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Where do you meet and where do you play

May 06 2013

So as I've said before this is all new Do you meet first. If so where. And if you want to go further where do you go. I have very little privacy at home as my ex lives up the street and my kids like to just show up even in mummies days off lol. And as a friend pointed out going to a guys house is risky who knows what kind of sex dungeon he could have lol So how do you guys do it. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

13 years ago

I usually meet in a very public place like a pub or somewhere similar, and just kick back with a few drinks, live band if you want to dance some....or even just somewhere for lunch like a classy truckstop :) If the meet progresses into something more, then paying for a motel, or at least half of the nights expenses is always my thoughts....but who pays for what is something you should talk about with your date so that you're both on the same page. - Posted from rhpmobile

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wingman2014

13 years ago

Usually meet for a coffee if first time meeting, Normally go to motel near the airport , they still do day rates. Or if the weather is warm we can go out on a boat. Depends on what is comfortable for everyone.- Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

13 years ago

Just meet at a mutual venue like a coffee shop or bar and if things go further on the first meet you can always get a room

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On_Safari

13 years ago

Keep it simple until you've ascertained that you/they are interested. If worst comes to worst one drink and you have an appointment to get to. Easy and no feelings hurt or awkward farewells. Treat it like you would a coffee with a potential client/lol dare I say employer. Remembering they may be just as nervous as you. I don't play on first meets. But I was coerced into the back seat of a car once.....lol. Sometimes the hears so intense you just gotta go Nike and DO IT!!!

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On_Safari

13 years ago

HEAT!!!! Haha

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RHP User

13 years ago

I am a meet and greet gal, normally first meet is in a public place like a coffee shop/cafe.As a single woman OP I would suggest be safe, meet in a public place and always have a back up "Plan A" ready.Always inform another where you are going, times etc...you just never know!!FOXY

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RHP User

13 years ago

Meet for coffee first, gotta love coffee no expectations lol Having said that recently I was in Sydney and invited the most gorgeous man to share my hotel room for the night, officially our first meet, but we had been txting, emailing , chatting and phone calls for the previous 8 months lol Was the most amazing weekend xxx- Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

13 years ago

I prefer a middle of the day met ( my first preference ) that way an easy way out for concerned its easy to say got to get back to work etc , and I like to go to a decent hotel or serviced apartment only after I get to know someone do I take them to my place and show them my sex dungeon hahahaha but i do carry cotton ropes and ball gaga and thumb cuffs in my portable set dungeon van with sound proofing and dark windows hahahahahahahahahaha

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RHP User

13 years ago

I usually have coffee and then decide if I like what I see. I always make sure that I either know where they work, or what they do and I always text the address to a friend if I am going to their place so there is always a safety net. I am very good at finding out a little about a guy before I end up at his place.

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RHP User

13 years ago

It's awkward no? I always meet first and have only on a very rare occasion had sex on the first date. I always let them know that we will not be having sex on that date beforehand. Coffee or pub or bar for the first meet. Sometimes dinner if we've been chatting online for a while. Then if I like someone enough to have sex with them I'm usually happy to go to their place. Have utilised hotels in the past. I'm usually happy to go halves. I have a horrible fear of my kids walking in like that scene in the Augustine Burrows autobiography, running with scissors. Scary!

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RHP User

13 years ago

I've always insisted on a social meet first time around. (Interstate visits being the exception) Then if we hit it off, we organize the next meet on the understanding we will play. Until recently I've always booked the hotel (and paid) the first time, after that we alternate, his choice he pays then my choice I pay. I've only ever invited one man back to my place, and that was after many months of seeing him.- Posted from rhpmobile

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sweetgem

13 years ago

I always insist on meeting up for a coffee or drinks in a public place for the first time meet, even with the interstate travellers, just to be sure that I am really going to meet the same person shows in his pics, and of course to feel the vibe and see if there is a chemistry. If everything is good, then I don't mind to proceed into the next stage, but must go to a hotel for the business.

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RHP User

13 years ago

I email a fair bit before I organise to meet for drinks/coffee and then exchange mobile numbers only if it feels right.It must be a public place, somewhere casual and comfy and I will know the minute we lay eyes on each other whether there is chemistry.I never put limits on anything and just go with the flow…drinks, chemistry and banter usually leads to breakfast.I'm always happy to share the cost of a room and I always carry protection - I don't just mean condoms…safety is paramount.I NEVER meet at anyone's house until I feel certain I'm not going to end up cooked on their stove and fed to the dog. No-one ever comes to mine as it's just not worth the risk.

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RHP User

13 years ago

Thanks guys great advice. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

13 years ago

The only people I've really talked to all just want to go for it so ill keep looking till I find someone who understands my meet first play later attitude. - Posted from rhpmobile

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