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Where are all these NT guys
March 21 2009
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RHP User
17 years ago
not picky? quote "Essentially I'm looking for hot, handsome, well hung guys, guys with good jobs, a car, who are happy, healthy, well-adjusted, a guy that likes to have fun and HAVE FUN...(subtle hint)." maybe guys have a similar criteria and you dont meet it. i dont know, why ARE you sitting there complaining?
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RHP User
17 years ago
Whats wrong with being picky in terms of what your looking for.... I was being clear that I was looking for something different .....your clear your not looking for a relationship in your profile..... so whats the difference..... oh thats right, you guys like to look like you give fat chicks a chance, it's only when you see them in reality you fuck them over, in more ways than one......At least I am open and honest about what I'm attracted to.... as opposed to guys who say nothing about what they want
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RHP User
17 years ago
you hit the nail right on the head. whats wrong with being picky. guys must be as picky as you and they want hot beautiful well adjusted women with good jobs a car and slim. like i said, if you want to be picky then so do they and just maybe...you dont fit their bill. i personally dont have a problem with big women, you just turned me off with all your attitude when i looked at your profile, maybe other guys did too.
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RHP User
17 years ago
ummmmm who's to say I would have been attracted to you in the first place..... isnt that rather arrogant of you to think that I would have been interested in you anyway. The fact is, that post was put up 7 weeks ago, and I have changed my profile quiet a few times since then. I'm tired of men who think that because I'm bigger I'll accept their shit treatment and settle for whatever is offered to me. Done that a few times and all it's gotten me is my heart broken. So before you judge me based soley on what I have said on a computer screen, I would suggest you read between the lines of what I'm actually trying to say. Your profile says little that would endear me to you either way. So I have very little to judge you based on what you have written, but I don't discount anyone... as my profile says, hot is a personal thing thats unique to each woman as to what she finds attractive or not.
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RHP User
17 years ago
i didnt assume you would have been attracted to me, im not that arrogant. my statement was purely stating that your attitude towards men in the NT has probably lost you any chances of attracting any attention. Im not here to argue with you about your body type, like i said i dont have a problem with larger women so dont attack me just for trying to answer your question from a males perspective.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi there ....Some of the hot men are taken... but you can borrow mine.. He is tall slim strong kind gentle sexy ... okay I am a little biased and deeply in love so i think he is perfect.. I noticed your not into couples and I wont try to convince you of a threesome... just so long as my bf comes home after and is aloud to tell me stories to keep me wet I will be happy too!!If you would like to meet up with us or him for a general no obligation chat over a drink or cofee or similar message me/us...He is seriously sweet... well hung extra extra...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hell I didn't know this forum thing was even here. Interesting conversation and can see all points of view. It would go against human nature if we liked everyone we met but it doesnt mean we have to treat others rudely. A thanks but no thanks is all it takes. Personaly I am just here for the sex but there is no need for disrepsect.
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RHP User
16 years ago
me too, not to worried about anythig other than meeting people who enjoy who they are, sometimes life doesn't go your way, that doesn't mean you are a problem, just take each opportunity as they come. i plan to. so if you are norty by nature and keen to have safe, fun shags, let me know. hey i posed for this site, a bit of fun in itself!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey I know this topic died several months ago but I'd like to revive it, because I could not agree more! I've been in darwin for about 3 months and while I've met a couple of blokes I've not met nearly the number I would have expected in a city of this size. Surely there is a rock where all the single blokes who are out for more than quick one-time fuck are hiding. Why am I complaining, because I can?? lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
There all out working there arses off to be able to get out of here or there already hooked up. The only reason I've got time to be on line is because I'm layed up post op..Otherwise I'd be working. And if the drunken rabble that parades down mitchell st on a Friday or Saterday night are whats left then the question of where all the good ones are is very valid.
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RHP User
16 years ago
We're all out working. And we don't check our email often enough.
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RHP User
15 years ago
-waves- while I'm no oil painting or everyones cup of tea I do have a few manners, a sense of humor (ok ok a off beat one, but can have a laugh even at myself) I'd more be questioning where are the ladies, as on here it seems us blokes out number you ladies about 10 to 1.
