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Why average age of forum regulars is 45+?
July 17 2011
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erotictouch4u
14 years ago
Apart from not being so shy or worried that someone might see them as "silly", I would think Wiser and able to share the humourous side as well due to their life experiences. ET xox
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RHP User
14 years ago
They are all dirty old devils that can't get enough. Or so I have heard. Although where do you get that statistic? xxMeeka
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aldus1
14 years ago
I prefer to use the phrase "oversexed senior citizens" Contrary to what the younger generation thinks, life does not end after one reaches 45.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hmm - Meeka, did we just age a few years??? . Kisses Focus
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'm not 45, but I am closer to thirty than I am to twenty...
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RHP User
14 years ago
Maybe I'm not forum "regular"Might have to go get me a forum laxative. And eat me some more forum greens. That oughta fix it!!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Focus - us beautiful ladies never age dontcha know. We will be the eternal horny young ones. :) xxMeeks
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RHP User
14 years ago
You can refer to yourself as an "oversexed senior citizen" but you may want to leave the rest of us out of that!.My Nan live to 100 and 44 days....based on that, I have only just reached middle age thanks.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Great lot of avatars you've put together now mate. The bath-tub one... lmfao.. brilliantly executed. What a cheeky bastard you must be.Forum regulars.. there's a good age range... but I guess I post fairly often making the vibe older. I'm happy enough just to perve, but some of you lot are too much fun to ignore! HugsStalky Quoting 'KD7884' Maybe I'm not forum "regular"Might have to go get me a forum laxative. And eat me some more forum greens. That oughta fix it!!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Well there is that 84 year old woman from Perth and WeeRobbie...that would throw the bell curve right out of the tower. | I think of myself as somewhere between 40 and death...and hopefully closer to 40. Don't know though, all the rejection... | ...is killing me fast. | | Smooth..."save my life" sex?
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RHP User
14 years ago
i know 1 reason for this. The forum regulars are already in a click. I've tried to participate in the RHP forums in the past and have felt like iam being unwelcomed. When i first joined i tried posting in the forums daily maybe 3-6 topic replies per day but i find that that nobody really replies to my posts or even acknowledges or is interested in my replies unless your already in that click. if stalky wrote a post. no matter how stupid or silly it is. 10 ppl would reply to him but i can make an intelligent post and nobody would talk/reply to me so i kinda get discourage from participating. I have a hunch that maybe my posts/ opinions are ignored because of my age and the"Click "of 40+yr olds just aren't interested in a young persons view.
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RHP User
14 years ago
That's why Mrs and I make seperate postings. It's not because we are individuals and have differing opinions on the various topics, it's all a devious conspiracy to lower the average posting age. LOL (Mr)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Maybe old age starts with "verbal diarrhea" and it just goes downhill (literally) from there....God ..Ive just gone and depressed myself..
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RHP User
14 years ago
Woohoo! Somehow, somewhere, I still qualify as being too young! God bless you RUPAMOHAN!
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RHP User
14 years ago
ha! I noticed how you set the bar at 45.... while you're nimble enough to limbo under it! :pHugsStalky Quoting 'Saturn65' Maybe old age starts with "verbal diarrhea" and it just goes downhill (literally) from there....God ..Ive just gone and depressed myself..
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'MissWantu'i know 1 reason for this. The forum regulars are already in a click. I've tried to participate in the RHP forums in the past and have felt like iam being unwelcomed. When i first joined i tried posting in the forums daily maybe 3-6 topic replies per day but i find that that nobody really replies to my posts or even acknowledges or is interested in my replies unless your already in that click. if stalky wrote a post. no matter how stupid or silly it is. 10 ppl would reply to him but i can make an intelligent post and nobody would talk/reply to me so i kinda get discourage from participating. I have a hunch that maybe my posts/ opinions are ignored because of my age and the"Click "of 40+yr olds just aren't interested in a young persons view. keep on posting!!! Kisses KK
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'MissWantu'i know 1 reason for this. The forum regulars are already in a click. I've tried to participate in the RHP forums in the past and have felt like iam being unwelcomed. When i first joined i tried posting in the forums daily maybe 3-6 topic replies per day but i find that that nobody really replies to my posts or even acknowledges or is interested in my replies unless your already in that click. if stalky wrote a post. no matter how stupid or silly it is. 10 ppl would reply to him but i can make an intelligent post and nobody would talk/reply to me so i kinda get discourage from participating. I have a hunch that maybe my posts/ opinions are ignored because of my age and the"Click "of 40+yr olds just aren't interested in a young persons view. All the men, most of the couples and several of the ladies positively leap to attention salivating whenever Taby posts and she is what? 24?......
