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What’s your red flags?
July 05 2019
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RHP User
6 years ago
Half arsed answers to questions, or behaviours that see your gut saying “wait...what??? Rewind that for a minute fuck ya...”
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RHP User
6 years ago
Text speak Bigoted comments Photos that don't match age Ask me.ask me I can be at your door in ten. I love large women (subtext "and you should be grateful") I love older women(subtext "and you should be grateful ") Hugs Q
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RHP User
6 years ago
Too much assumed intimacy before meeting. Asking detailed sexual habits questions (see above re assumed intimacy) Clingy, creepy behavior. Daily selfies and constant need for reassurance or demanding to reply back to them. Most red flags show a person who’s socially inept, doesn’t understand or respect boundaries, has weak sense of self and seeks external validation and makes unrealistic demands of others to fill such void.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Having not met yet, I'm upfront that I'll meet somewhere publicly first and I won't agree to sex before we've even met either. They agree conversation flows...then they start insisting they come to my house or I go to theirs...
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RHP User
6 years ago
The financial interrogation, Job, house, car, sometimes even super ! Sometimes it’s in your face which is at least honest, more often it’s back door subtle which is more devious and a much bigger flag. The word sugar. Oh let’s not forget skills, gotta know how “useful” one is.
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Libertine001
6 years ago
A red flag atm would be any woman who wants to go straight to Kik without viewing your profile and when on Kik saying they are lonely and have a child. It very common and they are a scam.When you come across it report straight away. You can see them coming a mile away and remember if it's too good to be true it generally is.
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EarthQueen
6 years ago
Interesting To see men’s .
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Obi1kenietzsche
6 years ago
Why did you have to take me there!.. Women over 7’ with green skin. Any sign at all of a bicycle (or unicycle) The mention (in passing or otherwise) of either teapots or trumpets xx Obi1
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RHP User
6 years ago
You need to start hanging out at the circus..conquer those fears. I collect teapots..teacups too. But I also like to blow my own trumpet as well: Hugs Q
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EarthQueen
6 years ago
...... *changes wording of red flag to freak flag for Obi. Long may he wave it .
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EarthQueen
6 years ago
.... Needy texts and sob stories. Any hard done by attitude. Over sharing of details of other partners, most notably photos of threesomes with closeups of faces. Lycra fantasies involving scissors. German Dungeon Porn with large Scandinavian women..... ooops, no, thats from Cards Against Humanity.
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bonefide
6 years ago
If u aren’t speeding why brake hard u clowns. Drive to survive. Red flag red Flag. PS The indestructible driver that use ph while driving. WTF OOPPPSSS back to normal viewing of topic just a tad.
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usrightnow_Again
6 years ago
Yeah, everything bonefide said. I'd say evolution in action but too many innocent people get hurt as well. .. Obviously, yes, the photos don't match age et cetera type of stuff. How's this for one, they use a photo on their primary profile that they previously used on one of their , shall we say, lesser unassociated profiles. My suggestion, stay alert. Inconsistencies in photos or discussions stand out for me as red flags. .. Also, the begging for photos or access to Private Albums. Not a problem we encounter these days, however, with the original profile. Or not respecting our parameters, after meeting us. And Any name calling/mocking at All. .. I guess then it come down to what action you take, when you see a red flag. Do you disengage? Are the red flags a warning of more to come? .. Mr. urn. .
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Obi1kenietzsche
6 years ago
I thought this WAS the circus! 🤔. Xx Obi1
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RHP User
6 years ago
Some don’t even want to see a photo of you before meeting. When they want to chat it’s one word answers going straight to are you free this morning. Now I am cautious when they ask are you on Kik. It’s getting harder and harder to meet someone nice
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EarthQueen
6 years ago
Quoting 'usrightnow_Again' .. I guess then it come down to what action you take, when you see a red flag. Do you disengage? Are the red flags a warning of more to come? .. Mr. urn. . This ones tricky for me if its just a subtle thing. . It's sometimes difficult to interpret online discussions clearly. Also empathy used to get the best of me, I do think I was too naive. I'm more pragmatic now.
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RHP User
6 years ago
People who ask for photos or details of previous sexual experiences in the first few sentences, without volunteering any information about themselves or a photo due to ‘privacy for work reasons’. Bullshit Can only meet during the day... married
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Mask_007
6 years ago
Just a intuitive thing about people as whe have a conversation. I find interesting personal interaction. Is a lot i can pick on...
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RHP User
6 years ago
1. Kik addy 1st or 2nd message Translation: I want you to send me a zillion pictures to get me off, we'll probably never meet. It will suck most of your time, but I don't care because I'm a dick2. 14 pictures of a supermodel and 1 of you tucked in the middle somewhere. Don't worry: I won't even notice you look like you ran into the back of a bus, look 30 yrs older, have a beer gut and hairy back 3. Not reading my profile or worse telling me they loved my profileReally?: What specifically did you love? 4. What r u up 2 today?None of your damn business but I can tell you one thing for certain, you won't be part of it 5. No pictures:Block6. 1st sexting text message,full on book length account of what you're going to do to me, actually what I'm going to do to you, ending in your cum dripping out of all my holes Result: Blocked on phone and here. Next dick step forward please yep I let an over 40 slip through my criteria. Not happening again. Too many years of watching porn and slapping off. Hope that doesn't offend the 'old man' 7. Blank or lean profile followed by a very short message. I swear one guy had nothing written in his profile and his message was 'Hi'. A blank profile is a no reply, or 'if you want to know just ask me'Heads up: I won't be asking
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DinnerDateFirst
6 years ago
1. Vague profiles 2. No verification 3. No validation 4. No face pics (private galleries) 5. Vague responses 6. Requests for your ‘other’ pics 7. Requests and demands to move to KIK or What’s App
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RHP User
6 years ago
Just read all the above , fuck ! I’m screwed 😳
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MsSuperFoxy
6 years ago
What it really means is, "I'm going to Poke-her night" 😂😂 Ms Foxy
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RHP User
6 years ago
Trust that gut feeling, if things dont add up end it. I do abit of investigation work, ie: look for details in photos, moles or frekles in the same location, hair, cheek lines, quality of the photos...this is 2019 not 1985. Another one is screenshots as profile pictures.
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