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RHP User
15 years ago
hi just got on the site ... u can test me out on your different level any time you feel the need (c : Cheers
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RHP User
15 years ago
Alright so in the new year I am moving to darwin and not because I think it would be an awesome place cos I am pretty sure you dont have any surf up there But I am hoping to find some fun new p any takers haha meh see ya all soon
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RHP User
15 years ago
well i am here to pleazzzzzz so come get me i wont it know come play with my Prince Albet Zard999
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RHP User
15 years ago
yeah i agree with ras's comment. HI ALL ! i just joined the sight and am looking around to see what this site has to offer. I must admit, it has alot of options. there isnt a guy shortage in darwin, its actually about 3-4 to 1 odds in a womens favor (so im led to believe). though rare, its nice to hear that question asked LOL :) (where are all these NT guys??).
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RHP User
15 years ago
Were still around. I ve been here for 3 years this time around and have found a gal, plus many others for fun times, each one has great qualities about them comming from all shapes and sizes and backgrounds. I dont think i am perfect or that great looking but i give each person a shot that i meet. If your after single guys well good luck ladies.
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RHP User
15 years ago
you are wrong
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RHP User
15 years ago
many guys in the territory want to have fuck buddies because they do a lot of away work fly in fly out stuff, being able to go out and have a drink with these buddies is great and then have wild passionate sex, why dont women understand this.
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RHP User
15 years ago
maybe we do understand it madadz... but we don't accept it... understanding something is not the same as excepting that thats how it should be, just because thats how a guy wants it doesn't mean women have to accept life that way... I did my part when we met, I came, we fucked...then nothing.... from you.... months later I get a hey.... how's it going, I asked you around.... you never replied...so who's the fuckwit.... me offering a no strings time or you for not accepting....
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RHP User
15 years ago
Here is a better question, where are all the Alice chicks. This is the way i go, first date-drinks, second date-dinner, then by then friends or more, works for me. Happy new year.
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RHP User
14 years ago
We are here, what I want to know is that when I make contact with people, even if they are not interested why do people not reply. i dont think im unattractive or annoying to be around. Its just down right rude. I dont just write ''wanna fuck'' or anything like that. I try and say hi, ask how their day is....What is going on.
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naughtymissxena
14 years ago
Sometimes people are busy and then sometimes when you send a message afterwards and get no reply you can't help but feel like you have been used. Sometimes when someone thinks they are so goodlooking they forget that that is not the only thing that attracts people to them. If you feel that because your goodlooking you can treat people like they are dust ie. blow on them and then ignore them until there is the next big build up then your chances of someone actually wanting to come back for seconds are slim to nil. Also always make sure you satisfy the lady.
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Maltaeser
14 years ago
I agree with Missxena but there are no girls in Alice Springs!!!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
While its a personal thing as to who we interact with & we all have a right to be "picky", it would also seem that some people are overly judgemental. Take for instance my profile, I've had a few messages from women that my pic crude & vulgar (& while not having a shot at anyone in particular, more then a few women have pic's of their boobs as their profile pic) so why the double standard? Surely they are using a boob pic to represent what they consider to be their "best asset" yet I do the same (ie demonstrate that oral sex is more then just talking about it & I'm condemed for it). naughtymissxena mentions how some people think thier good looks gives them a "right" to treat others like crap or toejam. From this side of the gender divide its no different with some women thinking just cause they have boobs or a pussy they can treat us blokes however they choose. And I guess in someways they can given the dispartity of blokes on here compared to women. However noone likes been ignored or dismissed out of hand. And I'll probably get lynched for this but I dont think I have movie star good looks (but then I also know i didnt hit every branch falling out of the ugly tree. I know I have a working brain & can even hold a conversation on most topics, yet some dont or cant see past that initial "crass" pic. I can be funny & humorous too but again thats subjective as we all have different tastes (& thank god or this would be a very boring world) I can also be serious & sincere but to see that would mean knowing me. So while the thread is "where are all the good guys" I would ask the opposite in where are all to ladies? And preferably ones that have a working brain, a sense of humor & can be open & honest, someone who is seeking more then just the mundane both in & out of bed. And at the risk of sounding egotistical or boastful I have meet more then a few truly delightful ladies from here & a couple of other sites & yes most leave very satisfied & do come back for 2nds, 3rds & more, so while that may appear aggogant to some its not meant to be, its from a position of confidence & been comfortable with who I am as a person. CheersC
