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Why do hot girls have dorky partners
August 12 2017
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RHP User
8 years ago
I don't think there's going to be much anyone can say.... Seems you've got it all figured out eh?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Maybe because the hot girls judge their partners by more than just their looks? My partner is - well, I'd say geeky rather than dorky, and has sexy as hell facial hair. And -I- think it's all about him, but he's pretty committed to making it all about me. If you're having ongoing issues with finding the wrong kinds of couples, maybe it's something you're putting out there? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
In no partnership should there be the opinion/belief that one is punching above their wait.. Both should know that they are equal to each other! A relationship isn't built on who holds the most tickets over the other person.. NEVER ABOVE YOU,NEVER BELOW YOU, ONLY BESIDE YOU! And that my fellow rhp's are the simple fundamentals to keeping and building a healthy relationship!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
but you seem to have quite a high opinion of yourself, critical of others, and I have to be honest, with the one picture, which doesn't show you at all, I don't even trust your profile is real, let alone you're as hot as you think you are. Harsh maybe but your op is harsh and very judgemental. If you're going to judge others based on their looks, at least back it up with vision of yourself so we can appraise your looks 😉
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RHP User
8 years ago
In my opinion, I find dorkiness comes from a varying combination of the the following traits: Self confidence Good sense of humour Self aware Self assured Willing makes jokes at their own expense, not at the expense of others Honest about who they are Whether a its a man or a woman, I'd enjoy the company of anyone who had these traits. Thoughts? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I doubt you'll be flooded with requests to meet after your comment. I have found most people here to be sincere and non judgemental. I'm not sure this is your place? - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsJonesy
8 years ago
You might want to consider shopping in a different aisle if you really are finding the males just toooo dorky for your liking. Try heading for the aisle labelled single bi girl looking for single bi girl, you may find what you seek, and no weird facial hair in sight. Your comment of "think its about them not us girls" suggests you aren't interested in a male - or perhaps only one which personifies your dream man? So why bother shopping there in the first place? But then again......I always thought threesomes were about everyone participating equally. If thats not how you view it, then maybe....just maybe.....you are the one approaching it differently to everyone else.
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RHP User
8 years ago
That guy that knocked you and your friend back obviously felt he was too dorky for you..... ;)
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RHP User
8 years ago
I'm not sure why so many people are offended that you have said their boyfriends are dorky? but I for one love dorky men they can make the best boyfriends and lovers. Sweet!
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RHP User
8 years ago
All about the girls. How about you get a nice lady a blow up dude and you girls can have a ball and just push him to the side.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'CandyDelicious' I'm not sure why so many people are offended that you have said their boyfriends are dorky? It's because it appears that she's not using the word 'dorky' in the sense of the way someone can be dorky but it's cute and endearing. It seems there's a more derogatory meaning at play, but the OP is free to correct me (and others) if we are interpreting her incorrectly.
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RHP User
8 years ago
BUT... my two cents upset more then 2cntsand my shit would get reported and deleted...AGAIN...
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LetsFrolic
8 years ago
Then why dont i have a hot girlfriend 😟 I respect girls though.. to me its all about pleasing them - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
either have big tongues, a big dick, or a large bank account.. I dont know maybe ask the girls
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RHP User
8 years ago
Where it's not about looks, but personality and MsJonesy said it beautifully where it's not about one gender in particular but about all those involved. If it's just about the girls in your opinion, OP, then why worry what the boys look like as it seems like you're only interested in the girls. Or, another alternative is maybe you should look for another single girl and, if you're looking to add a guy to the scene, then look around for a guy. There seem to be plenty in here who would love to join in a FMF (or FFM) threesome.
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Mask_007
8 years ago
I still looking for a partner. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I can whine a bit about not finding two people in a relationship I'm attracted to... But I know, that deep down that's my own issues and perception. It has nothing to do with the man or the woman.
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RHP User
8 years ago
OP quote: "or thoink its about them not us girls." It's never only about one's self, nor only about the other person/s. It's quite normal to to find it unattractive if any particular person is ONLY in it for themselves, although in my experience growing up and hanging with other "dorky" or "nerdy" people, I've found them in general more open minded and therefor more inclined to show due respect to the needs of others. But that is in the case of dorky/nerdy people who have found friends in each other. Some might not find such friends and so perhaps become a little bitter about missing out, from being bullied, not learning social skills properly, and perhaps when the opportunity finally arises they do want to get things for themselves and have the focus on themselves, for a change. If you meet a couple consisting of a "dorky" male and a "hot" female, it could be that BOTH members of the couple have become hedonistic to whatever extent and both trying to focus enjoyment on themselves, however because you are attracted to the female, you might be overlooking the flaws of the female, and noting all the flaws of the male because you are not interested in him. They might actually be quite similar if not in appearance, but in thought, which might be a reason they are together.
