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Who do you talk to?

September 29 2013

we all know that being bi or into the swinging scene can be frowned upon but i'm also sure we all like to be discrete. Being new to this, there are times when we would love to "pick" someones brains and ask questions but who do we turn to? so we wondered who you all speak to when you don't want to ask in a forum or general online blog?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I talk to my very good friend Stalky - he corrupted me after all. I get my dating advice from him too.... Mind you a few times I have scoffed at him and told him he knows nothing about men! But alas, it is always me who manages to get it wrong. 😆

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Don't you know anyone in the scene? The actual swinging scene is quite small, if you attend parties and events you will start to see some regular faces and make some friends with other swingers.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    made some good friends here...like minded people who I can talk openly with.Check out couples posts on the forums and if you like what the have to say,message them accordingly..Contrary to what many think this site is also a way to social network.Look at the events section as well for parties and clubs,just because you go to one doesn'tmean that you have to play. xlaB

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    My nine birds. They are kinky fuckers.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Me I am Bi and love with lust more then many can imagine, I talk to every one. It is frowned upon but it is so natural. Strut your stuff. Ask away if you wish.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I have two groups of lady friends I can chat to openly. However even with there open minds some questions can be taboo. Even in these forums there can be closed minds so it is never easy.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I sit down and brainstorm. It also helps keep the brain active. It also helps the self confidence a lot too after you've achieved. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I have met some great people on here and love talking with them about the more devious side to our lives. It's really liberating for me because the people in my 'regular' life have absolutely no idea and would be shocked and possibly appalled, certainly there would be gossip🙀, so I say nothing to them.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I talk to him about everything and anything he helps me alot and I'm grateful for his advice and listening to me :)- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    After all.... She was on RHP long before I was and is considerably kinkier than I can ever be!- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I have two very good friends that I share all with. They know me for all that I really am!- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I talk to my online friends about stuff, I have one real life friend who I talk to, she is good with relationship, one on one stuff but is left floundering with the kinkier stuff.Read blogs, interact and make new kinky friends.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Awesome71' I have met some great people on here and love talking with them about the more devious side to our lives. It's really liberating for me because the people in my 'regular' life have absolutely no idea and would be shocked and possibly appalled, certainly there would be gossip🙀, so I say nothing to them. We agree Awesome. people in our regular life have no idea and would rather they didn't, so say nothing ( although Miss nicenormal has a work college that has some interesting stories she shares! and i've heard the reactions to that) Thank you to all that have commented, its been helpful and we were more curious and we wanted to know if there was more than forums and blogs.