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Why are you here?

March 01 2013

To actually meet like minded people? To make friends via Forums and/or Chat? Just for the Forums? Just for Chat? To feed your ego? Lonely? To find love? To get as much sex as possible? To fulfil a fantasy? To sleep with younger people that you might not get to meet in real life? To sleep with older people that you might not get to meet in real life? To get your rocks off on Cam? To watch girls/guys/couples on Cam? . Be honest....Why are you here? xFunlovingx

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    In the real world I am a very reserved person when out say in the clubs or pubs,I will usually only hang with my friends (while they attempt to chat girls up) So I am on here,when I meet someone from here I am different I am confident and relaxed I think it's because I know there is a mutual attraction and that makes it easier. So Honest Reasons don't burn me: * I work FIFO and past experiences mean I find it very hard to trust a woman to date very hard. *Everyone knows where they stand so no hurt feelings.i like to be very open and honest(sometimes too honest) *In the real world I am just too reserved to meet people. * so I search for sexy like minded girls who don't mind being a special friend while it lasts. Will I date again,I really would like to but she will have to be very very special and our chemistry would have to he the same.- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Has the reason why you initially joined changed now that you have been here a while? How so? xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I find after being here a while it is great to try new things and such I do also enjoy the chat and the forums.But in the end I primarily stick around for the same reasons.I actually did just not log on here for 5 or so months at one stage because the online community had consumed me a little and I was in the online world more than the real one.But I am back

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    So what are your reasons miss?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    question 1......to fulfill a fantasy question 2......no, not at all.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Don't need anyone else to feed my ego, thats for lazy people, I feed it myself. lol My reason for being here has changed. I'm now here because I have meet some like minded people who I like to talk to. I do enjoy the RHP forum community (when they aren't tearing strips off eachother). Its a great insight into the minds of the fairer sex. Oh and a cheap perve. Now that I understand the dynamics of the "RHP market place", I choose to just type. Secrets xo