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' Great lot of avatars you've put together now mate. The bath-tub one... lmfao.. brilliantly executed. What a cheeky bastard you must be.Ahhh Stalky you old perve! But thankyou. Just remember...I do it all for you... Well. You...and 100% of the girls... *grins*
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RHP User
14 years ago
Wasn't me that set the bar Stalks- the OP did! p.s..I may or may not have already given away the fact that our age clock may have stopped or is on Saturn Planet time..Im waiting for the other cheaters to catch up dammit!!xx Quoting 'stalky' ha! I noticed how you set the bar at 45.... while you're nimble enough to limbo under it! :pHugsStalky Quoting 'Saturn65' Maybe old age starts with "verbal diarrhea" and it just goes downhill (literally) from there....God ..Ive just gone and depressed myself..
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'MissWantu'if stalky wrote a post. no matter how stupid or silly it is. 10 ppl would reply to him but i can make an intelligent post and nobody would talk/reply to me so i kinda get discourage from participating. I have a hunch that maybe my posts/ opinions are ignored because of my age and the"Click "of 40+yr olds just aren't interested in a young persons view. Sure, but 5 of the replies to Stalky's post would be from Meeka...I prefer to play with considerably younger women, so there's absolutely no reason why I wouldn't want their opinion. Some women that I've dated from outside the walls of RHP who have been my age only want to discuss things like which suburb would be wise to buy a rental property in or will the warranty on my beamer cover the blah, blah, blah...Everyone here has something to add. Maybe you need to take a more Zen approach to posting - the less you care whether anyone will answer your posting, the more likely it will be to happen. Either way, don't give up.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'm going to ignore that Snowshoe. :o
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Snowshoe' Quoting 'MissWantu'if stalky wrote a post. no matter how stupid or silly it is. 10 ppl would reply to him but i can make an intelligent post and nobody would talk/reply to me so i kinda get discourage from participating. I have a hunch that maybe my posts/ opinions are ignored because of my age and the"Click "of 40+yr olds just aren't interested in a young persons view. Sure, but 5 of the replies to Stalky's post would be from Meeka...I prefer to play with considerably younger women, so there's absolutely no reason why I wouldn't want their opinion. Some women that I've dated from outside the walls of RHP who have been my age only want to discuss things like which suburb would be wise to buy a rental property in or will the warranty on my beamer cover the blah, blah, blah...Everyone here has something to add. Maybe you need to take a more Zen approach to posting - the less you care whether anyone will answer your posting, the more likely it will be to happen. Either way, don't give up. it's not really about the replies. it's more the fact that it's a click that makes it unfriendly to newbies. the people in that click only talk and reply to each other making it an unfriendly environment for new ppl to join discussions. mind you iam an avid poster on alot of forums. my average post count on the forums i belong to is normally 2,500+. i do notice the men and couples in the rhp forums are more friendlier and reply to newbies more but the women just keep to their own click. I also see no women in their 35+ yr old age range who is a forum regular try to be friends with a 20-25 yr old. I personally would love to become friends with 40 yr old women but it seems like all the women in that age range won't talk or think your opinion matters if your another female that's 20 yrs junior than them.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'MissWantu'i know 1 reason for this. The forum regulars are already in a click. I've tried to participate in the RHP forums in the past and have felt like iam being unwelcomed. When i first joined i tried posting in the forums daily maybe 3-6 topic replies per day but i find that that nobody really replies to my posts or even acknowledges or is interested in my replies unless your already in that click. if stalky wrote a post. no matter how stupid or silly it is. 10 ppl would reply to him but i can make an intelligent post and nobody would talk/reply to me so i kinda get discourage from participating. I have a hunch that maybe my posts/ opinions are ignored because of my age and the"Click "of 40+yr olds just aren't interested in a young persons view. There's a RHP 'clique', is there?? I haven't noticed it. There certainly are forum regulars though... which you only become, when you post on the forum regularly. I'm only 1 year older than you, and get responses from the 'older crowd' all the time. People aren't going to notice you if you only post a few times... nor will they notice you if your posts are boring as bat shit. Ofcourse people are going to notice Stalky - he's been around for years, he is a fun person to interact with... and as if anyone could miss that bum! (MRS)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' I'm going to ignore that Snowshoe. :o That's okay... I'm used to women here ignoring me... (handkerchief gently but dramatically dabbing away faux-tears...)Glad you took it in the spirit in which it was intended. As to the question as to whether your crush is showing, those panties don't hide a lot...
