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Why are some guys so disrespectful to BIG GIRLS
May 31 2018
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RHP User
8 years ago
You cannot control....it’s not a judgement of you, it’s an insight to HIM.... Leave his actions with him, smile cos you know you’re awesome, and onward and upward.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
That’s just disgraceful. Don’t deactivate your account here You are up front and honest and it should not matter if you are Big or small I happen to think you are very attractive and perhaps when I move to Melbourne shortly we can catch up not as a one night wonder If this guy is so shallow then he wasn’t worth your time and he doesn’t deserve your time or to enjoy your company I’m sure you have much more to offer and you are a beautiful lady as well Size is not a measurement of how beautiful a person is or how sexy you are It’s what is inside. I for one think Big is beautiful and it’s also very sexy so stay on here and I’m sure you will meet many men who are more respectful of you and appreciate you I’d love to hear from you for one xx
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Freaky_Fun
8 years ago
It's not just because you're big some people are just dicks. We've probably all had those one offs that we thought were nice people, well l have anyway. My favourite catch phrase - "Next" Your photos are amazing by the way. Hugs, Freaky ❤️
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Rlee552
8 years ago
The bell curve on here means there are a few more ‘pricks’ and ‘aholes’ Do not let their actions - and you can’t control their actions - alter your behaviour. What they do is ultimately on them. Be proud of who you are. Be strong in who you are. And remind yourself they are missing out on something glorious.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Sorry OP, but you say you've had a great time since joining, you describe multiple successes, yet one turkey has made you want to deactivate? Online dating of any description is full of idiots. By the sounds you have managed to avoid a good number of them until only recently. Would you stop going out because you meet one rude person occasionally among a whole heap of good ones? At the end of the day if you want to chuck the baby out with the bathwater, be my guest?
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RHP User
8 years ago
Regardless of the reasons we are all on here and what we are looking for, we should never forget that the ladies on here should be respected always I agree that one fool should not lead you to deactivate your account and its great that you have had many more positive experiences during your time here. Dont let one person spoil that for you though I am sure you will again have some lovely experiences into the future with less rude and more respectful men or women as the case may be Respect for the ladies on here regardless of size, age or marital status or for any other reason is very important to me.Whilst everyone is super sexy in their own way, underneath is a human being, a person and it is common decency to show that respect Be confident in who you are and just how sexy you are. Above all else, if you dont get respect, just block them
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RHP User
8 years ago
Regardless of the reasons we are all on here and what we are looking for, we should never forget that the ladies on here should be respected always I agree that one fool should not lead you to deactivate your account and its great that you have had many more positive experiences during your time here. Dont let one person spoil that for you though I am sure you will again have some lovely experiences into the future with less rude and more respectful men or women as the case may be Respect for the ladies on here regardless of size, age or marital status or for any other reason is very important to me.Whilst everyone is super sexy in their own way, underneath is a human being, a person and it is common decency to show that respect Be confident in who you are and just how sexy you are. Above all else, if you dont get respect, just block them
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RHP User
8 years ago
You have to accept the fact that on closer inspection you might not be everyone's cup of tea. As a single bloke on here I receive rejection constantly, do I take it to heart? Fuck no! I take comfort in the fact that there was once a record producer who said no to a record deal with the Beatles! And to be fair I'm fucking better than the beatles!!!!Ive had a couple block me because I viewed their profile a few times (didn't message them) and I only did that because I was hitting the back button.If you've met some good people on here than you've done better than some.
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HotNightsGC
8 years ago
OP, if you’re ok with your body the way it is then you definitely should let people like that idiot wash right over you. Own your sexiness as a BBW and move on and up! I like to think of RHP like a bus stop. You’ll have to ride with all of the passengers getting on the bus, but you definitely don’t have to sit next to them or even listen to them. There are so many guys that adore larger or curvaceous women. And it sounds like you’ve met some nice ones up til now. So why let one moron ruin your good time? Pick yourself up, put on something unbelievably sexy, take some hot pics of yourself and maybe update your profile. That might kick start your confidence again. Good luck 😉 Ms HNP xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
You may be making it mean something that it's not. He could just be some arsehole that does that to everyone, collects pics and leaves. Unless he specifically said why he did it then you are only telling yourself that is the reason when you don't actually know. Stop giving it it any further meaning and just move on. He's just not worth it.
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RHP User
8 years ago
We were chatting to a couple and went to meet themOnkly the husband came over and explained his wife was very fussy lolIm a size ten not sure what she was hoping for as we had swapped lots of pics.We met a beautiful lady Lucious and she was larger and told us about the fun she was having on hereWe have learnt not to get upset and chat to those who are decent and genuine.We have a really lovely group of people we chat to niow and meet.Hang in there.