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    To actually meet like minded people? Yep To make friends via Forums and/or Chat? Yep via forums - never been into chat Just for the Forums? No - every so often I throw caution to the wind and meet someone but met some brilliatn people that I now call friends via the forums Just for Chat? Never been there To feed your ego? Perhaps, maybe - never thought of it that way - no - Ive had more knockbacks than success Lonely? Defintely To find love? Found it once here - so sure why not ? ..Im optimistic about the possibility of it all To get as much sex as possible? Now Im laughing To fulfil a fantasy? Nope - done that To sleep with younger people that you might not get to meet in real life? Nope To sleep with older people that you might not get to meet in real life? Nope To get your rocks off on Cam? Nope To watch girls/guys/couples on Cam? Nope - mmmm basically Im boring as !!! . Be honest....Why are you here? Why am I here ?- put like that Im not really sure !!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I joined originally as I went to the RHP Launch Party...I knew some people there already and met many new great people! I had no expectations but to just chat to people when my man was in America! . I am on here now to find a FB or 2 or 3! I love my sex! I love to be pleased and to please a man! I love Random sex as well....some have been bad but over 95% has been mind blowing! I love to tease and be teased! I love to watch cock cam and I love to play on cam in chat! I love chat (but has to be the right time) and my fantasy I want to come true is to be fucked by a Random on cam! I love when men tell me they wank over my pics...it is a huge turn on...that is why I have my body pics up! I love being a woman and love my sexuality...I am woman ..... hear me purrrrrr ... I love having the power of the pussy! xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    To actually meet like minded people? ... Yes To make friends via Forums and/or Chat? .... Yes made friends Here Just for the Forums? .... Like the Forums Just for Chat? .... Never been in Chat ... No desire to do soTo feed your ego? ... Not at all ... I'm a Confident Woman Lonely? ... No ... I have a Man & many friends around me To find love? .... No ... lol ... here It would be like finding a needle in a hay stack To get as much sex as possible? ... No To fulfil a fantasy?.... Did that To sleep with younger people that you might not get to meet in real life? .... No To sleep with older people that you might not get to meet in real life?.... No To get your rocks off on Cam? .... No ... Hate Cam ... I live in the real World To watch girls/guys/couples on Cam? ... No Thanks .....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Is for the events section. I like partying and I find the RHP crowd a great group to mix with. I do facillitate my sexual urges by using the place for a booty call as I do have a kink for anomonous park sex. Mees stumbled into the forums a while ago.. It used to scare the bejeezus out of me like chat does,   Have to say met some amazing people who have become very close friends, had some god truley awfull fucks and am intrigued always from the next message to see where that will lead.   This place has taught me a lot. I dont think Ide be the same person if I wasnt here. (Hey mods how sucky does that sound :P)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'EuropianBliss' Is for the events section. I like partying and I find the RHP crowd a great group to mix with. I do facillitate my sexual urges by using the place for a booty call as I do have a kink for anomonous park sex. Mees stumbled into the forums a while ago.. It used to scare the bejeezus out of me like chat does,   Have to say met some amazing people who have become very close friends, had some god truley awfull fucks and am intrigued always from the next message to see where that will lead.   This place has taught me a lot. I dont think Ide be the same person if I wasnt here. (Hey mods how sucky does that sound :P) You have taught me alot on here as well....You have taken me into your world and opened my eyes to what is out there! I love that you enjoy your random sex and have no judgement on yourself or others who are different from the "Norm"! I think you are AMAZING!! xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Shinas' To actually meet like minded people? Yep To make friends via Forums and/or Chat? Yep via forums - never been into chat Just for the Forums? No - every so often I throw caution to the wind and meet someone but met some brilliatn people that I now call friends via the forums Just for Chat? Never been there To feed your ego? Perhaps, maybe - never thought of it that way - no - Ive had more knockbacks than success Lonely? Defintely To find love? Found it once here - so sure why not ? ..Im optimistic about the possibility of it all To get as much sex as possible? Now Im laughing To fulfil a fantasy? Nope - done that To sleep with younger people that you might not get to meet in real life? Nope To sleep with older people that you might not get to meet in real life? Nope To get your rocks off on Cam? Nope To watch girls/guys/couples on Cam? Nope - mmmm basically Im boring as !!! . Be honest....Why are you here? Why am I here ?- put like that Im not really sure !!! Because you make us laugh and you make us cry in the Forums! Because you found that one true friend since you joined this Site (TR)..... (things happen for a reason)! Because no matter how many times you get pushed down by men on here you are never bitter and you get right back up and dust yourself off and keep being your sexy self! xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    your the best............xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Great question xFunlovingx, thank you.     To actually meet like minded people? YES To make friends via Forums and/or Chat? Yes, love my RHP friends Just for the Forums? Love the forums, gained so much insight into all kinds of things. Just for Chat? Occasionally To feed your ego? Never thought about it but possibly! Lonely? Nope To find love? Never say no, as it usually finds you when you least expect it. To get as much sex as possible? At one time yes! Those damn hormones! To fulfil a fantasy? Yes, and thank you to those that helped...LOL (oh and to the future ones too!) To sleep with younger people that you might not get to meet in real life? No To sleep with older people that you might not get to meet in real life? No To get your rocks off on Cam? No To watch girls/guys/couples on Cam? No Heard about it from a friend who was trying to corrupt my morals at the time. (I had lived a very sheltered life but always had questions in my head that needed answering and experiencing). Curiosity got the better of me and wow am I glad it did. LOL My old friends often ask what has changed in my life because I seem so different. I guess this arena has facilitated me finding myself and being true to who I really am and loving it! Thank you RHP!   SFxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I had ended a very controlling 20 year relationship, spent three years soul searching and did not like the fact that I had allowed my ex partner to rob me of recreational sex for so many years. I love recreational sex. So I joined a different site but then had to join this one because this was the site my daughter was on. As there is not a huge age gap in our years there was a potential for us to both play with the same man... something we both wished to avoid. I have since found the man I want to be with and so have stayed for the forums (yes he knows I am here) and the friends I have made along the way.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Went to click Like on Shinas responce :P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    and thought it may be the place to meet a man close to my age who really enjoys an active and fun, ongoing sexual relationship.After being on and off here for a few years, I have been fortunate to meet a few with a similar mindset.(also met many that dont)It took me a few months to discover the forums....it was at the time when they were at their peak of fun and have made some wonderful friends, male and female as a result.Not into chat or camming, not lonely, not here to feed my ego....These days, I am mainly here to drop into the forums when a topic grabs my attention.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    To actually meet like minded people, have a little fun..But where are they? When we ventured into this lifestyle, we thought it'd be quite easy to meet with likeminded couples and have fun...Gee, how wrong we're we! But we're not the type to give up, you're out there somewhere.. :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    ...about why I'm here:I went to the pub, had one or two too many, came home, flicked on the TV and saw an ad for RHP. Boredom and alcohol are not always good bedfellows Having said that, I've met some amazing people here, both online and in real life, and each and every one of them has enhanced my life in some way.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    ..I've been on other, less "adult" oriented sites (even saw a few profiles I recognised!), but my presence on those sites was always short-lived. RHP seems to be the constant.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    ....To meet men and have sex! I'm a bit like EuropianBliss and love random sex at the park and this place is great for that lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Have as much sex as possible with like-minded people and fulfill a whole lot of fantasies, in a safe and intimate environment. I've been here six months now and my motivation is the same as when I joined. Making some great friends, both on the forums and in real life, has been an amazing bonus!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Initially it was to learn about the scene, we were curious and wanted to know if it was something we would be into. It is an eye opener!Turns out we like parties and the clubs, but are not actually into meeting people via RHP. For Mrs C in particular the effort and the scheduling is a mood killer. She likes spontaneity, and just likes to get dressed sexy, visit a club occasionally and see what happens.I've hung around because I quite like the forums - you are an interesting and entertaining bunch!thanks,Mr C

