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Where to shoot your load
November 06 2008
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RHP User
17 years ago
This is an interesting post - I think there are several answer all valid depending on what you feel, be it at the time, whether it is a fantasy or whether it's a preference. It'll be interesting for me to see what others think! For me, I remember being in a long term relationship with a girl who I was head over heels with and I mostly wanted to cum inside of her - that was what I wanted above all else because I wanted part of me to be part of her - it was strange from the point of view of the power she had over me. I watched her with a certain pride because I knew part of me was part of her. Yet, someway into our relationship as the sex became more experimental, I started getting fantasies of seeing my cum over her and seeing her revelling in it and enjoying the feel of it as she rubbed it into her skin. That's not to say that I then preferred it over cuming inside her, but a shift had taken place - and also she wanted to see me cum as well and see it on her and I was happy to oblige because, I think, of the visual thing. Then after we broke up, I don't think the cuming inside my girlfriends following ever had the same meaning for me, but the sexual expressive and raunchy thing that had deveoped from cuming on a woman remained. I can see this coming to an awkward revelation for me which I never realised until I voiced it in this post. I'm beginning to think the act of cuming inside your partner could be a more important thing when you are truly madly OTT about a woman, but cuming over stomach or breasts or seeing your cum adorning a woman's labia is a more raunchy thing when you more want to "get off" and indulge in some pure sexual indulgence that comes with the voyersitic part of seeing your load decorating the sexually attractive parts of a woman's anatomy. Now I'm sounding obsessive!!
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RHP User
17 years ago
As a youngster I wondered why guys would want to plaster the female form with their seed, but on growing older, found that many woman like watching a man ejaculate. Many also love to rub it over their body, breasts and face. On asking why the fascination, I was informed that they found it empowering... having a man masturbate for them. They also considered cum to have good skin rejuvenation properties. There was no way I was going to argue with that... the more wanking the merrier. From a guy's perspective, withdrawal and emptying the load outside the vagina has always been a primitive form of birth control, though at first thought, this seemed to be less satisfying for the woman... with coitus interruptus punctuating the route to her climax... considering most horny young blokes had problems with premature ejaculation anyway with an enormous build up of sperm in the balls. Being older, and lasting longer, the request to cum over her is not related to the aforementioned scenario. Personally love the feel of my hard cock in her wet pussy, the stimulus, and of course the eventual explosion... how great if we come together. Lennon and McCartney obviously knew what they we taking about when they made those famous lyrics top of the pops.
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RHP User
17 years ago
i perfer to come inside if you pull out you lose the rythm so i like to keep stroke but my partner hates it lol she prefers me to come on her not in her hates the lekage i guess lol but a question for you where the hell do you work lol to ask guys where they like to come hehehee ;)
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RHP User
17 years ago
Welcome mizzDemanure !! I be Hagar,, the sophisticated one who is always right !!! Surveyed ?? "gee",,!,,. i`ve never heard rooting called that before !!! perhaps im not as "groovey " as previously thought , all those middle of tea phone calls wanting me to partake in a survey was really an opportunity to spray my shandy all over their belly ??? Perhaps the lady has dry skin ? and the fella is concerned about it ? Or possibly its reminiscent of a spent chewie,, gotta go some where right ? Myself however, am one of those oooh baby cop this kinda guy !!! It makes good craft glue you know !!! ~~~Horrible~~~
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RHP User
17 years ago
Hey MissDemeanour, I'd have to say i'd prefer to cum inside. Breasts provide a visual stimulus, but just don't make cumming as intense, well in my opinion anyway. And as for swallowing... Just lurve that feeling :-)
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RHP User
17 years ago
it depends on my mood. you ladies just need to learn to read minds. actualy since i'm not a great shot it could go anywhere? LRE (random)
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RHP User
17 years ago
I often start sex with the idea I'd like to cum all over my partner, ( I love to cum on breasts face back etc. ) but usually when my orgasms starts to built I like to squirt as deep and hard as possible right up inside. Some sort of primeval urge to impregnate all the women of the world I think. I do some times like to pull out and spray cum all over a woman, and I think this is some sort of urge "to mark out my teritory" (Having written that it sounds terribly chauvanistic). I also like to rub it in and occasionally like like to cuddle afterwards (when I have cum on breasts and stomach) and feel us sticking together. ps I'd love to get you started on swallowing
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RHP User
17 years ago
I prefer to cum in Venus's mouth. Then we do a cum swap then kiss and share the cum. No mess and so sensual and tasty. We also do the same cum swap when Venus cums and squirts....I dont cum full blast in Venus's pussy any more therefore no deep clean up or leakage. Mars
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RHP User
17 years ago
I dunno about "some" men but my personal preference is to cum inside the woman. As for cumming on your stomach or breasts, I think its probably a power thing, but not as intense as inside. An then there is cumming in someones mouth, now thats great too...