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'MissWantu'it's not really about the replies. it's more the fact that it's a click that makes it unfriendly to newbies. the people in that click only talk and reply to each other making it an unfriendly environment for new ppl to join discussions. mind you iam an avid poster on alot of forums. my average post count on the forums i belong to is normally 2,500+. i do notice the men and couples in the rhp forums are more friendlier and reply to newbies more but the women just keep to their own click. I also see no women in their 35+ yr old age range who is a forum regular try to be friends with a 20-25 yr old. I personally would love to become friends with 40 yr old women but it seems like all the women in that age range won't talk or think your opinion matters if your another female that's 20 yrs junior than them. If you want in, just elbow your way to the front - that's what the rest of us do. There is no clique - if what you say strikes a chord, you'll find yourself more involved... for better of for worse. It's a very egalitarian community, but that means that we're all subjected to a slap-down if we slip up. Perhaps that's one of the reasons many posters seem older than you - we're less concerned about being chastised. Also, let's face it - you're 25, so most of the site has got to be older than you!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'MissWantu'i know 1 reason for this. The forum regulars are already in a click. I've tried to participate in the RHP forums in the past and have felt like iam being unwelcomed. When i first joined i tried posting in the forums daily maybe 3-6 topic replies per day but i find that that nobody really replies to my posts or even acknowledges or is interested in my replies unless your already in that click. if stalky wrote a post. no matter how stupid or silly it is. 10 ppl would reply to him but i can make an intelligent post and nobody would talk/reply to me so i kinda get discourage from participating. I have a hunch that maybe my posts/ opinions are ignored because of my age and the"Click "of 40+yr olds just aren't interested in a young persons view. There's a different take on it... I thought it was all the elderly couples dragging the average up. . I am going to do my part and keep an eye out for your brosts and welcome them with open arms... Tbh I also hope that doing so will take the attention off my crush on Stalky.