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    To actually meet like minded people? Thats a yes To make friends via Forums and/or Chat? Chat no... tried it a couple of times but found it clicky and hard to engage....forums most definitely yes! Just for the Forums? Not purely the forums (because i didnt know they existed before joining) but has fast become one of the only reasons for being here Just for Chat? No To feed your ego? Well it doesnt hurt! Lonely? Sometimes To find love? Anything is possible so yes im open to it To get as much sex as possible? Absolutely! To fulfil a fantasy? Has and i have To sleep with younger people that you might not get to meet in real life? Ive done that and it wasnt all that great! To sleep with older people that you might not get to meet in real life? No To get your rocks off on Cam? No To watch girls/guys/couples on Cam? No . Be honest....Why are you here? It continually changes... originally for sex and purely sex...but over time i've disvoered the forums and come to love the forums - actually lets be honest im addicted!. I've made & met some wonderful friends but ultimately.... im still waiting for my FWB

  • TimidButCurious

    TimidButCurious

    13 years ago

    I actually joined “Yes Dating” (linked to RHP) which I saw to be just a regular dating site. Pressed on the link for RHP and Whoa – a whole new world! I’m not cut out for the FB type relationships and I’m sure I’m still way too Vanilla for RHP but I have become addicted to the Forums. Interestingly enough, I just had a look at the "Yes Dating" site again and the last post in their forum is from 30 June 2009 AND… I still have credits – too funny!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    To actually meet like minded people? Yes this is absolute me To make friends via Forums and/or Chat? Not so important however when you have something to say maybe a person you wouldn’t look at is ok to check out Just for the Forums? NOO Just for Chat? NO way sometimes so boring To feed your ego? Dont need to Lonely? hahah lucky I am not To find love? Would be nice To get as much sex as possible? Yes with the people who are on my wave lenght To fulfil a fantasy? No dont even have big sexual fantasies To sleep with younger people that you might not get to meet in real life? No they are not my cup of tea To sleep with older people that you might not get to meet in real life? My age people yes To get your rocks off on Cam? No way I would do cam To watch girls/guys/couples on Cam? Same thing leaves me cold

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I stumbled onto RHP when I was searching the net for the more "vanilla" dating sites. It was 2 years ago and I had just come out of a relationship. Feeling a bit bruised and battered the forums became a fun distraction (we all need a little help to get over a break up). The forums were, and still are my main interest. The first thread I posted was about kissing. I was looking for answers to something that had bothered me and the RHP community provided me with some helpful and insightful feedback . I wasn't expecting to make friends here but I have, both male and female. So for me it is friends and the forums. KK