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RHP User
17 years ago
I like toads. Why would anyone want to shoot one, let alone openly discuss their own sordid preferences when it comes to the 'final solution', down by the riverbank? There ought t' be a law against it. Herpetologists rule. ~~Fly-blown Beava~~
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RHP User
17 years ago
I would like to hazard a guess that this may be in some part affected by porn. Generally body and face are prime targets in porn, as it can be seen as a finale of sorts, a "money shot" as it were. Maybe men associate with this and somewhere in our brains is something that says, "hey, I saw that in a porno, that's hot" and it snowballs (for want of a better word) from there.
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RHP User
17 years ago
I rather enjoy spreading it all over my lovers body.... far and wide .... then slide on it and lick it off. I guess I like to makew the scene look like there has been a hell of a party... and then of course, I always stay behind to clean up.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Ejaculation and thought are not the best of partners, so unless its pre-arranged, always inside. otherwise its just a wank. PD
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RHP User
17 years ago
Well well, some very interesting responses - thanks to everyone :) This is going to make fantastic lunch time talk today at work! Actually I think this week's lunch topic is going to be "can you suck your own penis" - LOL I asked my brother-in-law yesterday why he cums over my sister's breasts. He said "because I can" - cheeky bugger! Special thanks to ad libitum who seemed to 'open up' but at the same time I think he hit the nail on the head when he said "but cuming over stomach or breasts or seeing your cum adorning a woman's labia is a more raunchy thing when you more want to "get off" and indulge in some pure sexual indulgence that comes with the voyersitic part of seeing your load decorating the sexually attractive parts of a woman's anatomy." So in essence (no pun intended) if your mind is in a purely "get my rocks off" space then cumming inside is just not going to cut it. Hagar - sorry to hear you missed out on all those 'survey calls'. Next time pick the phone up babe ... it might be me calling!! MissDee
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RHP User
17 years ago
It would have to be inside, whether it be in a condom or not ! I like to watch a woman's face when I friend is pumping the load out cause the muscle really constricts & purges & has a lot of movement when I cum. Female theorists are welcome ! lol Crank
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RHP User
17 years ago
I remember one of the first times I was with my ex I pulled out to cum on her stomach and I had a bit more 'water pressure' than I thought. I cum hard at an angle and shot her right in the eye. Poor girl. We still have a good laugh about it. And the bruises I left on her inner thighs from my pelvis bones digging into her that made it hard to walk afterwards. LOL. I don't have a set plan really, but now I'm a single guy I know exactly where it's going. Into a condom. Safe sex all the way. ;)
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RHP User
17 years ago
Thanks for the comment MissDee!! This thread really did hit a chord with me - hence the "opening up". I had to confront something that had been bugging me for a while without me knowing it was - if that makes any sense!! So, MissDee - given you started the post, do you have any sort of preference or comments from the "receiving" point of view???
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RHP User
17 years ago
Miss what interests me more is the effect of your survey on your work mates. :P You're a big tease aren't you.
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RHP User
17 years ago
but with condoms on..... better to be safe then sorry. only man who gets the pleasure of cumming inside me without a condom on is fordy.
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RHP User
17 years ago
When I wank, it usually ends up on the wall above my head. Otherwise coming on a slapper and rubbing it all over her is good, but when she gobles it all up is the best. Nothing like wasting a warm meal
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RHP User
17 years ago
With one partner years ago, I used condoms and cum in the condom while inside her, sometimes she'd cum first, sometimes me... if I came first I'd stay hard and keep going untill she came, sometimes that took a while. Just use good quality condoms, and larger ones so there is no Leakage... Out the sides...
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RHP User
17 years ago
.....yeah me too " man " ... I`m jus like .. the best fukk "EVER" !!! Ive gotta get custom condoms made ,, usually by converting a small tent ,, BUT boy !!! that tight fit,,, just feels so good ,, The babes just jump in the air and say,,," oh what a feeling " a toyota ffffeeling !!! And when i blow ,,,"BOY",,,..i say !!.. take out ya contact lenses and hang on babeee !!..Hagars gonna blow his load .. SO back the truck in !!! Im so fukkin hard all the time ,, only goes soft when i check the mail ! ~~~~Horeeeeble~~~ one day ill take my hand off my dick !!!
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deltoid
17 years ago
Just as most things when it comes to sex, it all depends and the situation and what the person you are with is into. Shooting a load over a womens body, face or where ever else can be great, for me it is more a visual thing. But this is only great if the partner I am with is into enjoying having a load shot over them. If they are not into or do not like it, why bother. May sound corny but to me sex is as much about seeing your partner enjoy them self and getting off as much as getting off yourself. Therefore ruins it to a large degree if you do something that although you may get enjoyment from, your partner does not.