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RogueGeek
14 years ago
When you're in it already...I agree with MissWantu and would like to add that it is even worse in the chatrooms.I also find it disconcerting that somebody who is obviously trolling for profile hits will get more replies than somebody with a geniune question.Cheers,MS(the female half) Quoting 'MissWantu' Quoting 'Snowshoe' Quoting 'MissWantu'if stalky wrote a post. no matter how stupid or silly it is. 10 ppl would reply to him but i can make an intelligent post and nobody would talk/reply to me so i kinda get discourage from participating. I have a hunch that maybe my posts/ opinions are ignored because of my age and the"Click "of 40+yr olds just aren't interested in a young persons view. Sure, but 5 of the replies to Stalky's post would be from Meeka...I prefer to play with considerably younger women, so there's absolutely no reason why I wouldn't want their opinion. Some women that I've dated from outside the walls of RHP who have been my age only want to discuss things like which suburb would be wise to buy a rental property in or will the warranty on my beamer cover the blah, blah, blah...Everyone here has something to add. Maybe you need to take a more Zen approach to posting - the less you care whether anyone will answer your posting, the more likely it will be to happen. Either way, don't give up. it's not really about the replies. it's more the fact that it's a click that makes it unfriendly to newbies. the people in that click only talk and reply to each other making it an unfriendly environment for new ppl to join discussions. mind you iam an avid poster on alot of forums. my average post count on the forums i belong to is normally 2,500+. i do notice the men and couples in the rhp forums are more friendlier and reply to newbies more but the women just keep to their own click. I also see no women in their 35+ yr old age range who is a forum regular try to be friends with a 20-25 yr old. I personally would love to become friends with 40 yr old women but it seems like all the women in that age range won't talk or think your opinion matters if your another female that's 20 yrs junior than them.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I do about 5 or maybe 6 posts a day butvim not buying into this click business. If I'm prompted to reply to something it is usually only because something pops into my head and I blurt it out. Sometimes there's an undercurrent relating to events outside the forum so that might give the impression of a click... you know... if you were there and know, then you know... if not you could be feeling disadvantaged. If using this site and forum to actually meet people is somehow isolating you, then there's only one thing for it... that is, to meet people through this site and do exactly the same thing as I do... if there's a click, then there can be two.... or twenty two. In the interim, any 25 year old babes and toy boys who want a Daddy... know where I am! Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
JG your dirty old man fingers are slipping up there and you chastise me for spelling errors. But I guess you see a 25 year old rack and you just can't help yourself you just get all excited dontcha? And you and Stalkers have had long standing love affair .... I know that. MissWantu I can see how you would come to that conclusion but really as Snowshoe says, you just need to butt in and say your bit, to be honest anyone new is good. So you want to be friends with some of us old ducks huh? So what have you got to offer??? :P xxMeeks
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'MissWantu'i know 1 reason for this. The forum regulars are already in a click. I've tried to participate in the RHP forums in the past and have felt like iam being unwelcomed. When i first joined i tried posting in the forums daily maybe 3-6 topic replies per day but i find that that nobody really replies to my posts or even acknowledges or is interested in my replies unless your already in that click. if stalky wrote a post. no matter how stupid or silly it is. 10 ppl would reply to him but i can make an intelligent post and nobody would talk/reply to me so i kinda get discourage from participating. I have a hunch that maybe my posts/ opinions are ignored because of my age and the"Click "of 40+yr olds just aren't interested in a young persons view. I'd like you to know that I read every post that you write and it has nothing to do with me stalking your profile as regularly as I do! I may have even sent you a message or flirt not long after you joined. . Whilst I can't speak for my older, greyer, creakier peers, I do not think your opinions are ignored, not by me at any rate! . And if you'd like a friend around here, send me one of those shitful flirts one day and I'd be more than happy to show you mine if you show me yours!
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erotictouch4u
14 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'MissWantu I can see how you would come to that conclusion but really as Snowshoe says, you just need to butt in and say your bit, to be honest anyone new is good. I have noticed lately that posts in the forums from the "regulars" seem to get approved much faster, like even same night, than the posts of us "newbies". In one topic, my post did not appear for a few days and then was inserted about 5 places UP the list of posts before some from the "regulars". ET (newbie) xox
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'foreverlove7985 I'm only 1 year older than you, and get responses from the 'older crowd' all the time. People aren't going to notice you if you only post a few times... nor will they notice you if your posts are boring as bat shit. Ofcourse people are going to notice Stalky - he's been around for years, he is a fun person to interact with... and as if anyone could miss that bum! (MRS)Ive been a member of RHP for about 5 years now. I am not talking about me trying to get into the forums now. Now being in my mid 20's i feel like many of you oldies would actually give me a go and listen to me now that iam older. However years ago when i was much younger i did not get the same welcome here on the forums.I have in the past in an attempt to try get my foot in the door have replied with jokes aiming and directing at certain people and ask certain peoples questions but get no response but then they reply to the person below me which didn't even ask them anything. Anyway that's my experience or maybe i am just boring.