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RHP User
14 years ago
It's not so much a lack of local guys, its a lack of the RIGHT guys. One's that are genuine, not fly by nighters and ones who understand the concept of being faithful. I've had a few messages from blokes telling me they are attached but would I be interested, ummm they get a short sharp NO. After being cheated on, I am NOT putting some other woman through that pain, no way, no how.There are some nice guys on here though, one's who are not just after a quick jump. LOL I will admit, having kids tends to put a lot of time wasters off, which suits me, as mine range from 22 to 5 months old. I am wary as well because I work, I have kids, a car and a house, some blokes looking for an easy gravy train will try their luck.I'm also wary of involving my children, they have been through enough with my marriage breakdown, especially the youngest ones. If its just for coffee, I will take my wee man with me, it's a short sharp reminder, i have children, they come with me, so anyone contemplating more than a fling has to accept my kids. Sometimes though, it happens when you least expect it. I reconciled recently with my partner after a break, mostly because he had had enough of the drama from my very vindictive ex husband, now that my ex is no longer in my life, I'm a lot more settled, my kids are happier, my partner and i had remained friends, and we realised we had the makings of a very good relationship, he adores my kids, my kids adore him, he was with me when i had my youngest son, who is now 5 months old, I woke up and got rid of my baggage(mostly trust issues thanks to my ex cheating)and gave him my trust, which to my delight, he showed me was not misguided as he has stayed faithful even while we had our break, my youngest daughter finally put the seal on things when she said to him, I missed my Daddy so much, he went away and left me, please can you come back, I want you to be my Dad. He said his heart just melted, so back he came, and i guess I won;t be on here much longer, because as of this Sunday, he asked the big question and I said yes. So, YES there are some really decent men out there, genuine and loving, I have met a few men on here who are friends, platonic, nothing more, during the break with my partner, I did try to ease the hurt of a breakup coming so close after my disaster of a marriage ended by trying to have a fling, BUT when it came down to crunch time, I bailed, all I could think of was my partner, lucky the bloke was understanding and is still a good friend.So, in a bit of hope for all out there, if I can do it, find a decent, genuine, kind, caring man, after two marriages, and a LOT of children and even with grandchildren(at 41 i can say i am NOT doing too bad), then YES it can happen to anyone. I wish every one luck, I know i have all I need, and i thank all those i met on here for being friends and becoming friends, I am now looking forward to walking down the Aisle for the third AND last time. This time, its the real deal, because i know when my man says he loves me, he really means it and for once I have a man willing to take care of me, not just let me work while he sits on his bum, though i plan to keep working.Good luck to everyone, and i hope you find the happiness i have!! Oh and he is a Darwin Man as well :D
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RHP User
12 years ago
Until I saw you reply up there I didnt realise you where a BBW, I love BBW, its a bit late in the day i know but Ive only just joined this site but I assure you there is at least one guy in Darwin that absolutly loves BBW and SSBBW
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RHP User
12 years ago
Would love to chat, I look at the person.Cheers.
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's more like where are the women in the NT. I travel here often and have sent out plenty of flirts and messages to the ladies. But not one has had the common decency to reply, even a no thanks. E X
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RHP User
11 years ago
The real ratio for Guys to Gals in the NT is 109 guys for every 100 gals. Everything else you might have read is a myth often perpertrated by the 25 year old sub editors in the NT News trying to get their boyfriends to treat them like princesses. They trot out the same old crap every 6 months or so. And stories like 10-1 3 or 4-1 are not even close to the mark. Check the Australian Bureau of Statistics site if you dont beleive me.
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RHP User
11 years ago
My man is now working in Darwin for the next 11 months and after a lot of talking, we decided that we would be comfortable with an open relationship for the period of time as we both have sexual needs, and cant go for many months without them being met, so... He is available for casual encounters only. He is in a relationship and only needs his sexual needs met, no dating etc. If any Darwin girls (21 - 35yo) are interested please reply here. ;)
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