When innocent flirting becomes not so innocent.......

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I don't really play games, but the flip side is I often don't pick up hints. I enjoy flirting a lot, but from observations others have made of me, I often miss the point where the flirting has become something more. I just think its all harmless flirting lol. So to answer question 1, it would seem I often have no idea when that has happened and 2 A I often think the flirting is still innocent and just a bit of fun when it isn't. But I still have a lot of fun flirting :)

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  madotara69

  12 years ago

  I have always thought of flirting, simply a way for showing compliment to what is interesting about another, So on that note flirting is a fun type of interaction, not necessarily directed as a desire for having sex with the person, If it was directed as a sexual reference, then the fun for the person/persons would be the thought. If it was to be overlooked and seen to be disturbing, then I caught that person when they were not so much in a good mood. That can happen anytime.Mado

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  1. For me it's an obvious escalation from flirting to suggestion. If it doesn't escalate, it's still just flirting.   2. B. It must have been with justforfunisall.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  A slightly different approach. Flirting either has a direction, or, is simply an expression of someone's personality. Flirting is merely saying or doing something towards someone of the opposite sex, that you'd feel uncomfortable expressing to your own gender.... (assuming only Hetero interactions, for the sake of this discussion). You can flirt for a reason (interest or attraction), or simply as an exhibition of your general personality.... often deemed 'harmless flirting'. And yes, to escalate attraction, flirting in its many verbal and non verbal forms is imperative, whether you realise you're going it or not. Flirting issues a 'challenge' which is either dismissed, or accepted, met and raised (escalation) Women are inherently good at it, men not do good, and not so good at recognizing the more subtle expressions of female flirting. But it's only a choice away to learn. Sorry to dissolve it to such a clinical definition, but knowledge on what is happening in any interaction is an advantage and of assistance.... right?! DG- Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Flirting?,innocent?...

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  So I'd like to know:- 1). When - in your mind - does that same innocent flirting, become not so innocent and transforms into suggestion/interest?? when your at a wedding and you end up fucking the brides maid in the broom closest.When you wake up in the morning and your in each others underpantsWhen you get fired for fucking on your desk2). Have you ever engaged in a flirtatious conversation, that ended up nowhere and left you feeling deflated due to either:- When I had my breath test and I said officer please drop your pants so I can do a good job at this blow test.when i had no money to pay for my food and I said, hey chef can we work this out, out back and gave a winkand gave me some rubber gloves and pointed to the sinkwhen I chased the postman up the street instead of my dogwhen I tried to get Cavey in the sack and he ran screaming into the street and got hit buy the school bus, so now you know why he has not been posting for a while. A) you thinking that the flirt was innocent, subsequently ignoring it. No because it was a priest an I was sitting on his lap nothing innocent with those guysNo because I was cuffed over a police car and it was not just a slip of the fingerNo because he ask me for money when I ask him for.....You want what! B). When your flirting hasn't been noticed and ignored? Yes , its depressing when you run naked through the burswood yelling room 456 and no body looks up.Yes , every guy that went to the loo if he wanted to join the mile and they said, no and now I really want to throw up.Yes ,when I went to the hotel bar with my own swivel stick a vibrator and stired my drink and licked the vibrator and no body noticed, except the nice security guy that only threw me three hundred yards out the door in stead of five like the last time.Lady T flirting 101

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I think the flirting process is almost foreplay..i like to see how a lover or potential lover flirts ..I think it show how seductive they are and how exciting they maybe in bed too !

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  If I Flirt with You ... ...........I want You ! GG♒- Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  And I'm incredibly shy with men in terms of their flirting, unless they're very direct and clear in their interest or I've gotten to know them slowly and I've become relaxed around them. Innocent flirting just makes me nervous and self-conscious.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I had a friend of mine that asked to see me before I worked at a deb ball. So in I trot, shirt, tie, shin length jacket....she started picking at a couple of pieces of lint I had missed, adjusting my tie.....apparently that meant she wanted to kiss me so I found out later. I thought she was just being nice lol.- Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  i seem to fail terribly with flirting! if i am talking with a good friend who i know it will NEVER progress beyond the flirt then it is all out fair game... but when i actually like someone, or want to flirt with them in order to get further with them... well i simply am useless!i seem to be able to do the straight forward "hey you wanna **** " if it is a stranger i just want to get to bed with, but someone i actually like? goodness me, there is no chance in hell that i am going to put myself out there! hahaSo i dont ever seem to cross the line from innocent flirting to not so innocent... i will only use the innocent flirting with friends who we are both in the same boat in regards to nothing ever actually happening (for whatever reason)i am regularly getting told off my my fwb's that i wont flirt/talk dirty/be suggestive with them... sure, get me in bed and i go off like a rocket...

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  When I flirt it is not innocent at all... Like Mr Green, I flirt because I'm interested. If I'm not interested there is no flirting - none!

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I don't need to flirt, I just naturally be myself.Two things...I either like you or I don't.FOXYI met someone recently, as I was leaving told me I had a "spank-able butt" - see what I mean - don't have to do anything butt be myself!!

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