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RHP User
14 years ago
It takes a fair while of regular "civil" postings from a person before the moderator decides to allow you to post instantly. Some of us therefore have instant posting privileges.... which on occasion get revoked for bad behaviour or at other random times at the whim of the moderator... lolz.. In any case, that's the reason your posts take more time to appear compared to some others.I may have unintentionally posted something like 100 or so wonderfully penned pieces of scribe every day way back when.... and sooner or later the moderator must have gotten weary from reading all that banter .... ancient history.. but that's when RHP introduced instant posting privileges... and then of course.... indiscretion got the better of me and my account was frozen for a while... lolz... I'm fully reformed now butt.... at least that's my story and I'm sticking to it!HugsStalky Quoting 'eagertongue4u' I have noticed lately that posts in the forums from the "regulars" seem to get approved much faster, like even same night, than the posts of us "newbies". In one topic, my post did not appear for a few days and then was inserted about 5 places UP the list of posts before some from the "regulars". ET (newbie) xox
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'MissWantu'I have in the past in an attempt to try get my foot in the door have replied with jokes aiming and directing at certain people and ask certain peoples questions but get no response but then they reply to the person below me which didn't even ask them anything. Anyway that's my experience or maybe i am just boring. By "foot in the door" you're implying that you've been excluded, whereas like everybody else, posting liberties have not been denied to you.... or anyone..... well excepting for a few crackpots. From my perspective posting is not just about getting responses, it's more about exposing something of your character to prospective friends and lovers, isn't it? That seems to be what most of the guys post for anyway.But really... it's not as if every post gets read so its unrealistic, in this format, to expect people to reply. There's so much written that nobody can possibly choose to read it all.... And I wager most people do not venture past page 1... Also, there's an activities page on my home page that tells you when a contact has responded to a topic you've been involved in... Unless Ive got plenty of time, I just read that activities page and, if inspired, click on the particular respondent's contribution.... I'm also sure other people do much the same. Of course they're unlikely to read every post.If there is a cliche.. I think it's partly a side effect of this forum format.. and partly human nature. What are we going to do about that?HugsStalky
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RogueGeek
14 years ago
Surely on some level this is all about getting people's attention? Whether you're trying to get people to click through to your profile, or you just want to discuss something with others, it's all about whether or not you're seen and acknowledged.On a site that is all about mixing with different people, surely only reading and responding to posts made by people you know is a bit... pointless?Cheers,MS(the female half) Quoting 'stalky' Quoting 'MissWantu'I have in the past in an attempt to try get my foot in the door have replied with jokes aiming and directing at certain people and ask certain peoples questions but get no response but then they reply to the person below me which didn't even ask them anything. Anyway that's my experience or maybe i am just boring. By "foot in the door" you're implying that you've been excluded, whereas like everybody else, posting liberties have not been denied to you.... or anyone..... well excepting for a few crackpots. From my perspective posting is not just about getting responses, it's more about exposing something of your character to prospective friends and lovers, isn't it? That seems to be what most of the guys post for anyway.But really... it's not as if every post gets read so its unrealistic, in this format, to expect people to reply. There's so much written that nobody can possibly choose to read it all.... And I wager most people do not venture past page 1... Also, there's an activities page on my home page that tells you when a contact has responded to a topic you've been involved in... Unless Ive got plenty of time, I just read that activities page and, if inspired, click on the particular respondent's contribution.... I'm also sure other people do much the same. Of course they're unlikely to read every post.If there is a cliche.. I think it's partly a side effect of this forum format.. and partly human nature. What are we going to do about that?HugsStalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
Of course there's no clique! I was just at the meetings earlier today and we unanimously decided to change it's name. I voted for CABAL but some of the younger members voted for POSSE. But there is definately no clique
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Mr_MrsJones
14 years ago
I have lurked here for a while. Sometimes I am interested and have an opinion and I air it. Sometimes I read interestedly to find that fifty other people have said what I would have so I keep my mouth shut. Other times I open and scan through, yawn and move on. There are other forums and places to entertain yourself in the big wide world of the internet. What surprised me though is that even though I haven't grabbed the attention of the 'clique' and become part of their in jokes etc when I am out and about in the real world meeting actual people in the flesh I am surprised by the number of people who say to me "Oh yes I saw that thing you wrote on RHP" None of these people ever reply but obviously they read. Another thing I have noticed. (This is easy for me because we get about five profile views a month). If I post a response in a forum the number of profile views goes up. So I know people do read even if they don't reply. Obviously for you being 25 and having a vagina that wouldn't make a difference, your inbox would be overflowing by default. Anyways I am a year off being 40. If you genuinely are interested in conversing with an older woman drop us a line. Mrs Jones.