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RHP User
17 years ago
personally i cant get enough of it.. the feeling of a girls tongue on it, sucking yr juices out like an oversized straw.. its very intense.. its a form of worship i believe, and dont we all wanna be like god in a small way? lol
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RHP User
17 years ago
Ok this is from a girls perspective here... Maybe not all girls like to be painted with a guy's cum...and i know my current partner loves to cum inside me, it does give us a special sort of bond, if you get where i'm coming from. He also LOVES when i swallow and i do too, i just love his taste..... I have been asking him to blow over me, my face, boobs, arse, anywhere...... but he's reluctant, saying its a waste...lol So its not just the guys who "want it"either..... I'll get him there eventually... i usually get what i want... ;-)
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RHP User
17 years ago
Grav, when he feels like it, aims for the head shot...cheeky bugger. He thinks it funny to see me covered in cum. He enjoys taking pictures of his art work . lol I try to catch as much as i can in my mouth....but i look like one of those laughing clowns at the show. pmsl. Leelee xxx
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RHP User
17 years ago
Well I have to say I absolutely love it when Mr cums inside me, there is something about it that makes the job feel more finished and I am sure his cock swells just before he cums and that is that ultimate moment for me. But having said that I love the look on his face when he cums all over my boobs and stomach. He is also very taken lately with blowing all over my face. I dont mind, Im usually a very good catch but on occasion he gets a little excited and I wear a huge glob in my eye. It stings and makes my eye red all day, and amuses him no end. One of the main reasons Mr cums on the outside a lot of the time is because he is away working for so long that the week he is home we have LOTS of sex. Which equates to LOTS of cum. If he were to blow inside everytime well I will leave it to your imagination what sort of mess I would be in by the time he went back to work. MissDemeanour great question Mrs xxx
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RHP User
17 years ago
Nothing like feeling the warm cum hit ur skin!
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RHP User
17 years ago
well ive always come on the out side of my partners weather on her stomach or back its because if your having lots of sex and you com inside your partner you end up with the dreaded fishie smells and thats not good so keep it clean
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RHP User
17 years ago
amazing variety of answers, im still amazed you can talk to your fellow workers about it. If I brought anything up like that i would be committed. personally? i prefer cumming deep inside but shooting a load at a particular target on request ;)
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RHP User
17 years ago
Well, haven't we just opened up a Pandora's Box with this question! I'll admit it's something that's fascinated me for a long time... Personally, I like the feeling of a guy cumming inside me there's something about it that satisfies me that I've done my job right... especially if you can get your guy to cum at the same time you do... and with the way my pussy tightens at climax...it's usaully enough to make a guy shoot his load before they even realise what's happened.. Guess that may be a power thing? lol As for the body, tits, ass, pussy, back, stomach... whatever. Doesn't do much for me but if that's what floats his boat then I can take one for the team..(now that sounds like a fun time! mmmm.... team...) But the one place I will never let happen is in my face. No go zone Sonny Boy! For some reason I just think it's demeaning. Plus who the hell wants spoof up their nose, in their eyes in their hair. I mean what a pain in the ass! If a guy wants to come in my face then the trade is for me to piss in his... LOL. Sound fair?
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RHP User
17 years ago
I always ask first. Always. Simply because cumming inside makes it difficult to move onto the next partner without a thorough cleaning (we do play without condoms with a select few couples we know). Mainly because there's lots of it and it will shoot around 1.5 to 2 metres depending on the situation. It seems to be quite a turnon for some women and some of the men are impressed as well. No sword fighting for this guy so bi or gay guys, don't bother. It makes a hell of a mess sometimes too! LOL
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RHP User
17 years ago
miss dee, i think its fucking hot that guys do this. mixes it up. im obviously speaking from a girls point of view, but who wants the same thing every time? maybe there are people out there who wnt nice clean sex but i cant think of anything more boring! nothing hotter than seeing a nice big cock cum all over your face or on your back or boobs or tummy. and how can you not think that swallowing is awesome??? haha ah well.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Men are visual creatures and like to see the product of their labour lol Personally, I love the feeling of a man shooting his load inside of me. Especially when he is a real goer and his whole body spasms as he climaxes and its like an energy force exploding inside of me. Hmm got a bit carried away there lol mmmmmmm yummy Good protein injection haha ;)
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RHP User
17 years ago
There is nothing better than shooting your load over a womans face especially when you have a build up of 2-3 weeks of cum , she has her mouth open and tongue out and you drench her in it . The only problem is where do you find a woman who will let you do that Cheers
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RHP User
17 years ago
I cum inside on the last penetration of the vagina.. If I cum in the vagina the first time I cant get back down and suck her bits again before the next penetration. It might take a while to get hard again and can involve a lot of oral both ways and I dont fancy a felching my own. If they are looking a little worse for wear and it might be the last session I give the vagina a good filling and it makes a nice ending to a good session. As does a bit if anal if they are up to it by that point. For condoms. Better to get them to take care of the load other places that suit them, leaving the shaft ready for another condom and the labia ready for more sucking and fucking.. Too hard to clean up the shaft (back seat of the car or out and about) and get the next one on for the next session after some muffin sucking and shaft gobblin. That said, life time single I always fuck like it's my last....suits partners too. Married folks have it on tap so they may not have the same approach. (loving seed for the loved stuff and all that jizz.)