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LeMerovingien
8 years ago
It's almost as if the couples you're approaching might be looking for a girl to join both of them. Shocking isn't it, how could they be so selfish to not let you do as you please? Anyone feel like this turning one's into a female Chevtrek2.0?
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RHP User
8 years ago
I Touch Myself 2..... Fake or stirrer given the other posts Mrs LAL - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Yes lol that's it, that's probably who it is 😀 Mrs LAL, yes wind up, reincarnate maybe having a laugh 😉
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RHP User
8 years ago
thing for sure, the op is gay not bi, that's as clear as mud, if real and not part of the whole windup 😇
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LeMerovingien
8 years ago
This one's turning into*
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RHP User
8 years ago
This is the second post in a similar vein from the OP (''how dare people who don't like what I like even exist''). Click-baiting?
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RHP User
8 years ago
Well then, I've missed out somewhere. Lol. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Look me up next your down. Now the hypotenuse is equal to the mass,.............lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'LeMerovingien' Anyone feel like this turning one's into a female Chevtrek2.0? This made me snort, loudly
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RHP User
8 years ago
I mean, I try to thoink as much as I can. I thoink in bed before I go to sleep, I thoink in the shower from time to time (any bloke will know that thoinking in the shower presents problems), I sometimes thoink in the pool (again, problems). it just gets harder and harder to thoink these days. To just sit and thoink takes some doing, I sometimes just get all thoinked out.
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RHP User
8 years ago
"If you're a single male don't bother messaging unless you have a hot bigirl playmate"Im a single male and I also have a hot bigirl playmate but we probably wouldn't contact you because your attitude sucks.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Hot. I think I'm hot (tongue in cheek) most days ... 😂 My ' said hotness' might improve as someone continues to engage with me, get to know me, exchange sexy thoughts and ideas etc ... Now, I'm not chill, ever really but I can become more chill though with continued discussions with someone :) So OP, are you only talking to the female of the couple, are you building a rapport with the lady but the poor bloke sits on the side lines whilst you ladies discuss, flirt and plan (which is more than ok and how most of us do it) Poor bastard however, is waiting whilst you ladies develop said rapport and he then has to join in as if he was there all along, for every conversation :) No wonder he 'seems dorky, possible a little reserved, etc. I wonder if you would feel that way about him if you spent as much time getting to know him too :) Just my thoughts. Mary xx
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FeistyFatty
8 years ago
OP has once again posted a heated argument and houdinied 🤣 Giggles at the Chevtrek 2.0..... the incessant eye rolling continues 🤣 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
OP, so are you saying my girl isn't hot, or that I'm dorky? 😂 Just kidding, couldn't resist. No need to reply (I know the answer already), nothing to see here, as you all were :-)
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BorisLovehammer
8 years ago
Us geeky types are good in bed because we do our research, also very polite and respectful. We dont get much attention so we make it count. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
lol I met a guy not too long ago, maybe 6-12 months ago, who I could tell wasn't into me. He was in his 40's I think from memory, probably more interested in young chicks, I have more success with young guys than older ones. Anyway, he was pleasant, we sat near the beach and chatted for a bit. Fast forward about half an hour and we're feeling each other up near the car haha 😇 oh the power of dirty conversation 😉
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RHP User
8 years ago
That is so true. I've found guys who take the time to research, ask questions, naturally curious and kinky, yet respectful, master the art of pleasing a woman, and when that happens, she will hang on to for grim death, because you are so bloody hard to find. I used to see this guy, extremely geeky looking, quite odd looking in fact, but I liked our communications, liked the things he said, wasn't all about him and his needs, the opposite, all about me. Omg when I did meet him, he was a master, he was an incredible lover, really nice person, very respectful but sexy. That'll do me, all I need is someone who wants to know what I like, and wants to give that to me. I also make it count, because of my age, so completely understand what you mean
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RHP User
8 years ago
I like dorky guys. Adorable really. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I'm the dork in my relationship. My partner loves that I am. We laugh and play so much. We both feel very lucky to have the other. Looks get you so far then you need personality. Your friends must understand that. Maybe you will get too one day - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
You and your partner are both great. No dorks in your partnership!
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OzRednecks
8 years ago
Sounds like a Big Bang Theory episode........
