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Why do the single female adds turn out to be couples

October 20 2013

Hi guys' n ' girls I'm a female half of a mf couple And even know we some times prefer to look for couples,I have come across a lot of adds that say single but arfter a few messeges turns out to be a couple who won't play alone Can some one explain to me please why they can't be honest when starting there profile mmmm Lots of love jess - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Sorry for your bad experience. It is something that annoys the hell out of me too. Sadly some people have nothing better in their lives than to fabricate reasons in their own minds as to why they don't need to play by the same rules as the rest of us... And the anonymity of the internet just allows them to feel "bigger" There was a thread over the weekend where some people thought it was fine to use pics of celebrities or "aspirational pics" ... This place is an online catalogue for sexy people... No matter what out looks or kink someone will want us... So let's be honest about ourselves, and attract the people we want to us... Hp xo 💌 Because I'm worth it...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    When you have an inferior product in a competitive market......lie. Insecurity makes people do deceptive things. DG- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I was just speaking to a friend about this and she informed me that other sites if you are a couple they charge you for doing a profile, however of course if your single they don't. I can only guess as to what the reasoning is. So this friend said she lists herself as single, however then informs people she is chatting or prospectively meeting of the situation. But yes, this can only be annoying to people like yourself.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Which is why the steak knives were always free!!! :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Love it, well put.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Because it's hard to attract unicorns (single bi females) when you are a couple. So lots of couples, inferior or even superior, try the single profile strategy to a least start conversations with unicorns in the hope that they won't run when thy reveal they are actually a couple.

  • usnow

    usnow

    12 years ago

    Isn't it because they can get certain privileges that a couple can't !   Swingnew .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    We simply block them, we don't find the need to lie about what we want our product speaks for itself. I think the block list is at around 60+ now :)- Posted from rhpmobile

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    I've just changed my profile from Seperated to Single wondering what kind of backlash I'll get. As to the question at hand though I actually think, as a couple; it'd be great fun to advertise together. There are some truly beautiful and tasteful couples pictures here and I too don't understand why both don't promote their "product" unless as DG says "It's inferior quality" but that is also subjective to the audience as well all know. One couples Bill & Ben could be someone else's Adonis & Aphrodite. As a "Unicorn" I have had couples approach me but I also had a lover for an extended period of time who I also wanted to "live out" some fantasies with and I would askhow those suitable couples felt about considering a couples scenario with "us". I don't think that's wrong it's simply attempting to please everyone 😄 after all ..... pleasure is what we're all here for isn't it? If I can help someone else realise a dream that is conducive to my own desires why not? You couples have and do say "no". Then moan about it, as a couple I know I've moaned about it 😈. Lmao ~ Indagine, needing a couple scenario PDQ with an attractive sexy intellectually stimulating "package deal". - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    So many people seem to scratch their head in puzzlement when unicorns (bi single woman) cannot be found How is it going for you Sexartisans? As for the OP it would seem that a couple will use the girl side of a couple for bait and switch..how shameful..but totally predictable.Hope you find what you are looking for. Set your Bullshit Detector to 10.

  • precious142

    precious142

    12 years ago

    The couple who end up being a single male????? Heaps of them around - and funny how wifey is always at work!! Anyone else had a close encounter with this sort of couple???

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Yea it's a bit disappointing especially when you have limited messages you need to detect witch ones are full of it. sometimes we love the couple thing but sometimes we just into threesomes Honesty is the only way but ,to have sent a few messages thinking she is single or plays alone, then to get a message saying she's a couple is a little annoying. I also had one ask me to play with them alone even know on clearly advertised as a couple only lol - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Yes, sure... OK, it's a "reasonable" assumption that those making the effort to join this site are both available, and real..... but it's just not the case. So.... why not go fishing in a MUCH bigger pond..... in the real world outside if this asylum? The same folk in here are also found outside of here, plus millions more to choose from. I don't "rely" on this place.... and my very un-pc view is that if you do act as if you rely on RHP.... you're possibly not offering that much to the people you meet. DG (.... that'll stir the pot a bit lol) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Two_Tarts

    Two_Tarts

    12 years ago

    So if the single women's profiles are couples, and the couples are single men, and the single men are actually married and sneaking around behind their wives backs, then what it really means is that all of us here in RHP land are just a bunch of dishonest, unattractive, middle aged, married blokes sitting around rubbing horns (the Unicorn ones that is) while looking at each others fake girlie pictures when the old lady is out at the shops....ROFL.... Well I guess that's just what you get for hunting mythical creatures with nothing more than a pocket full of oats!! Removing tongue from corner of cheek however, it seems that you don't find a Unicorn; if they are interested the Unicorn will find you, as is their prerogative.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I don't know about all the other profiles, but have found myself in this predicament (yet to update my profile as it will lock it, but will be honest with people!)...I am single, on here as a single, looking for men. But, I have another 'half' that is also interested in couples...and that is why it is listed on my profile. I will add the edit, I am not trying to trick you : (

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    A lot of people are like toilets: sleek, smooth and clean on the outside, but actually full of shit- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'cremecaramel'A lot of people are like toilets: sleek, smooth and clean on the outside, but actually full of shit- Posted from rhpmobile   We like that one!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I find I sometimes have the opposite problem. "Couples" who turn out to be single men. Whenever it happens (and you can tell it's a single guy) it really puts me off interacting with couples in general. I haven't met any couples from this site as yet in my days as a unicorn. I think that a lot of the reason is the fakes, and the actual genuines seem to expect me to drop everything then and there and show up at their house gift-wrapped. I do have a life you know LOL!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    We've been caught a few times with this. Messaging a girl and discovering that she is actually we K x- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'we_want_to' So if the single women's profiles are couples, and the couples are single men, and the single men are actually married and sneaking around behind their wives backs, then what it really means is that all of us here in RHP land are just a bunch of dishonest, unattractive, middle aged, married blokes sitting around rubbing horns (the Unicorn ones that is) while looking at each others fake girlie pictures when the old lady is out at the shops.. Absolutely LOL! You nailed it.. there are so many pathetic, desperate & devious men on the net it makes us want to throw up.