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I joined RHP to find a female friends with benefits for myslef, as I have long been curious to have a FF experiance. It would be an added bonus if she was interested in having fun with hubby and I (but not necessary).   So far it hasn't happenedbut I haven't given up hope.   As for why am I on the forums, I led a rather sheltered life and as such am only just started to explore the world of sexuality and sex toys. I've found the forums interesting and informative in regards to sex and so many of the other topics discussed have caught my intrest along the way.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    We joined to fulfill the fantasy, stayed to meet like-minded people, and got addicted to the forums!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Love the forums and chat, even though im not very active lol. And i love a perve

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Because I became a widow. Didn't quite know what do do with my sexual appetite and how to kick start my sex life. I met a guy on here and we have had a great time for about 8 years. He now has found a real girlfriend. So I am looking again. Am I lonely, yes at times. Do I want to make friends, yes I do. Do I want younger men, bloody oath I do. Older, well not much older. Forums, yes I enjoy them, haven't been a poster yet because I can't think of a subject, but maybe one day I will. Cam, never. Chat, have had a couple of chats but can't seem to work it on the iPad, have to be on the pc. Ego, we all have ego to a degree, but not on here to impress, just to get satisfaction. Love, if I found it on here I would take it. To get sex, yes hopefully.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Otori'We joined to fulfill the fantasy, stayed to meet like-minded people, and got addicted to the forums! Kaching! there it is......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    To actually meet like minded people?I always want to meet interesting, like-minded people.To make friends via Forums and/or Chat?Definitely.Just for the Forums?Not just for the forums, although they can be fun at times. I hope to meet people. I prefer talking to a person than reading off forum posts. Just for Chat?Nope. Haven't used that feature nor do I think I will.To feed your ego?I've been working hard to reduce my ego, so definitely a no to that.Lonely?Sad, but true. To find love?People say this is the wrong site for that, but you just never know.To get as much sex as possible?Not really. I prefer quality over quantity. Then again, my luck on this site has got me as many as zero. Is that a lot? I keep on getting comments like you are too nice and this site is wrong for you. To fulfil a fantasy?I will have to get back to you on that. I think I need to know what my fantasy is first before I know if it is to fulfill it or not.To sleep with younger people that you might not get to meet in real life?Not my main reason, no. To sleep with older people that you might not get to meet in real life?For some reason, I get along better with older women than younger ones. But again, not particularly, no. To get your rocks off on Cam?Haven't used it and doubt I will.To watch girls/guys/couples on Cam?Haven't used it and doubt I will

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I am not going to lie - I am here to get laid and meet new ladies. My housemates pi\ut me on here to meet new people and move on with life!!!

  • QLDtwo4fun

    QLDtwo4fun

    13 years ago

    We joined to meet other couples for sex. Now we have met people and moved on to parties, our membership expired and we don't use RHP much. Parties fulfill our needs much faster.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    To actually meet like minded people? Yes To make friends via Forums and/or Chat? This has been a lovely bonus Just for the Forums? No, but they keep me sustained Just for Chat? No, I don't chat To feed your ego? It doesn't hurt Lonely? No To find love? I'm Pisces, so always live in the fantasy world of "The Knight rescuing me" To get as much sex as possible? No, not as much sex, more quality, kinky, mind blowing sex To fulfil a fantasy? Yes To sleep with younger people that you might not get to meet in real life? No To sleep with older people that you might not get to meet in real life? No To get your rocks off on Cam? No, I will never cam To watch girls/guys/couples on Cam? No

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    sheesh.... why else!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    To live out my dark side.... literally :DI take it as it comes.... Meet new people; try new things (be exciting or not); push some boundaries; social/ laughs/ drinks.... who knows where

