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Why are some couples so pushy and rude?

December 27 2010

Hello all, Why do couples accuse you of being fake if you don't rush out and fuck with them instantly? We just had a couple contact us a number of times, get nice responses from us, then say we are fake totally out of the blue, out of context and totally wrong. We both work and look forward to playing as often as we can. It really puts us off couples, we usually hook up with guys for fun and have been thinking about a couple, but this has happened twice now. We are just honest in our answers and our pics show we are for real. They are just plain rude. So, what is the go? B&C

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RHP User

15 years ago

for the single people as well ive gotten a few messages from one guy who seemed ok so i replied then i get he exact same message as the first one he sent me , he has now sent me that message about 10 times.

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RHP User

15 years ago

I guess it comes down to personality, some people are just unreasonable and not open to the possibility that not everyone clicks with them... no loss on your part I'd say

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RHP User

15 years ago

We have been accused of also being fakes because we wouldnt meet up with a couple when they were ready to meet we have a young family and new to brisbane and work some funny hours so playtimes can be limited and when we do het some spare time we arent always wanting to swing at thr drop of a hat now this couple has gone around bad mouthing us to other couples making it hard to find like monded couples to talk too

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RHP User

15 years ago

sadly the world is full of jerks and bogans and stuck up snobs.. your task on here, is to filter thru that and find relaxed cool play friends i guess :)

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DonnaBrett

15 years ago

We can understand where you are coming from but also can see it from the other side too. It's hard to find a happy medium as in meeting people. We understand some people have busy lives, kids etc and have to really plot and plan a meeting but for other people finding time for meetings is generally easy so for those two types to attempt a hook up doesn't always work. As a rule we find that after the initial contact on RHP or some other site if at least phone contact isn't made within a week then it will probably go nowhere. It isn't hard to talk on the phone. Then after a phone chat, if a meeting of some kind hasn't happened within two weeks...it's generally a lost cause..there have been a couple of rare times when the meeting doesn't happen for a long time but as said these are rare! We believe the key to really get things going is personal contact as in a phone call, if people won't talk on the phone there is a problem right from the start. Constant emails & msn chatting etc is a waste of time. Phone contact with all parties talking lets everyone know that there are no fake profiles or dreamers...then take it from there!Good Luck

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RHP User

15 years ago

but i do find couples to be the worst...not that i get much mail all round but the stuff i get from couples is worse than anything else i have on my profile NO married me and i dont do women so couples all round are just not for me...but i do get lots of abusive mail from them but having said that i chat with a few of the couples (mainly the woman half) from the forums and they are just beautiful to chat with so i think you should be thankful you didnt meet up...what a disaster that would have been roxxy

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RHP User

15 years ago

Why be shocked its like any other place you visit,there are people here that are self interested and have no concideration for anyone elce.In saying that i havefound there are interesting and coulorfull people here as well,decent good people you can develop a friendship with.Lots here are looking for quick fix like a junkie and want instant gratification,they are frustrated at not being able to score.Others are here for a sexual adventure and want to travel with others and get to know eachother and learn about your desires.This cannot happen in one night and to know a persons desires takes time and conciderate patience.Exploration is not a rushed prosess ,you must document and descover secrets and form trust to gain access there deepest desires.If you feel they are not on te same journey then stay at the resort,let them take the day tour.Relax its your thing and you have what they want.hahaha too bad for them,Smile its all good you have respect or yourself and expect class and thats OK.Junk food sex is ok if your starving ,but i prefer to dine at the resort and take my time to enjoy all culinary delights.Dont read a book buy its cover,look into the pages and read between the lines,be carefull as you have your lady with you and she deserves respect.If they cannot offer this then they are a waist of freash air and i agree with Mrs Sweetiepie you have dodged a couple of bullets.Your sure fire winners dont go for losers.Its all ways good to meet on your grounds and have home ground advantage ,prepare for this"think about it" its allways your call and you have done well to uncover the deception. Dont let this affect your healthy interest in eachothers sexuality and a great adveture,its the time of your lives.Stick together an travel well. Best wishes and have a fun new year. Blow it up!........ Detonator.

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RHP User

15 years ago

Rugame43, We hear you! We work odd hours as well, and usually don't get weekends free- Some couples take that to mean we aren't serious! But then the same couples can never meet on a Wednesday or Thursday (for example) when we're free, so it is a vicious cycle! Especially with Cairns being such a tourism based town, I don't understand the mentality. Oh well, I am sure there are couples out there that understand!! Good luck and happy looking

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RHP User

15 years ago

i have to wonder at the ' Oh but my wife says its ok when u refuse'.... Im like jolly good for her but i do still have a say in this matter and its NOOOOOOO noddy I do wonder at how often you have to say no before its accepted GL

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RHP User

15 years ago

Don't worry, singles have the same issues, buty its harder to be taken seriously!

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RHP User

15 years ago

while i have met one awesome couple who actually approached one of my male friends first. other couples have been incredibly pushy (multiple aggressive smses while i was in the shower to get ready to go to their place), one to the point where i went from 'see you soon' to 'im not going to live up to your expectations' in less than half an hour. then continued contact on my mobile and here after i said i wasnt interested anymore and why. because of this i no longer have looking for mf couples in my profile.

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RHP User

15 years ago

I am hoping you continue to play with the fun guys. Mind you I would be the most biased person to comment on this one.

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RHP User

15 years ago

In what way without sounding pushy ? a wink is sent off by a guest member to a full member contact is made and then chatting for few messages arrangements made to meet , then beyond your circumstances your not able to meet ok 1 time , but then comes the next time and it's an ongoing scenario sorry can't make it , when you send a messaging asking to be honest does this mean your pushy , personality and whether compatable would of been evident from the messages between the 2 parties if your going to meet or not after some pic views via rhp or email address sending , be honest and upfront from the start no misunderstandings , excuses all the time from timewasters ongoing .

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