RHP

RHP User

F59

Where are all the bi females?

July 04 2005

what does it take to find a genuine single bi female in Perth?? we are F39, M45.... friendly , dte and love to have fun. looking for a female 25 - 50 only for fun and friendship sick of having our time wasted by wannabe swingers and pic collectors starting to wonder if there is any real bi females in our age range out there at all.....have only met 2 or 3 in the last year we are experienced so not into endless chat and bullshit games would love to hear from anyone genuine NO SINGLE GUYS or cpl

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    20 years ago

    Hi there yes were here but you want it all your way....’no couples’ but your a couple?? caio

  • MandN

    MandN

    20 years ago

    So many GREEDY people out there, whine about what they can’t have, and want it all their own way. I guess it’s your choice, but if that’s how you aproach the scene, no wonder you are having troubles finding what you want, no compromise no results.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    20 years ago

    What’s wrong with enjoying another female without her man? I get enough from my man and we both just want to enjoy another femal. Sorry did not intend to upset cpl’s. We may be interested in CPL’s at a later stage.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    20 years ago

    Here’s a thought Krisy34,.. There are heaps of other couples out there looking for ’single’ bi girls just like you guys. Why don’t you break away from your man and help them out in the way you’d like to be helped? If you’re wary about that concept perhaps you can understand why other ’single’ girls aren’t throwing themselves at all the hungry couples out there...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    20 years ago

    AS Krisy34 Is a single girl it is only fair that she should be looking for other single females. The one thing we have a problem with is when couple who are exclusively looking for female, which isn’t that bad in itself, just unrealistic (I mean come one, do you think there are single, bisexual sexbombs who have just been living in solitude waiting for a couple to use them at their will), but what is really rude is when they disrespect the female and treat her like a piece of meat to be thrown into their own concocted sexual fantasies. As a single girl I found that a lot of the attached men who were contacting me from a couple profile were actually a lot ruder and demanding the worst single men. Many just expected and took it as a given that I would drop by at their behest, fuck him and their wife/girlfriend/ escort, and then piss off as soon as they were done. One even tried convincing me it would be a good idea I come out for drinks with them on the night before my major end of year exam and even after insisting I really needed to he replied “no you don’t, come out for just a few drinks”, and kept calling me, even during my actual exam. Loser. And at other times when couples offer to pay for sexual services, that to me shows a complete lack of respect for me as a individual. Do they think I have nothing else to do with my life then to sit around as a single female waiting for them to call me out of the blue to come around and fulfill their sexual fantasy. Ok I know from experience there are A LOT of bi females on the site, I know for experience there are A LOT of bi female girls on the street, but I also know that they, and myself here included, are put of by meeting with couple on their own because a.) it is intimating, and b.) so many couples are just so damn rude and treat single girls like a commodity or their own personal fuck toy. SO I wouldn’t put couples off from trying to find a single girl to join you in your bedroom, just be a bit more realistic and if you do get the opportunity show a little bit of respect to us girls.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    20 years ago

    That was well put Creamy, seems that Krisy may not have got the response she wanted but she has created some interesting discussion nonethless..... So heres some more experiential thoughts.. Obsessive bi(lesbian) chicks, in the past i have had to get quite aggressive in deterring women who have become obsessed with seeing my girlfriend (without me), one threesome then the phone calls start, "its more fun without the men, drop what your doing lets get togethr cos im not working..etc etc", in one case we had to get our phone number changed! So beware the female stalker! Age discrimination, i started swinging at 18, our first couple were in their 40’s and they both new EXACTLY what they were doing, it was hot and fun and we repeated the meets :-) I notice as you get older younger couples avoid you, yet this is despite the fact that there are many unfit, unhealthy out of shape younger men, who turn out to be crass, pushy, incapable of conversation or holding an erection! LOL You cant undervalue experience :-) It is fine to have expectations, but sometimes they can be a little unrealistic in which case you have two choices, accept thre limitations and be prepared to wait for the rare "match" to come along, graciously OR be more flexible, seek the compromises and get along just like you should in all aspects of life....the universe has a funny way of handing you what you were first looking for if you do..... Take the good with the bad, sometimes its difficult, but i the end you’ll come out a winner with a lot of happy memories...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    20 years ago

  • RHP

    RHP User

    20 years ago

    well wat can i say but good luck and dont let anybody tell u wat u can do u r a indavidual so live life to the fullest tynka bruce

  • RHP

    RHP User

    20 years ago

    Thanks to everyone and there comments. However some of you maybe surprised on how many women have something on the side with us, and loving it. It’s not that I’m not interested in other man, however I do get more then enough from my man. And I hope all these “single” women, who have fun with a couple, get treated with respect and as a friend, because we do. We never were rude or treated single girls like a commodity or our own personal fuck toy and we feel sorry for the women who had bad experiences. Any Ladies, who do like to have fun with us, are more then welcome to contact us and maybe let us proof that we are just “normal” ppl. If nothing else the question “where are al the bi-femals” created good discussions. Thanks to everyone Krisy34