While most people would think being nude on a beach would make them feel uncomfortable because they're "exposed" (for lack of a better word), I actually read a couple of articles about a couple of people who have actually improved their self esteem and appreciation of their bodies no matter the shape by stripping off and gping to a nude beach. It's funny how the thing they feared the most is now the thing they happily embrace - Posted from rhpmobile

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thai_one_on

8 years ago

We go to swannie a lot. Do you like the casino too? which part?

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RHP User

8 years ago

to nude beaches from a very early age. My parents used to frequent them and take us kids along. We swam in bottoms no top. It wasn't until I was around 10yrs old that I became more conscious of the nudity and aware of the odd pervert on the beach. I'm fine with it these days (the nudity, not the perverts) and would probably only go to a nude beach now to get an all over tan. LC.

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RHP User

8 years ago

Yes, that's exactly where I finally became comfortable with my body. More than comfortable lol 😉

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RHP User

8 years ago

went there specifically for sex 😇 I met and played with some hotties lol

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RHP User

7 years ago

Ive been there a few times but have never even spoken to anyone else there lol - Posted from rhpmobile

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