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Where's their manners

October 06 2012

My man asked "if I was a guy and invited to join a couple at their home, would I bring anything and if so, what would it be?" This question came about as we have invited a number of guys to join us and under 20% had the courtesy to ask if they should bring anything and less than that actually did. Not talking much but a drink, condoms, lube for instance might be a simple ask but is their bottom head doing the thinking and manners get left on the RHP site when they leave. Are we asking too much - geeze we share our home, drinks, food, hospitality and sex and ask for only respect & common courtesy in return. Oye you FIFO workers with fat wallets are the worst offenders put your hands in your pockets and spend some small change and bring supplies along with you it's good form and may get you a second invite. Do other couples feel as we do?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    all the FIFO workers get everything for free, and still whinge when there's only 10 ice cream flavors in the dry mess to choose fromcommon courtesy, a dying art ...you either have it or you don't. Maybe you've just been unlucky with your choice of guys.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    can they be generous lovers if they are so mean spirited

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Not the job, usually how one is raised. I've been FIFO for many years I agree the cashed up young ones can be selfish.Probably paying off their McMansions and the new SS.   As for loving, try living in the desert weeks on end, sure is good to get back in town for some hammer time.   Kyeblu I would get you anything you needed, what a gorgeous bum you have, bravo!!!   coodi_yowie sure the story was 10 flavours, I thought it was fifty.   Thanks   Pete

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    That's why we don't exercise inviting single males into our play for that very reason, as it comes across that all they're out there for is to "Whip it in, Whip it out and Wipe it". You seemed to have hit the nail on the head by saying that they tend to be thinking with their bottom head instead of common sense and manners, as it doesn't take much to bring a nice bottle of wine, even some chocky's or so on. Each to their own, but you're probably better off with couples if you want that extra male in you play.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I don't think it's about RHP. Manners and courtesy, even basic consideration of others, aren't very prevalent these days. It's a WIIFM world! I also agree with Coodi that you either have it or you don't. I'm an incredibly generous person - with my heart, my time, my things - but I confess I've learnt to hold back a bit and see what someone's character is like first. I've found one of the easiest tests of someone's generosity is whether they ask a lot and want to know a lot about you. Selfish or self-centred people are not curious about others.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    without question

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    if we look fromthe other side of view.   Isn't it a manner to demand service from your guest? Shouldn't the host be the one that provide service? If you go to a party you would expect the host to have drinks, food, etc. prepared rather than just askig their guests to BYO.I think it's more of a courtesy rather than manners. Like bringing more champage to a party to help with the supplies. When I host a party I ever ex   Manner is about beig polite and treat others with dignity, like not putting your feet on someone's head.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Will turn up, eat drink be merry.   He she will not carry condoms or just asume you have them. some women can be the same, where they expect the guy to pay for it all.   Manners are how ya parents brung ya up Rite.   Or dragged ya up.   But a tight arse comes from all walks of life.   You can have a lot of money, but have it zipped up tight anyway.   Some folk have no class, simple as that.   the fifo men I know so far have been very nice to me. No complaints there.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    When people fail to at least offer to contribute to a friendly gathering. I think that if those that are willing to invite people to their house, or a motel room, whatever it maybe, then it's just a simple gesture of appreciation for the invitation that you offer a contribution to the occasion.   That's just me though..

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Pirate_Pete' Not the job, usually how one is raised. I've been FIFO for many years I agree the cashed up young ones can be selfish.Probably paying off their McMansions and the new SS.   As for loving, try living in the desert weeks on end, sure is good to get back in town for some hammer time.   Kyeblu I would get you anything you needed, what a gorgeous bum you have, bravo!!!   coodi_yowie sure the story was 10 flavours, I thought it was fifty.   Thanks   Pete       true ... most camps that are predominately 'contractors' would have 50 flavors at least... i certainly notice when the contractors come to site, the food is noticeable better ... or they walk

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Yes we wonder about what guys are thinking, we have had (past tense) a single guy visit more than once and not even bring condoms, once or twice a single bottle of cheap champagne. WTF

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  • Cheekyarses

    Cheekyarses

    13 years ago

    We always take something - it's common curitisy - good manners go a long long way!

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  • Mr_DarkChocolate

    Mr_DarkChocolate

    13 years ago

    what to bring what to bring =O it's like when somebody invites u to a BBQ & u have no friggen idea what to bring but u know u got to bring something but back on topic why wouldn't u bring ur own condoms ?!?! thats just rude like umm did u expect to get laid without a condom ?! personally i always bring handcuffs, a cockring & condoms can't leave home without the bare necessities ;>

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Hey Hun :) Well once you sort out your Profile if you haven't yet .I'm sure you'll get your invitations to Play and you can bring your own supplies .I liked your comment it was a giggle he!he! cheers Lu :)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    In terms of guest gift-giving, I've bought handmade chocolates or handmade French pastries... Most times they've been forgotten about though... :)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Mr Adds and I first meet on here on RHP last year...And at our first meet Mr Adds brought flowers, wine, prawns, ropes and whips... I brought music, candles and massage oils... We have been together ever since...I think its about finding like minded people whose sole state of mind doesn't revolve around their nether regions...Stay sexy...

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    What to bring when youre told not to bring a thing Hubby and I have just had this conversation - we more often than not host at home and only ONCE has someone offered to bring anything (for the record he bought wine and box favourites!) I always offer to provide drinks, just common courtesy isnt it???? I find it rude and turn off. If they can't even be bothered asking me what I like to drink - what are they going to be like in bed? Mrs Bom

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