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Who here is pervert and weird?
July 05 2014
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gazpacho
11 years ago
Pervert. I am likely to meet this criteria so far as some people are concerned. Some people would say that merely looking at pornography is perverted. Having a toss is perverted. Sex outside of marriage is perverted... Thinking about sex in daylight is percerted. ... Lol. I suppose the context helps us work out what is meant. Obviously this couple are swingers so they're more liberal minded than some. Perhaps they mean that BDSM and anal sex are off the menu. All you need do is ask what they mean? I think the wording of a profile can only be analysed so far... people aren't always sufficiently articulate. Hugs Gazpacho - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Makes you a hypocrite. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
funny though...Some Rhp peeps judge others on here for being abit more out there than themselves..then people outside the swinging scene definitely would judge anyone on a site like this ..and then you say a lot of peeps from asia would judge people on here for being out there..But then alot of people would also judge Asians for being pretty out there and kinky, perverted and just plain weird lol No offence, but ive lived in Asia, and ive seen some really weird kinky perverted shit ..And thats why i keep going back to asia lol everyone judges everyone, people suck lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
is that they arent judging, just defining that certan perversions are not for them. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I would consider myself open minded in the fact that I don't really care what others get up to if it doesn't affect me however what I get up to myself is probably not as open minded yet possible way more out there than some others too. I am very curious and ask a lot of questions like 'why' which often comes across as judgmental only because I wish to understand it.
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rupamohan
11 years ago
over judgement based on imagination or pre-conceived bias is something not our cup of tea. Judging our surroundings and making opinions are natural learning process. The surrounding includes people. The point is not that we should be non-judgemental. The point is that people claim to be non-judgemental and then passing judgements in the same breath. Specially where there is NO need of it. One can simply state what they are not interested in without passing negative judgement. Do I have to write that I feel smokers are stupid idiots stinky unhygienic uneducated that is why I am not interested in the smokers. In our opinion even when people don't get reply and assume the only reason why people don't reply is being rude is itself rude.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Have to say that generally RHP is a very Conservative site. I am a pervert and strange here and on other sites I am tame and exceedingly normal, but I am working on being more of a freak. I would hate to be labeled normal , what ever that is?
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RHP User
11 years ago
"If like us they are not into ___ all they have to say is not interested in ____." This is hilariously hypocritical given your profile wording. You're in no position to be casting stones about how anyone else writes theirs. It's THEIR profile just like that long ass essay is YOUR profile, do what you like with yours and leave others to theirs.
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RHP User
11 years ago
after my weekend away with my amazing new couple friends :) I will never be the same lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
We all judge....we all discriminate....because we are human....imagine if we didn't, we would put ourselves in harms way...it is ridiculous to say that we don't judge xQ
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yep I agree.... Hence why I judged the OP ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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rupamohan
11 years ago
Quoting 'sir_stir' Makes you a hypocrite. - Posted from rhpmobileThanks for sharing your view.Rupa(f)The main purpose of my posts are to share diverse views. In that sense I am more or less looking for views that are different to mine. The purpose is not to find out how many people agree with me, look for a morale boost from agreed counter. lol...l already have too much morale..
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rupamohan
11 years ago
Quoting 'sir_stir' Makes you a hypocrite. - Posted from rhpmobileThanks for sharing your view.Rupa(f)The main purpose of my posts are to share diverse views. In that sense I am more or less looking for views that are different to mine. The purpose is not to find out how many people agree with me, look for a morale boost from agreed counter. lol...l already have too much morale..
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rupamohan
11 years ago
Quoting 'MissSarahCurious' "If like us they are not into ___ all they have to say is not interested in ____." This is hilariously hypocritical given your profile wording. You're in no position to be casting stones about how anyone else writes theirs. It's THEIR profile just like that long ass essay is YOUR profile, do what you like with yours and leave others to theirs. As a OP I set the agenda of the my post..and the agenda is generic, not targeted to any individual profile, neither it is to talk about our profile. As per RHP guidelines it is best to focus to the agenda..not get personal. But it looks like you enjoy giving out of context unwanted suggestions So here is a free counter suggestion to you... a) Read RHP guidelines... b) If you find our profile worth discussing at forum...make some effort start your own post..talk about profiles without identifying anybody..if I find your post worth replying...I promise to give you a fitting reply that will scare shit out of you...but don't worry my reply will be strictly professional and will focus your agenda...it will have nothing to do about your profile. Hum...I don't think you will understand what I just said..but hopefully you do.