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RHP User
14 years ago
These forums are for everyone to share their views and thoughts.. Age has nothing to do with it as far as im concerned..So relax.. respond when u want.. I understand u are feeling like the odd one out, but dont stress.. forums are for everyone.. everyone is an original and it really does take all kinds to make this forum.. be yourself.every ones response is just as important.. Have fun xxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
21YO trapped in a 45yo body......HELP!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'cl_ms' Surely on some level this is all about getting people's attention? Whether you're trying to get people to click through to your profile, or you just want to discuss something with others, it's all about whether or not you're seen and acknowledged.On a site that is all about mixing with different people, surely only reading and responding to posts made by people you know is a bit... pointless?Cheers,MS(the female half) Some of the people who post on here (me included), actually read and post for different reasons, but to call it pointless is a little naive. Whether it be stress relief, a laugh, or to be informative and share experiences. Any excuse you want to give it, it's certainly not pointless. And if you happen to be seen in a better light by a few forum participants and end up making a few friends, thats all the bonus...
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'MissWantu' Quoting 'Snowshoe' Quoting 'MissWantu' if stalky wrote a post. no matter how stupid or silly it is. 10 ppl would reply to him but i can make an intelligent post and nobody would talk/reply to me so i kinda get discourage from participating. I have a hunch that maybe my posts/ opinions are ignored because of my age and the"Click "of 40+yr olds just aren't interested in a young persons view. Sure, but 5 of the replies to Stalky's post would be from Meeka...I prefer to play with considerably younger women, so there's absolutely no reason why I wouldn't want their opinion. Some women that I've dated from outside the walls of RHP who have been my age only want to discuss things like which suburb would be wise to buy a rental property in or will the warranty on my beamer cover the blah, blah, blah...Everyone here has something to add. Maybe you need to take a more Zen approach to posting - the less you care whether anyone will answer your posting, the more likely it will be to happen. Either way, don't give up. it's not really about the replies. it's more the fact that it's a click that makes it unfriendly to newbies. the people in that click only talk and reply to each other making it an unfriendly environment for new ppl to join discussions. mind you iam an avid poster on alot of forums. my average post count on the forums i belong to is normally 2,500+. i do notice the men and couples in the rhp forums are more friendlier and reply to newbies more but the women just keep to their own click. I also see no women in their 35+ yr old age range who is a forum regular try to be friends with a 20-25 yr old. I personally would love to become friends with 40 yr old women but it seems like all the women in that age range won't talk or think your opinion matters if your another female that's 20 yrs junior than them. I don't see any clicks or however anyone wants to spell it! I do see some followers who like to follow regular posters...that's all good. I do this too because the topics are interesting and enjoy the banter with the people I have met. Nothng to do with the age thing, nor the profile thing. Certain topics attract a certain age group. Please do not be disheartened or a little pissed off, every post has it's merits and interests. To be honest I regularly check Forum Topics every day and just reply to the ones I am interested in and have an interest to post on. xxx Keep on posting xxx
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RogueGeek
14 years ago
I said, only reading and replying to posts from people you know could be construed as pointless on a site that exists to connect people with others they don't know... Sure, people post for a variety of reason, but on some level they want attention/acknowledgement otherwise they would just be talking to themselves. Cheers, MS (the female half)
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'm young 46 hey I don't really look my age I just have a lot to say.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I feel it is not an age thing, but possibly more a subject thing!Quite often i go to post only to find my thoughts already prephased, so why double up?However one must humbly bow to the splendour of some of the more prevalant forum posters!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Jean_Girard' There's a different take on it... I thought it was all the elderly couples dragging the average up. .Damn keyboard sticky and a white screen....that really is a nice smooth wrinkle free bum you have there.