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    To actually meet like minded people To make friends via Forums and/or Chat To sleep with younger people that you might not get to meet in real life To sleep with older people that you might not get to meet in real life To get your rocks off on Cam To watch girls/guys/couples on Cam Explore some personal fetishes/kinks and fantasies. And to sate a natural curiosity of everything from simple social interactions to major sexual interactions. Some ego stroking may occur along the way but it's not something I consciously seek. .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'inspirit' For the Popcorn sheesh.... why else! There has been a lot of popcorn going around here lately. And I do love things I can stuff in my mouth with my hands.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'EuropianBliss' lmao too much time on facebook ....guilty of that myself , I keep looking for the "like" button ....we should have one here too Went to click Like on Shinas responce :P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'mikeandshel' question 1......to fulfill a fantasy Hell No, we have told you before to keep your naughty thoughts to yourself!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Ms_Devious' Quoting 'inspirit' For the Popcorn sheesh.... why else! There has been a lot of popcorn going around here lately. And I do love things I can stuff in my mouth with my hands.   and does this have something to do with sausage even ..... lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'inspirit' sheesh.... why else!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'artdk04' Quoting 'EuropianBliss' lmao too much time on facebook ....guilty of that myself , I keep looking for the "like" button ....we should have one here too Went to click Like on Shinas responce :P Facebook like is too passive. In some ways, I prefer to write a short message agreeing with a post or disagreeing.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    To actually meet like minded people? YES To make friends via Forums and/or Chat? SURE Just for the Forums? ONE CAN LEARN SO MUCH FROM THE FORUMS IF THEY ASK THE RIGHT QUESTIONS Just for Chat? SOMETIMES To feed your ego? NOPE Lonely? I MISS HAVING SOMEONE, BUT THEN I LOVE HAVING MY FREEDOM, SOOO NOT SURE To find love? IM OPEN TO THE IDEA To get as much sex as possible? NO CAUSE IM SELECTIVE ON WHO I WILL SLEEP WITHTo fulfil a fantasy? DONE THAT To sleep with younger people that you might not get to meet in real life? No To sleep with older people that you might not get to meet in real life? No To get your rocks off on Cam? NO To watch girls/guys/couples on Cam? NO

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I saw this white rabbit, with a watch he was saying Im Late, Im late!   then I saw some thing that said Eat me   and I now have a smile like a cheshire cat   I came to find models for my art exhibtion, thats done and dusted in October one of the models decided to clean out the cobwebs of no sex for three years, what a brave lad   addicted to forums who moi? yes it feeds my self esteem not so much my ego yes for younger lovers yes for good friends, mostly with women and others that Ihave not had sex with like minded people yes, and they are all lovely offline even though we sometimes squabble in the fourms   love I have that by the truck load   no cam,hell nooooooooooooooooo no chat its zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz more into offline pleasures of the flesh as much sex as possible,nope just as much sex as I need

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Well I came for the free bikkies & tea of course ;) lol I heard about this site & just had to look it up , I just couldn't believe how many like minded people could be in one place & many open to talk & guide you through if you are new :) I have had a lot of very interesting chats here , made some good friends & met some really interesting people too. I have & continue to enjoy everything this place has to offer , can't wait to see where the wind blows me next ;) Dan

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I want to try some group and meet a nice lady to talk to. A drink and a laugh would be good too. I want to go to the beach late one night with a nice lady and a bottle if red. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • enduran

    enduran

    13 years ago

    I am here to meet some amazing people who you can talk with about all the fun things in life. In my circle of friends we are not good with talking about sex, so i do it here ;-)It would be great to develop some ongoing friendships and who knows what else. I am a guy after all, so it does not much to convince me to try the other pleasures in life.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'zu7bcv' Quoting 'inspirit' sheesh.... why else! on the brand

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    is no-one's business.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I thought I was here to meet men,turns out I was wrong.In twelve months I have met precisely four. Hardly strokes my ego,quite the opposite. However ,I discovered the forums and am now a self confessed forum tragic. I have also made some great friends,chattted with some interesting people,and I am still here.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Thanks to all the newbies that posted! Hope you all keep posting now that you have started! xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Shinas' To watch girls/guys/couples on Cam? Nope - mmmm basically Im boring as !!! . Be honest....Why are you here? Why am I here ?- put like that Im not really sure !!! Your not boring at all babe As to why I'm here. Made plenty of friends on the forums and learnt a hell of lot along the way about sex, women and most importantly about myself. Addicted to the forums..... well maybe a little