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RHP User
17 years ago
Me again... I appreciate all the "interesting" feedback / answers... I knew the women would have to stick their noses in! Some responses below to a few of you who participated in this topic: "Deltoid" mentioned that it depends what your partner is in to. This is exactly right. What annoys me is when a guy does it without finding out if you're ok with it first. COMMUNICATION is the key. When it happened to me the first time I was a bit surprised. He was wearing a condom, was inside me just about to cum and suddenly he withdrew, ripped off the condom and blew his load all over me!!! And yes I got it on my breasts, up my nose, in the eye, in my hair and on the headboard. He was impressed... I was not. "Eighties_baby" - Nothing wrong with mixing it up at all, variety is great if you both agree with the antics. I never said anything about not swallowing or not liking it :-) "Pandora" - I like your trade-off suggestion, haha. But golden showers are another topic for another day. "Mammalian" and "QuietTime" - my work colleagues are used to me being so up front and they know I will talk about anything. Let's just say that my table in the canteen has the most laughter and the most people. I'm thinking of getting a sign board with the topic of the day written on it so that people can join in if they wish :-) This weeks topic is whether men prefer squirters or not - ha! HAPPY CHRISSY TO YOU ALL Dee
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RHP User
17 years ago
bump ;-)
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RHP User
17 years ago
i wondered why the alarm light on the red phone was blinking.. LRE (grabbing his mop)
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RHP User
17 years ago
Bit too much to drink to think of more than that, oh damn i'm still rhyming. The first and most likely one that they getting as much, more or some joy out of the dominant side of sex as the actual sensation and feeling. The other that maybe as single guys for too long they have been conditioned by pornograph to be excited by that visual aspect. My 2 cents worth, we got more input? If we get enough we might be able to buy a mars bar...
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RHP User
17 years ago
It's also good to mix it up a bit though but inside is sensual... love it.
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RHP User
17 years ago
The interruption is not worth the visual stimulus of looking like a porn star - so during intercourse I will not break the rhytym. HOWEVER, I am partial to the occasional footjob, in which case I will squirt my load all over those lucky feet and toes. Ladies, message me if you are remotely curious about this! Every guy wants to be a pornstar - its as simple as that...
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RHP User
17 years ago
To all the guys that talk about it like it's some big sausage fest.
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RHP User
17 years ago
I find my lover likes receiving a gentle slurp on all the lovely mess in her pussy. However if there is cum in the mix Im less likely to clean her up properly for more penetration
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RHP User
17 years ago
i must be one of the luckiest men alive to have my little queen harlot . I am in agreeance that cummin inside her pussy is awsome , but my lady is one of those natural cum lovin ladies. Id say ive unloaded into her mouth more times than anywhere else ,at least 10 to 1. she even slightly sad if i decide to be macho and load it out onto her stomach. But taking things one step further, once she has had her mouth well filled ,, there is nothing like the sight of her continual suckling of the end of my cock ,,to ensure every drop finds her mouth , unfuckinbelievable .
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RHP User
17 years ago
Never cum on a woman. I have no real preference, would give it a go.
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RHP User
17 years ago
...then let her rub it over her sweet pink to you hot for the next round ;-)
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RHP User
17 years ago
as a father of 5 i know where i should have unloaded.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Fark that made me laugh..... Only 2 days ago I said the exact same thing to Mr. If we had of workrd out 13 years ago that it is fun to occasionally shoot your load elsewhere maybe we wouldnt have 5 kids either lmfao. On a side note my cheeky shithead cousin has a saying which he actually uses when picking up girls and it bloody works although how I dont know "UP the bum no babies!!"" Mrs xoxo
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RHP User
16 years ago
I agree with Flover - Hurray for a fellow enthusiast! Nothing is quite like shooting a load across some pretty painted toenails or smooth soles!
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