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RHP User
14 years ago
ditto exactly i am a frequent forum stalker not so frequent poster and rarely find a response to anything write (which is fine by the way) but we have had people message us or flirt us based on things i have said that sparked some interest.Not everyone will post something in response to what someone else has said but that doesn't mean they ignore you.Also a lot of the forum regulars have met at social meet and greet events etc and if you check out their friends list you see a lot of the same people so it is natural that they will have 'in jokes' and appear 'clicky' such is life, there is nothing stopping you posting what is on your mind and really who cares if someone agrees with you or not, be grateful that you didn't upset someone and have the whole forum crash down on you lol enjoy it for what it is regardless As for the original question about age range? i've got no idea (Mrs GC)
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RHP User
14 years ago
I didn't actually say I ONLY respond to people I know personally.... just take a look back at this thread by way of example.... you'll see that Ive answered the OP, flirted with KD, suggested I could crawl underneath Saturn anytime she wants me to, answered the OP again, flirted with anyone 25 and under...communicated with Eagertongue, responded again to the OP, and now responded to you. In all that.. Saturn is probably the only one of these people currently on my contacts list.... But even if all of these people are on my contacts list, why would it be pointless? A forum is an open discussion... so I discuss.. it's pointless to argue over this trite observation! :p.HugsS Quoting 'cl_ms' Surely on some level this is all about getting people's attention? Whether you're trying to get people to click through to your profile, or you just want to discuss something with others, it's all about whether or not you're seen and acknowledged.On a site that is all about mixing with different people, surely only reading and responding to posts made by people you know is a bit... pointless?Cheers,MS(the female half) Quoting 'stalky' posting is not just about getting responses, it's more about exposing something of your character to prospective friends and lovers, isn't it?
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RHP User
14 years ago
or the most bored of us all LOLPS - Im not 45+ and this is probably my third post ;)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Yes people post for many reasons. The main reason why i llike posting is because I am actually on RHP to make friendships. I am not after a bonk. Nor am i after a date or a relationship. Some of you might say maybe iam in the wrong forum. I am a highly sexual person who loves talking about sex 24/7 however iam Just not looking for anyone. I haven't gone on a date for over 2 years and i am single. I am after friendships where i can talk and discuss sexual topics with people So yes i do get discouraged from participating when ppl don't reply to me.
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RHP User
14 years ago
"suggested I could crawl underneath Saturn anytime she wants me to,".....I must be getting old and senile..How'd I miss that subtle suggestion? Stalky - make like a commando- baby anytime you want!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Could just be me....but there are a couple of the lades that post in here that, no matter how many times I have seen them, I can't help but click on their boobs.|My bad.