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    That is why alot of us stay I think...it's all the Forums fault! This addiction needs a patch so you can wean yourself off slowly! xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'xFunlovingx' That is why alot of us stay I think...it's all the Forums fault! This addiction needs a patch so you can wean yourself off slowly! xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'paintme' Quoting 'xFunlovingx' That is why alot of us stay I think...it's all the Forums fault! This addiction needs a patch so you can wean yourself off slowly! xFunlovingx Just quietly but I am addicted to cock and cock cam too! xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'xFunlovingx' Quoting 'paintme' Quoting 'xFunlovingx' That is why alot of us stay I think...it's all the Forums fault! This addiction needs a patch so you can wean yourself off slowly! xFunlovingx Just quietly but I am addicted to cock and cock cam too! xFunlovingx Your secrets safe here. lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Araps' Quoting 'xFunlovingx' Quoting 'paintme' Quoting 'xFunlovingx' That is why alot of us stay I think...it's all the Forums fault! This addiction needs a patch so you can wean yourself off slowly! xFunlovingx Just quietly but I am addicted to cock and cock cam too! xFunlovingx Your secrets safe here. lol I am trusting you to not tell anyone! xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    This question does stand out: "To sleep with younger people that you might not get to meet in real life?" When I first joined, I really had not intention of sleeping with anyone younger than me. However, I met some great guys in their early thirties and even contacted a twenty-something year old myself. The youngest man I met was 22. I think I should really change my age requirement!   (And that's not mentioning the 20 year-old at the club. But I swear I fell on him by accident).

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    To actually meet like minded people? Yep why not. Not bad idea at all :) To make friends via Forums and/or Chat? At first yes but lately not at all... :| Just for the Forums? I am staying just for the forums... Just for Chat? I have been for couple times but not my cup of tea. To feed your ego? My ego has been fed long time ago... But I love my big fat ego... Lonely? If feel lonely I call my friends but I would never join a dating site because i feel lonely. To find love? Although is the only thing that I am searching I would not ever try to find it here. To get as much sex as possible? How much more ?!?!?! To fulfil a fantasy? Here I could say yes but my fantasies are dark and mysterious so I know they will stay forever fantasies :P To sleep with younger people that you might not get to meet in real life? Noooo To sleep with older people that you might not get to meet in real life? Definitely Nooooo To get your rocks off on Cam? I usually get my rocks off in flesh and not on Cam...never did never will To watch girls/guys/couples on Cam? Not my thing..... never did never will . Be honest....Why are you here? Apart from all the above there re some posters here that they re not posers and I really love to read their post and topics that they start. On the other hand I really like to make big time comments to the point of confusion but again I know who can understand them and I write for them. And as for any kind forum that I am participating I like to read others people thoughts. Different thoughts are good for me.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    At first, to get my confidence back after becoming single again after 15 years. Ive met some lovely people, men and women, and made a couple of lifelong friends. Now I like having a say in the forums, popping into the chat room, and am looking for one regular FWB, nothing too serious but that one person to share my life with from time to time and still retain my/our independence. I flew to Sydney and spent the weekend with a fabulous guy who restored my faith in men, and we are still friends. RHP gets a bad rap, but its been a great social experience for me, glad I took the plunge and joined up, have certainly got most of my confidence back, refound my sexuality and have a new circle of beautiful friends xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I thought it was eBay