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FredAndGinger2
8 years ago
Not all hot wives have dorky husbands. Just sayin' ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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DelectableDuo01
8 years ago
I, being the Mr in the relationship, was told " I am only attracted to one of you" by Miss Qtsex. I thought a simple 'sorry not my cup of tea' would have been sufficient. Alas, someone willing to display that lack of respect or sophistication does not meet 'our' criteria anyway, C&A - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I had a quite funny experience with her, I'm here and spending a lot of time chatting and trying to find the right girl and the right matching couples for Brooke. Somehow she turn the whole conversation around saying that was all about me. We don't believe that judging is a good or healthy thing to do, to compare situations and people with others is more like a waste of time, we are all too different to the other. So rather than judging people, what about enjoying them and be happy in the process? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I had a quite funny experience with her, I'm here and spending a lot of time chatting and trying to find the right girl and the right matching couples for Brooke. Somehow she turn the whole conversation around saying that was all about me. We don't believe that judging is a good or healthy thing to do, to compare situations and people with others is more like a waste of time, we are all too different to the other. So rather than judging people, what about enjoying them and be happy in the process? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Btw, it's not about girls or guys, it's all about all parties involved. Going to one side is as bad as going to the other side, by saying it's all about us girls you are actually doing the same. You are complaining about guys going too much to their side, by going all the way to the other side. It's actually hilarious to meet and talk with someone like that :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
not all men are dorks in realtionships its just the perception of some males or females thinking thinking they are the best thing since sliced bread
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RHP User
8 years ago
Eye of the beholder and all that... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Haha. That's probably us! My man loves to watch me have fun. And he's completely committed to pleasing his sexual partners. Had the pleasure of watching him make his last lover squirt. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Gawd, how do I hide this post before my gf sees it and cottons on?
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RHP User
8 years ago
I must say the depth of someones character is not something you have considered, but the shallowness of yours may be on display here. I would like to know how you expect to join couples if you don't realise, you are the lucky one who is being given the privilege to share their partners, as you're not sharing a partner with them, so you are bringing much less to the table. And if you go for profiles where they state they are looking for just a woman, you have to expect that the male is looking to be the centre of attention, otherwise they would be open to men and women. I once recieved a message that simply said "ewwww fat and hairy", I suspect it came from someone like you........ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Probably because the women are sick of knuckle dragging thugs and appreciate guys with more than looks.. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Ok so what and who are dorks? Your opinion of someone is going to be a little different to others. Accept people for who they are 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Ive chatted with this lady and she is honest and st8 up about what she likes and does not like ..we didnt end up meeting her as i didnt fit what she was looking for (im the male half )... but she was not rude in anyway ... tbh she was a very interesting woman ....... just my 2 cents worth as they say - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I've never been clever enough to be a dork, I've been cool, a bit daggy, had a short stint as a pretend tough guy, even a very brief slightly metro phase (trying to woo a girl funnily enough).Even the inner bogan comes out to play from time to time, and, and, I even went to university for a year, funny took me longer to qualify than I actually spent there ! Such is life. Now I'm just me, distinctly individual. What was the topic again
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m3bmw
8 years ago
This is trolling at its finest. Well done OP. - Posted from rhpmobile
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m3bmw
8 years ago
And if it's not, would OP mind letting the thread know what type of man fits her requirements? I mean, I'm sure you're look for Chris Hemsworth, but do you look like Elsa Pataky? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I think I'm lucky in that department 🙊🙈 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Cheekyarses
8 years ago
Dorkiness - there are so many ways to describe dorkiness. I love dorky men. I love men who make me laugh, who have the most intelligent mind, who do not have to be a mans man. A man who is comfortable in themselves. Give me a dorky man over a ripped muscle man anyway Mrs C 💛 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Thanks for the lesson, QT in how to score hotties.
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RHP User
8 years ago
This topic has provided endless entertainment.... ...guys posting as the women from couples.... .... couples posting to talk up their guy (see above most likely)......... members giving insight into private communications with the OP I wonder.... how many of those involved in such activity have the word discreet in their profile
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Dryphuz
8 years ago
If you're after something specific, is judging like that okay? I say yes... I mean, if you're not attracted to someone, then you're not attracted to them. Doesn't mean they're a dork from everyone's point of view, but if they are from yours then maybe that's a deal breaker or comment worthy. I bet i would classify as dork to OP. I have my weird goatee and long hair, I'm a gamer, i know way too much about star wars and star trek and i play tabletop wargames all the time. Do i care that that's how she would see me? Not in the slightest. Now to the question form a purely objective viewpoint. The dorky part of it comes down to what women want. If all the crap i've read over the years is to believed, its simply because males can make themselves attractive to women via a myriad of traits other than looks. But that is a generalisation so its perfectly acceptable to look at a guy and think to yourself, "Jeebus that's hideous, get the fuck away from me before i throw up in my mouth" and not give a damn about how funny and self confident he is. As to the second part, if women can think its all about them, why cant guys think its all about them too. If we're going for equality here, then you can open my door, get the cheque and tell me how good i'm looking once in a while. That however is also a generalisation. There must surely be women out there who were happy with the status quo as it was, or even want some parts, like equal pay etc., but still want me to put my coat over a mud puddle so she doesn't dirty her shoes. And there's nothing wrong with that so long as you accept that not all guys are going to subscribe to it. And, by the law of averages, there must be some guys out there who are THE shit...
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RHP User
8 years ago
I haven't commented on here. Cross-thread, maybe? 😋 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Now now, not all of us girls have dorky unattractive partners. 😜 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Jaybell88' Now now, not all of us girls have dorky unattractive partners. 😜 - Posted from rhpmobile HE wrote that.... didn't he
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