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erotictouch4u
14 years ago
Quoting 'stalky'It takes a fair while of regular "civil" postings from a person before the moderator decides to allow you to post instantly. Some of us therefore have instant posting privileges.... which on occasion get revoked for bad behaviour or at other random times at the whim of the moderator... lolz.. In any case, that's the reason your posts take more time to appear compared to some others. Thanks Stalky,These differences in posting rights cause delays which sometimes both make newbies look foolish and have posts totally out of context. Maybe the main reason why newbies don't like to contribute after a few "well untimed" posts.Me ? ... well I'm persistent and just hope sometime the moderators will read this and think they should even things out a little so that everyone can have their posts added in succession so that everyone can see the topic discussions unfold the way the contributors intended.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'eagertongue4u' Quoting 'stalky'It takes a fair while of regular "civil" postings from a person before the moderator decides to allow you to post instantly. Some of us therefore have instant posting privileges.... which on occasion get revoked for bad behaviour or at other random times at the whim of the moderator... lolz.. In any case, that's the reason your posts take more time to appear compared to some others. Thanks Stalky,These differences in posting rights cause delays which sometimes both make newbies look foolish and have posts totally out of context. Maybe the main reason why newbies don't like to contribute after a few "well untimed" posts.Me ? ... well I'm persistent and just hope sometime the moderators will read this and think they should even things out a little so that everyone can have their posts added in succession so that everyone can see the topic discussions unfold the way the contributors intended. ... it's 19:52 (Saturday 23rd) and I'm posting NOW. Let's see how long it takes for the mods to pass this posting KK (a 45+)
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erotictouch4u
14 years ago
Quoting 'keepingkarma' ... it's 19:52 (Saturday 23rd) and I'm posting NOW. Let's see how long it takes for the mods to pass this posting KK (a 45+) It's not so much the problem of postings taking a long time to appear, more that some member's postings appear earlier than others even though made after and hence they do not see the whole thread contant before making a comment. Always a problem with moderated discussions like these. It would not be as frustrating if ALL postings took upto 24hrs to appear as long as they all appeared in sequence as they were submitted...mind you though if they all took 24hrs to be approved then it would make for a very long discussion. Anyone got some suggestions to improve things...? Maybe we could have a "moderator" comment ??? ET xox
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RHP User
14 years ago
age is but a number, year by year, some people start to age backwards when they hit a certin age,,, why?? have fun with who you are, act your age not your shoe size lol
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'eagertongue4u' Quoting 'keepingkarma' ... it's 19:52 (Saturday 23rd) and I'm posting NOW. Let's see how long it takes for the mods to pass this posting KK (a 45+) It's not so much the problem of postings taking a long time to appear, more that some member's postings appear earlier than others even though made after and hence they do not see the whole thread contant before making a comment. Always a problem with moderated discussions like these. It would not be as frustrating if ALL postings took upto 24hrs to appear as long as they all appeared in sequence as they were submitted...mind you though if they all took 24hrs to be approved then it would make for a very long discussion. Anyone got some suggestions to improve things...? Maybe we could have a "moderator" comment ??? ET xox Was just being cheeky with that last posting, oh and by the way it took around 2 hours. However, I can see how this might be frustrating to you. Good luck KK x (a helpful 45+)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'stalky'I do about 5 or maybe 6 posts a day butvim not buying into this click business. If I'm prompted to reply to something it is usually only because something pops into my head and I blurt it out. Sometimes there's an undercurrent relating to events outside the forum so that might give the impression of a click... you know... if you were there and know, then you know... if not you could be feeling disadvantaged. If using this site and forum to actually meet people is somehow isolating you, then there's only one thing for it... that is, to meet people through this site and do exactly the same thing as I do... if there's a click, then there can be two.... or twenty two. In the interim, any 25 year old babes and toy boys who want a Daddy... know where I am! Hugs Stalky Well said Stalky every one has the right of speach as does everyone have the right not to listen at the end of the day opinions are exactly that opinions and are formed in varying ways by people with varying degrees of perceptions.Now having said that does this shit actually help you get laid or is it just a place for the constantly evolving purple circles to feel safe sitting amongst the protection of their peers.NO I think this shit may really help in getting someone laid nothing like a thick layer of verbal diahrea to increase someones standing in the eyes of the lesser. Cheers I'll be at the ready for the inevitable influx of Babes scampering for my inbox?????
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RHP User
14 years ago
Maybe, for once at least, I am under average. Only 42, so maybe I am a spring chicken?? If only
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RHP User
14 years ago
The main reason why the average forum age is 45 plus is sheer wieight of numbers in swinging. Most swingers seem to be that age or older becuase they have had 1 or 2 previous marriages and have a desire to be a bit more adventurous sexually. They tend to be a bit more worldly than the younger one's and therefor have more to contribute. Yet another interesting topic..well done rupamohan
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