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    1. To meet like minded people? To make friends via Forums and/or Chat?Initially, perhaps. But after actually spending time in the forums, that's unlikely to happen. 2. Just for the Forums? Just for Chat?I jumped into the forums because I was failing at my primary goal -- hook-ups. 3. To feed your ego?You mean like everyone else here? 4. Lonely?No 5. To find love?How are you defining love? 6. To get as much sex as possible?See question 2. 7. To sleep with younger/older people that you might not get to meet in real life? Why would I have a better chance of sleeping with them on RHP? 9. To get your rocks off on Cam?No 10. To watch girls/guys/couples on Cam?No 11. Has the reason why you initially joined changed now that you have been here a while?Failed to hook-up with like-minded people, so now using forum to engage with unlike-minded people. The latter revelation probably explains the former.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    to meet like minded men that I am attracted to and to eventually become "intimate" with them. I am a woman and I have the need to be desired, wanted and needed. I know..... most Members would say "You have a husband for that". But my husband also has a partner. I don't want a "partner". I just want to have a few very good, close, men friends. Men where the "friendship" is more "intimate". I am a very loving person. That is how I was brought up to be. I need to "share" my love with more than just one man and take delight in it !!! Amy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I'd never heard of RHP until a RL lover asked me to join so I could validate him. I initially thought I'd jump in and just slink off, but while I was here I thought I'd stay to see what sort of people I'd meet, but that didn't last long, as I quickly discovered I prefer to meet people through other sites. What can I say - I prefer to talk to a face than a phallus or décolletage - though I do enjoy both. But then I found the forums and enjoy having a lurk now and then. There are some interesting insights and titbits in here ... very handy for writing erotica, which was a hobby I dabbled in last year.

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    11 years ago

    When I stumbled onto this site about 15 months ago, I had no idea what I wanted from it. It was my first on line dating/hook up/sex site ever. What I did do was find the forums, lurked around for a couple of months, reading, listening, learnings, taking it all in, I opened my mind and it was in overdrive. Then I got the courage to write something down and organized to attend a Sydney meet and greet. So within my first 3 months I'd met a lot of the regular posters, the same people I'd been listening too, learning off, it was an amazing weekend..... Now 15 months down the track, I'm here, still listening, still learning, still sharing my experiences, my journey, still making new friends and yes still attending m & g's.....Why am I still here, well mainly for the forums and to meet like minded people, plus you just never know who might cross your path or what experiences might change the path you are on. I've met some absolutely wonderful men, sexy couples and gorgeous women. I've formed friendships, I've found lovers, people to share experiences with and someone who sends my heart racing...... Im still me, I'm still all for experiencing things, I'm still exploring, I still have my open mind, I'm still enjoying the ride and when I'm longer enjoying it or I'm not getting anything from it, I will close my account and say goodbye, but until then I'm going to annoy the shit out of a few of you........💋

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    What bitchtits said.

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    11 years ago

    Hehe good on ya IOS, yore the Bitchtits......💋

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    The forums. To find a lady I can meet over coffee for laughs and if the mod takes us some heated fun. To find a couple for the same reason... Open minded person such as myself... Maybe love but only maybe...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Of the CWA where I met Meeka and her cucumber sandwiches,,Lovinit and her penchant for needlework...IOS and her basting skills...Sweet Peach and her love of cup cakes ....they all suggested that I should join knowing how much I like a Red Hot Pie😜😘xxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    iam on here for sex an to fulfil my kinky fantasy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    To treat my sex addiction....they said abstinence or some shit....I heard activity 😊

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'sir_stir' To treat my sex addiction....they said abstinence or some shit....I heard activity 😊 Those are your clinicians choices?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Just a cunt teaser. And my ego likes to post. 😃

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Why I am here has changed since joining. Originally joining (this and some other sites) was a reaction to having more sexual confidence from being in a relationship, but also that the relationship didn't last, and wanting to be more adventurous (not just sexually) since entering my 30s. While I am still attempting to meet people directly from the site, I have found that making connections at real life events and other sites to be more forthcoming. I could *potentially* have two different FWBs soon. I guess I have to be content for the moment just to give and get advice via the forums. However, I'm still more than willing for any other fun times I may be invited to, to tick off more fantasies of my own, and to help others with theirs.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    yes!! I have the cardboard degree from the frosties packet laminated and on my wall 😝😝 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Dryphuz

    Dryphuz

    11 years ago

    i came here first to cast a wider net. But after all my other subscriptions expired with nothing to show for it i decided to take the hint that i'm crap at this. So now i do all my net coasting in real life. But i still love the forums so i drop in all the time to see whats up. These are great forums. Good people and interesting topics. And finally i'm still looking for someone with a sexual appetite to match my own so i keep my profile updated in case.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Dryphuz' I decided to take the hint that i'm crap at this. So now i do all my net coasting in real life.... I'm still looking for someone with a sexual appetite to match my own... ^^This^^

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    and i still don't know.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Is it true the oldies are over on AMM.