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rupamohan
11 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta3' We all judge....we all discriminate....because we are human....imagine if we didn't, we would put ourselves in harms way...it is ridiculous to say that we don't judge xQ You just said the same point that judging is normal. My point is simply that some profiles claim they are no -judgemental but that is not true..more over there is no point of sharing your negative judgements in the profile..for example I have negative opinion about smokers..I believe they are stupid and idiots...will it be more proper to say I am not interested in smokers or ..say stupid and idiots like smoker need not contact?
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rupamohan
11 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta3' We all judge....we all discriminate....because we are human....imagine if we didn't, we would put ourselves in harms way...it is ridiculous to say that we don't judge xQ You just said the same point that judging is normal. My point is simply that some profiles claim they are no -judgemental but that is not true..more over there is no point of sharing your negative judgements in the profile..for example I have negative opinion about smokers..I believe they are stupid and idiots...will it be more proper to say I am not interested in smokers or ..say stupid and idiots like smoker need not contact?
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RHP User
11 years ago
...they sin differently to you.
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rupamohan
11 years ago
How boring it will be if all sin in same way. Thanks for sharing your view.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Perverted and weird related. Most people think I'm left of center but I'm not enough sexually perverted. My perversions lie in other areas. But I agree OP, we all judge and to say you are non-judgmental is not using the term correctly. It's what you base your judgments on is what matters. A bit like saying smokers are uneducated yet many specialist doctors smoke.
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twowithnolimits
11 years ago
Hoping we are weird and perverted by most peoples standards
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RHP User
11 years ago
I do believe you are into BDSM Every time you post you manage to offend and belittle nearly everyone who replies and appear to revel in it. But hey, who am I to comment....I am only a stupid idiot stinky unhygienic uneducated smoker. If being on Rhp makes me perverted, weird and even sick according to your highly educated universal views....meh, I reserve my non- judgmental judgement. (Gawd, now I am cracking myself up !)
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RHP User
11 years ago
once told.... You would like to be weird...but you're not..:-) xQ
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rupamohan
11 years ago
Quoting 'ruby_blossum' I do believe you are into BDSM Every time you post you manage to offend and belittle nearly everyone who replies and appear to revel in it. But hey, who am I to comment....I am only a stupid idiot stinky unhygienic uneducated smoker. If being on Rhp makes me perverted, weird and even sick according to your highly educated universal views....meh, I reserve my non- judgmental judgement. (Gawd, now I am cracking myself up !) You made my day..I can't tell you how long I have been waiting glued to my PC to hear something like this. After a long time I got a chance to laugh so much. If having a diverse view and not respecting those who don't respect RHP guidelines means demeaning them...you are spot ON with your observation. Wow I never knew I wield so much control on other's mind that I can belittle them. Anyway on a serious note the examples given in my post were just to explain my point as an example. I don't tell literal truth in public forums. If you really want to know how much I hate or love smokers...come in pvt. Just to admire you a bit I am impressed that you have been nominated to talk on behalf of all others who have been demeaned.
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RHP User
11 years ago
my observations.
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Tart_Du_Jour
11 years ago
That once I held hands with a man I am not related to WHILE unchaperoned after 3pm. Don't tell my mother, it would break her heart. If things get serious I may show him the fibre of my petticoat *blush*
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rupamohan
11 years ago
Quoting 'ruby_blossum' my observations. Me too was voicing my observations.. ....however there is a BIG difference..when I voice my observation I am willing to back it with reasons, if asked. Sadly when I ask others for the reasons they go numb. or get more out of context more personal..more off the track....wish at least one had courage to say sorry...some do came close to say sorry.. You can never go wrong with me if you stick to agenda...I am here to get diverse view...it is boring if you simply agree with me...I prefer people disagree with me but people can't change agenda and put it back to picking on me. If they want to pick on me let them start that with own post and own agenda. The point is simple my post I decide the agenda. It is not my style to get personal with anyone here..if I haven't met you you are just a computer for me..neither I have love for you neither hate..but I don't mind computers to show courtesy and say sorry...lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
do you prefer to actively engage in writing to others about fetishes and sexual content or do you also enjoy reading it?
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twowithnolimits
11 years ago
pml at Tart_Du_Jour if you leave the lights off, you might just get away with it!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Bring it on! Lmao Hell for us, we had a couple introduce us to light bondage. We didn't know we liked it until they did, now we do much more than them! Lol Experimentation (yes we do have limits... ) is the name of the game!
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