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nightingale8
8 years ago
There seems to be a societal attitude that men will be up for it whenever and with whomever. Always. But it's just not true. It places unnecessary pressure on the girls to always be desired and if not it must mean something really bad about you! We are choosy, let men be choosy too. For me blocking someone just because you're not interested in them is somewhat juvenile so it could have been done better. - Posted from rhpmobile
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EarthQueen
8 years ago
I would add though if you need a break take it. Sometimes emotionally and spiritually you need one. Sometimes I’ve had months. You need to be in the right headspace to meet people so maybe take some time for yourself to explore your feelings about what happened and why this particular time it’s left you feeling so down. Xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Nothing in the topic suggested it was your size that caused him to block you In fact, that he asked for photos .... I assume during some degree of ongoing messaging..... when clearly your physique is clear, would suggest he WANTED those photos Perhaps he recognised you? Perhaps you know his wife! You can never assume to know all the answers and must rely on the evidence. He blocked you Therefore he also did YOU a favour by eliminating himself. Perhaps the one lesson to take home here is next time, be a little more cautious who you share with, and *when* - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Blocks are UNintential. Mobiles are very sensative with TOUCHSCREENS and have lag. That is why I prefer... DESKtop version on a P.C. or a laptop. Because I have to physically press a mouse button to block someone. I have accidentally BLOcKED 2 people on RHP. Luckily I met them in person and explained at no point did I ever want to block them. We have become great friends since and to this day we SHARE. That is why I am a massive advocate of desktop on P.C. than mobile version with touchscreens. The answer to your forum... Do not assume. Your response was a knee jerk reaction. And you may not be 100 percent of your assumption.And out of an unknown you ALSO blocked the RHP member. Don't let a simple thing let you down. Plenty of "The Doodle" out there hun for everyone. Keep your head up and FUCK FUCK FUCK like a wild banshee. The SWINGA has spoken. Love third person talk. Any Swingalingson fans, be sure to add me as friend, checkout my forums and profile and make chocolate not war!
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RHP User
8 years ago
Forumites.. There is one of my forums on accidental and unintentional blocks. Be sure to check it out. Swinga. The desktop P.C non touch screen advocate! If I had to choose
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RHP User
8 years ago
Don't be affected by someone else's actions or judgement towards you..you are unique and awesome and you shouldn't let anyone have the power to affect your own sense of self worth and value. It is a reflection of them,not you..
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RHP User
8 years ago
Maybe he just got shocked by your beauty and could`not handle it. :D
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RHP User
8 years ago
Thanks Everyone for your responses to my Subject. It is my first Forum and I am glad to take in any and all advice 😘😘😘😘 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
What redhotpenis said and Iam straight. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
And Mischevious Lad gave a great alternative view which I didn’t consider when reading at the beginning I’ve had a similar experience of when I shared, I was blocked. I was hurt and confused and thought it may be as I’m half Asian and my look may not appeal. The situation rattled me initially but there’s someone for everyone and I was not that someone to them and they weren’t for me. Since then I’ve met some lovely people since so it’s just one person, one experience and in time forgettable OP you look gorgeous with a great profile and there are some great guys on here, just keep swimming x
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RHP User
8 years ago
Collecting pics to wank to. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
There's not much more that can be said... It's definitely a him issue not a you issue.. Hope your spirits have lifted a bit by the posts. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Whatever you do, don't lose your confidence. Sexy comes from within. That guy is a shallow loser and you probably dodged a bullet. I have a friend who is a big girl, and I think she is the hottest woman I've ever met. I'm straight but if I was to switch teams, she'd be the one. I struggle with self esteem issues, which surprises people, because my body is fit and lean, but then I just get idiots contacting me on here going 'hey babe' and telling me what they want to do to me. I'm married happily now, but being single I found it really hard to want to see anyone more than once. They just see a body, no one gave a fuck that I'm actually smart and really fucking funny! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
U are beautiful !!! His opinion of u is a true reflection of the person he is !! A lot of men look at women as a “dress size”. As far as I can tell, it’s their damn loss gorgeous. Be ur gorgeous self and let the “little boys” block u. Let the REAL MEN see u for the amazing chick u are ! x - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
love big girls - Posted from rhpmobile
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curiousgirl35
7 years ago
We are still to get off the starting blocks and past a few msgs and as we're not perfect ,sometimes insecurities creep in. The best advice i (mrs) can give is ( and i try to follow too)that you know you're awesome! You know everything you have to offer in the bedroom 😜😈and its their loss for not taking you up! - Posted from rhpmobile
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